FabSwingers.com forum: Articulate

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is being articulate an issue for people?

Answer honestly please xxxxx

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i find it useful to be able to understand what people are saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need my guys to be educated. Hence my rule about poor spelling and grammar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a big turn off for my wife even though she's married to someone who can't spell that well thank god for predictive text is all I'm saying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it helps people see you're capable of eloquent conversation lol

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Speaking from the heart matters. Speaking eloquently of the matters in your heart is simply an advantage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're being accused of bad shit because I (mr) am articulate in messages.

Self confessed grammar Nazi, but also brought up correctly and old fashioned.

Sorry not it my nature to approach a lady for or on behalf of my wife and I with a 'fancy a fu*k' message xxx

We can meet but don't need vulgarities to do so xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speaking from the heart matters. Speaking eloquently of the matters in your heart is simply an advantage."

Oh my. You're so right 3

That's beautiful xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Accused of what kind of thing?? It matters to me, I am very communicative and prefer a man who is the same, so it helps if he can express himself well!! I get very frustrated with people who will only ever type one line at a time, 'phonitis' drives me nuts.

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

F u no wot I meen y b overly precise and demand erudite and recondite badinage?

Fancy a shag?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"F u no wot I meen y b overly precise and demand erudite and recondite badinage?

Fancy a shag?"

Haha, badinage, what a wonderful word!!

Funnily enough we associate eloquence with the use of 'flowery' language, but checking the definition it just means being fluent or able to express clearly. That'll do me, I like clarity in me badinage!

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By *untime biatchWoman
over a year ago

ova by ea wales

"F u no wot I meen y b overly precise and demand erudite and recondite badinage?

Fancy a shag?

Haha, badinage, what a wonderful word!!

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haha its a fuck site not school jesus done tbis one 2 death coz u carnt b articulate ur a shit fuck pmsl im amazing as da lads ha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean is it an issue in the sense of do you find it difficult to be articulate or in the sense that it's necessary for the people you communicate with to be articulate? I find that I like people to be clear in what they say ie no ambiguity and I do struggle to articulate my feelings sometimes and I know I come across differently to how I intend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very important for me. Txt speak is my pet hate. Major turn off.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Very important for me. Txt speak is my pet hate. Major turn off."

I don't think text speak is an obstacle to articulating clearly if all parties use it. To me being articulate means being able to express yourself clearly and easily in a manner that those you are speaking to will understand. A 5 year old would find the way I communicate with my colleagues less than articulate and I find the way my kids communicate with their peers less than articulate too. I haven't looked up the definition of articulate though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find my intellect can best be expressed by the use of comparatively simplistic lexicological entities. The overbearing use of pretentious grandiose verbiage can be deeply annoying to those who completely fail to comprehend your utterances.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I find my intellect can best be expressed by the use of comparatively simplistic lexicological entities. The overbearing use of pretentious grandiose verbiage can be deeply annoying to those who completely fail to comprehend your utterances."

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By *lincs35Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

You could have the most gorgeous creature in front of you, but if they are as thick as two short planks the attraction soon wears thin, there's only so many times you can **** before words are exchanged!

A brain can you a very sexual organ too...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You could have the most gorgeous creature in front of you, but if they are as thick as two short planks the attraction soon wears thin, there's only so many times you can **** before words are exchanged!

A brain can you a very sexual organ too..."

Do intelligence and being articulate go hand in hand? I know some extremely clever people for whom clear communication is impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but being able to communicate and understand me is vital

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No but being able to communicate and understand me is vital

Same goes and I think you do need a level playing field when it comes to communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but being able to communicate and understand me is vital

You're far too Complex to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very flexible in the midriff.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

A brain can you a very sexual organ too...

Do intelligence and being articulate go hand in hand? I know some extremely clever people for whom clear communication is impossible."

Good question. I think they usually are associated but there are exceptions.

Wit is an interesting one too. My bestest friend is badly educated, not particularly articulate or intelligent (even though he thinks about things deeply) But he can be so, so witty - and sharply so, very quick. Fascinating.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A brain can you a very sexual organ too...

Do intelligence and being articulate go hand in hand? I know some extremely clever people for whom clear communication is impossible.

Good question. I think they usually are associated but there are exceptions.

I think intelligence has many levels and very few people are genuinely unintelligent. I've had the pleasure or working with people along the whole spectrum and only come across a very few who display no spark of intelligence at any level.

How people use their intelligence is another matter entirely and those that wield it as a weapon tend to get a wide berth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but being able to communicate and understand me is vital

You're far too Complex to understand

Well you seemed to manage it quite well and English is your 2nd language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within this site, I believe it's 95 percent about the pictures and 5 percent about the words (and that's being generous to the words).

The problem you have OP is neither words nor pictures, but the excuses people want to find and the hoops they want to make you jump through.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

How people use their intelligence is another matter entirely and those that wield it as a weapon tend to get a wide berth."

Yes, thinking about it it's too broad a word for what I meant. I define IQ as the ability to use logic, to solve novel problems. that's how it is defined in animal studies too it seems.

I'm fascinated by the fact that some people like my friend can appear to have an average IQ and yet be very sharp witted. I have a feeling they may be simply not using logic well for other reasons. My friend often assumes he cannot do something mentally taxing and I wonder if it is more nurture than nature in his case. Some people get used to using logic and succeeding, others are demotivated and stop trying it seems to me.

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yay a Grammar Nazi thread

thought it was just us being overly picky lol xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yay a Grammar Nazi thread

thought it was just us being overly picky lol xx"

I don't think grammar and articulate communication are the same. Their, there and they're sound exactly the same so poor grammar wouldn't necessarily mean someone was inarticulate.

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Yay a Grammar Nazi thread

thought it was just us being overly picky lol xx

I don't think grammar and articulate communication are the same. Their, there and they're sound exactly the same so poor grammar wouldn't necessarily mean someone was inarticulate."

Completely agree, our post was meant to be more humorous than serious xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Inarticulate is a much better word

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Is being articulate an issue for people?

Answer honestly please xxxxx"

Your question is highly ambiguous.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but being able to communicate and understand me is vital

You're far too Complex to understand

Well you seemed to manage it quite well and English is your 2nd language.

Ahh but you have good body language

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Speaking from the heart matters. Speaking eloquently of the matters in your heart is simply an advantage.

Oh my. You're so right 3

That's beautiful xxxxxxx"

I find sentimental slush does make people think something is wonderful but if you are articulate and actually read what is written it doesn't say much.

It is possible to be speaking from the heart when you tell someone something very negative about them.

Eloquence and articulation are not the same thing either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mild autism and find that getting words and thoughts from my brain to keyboard/mouth difficult. I still refuse to send one-liners though.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Now c'mon Gwanny, I think a G-spot vibrator might just do the trick for you amongst other available toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's advantageous on any website to be articulate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay being articulate and being a grammar Nazi are indeed two separate things, irrespective of how I love the two lol?

This is the situation you see, and yes my question IS ambiguous....

Being articulate, I write sincere but to the point 'are you interested' messages..

So far none have been simply deleted or an instant block to.

My wife and I are searching for a niche and working away at it. So far, enjoying the FAB experience too.

Because I write well and not 'up for a f*ck' message, we've been accused of something and it's spreading like wildfire.

So much so that we've even been refused to pretty much attend a social club coming up lmao

Now as a result, people have retracted besides one or two who know different, and we're the 'hot potato' of the campfire that people want to eat but it's too hot to pick up.

Ignorance is bliss as they say.

I can't say exactly what we've been or I've been accused of as it could have detrimental affects here xx

Thank you for the replies and some made me laugh hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being articulate an issue for people?

Answer honestly please xxxxx"

No but the lack of articulation can be a problem with some.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Eloquence and articulation are not the same thing either. "

No, that was me, I went off on a tangent because of the word 'badinage'!! Here's another I just discovered - magniloquent!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

How does anyone respond to an inarticulate message anyway? If I cannot understand I won't reply. You don't need a degree in English to be able to write a message capable of being understood.

It ain't rocket science - for most it is our first language; the Mother tongue. Why mangle it until it is indecipherable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grunts

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Eloquence and articulation are not the same thing either.

No, that was me, I went off on a tangent because of the word 'badinage'!! Here's another I just discovered - magniloquent! "

Now there's and eloquent word I can articulate.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Now c'mon Gwanny, I think a G-spot vibrator might just do the trick for you amongst other available toys

If the trick is inserting it sideways up your poop shute pass it over ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy writing sexually explicit messages to certain people on here.I like invoking sensations that derive not only from written, descriptive actions but also using words that are onomatopoeic or even just simply suggestive.Words are a lot more erotic than most people realise.I find swear words are fine but a bit overused.I tend to judge people who use abbreviated words on their profiles (and don't get me started on those who use numericals m8!) There also seems to be a backlash by certain people against people with correct grammar.It's quite nice to share a thread with like-minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Articulated limbs are a definite assest , especially when engaged in a passionate game of Twister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy conversation, in particular with those who can articulate themselves reasonably well, that doesn't mean individuals need to be highly educated as one doesn't necessitate the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Articulated limbs are a definite assest , especially when engaged in a passionate game of Twister."

* asset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body language is enough for me

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I love reading and adore creative use of language so an articulate message or profile text will tend to grab my attention. It's not the only thing I look for however; content and context is everything. It's about what you say, not how you say it with the proviso that if you can say it well then it's a bonus as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love reading and adore creative use of language so an articulate message or profile text will tend to grab my attention. It's not the only thing I look for however; content and context is everything. It's about what you say, not how you say it with the proviso that if you can say it well then it's a bonus as far as I'm concerned."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a major attraction for me also, I love the use of word play to help stimulate the mind.

I think if you can connect on a mental level then the rest will fall into place which will make for an enjoyable meet for everyone concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pedants are revolting!

Whilst I don't insist on correct spelling and grammar, I do find it frustrating when I am constantly asked to explain a comment because the other person didn't "get it". Spelling often goes awry when people are using a mobile or a pad to send messages. I am often guilty of typing in a hurry on my tiny and inefficient keyboard and pressing "send" as I don't have time to check it.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Those who cannot say what they mean cannot be expected to mean what they say.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Many ( including myself) can fully articulate themselves. In the written word and face to face. Just because spelling is far from a persons best point, it don't make us totaly thick as shit! Just another example of stereo typical observations of the ' perfect' ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh? Put the thesaurus down & speak English

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but being able to communicate and understand me is vital

Could you simplify that please

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

" Many ( including myself) can fully articulate themselves."

Split infinitive!!

... and don't get me started on "myself" in place of "me"!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

" Many ( including myself) can fully articulate themselves. In the written word and face to face. Just because spelling is far from a persons best point, it don't make us totaly thick as shit! Just another example of stereo typical observations of the ' perfect' ...

As I understand it being articulate only applies to the spoken word. I haven't looked it up so I can't be sure.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

As I understand it being articulate only applies to the spoken word. I haven't looked it up so I can't be sure."
which is another interesting point... So many say they won't meet others if they txt speak, bad spelling etc etc blah blah... Meeting face to face ,in my opinion is the only way to see if the chemistry is there ( who care's about spelling then?) on the flip of the coin someone could come across as mr or mrs perfect in the written word, meet them and they not got an ounce of common sense or the personallity of a stuffed toy...

Each to their own on their selection criteria... For us its meeting face to face thats the deal breaker

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

As I understand it being articulate only applies to the spoken word. I haven't looked it up so I can't be sure."
yes.. Just looked and is the speaking work ... I stand corrected .... ( As do many on this thread! ) And also glad to say that we have no problems articulating ourselves face to face ... With the spoken word... ( but I ( mrs) don't speak with me mouth full... Got manners too! Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As I understand it being articulate only applies to the spoken word. I haven't looked it up so I can't be sure. yes.. Just looked and is the speaking work ... I stand corrected .... ( As do many on this thread! ) And also glad to say that we have no problems articulating ourselves face to face ... With the spoken word... ( but I ( mrs) don't speak with me mouth full... Got manners too! Lol

See I don't care if someone can spell or not but if they speak with their mouth full they might as well go home

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The pedants are revolting!

Absolutely. This is spot on!

It's a shame but I'm sure it will pass xxx

One of those things.

Again such interesting replies.

A pleasure xx

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

See I don't care if someone can spell or not but if they speak with their mouth full they might as well go home

agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find my intellect can best be expressed by the use of comparativelyo simplistic lexicological entities. The overbearing use of pretentious grandiose verbiage can be deeply annoying to those who completely fail to comprehend your utterances."

The ambiguous interpretations can be very revealing , I find.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Which came first to the human tribe with communication - speaking or gesture? Much of our talk is made up of stuff other than the mere words, and some of the best communicators use gestures, to great effect.

The best communicators are able to converse at a level that's appropriate for their partners - some distinguished lexicologists are astounding in their grasp of language intricacies, but not sensitive enough to be able to really be understood, nor understand others that well.

I like good communicators and this usually includes expansive use of language, but I'll prefer someone who is richly empathetic and in tune with me to someone who's swallowed a dictionary.

I love the English language and speak other languages fairly poorly - so I'd be viewed as someone with deficits elsewhere. I certainly find it refreshing when I find that others can communicate really well, but everyone's welcome, as long as communication is respectful and supportive.

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