FabSwingers.com forum: Am I too young?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been trying like crazy on this site to chat and get to know a few nice people but the answer always seems to be the same that I am too young for what they are looking for.

Is that just a nice way of saying they're not attracted to my profile or am I just too young for most people?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends who you message. Some of the peeps on here may have a son your age and it be uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmmm im stabbing in the dark here but i reckon if most of your replies say your too young then theres a fair chance your too young

Is there a prize ?

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. You are so young it makes me sick..... I'm only jealous??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your in the prime of your life, go get it son

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At twenty one there should be plenty of avenues for you to explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 is to young for me, if you mailed me and i wasn't attracted to you id just say your not my type, if i said your to young for me i would mean just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im amazed to be honest why they aren't queuing up to meet you because your profile is good your body is good and you definitely have the equipment in the cock area.The only answer I can come up with is what someone has already said that they have a son your age and it makes them nervous.Sorry I'm not much help.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

For me it's that you look about 14 in your pictures.

And your profile is all about you, what you want, nothing about what you can offer.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

For some you will be, for some you won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have kids in their twenties & early thirties & don't feel comfortable meeting people in that age group. Just a personal preference but possibly the same for quite a few folk on here. Not personal to you though so don't give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to find some people i want to talk to have blocked people of my age

At least if your 21 in time your will become old enough ...if your too old you always will be...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me it's that you look about 14 in your pictures.

And your profile is all about you, what you want, nothing about what you can offer.

Hmm, I can't really change how my face looks unfortunately haha. But what you're saying is that if I add stuff to my profile saying what I can offer I may have a bit more luck?

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have kids in their twenties & early thirties & don't feel comfortable meeting people in that age group. Just a personal preference but possibly the same for quite a few folk on here. Not personal to you though so don't give up

Thanks, I understand that it would be very weird to go for someone who was the same age as your kids! But it's usually people who don't have kids that are worse for it haha. Unless they're just not letting on that they have kids...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Lots of people on the lookout for a younger male. You will have to be patient to get through your to do list though!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does amuse me that so many people do have a lower/upper age limit. However, I can understand for some people the idea of sexual relationships with someone young enough to be a son or daughter or old enough to be a parent is not something some people will consider.

Personally I'm not ageist, I don't mind guys younger than my daughter's boyfriend who is a few years younger than my daughter..

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Honestly, you seem like a nice guy; - Well-spoken, profile reads quite well, you've got a bit of range in your photos (not just the dreaded cock pics!), and you've clearly already taken heed of some of the advice given.

You DO look young and if that's what people are saying than I would say it is literally just that. It's not something you can help and it's not something they can help either *shrugs*.

You have only been here 2 WEEKS though, mate. Some people wait a lot longer to get their first meet so I would just say keep at it, get yourself to some socials/local parties and get yourself known.

- VincentandAmy. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honestly, you seem like a nice guy; - Well-spoken, profile reads quite well, you've got a bit of range in your photos (not just the dreaded cock pics!), and you've clearly already taken heed of some of the advice given.

You DO look young and if that's what people are saying than I would say it is literally just that. It's not something you can help and it's not something they can help either *shrugs*.

You have only been here 2 WEEKS though, mate. Some people wait a lot longer to get their first meet so I would just say keep at it, get yourself to some socials/local parties and get yourself known.

- VincentandAmy. x"

I must just be impatient!! Haha

Dan xx

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

looking at your profile

you give a list of things you "would like to try" , given your age it does give out a message of being inexperienced in the bedroom ,

most ladies on here are looking for someone who will give them a lot of pleasure, not someone they have to teach where their pleasure spots are and how to please them,

alter your profile so it reads that the lady will be missing the best night of her life if she turns you down,

concentrate on the pleasure you can give her, and dont worry about your "would like to try list" you will tick them all off soon enough when you attract the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"looking at your profile

you give a list of things you "would like to try" , given your age it does give out a message of being inexperienced in the bedroom ,

most ladies on here are looking for someone who will give them a lot of pleasure, not someone they have to teach where their pleasure spots are and how to please them,

alter your profile so it reads that the lady will be missing the best night of her life if she turns you down,

concentrate on the pleasure you can give her, and dont worry about your "would like to try list" you will tick them all off soon enough when you attract the ladies

Thank you, I never thought of it that way but now you mention it, it does come across as inexperienced. Changed! haha.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You come across as a polite young man and cute.

Have you tried searching for girls similar age to yourself maybe experiment together.

Quite a few of the older ones won't play with people the same age as their kids. But there are also ones that will.

Bet you have no trouble on a normal night out.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

PS lower your age limit to something realistic. Do you really want a 99 year old?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome and good luck

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