FabSwingers.com forum: Perception

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you think others _iew you?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Up my own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a dumb blonde most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care tbh

But I know they adore me

Probably the reason I am so blasé

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab, total c#ck. Outsude fab, polite young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't really give a stuff...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Incorrectly a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On fab, total c#ck. Outsude fab, polite young man "

Why would you think that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok that OP was basic, we all use the forums and over time for those who have been here a while or use it regularly must be aware that others build up idea's based on the information we share, threads we start or contribute too.

I'll start by saying i believe others think of me as being obsessed with my child, sometimes needy, i start threads based on simple questions due to my curiosity (and boredom), i like creative things hense the avatar challenges.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

An Adonis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you think others _iew you?

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I honestly wouldn't have the foggiest idea.. Whether good or bad I ain't changing

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Aloof...

hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Up my own arse."

I didn't think that at all, and now that I've met you nothing could be further from the truth!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Aloof...

hopefully

Aloof often with a hint of disdain. It works well.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Perceptions can be inaccurate and therefore harmful. Best not to know really.

I used to think everyone though I was a fantastic bloke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On fab, total c#ck. Outsude fab, polite young man

Why would you think that?"

Because I am a c#ck on fab and I am a polite young man outside of fab lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Aloof...

hopefully

Aloof often with a hint of disdain. It works well.

yippeeee

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

On the forums.... probably a cheeky / sarcastic beatch

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Aloof...

hopefully

Nah! Balanced, empathetic, mature and kind although you suffer no fools.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Aloof...

hopefully

I would say... diplomatic for you View

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Aloof...

hopefully

Nah! Balanced, empathetic, mature and kind although you suffer no fools."

thank you

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Aloof...

hopefully

I would say... diplomatic for you View

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thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A show stopper with muscles

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have watched you grow as a person over the last few years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A small number find me funny. A smaller number get me. To a lot I'm an irrelevance.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"A show stopper with muscles

And a six pack, don't forget the six pack.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

[Removed by poster at 02/08/14 17:34:13]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aloof...

hopefully

I would say... diplomatic for you View

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thank you "
i wasn't going to be diplomatic but I couldn't think of an appropriate insult.

But you can have my provocative if it fits

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have watched you grow as a person over the last few years

I was about to post something very similar.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

me,on here, I think people probably think im a slightly older boring person with a dog.

in real life im nothing at all like that, but my personality does not come over well on line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a arse

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm not sure and I haven't thought about it to be honest as people's perception differ from person to person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A show stopper with muscles

And a six pack, don't forget the six pack."
Yes soz forget the 6pack, with a 6pack to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mysterious? Sophisticated? Elusive? Nah, just a janner maid.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"me,on here, I think people probably think im a slightly older boring person with a dog.

in real life im nothing at all like that, but my personality does not come over well on line

I really never thought of you as older and boring. Bonkers in the nicest way, friendly, hard-working and ready for a challenge is what I thought about you before I met you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have watched you grow as a person over the last few years

I was about to post something very similar.

Thanks View and Lickety.

I have formed opinions on lots of people on here to the extent where i know what kind of threads they start or what type of posts they make.. just wondered if how we think we _iew ourselves matches up to the opinions of what others think..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mysterious? Sophisticated? Elusive? Nah, just a janner maid. "

proper job! green army!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

"me,on here, I think people probably think im a slightly older boring person with a dog.

in real life im nothing at all like that, but my personality does not come over well on line

I really never thought of you as older and boring. Bonkers in the nicest way, friendly, hard-working and ready for a challenge is what I thought about you before I met you."
oh thank you I suppose you don't really know how people perceive you,i met you and you were exactly how I thought you would be,frindly,funny,and very lovable

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm fairly guarded on the forums mostly, so I doubt people would really 'get' me on here alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have met us on the thread, myself personally, how I'm _iewed by my friends is

Straight talking

No bullshit.

But with a soft heart

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure and I haven't thought about it to be honest as people's perception differ from person to person

well if i see a 'whats for dinner' thread i presume its you lol

you are always cheerful and positive

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

People's perceptions very much depend on their own personality, insecurities, likes and dislikes. You only have to look at the fury the word professional provokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly unhinged and horribly egotistical.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have watched you grow as a person over the last few years

I was about to post something very similar.

Thanks View and Lickety.

My personal take on perceptions is that we are as much how others see us as how we see ourselves and have something to learn about ourselves from those external _iews. We can accept those _iews or dismiss them but if someone thinks you're an arse and you are always the same with them then you are an arse to that person.

I know 80% of the people I meet in life like me and will have a positive experience and that 20% won't. I am sure that is pretty much the same for most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, i have given thought to how others in the forum perceive me. That will vary from person to person.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Probably more serious than I actually am, as I never participate to the 'kiss, pass, ignore' threads or one's like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest, i have given thought to how others in the forum perceive me. That will vary from person to person. "

*haven't given thought.

I hate this phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the question is a funny one to answer because it's about perceptions of an online persona. My forum persona is a caricature, a merest glimpse of what might be the real me onto which others project "their stuff". Their perception is coloured by their own filters, so their _iew of me is often a reflection of them as much as me. Seeing through all of that to the real me requires a remarkable degree of perceptiveness or to know me well over a long period of time. Even the closest people to me don't know the real me in all its 'glory'. I don't think I do either

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

As a fuckwit, but one capable of entertaining, I hope. I'll tell you more when I've read the entertaining thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont care how others _iew me i am who i am but i suppose they _iew a utter bellend at times lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Not something I think about an awful lot, some think I am a bitch of varying degrees, depending how they may have pissed me off, other may think I am a cunt. Who cares, I like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I've though about to be honest. I hope I come across as down to earth and cheerful - most of the time anyway

Those that have met me have left veris to confirm this so I'm happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect quite a few _iew me as a miserable obnxious twat with an overblown sense of self importance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to look at the veris, a face to face, is a better way, always.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit shy...and cheeky sometimes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I suspect quite a few _iew me as a miserable obnxious twat with an overblown sense of self importance...

No! I wouldn't say you're miserable

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Best way to look at the veris, a face to face, is a better way, always.

Her

Yes, but I appear like a deranged fuckwit on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect quite a few _iew me as a miserable obnxious twat with an overblown sense of self importance...

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one of the funniest ones we have met.

Her

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I only care what my friends this k couldn't care less, in fact I don't really think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"me,on here, I think people probably think im a slightly older boring person with a dog.

in real life im nothing at all like that, but my personality does not come over well on line

I blame the dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mysterious? Sophisticated? Elusive? Nah, just a janner maid.

proper job! green army!

Innit eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best way to look at the veris, a face to face, is a better way, always.

Her

Yes, but I appear like a deranged fuckwit on mine

And the problem with that is ?

Garrity gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mysterious? Sophisticated? Elusive? Nah, just a janner maid.

proper job! green army!

Innit eh.

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are you sure you are not describing me?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I suspect quite a few _iew me as a miserable obnxious twat with an overblown sense of self importance...

and a photo-bomber par excellence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perceive Tina as a lifesaver!

If I am ever thrown off a North Sea ferry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fat titted dumb Essex bird who doesn't know her head from her arse maybe

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

On here, I seem to say and do some dumb things, but I keep my blonde hair hidden. I am forthright, confused often and sometimes confusing, and always available for a good laugh, as my downfall is that many accuse me of not taking things seriously enough. From school onwards I have been the naughty one, and mischief and trouble seems to be magnetically drawn to me. On the plus side, people love sharing and trusting me. Perhaps they think my scatty side will forget stuff. And if you want to skive or take a little break whilst doing something, including graft, count me in, as playing games or joking is more important. What was the question? Determined, game for a laugh, sweet if dizzy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An unsociable grumpy cow that asks dumb questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gawwd. I just hope it's not bad. Don't know how i come across. I do sometimes say things that may be a bit too much..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically.....an arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some fat titted dumb Essex bird who doesn't know her head from her arse maybe

I like that description

Let's shag!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

"me,on here, I think people probably think im a slightly older boring person with a dog.

in real life im nothing at all like that, but my personality does not come over well on line

I blame the dog

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so do I for most things but he wasn't at the social

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i'd lke to think i am seen as a fun, easy going person wo can be a bit opinionated at times but going by the reaction i get off some on here i think the balance mght be off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think that those that have met us have seen that we are the real deal, No pretend bollox just us.

We do what it says on the Can at the end of the day .

Ringpull Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dread to think.

That's half the problem lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm on steroids or some shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you think others _iew you?

A very interesting question madam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really sure.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Not really sure, and I don't care to be honest, I am who I am, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice enough person but a bit thick

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

To the few that have messaged me re: my comments, I am enlightened and witty.

To the rest of the forum I am "Who ?".

To those I meet, well I suppose my veris would say one thing.

The truth is I am none and all of those things.

Oh, and im a pretty shyte philosopher too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say i am indecisive , although i am not so sure if i am or not. Maybe they are right ... or not.

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