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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when someone messages you, do u look at the photo ( if any) and the profile before repliying you decide to!

or would the photo put you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always respond to the message. Sometimes I will lok at the profile or the avatar, but it doesn't determine my reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always look at the profile before reading the message

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I always look at the profile......just a shame they don't look at mine!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I always look at the profile and text before I look at the pictures......

heck.. but i am weird!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I always look at the profile......just a shame they don't look at mine!!! "

i look at the location too and think, my word, Aberdeen, the viagara will have worn off by the time i get there nevermind my horn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at a profile first , then at the pictures - not looking for a particular type or chasing a particular physique but just like a visual image of the person I may be meeting - kind of completes the whole picture I have of them

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

if they didnt float my boat in the looks department, delete

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By *ornyandnymphoCouple
over a year ago

poole

We always read the message first, then read the whole profile and perv at the pics. Then we read the message again. Unless it's a one liner, then we hit delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look at the profile first for age, location, ethnicity, height, sexual orientation and whether they can accommodate.

If all meet my criteria then I read the profile. If not I delete without reading.

If the profile is littered with text language, poor grammar, too sexually graphic that it reads like the script for a porn movie, includes contact details and moans about ex partners, I delete.

After reading their profile if I get bored scrolling past their friends and verifications before I get to their pictures, I delete.

User names with 69 or names like muff_pounder, I delete.

Yes, I'm VERY selective, have a group I play with and added a new one last night!

There really is someone for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will always look at their profiles and answer,even if to say no thanks.it is just good manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's writing on the profiles?????

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL


"when someone messages you, do u look at the photo ( if any) and the profile before repliying you decide to!

or would the photo put you off

"
Always reply,it takes all kinds to make this site work so manners are everything to me!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, I always read profiles, have learnt from the past never to just go on looks

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By *pecial bbCouple
over a year ago

london

we always read the profile, ALWAYS reply ( why others dont i dont know - no thanks - how long does it take?? )

Look at the pics to put a face to the message and go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we always read the profile, ALWAYS reply ( why others dont i dont know - no thanks - how long does it take?? )

Look at the pics to put a face to the message and go from there

"

Easy peasy...I'm a size 24 black Domme seeking white submissive males - in a nutshell.

If a Dom writes to me looking for a petite blonde submissive or a couple why on earth would I waste my time replying to them as they obviously haven't read my profile or are some what confused!

I'm surprised (diplomatic word for what I really think) at the people who claim to respond to ever message even if the person is writing from Timbuktoo and are looking to meet today!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im picky

I go from usernames to pictures theres always something that can put me off

I got a mail today saying

'your picture is nice think you should have sex with me '

This came from a profile with 2 lines and no picture so yes that puts me off too???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies

im glad im not the only one

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We reply in a nice way to all but the wanna shag group as we feel they just sent it to everyone on-line.

Funny tho as we often say things like "we dont think we would be the right couple for you" or simular words.

We then get back why not so that always makes us laugh as our reply might not be so kind.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's writing on the profiles????? "

YES for those who can read.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always pinch my self first just to make sure i,m not dreaming ,, then i get all nervous and hit the delete button by mistake, then spend the next two days figuring out who might have replied ,, then i get depressed and eat a full packet of chocolate hobnobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always pinch my self first just to make sure i,m not dreaming ,, then i get all nervous and hit the delete button by mistake, then spend the next two days figuring out who might have replied ,, then i get depressed and eat a full packet of chocolate hobnobs "
is that why i never got a reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ponder the profile first .........if similar in wants to ours will read the message.

We try to send a No Thanks too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profile,pic's then message even if we have little in common as some people message just to ask a question.

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