FabSwingers.com forum: meeting your kids

By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

when is the right time to introduce your kids to someone you are getting close to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how old your children are and how serious you think the relationship is getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it is unique to each situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think there is a right or wrong answer, depends of their ages, the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when is the right time to introduce your kids to someone you are getting close to?"

I'd say after about 6 - 8 months but that depends on their ages too - as i wouldn't even sleep with a new guy until we'd been dating for at least 4 months Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was 6 months before my Husband was introduced to my 3 by then they were all teenagers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever you feel the time is right

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My mum introduced me to the chap who was to become my stepfather when I was 20, 2 years after my dad popped his clogs. She'd been seeing him for a few months and was a family friend. The funniest part was I didn't know who she was seeing and when she took me to meet him the chap who I thought it was, was a right scruffy Herbert and I was internally doing a

but luckily it was not him

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my now hubby met my daughter when she was 11 shes never called him dad though

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By *heHoneymonstersCouple
over a year ago

cambridge

My now hubby was introduced to my then 4 yr old after we'd been together 6 months, we found my son was very open to have hubby in his life, hes never had his real dad in his life, u will know when u think its right as much advice as others give, u r his/her/their mum and u know them better then anyone else just trust urself, listening to others nearly broke our relationship up in the begining because my son is mixed race and hubby is white (so am i) everyone had their opinion (some quite nasty) but I trusted myself and 11yrs later we have a beautiful daughter a son we're both very proud of and our relationship is amazing

trust urself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when is the right time to introduce your kids to someone you are getting close to?"

For me never as a partner .. I had a 2nd marraige and when we split it ripped the kids apart.. so till my children leave home I would not have a man In their lives xx

They have met friends but even that is kept to a minimum... In the last 10 years they have met 3 of my friends... And 2 of those I've known for 13 plus years xx

I know I'm extreme in my views of not having a man in my life like that though x

I think it depends on when you think the time is right xx for me with my friends it was when I felt comfortable and as I have girls I'm always over protective x

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

"when is the right time to introduce your kids to someone you are getting close to?"

when it feels right..

no time scale but it must be conscious decision not like me meeting my Exs little lad going to the loo about midnight..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the time is right for you.

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