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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Over the past couple of days we have had a few messages from profiles asking would we like to chat. We asked could we see some face pictures as we would want to see if we are attracted to them/them to use and so if there was no mutual attraction we didn't want to waste each others time. We thought this was a reasonable request and our replies have just been deleted without a reply.

Are we being unreasonable by asking for a picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No your not, unless you gonna meet them, then yes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, i don't think you are. Many people exchange pics from the first message, i believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but they're under no obligation to send you one either I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you send yours with the reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not unreasonable at all

But its also not unreasonable for them to decline,some people prefer to chat for a while

Personally Id rather swap face pics early on to save time and awkwardness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's unreasonable.

It's good to put a face to the person you're chatting with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No but they're under no obligation to send you one either I'm afraid."

We agree and understand that completely, however it's was them instigated the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but they're under no obligation to send you one either I'm afraid.

We agree and understand that completely, however it's was them instigated the conversation."

Either way round. I only ask for a face pic once I've been chatting to someone for a while, but I'm not always interested in having sex with them, they just interest me.

If they're unwilling to send you a pic then just take it that they're not interested....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you send yours with the reply? "

We didn't actually, on a few occasions we have sent a picture and received theirs and found them not to our liking.

We politely told them that they where not our type and have received some shitty messages in reply and do worry what people might do with the face pictures that match the naked pictures on our account x

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By *l DoradoMan
over a year ago

Derby

I do not have a face, therefore it saves me a tremendous amount of time taking pictures of it and henceforth e-mailing them to people who would probably find them quite repulsive anyway

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We always ask for face pics pretty quickly. And send ours to them. Luckily no one has refused to send us them yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unreasonable however it depends on the reply you give them when they do send a face pic and it's not someone you like. I don't send face pics unless they ask for one I've never refused when asked but to then not get a reply after they have seen you can be very hurtfull. I think people tend to forget that we are real people on here and I've been guilty of it my self when commenting on forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If anyone sends a picture and we don't fancy them we always say "sorry not our type but happy swinging". That way we arn't leading people on and being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone sends a picture and we don't fancy them we always say "sorry not our type but happy swinging". That way we arn't leading people on and being honest."

That's what I do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone sends a picture and we don't fancy them we always say "sorry not our type but happy swinging". That way we arn't leading people on and being honest."
Not me as any hole is a goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to the individual when and if they send face pics. They might have been put off if you didn't send your pics attached to the message asking for theirs.

Either way they don't want to comply with your request, no point in musing over the reasons why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, after chatting for a bit, I sense, when they should be handed out.

Not Willy nilly, but not too long either.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not at all, after chatting for a bit, I sense, when they should be handed out.

Not Willy nilly, but not too long either.

Her"

ERE! are you saying my Willy's not very long.

You deserve a spanking young Lady

DonkeyDong Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send yours with the reply?

We didn't actually, on a few occasions we have sent a picture and received theirs and found them not to our liking.

We politely told them that they where not our type and have received some shitty messages in reply and do worry what people might do with the face pictures that match the naked pictures on our account x"

Don't you have clothed face pics? They can't be matched up with naked pics.

Nothing wrong with asking for face pics early on.

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