FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im very patient and i know meets can be hard for single guys and i have had a few good ones... but i was just curious how i could improve my profile for the better.....

Any advice is most welcome x

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Not sure i would beleive you are a single guy as you are wearing your wedding band in your 2nd pic......

....may put off a few people if you claiming to be single guy yet are actually playing away.

Just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure i would beleive you are a single guy as you are wearing your wedding band in your 2nd pic......

....may put off a few people if you claiming to be single guy yet are actually playing away.

Just an observation

I saw that too,but could just be an old pic..

Pics are fine,maybe add a bit on your profile your likes and dislikes otherwise profile is ok.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He could be separated or divorced and it's an old photo. It does require clarification though, or maybe just remove the pic if it becomes an issue.

Here's a guide to writing profiles I posted sometime ago:

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/15377

Hope it helps.

Wishy.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

id just advise going in to chat and going to local socials .thats gets you known and allows you to meet ppl with no pressures .

the wedding band DEF gives conflicting information . if your married and playing away , separted or divorced always best to be very open about situation and ppl know the situation they are getting in to then .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure i would beleive you are a single guy as you are wearing your wedding band in your 2nd pic......

....may put off a few people if you claiming to be single guy yet are actually playing away.

Just an observation

ive been separated 18 months i will look at it hadnt noticed well spotted x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He could be separated or divorced and it's an old photo. It does require clarification though, or maybe just remove the pic if it becomes an issue.

Here's a guide to writing profiles I posted sometime ago:

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/15377

Hope it helps.

Wishy."

i am separted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for the advice i hadnt noticed the band in the pic x

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"Not sure i would beleive you are a single guy as you are wearing your wedding band in your 2nd pic......

....may put off a few people if you claiming to be single guy yet are actually playing away.

Just an observation

ive been separated 18 months i will look at it hadnt noticed well spotted x"

Easy mistake to make.

If you are seperated that long it means its an old pic too.

Get some new ones (please...lol) so we can all drool a tad more

As for above advice - socials etc are a good way to network - good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure i would beleive you are a single guy as you are wearing your wedding band in your 2nd pic......

....may put off a few people if you claiming to be single guy yet are actually playing away.

Just an observation

ive been separated 18 months i will look at it hadnt noticed well spotted x

Easy mistake to make.

If you are seperated that long it means its an old pic too.

Get some new ones (please...lol) so we can all drool a tad more

As for above advice - socials etc are a good way to network - good luck x"

Any other advice, what about the wording on my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you changed your pictures i didnt spot a wedding ring? Think the wording in your profile is ok from my point of view.

Pity you live so far away!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Other advice i have heard and thought was good is:

Have a nosy about at other single blokes profiles - see what you think is good on theirs and structure some of yours around that.

The longer you are on her and the more you change your profile when you see something that you think would suit the happier you will be with it

God i am in longwinded mood today - sorry folks!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all i will take all you kind advice....

Happy playing xxx

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