FabSwingers.com forum: Good looks and compliments

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Simple question, how often in the offline world do you get complimented on your appearance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, surprisingly almost daily but less targeted at the obvious equipment

.. never sure how to take it as I really don't rate myself at all :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot... Mainly my smile and teeth

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Almost every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very rarely,, i never make the effort day to day,, quite slobbish really. cant be arsed with make up or hair.

I probs would feel better about myself if i made more effort though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My appearance rarely as I only make an effort if I'm going out. My eyes attract attention in bright light

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Every day usually. I think people are more ready to give compliments nowadays, I try to say something nice to people if I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes but I tend to ignore them as I'm not good with compliments.

Or they're d*unk!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

not much in the real world .. not much on here either lol

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I'm not the best at handling compliments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every day usually. I think people are more ready to give compliments nowadays, I try to say something nice to people if I can."

Pretty much my inspiration for this thread, is the number of good looking girls I see out and about in the summer. It's sometimes hard for me to say that initial hello, but I look at it this way, whilst paying someone a compliment is no promise of them saying the same about me, if they never knew that I found them attractive, then I'd have no chance with them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lynne))) all the time.. at times she has some of the guys doing odd jobs for her depending what she is dressed like .... Hey guys phil and grant are back on show lol

Ian ) I do ok x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Often but I get embarrassed, I dish out compliments and I mean them even when d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get told i look ...nice alot

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Every day usually. I think people are more ready to give compliments nowadays, I try to say something nice to people if I can.

As a woman I often compliment other women of all ages. I saw a very well dressed lady with her dapper partner both in their eighties. She wore a dress that had been crocheted so I complimented her on it and her appearance. She had made it and several others like it she explained and they both walked on smiling and I hope a tiny bit happier. I felt good too because a genuine comment had made someone happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a lot... Mainly my smile and teeth

No surprise Kat. You are stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fairly often but I'm not very good at accepting compliment. I get told I look younger than my age and that I have a lovely smile

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

On my appearance sometimes but on my French accent all the time

(Frustrating really when I have here for so long

lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fairly often but I'm not very good at accepting compliment. I get told I look younger than my age and that I have a lovely smile

I get told I look younger than 48 quite often and that I have straight teeth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most days and often about my eyes but I just blush and don't believe them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot which is nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"which is nice

For some reason I heard you saying that in a similar fashion to Mark Williams on the Fast Show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my looks every now and then but get quite a few on my personality as I'm quite bubbly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I get a few, mostly about me looking younger or the fact I am always smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much but if I do its my friends who do so

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Every single day. GOD it's hard being beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bloody likely. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often. Just yesterday I had two guys sitting next to me at a stop light whistling, this was after blowing their horn and riding beside me for about 5miles .... I had just enough time to acknowledge and speak(which blew their minds!)before the light turned green--thank god! Though I appreciate and I am gracious about the compliments I find myself often embarrassed by them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every morning I look in the mirror and say "why wasn't I born rich instead of gorgeous?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly ever "

You have a very sexy bum and your taste in shoes is fantastic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just yesterday I had two guys sitting next to me at a stop light whistling, this was after blowing their horn and riding"

WAY too many opportunities for innuendos in there

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Quite often. Just yesterday I had two guys sitting next to me at a stop light whistling, this was after blowing their horn and riding beside me for about 5miles .... I had just enough time to acknowledge and speak(which blew their minds!)before the light turned green--thank god! Though I appreciate and I am gracious about the compliments I find myself often embarrassed by them!!

Hehe, I was out with a college chum last week sat in a motorway queue and we had two young shirtless guys in a van proposition us. My horny friend was well up for it (no Fabs in France!). They followed us for about 3 miles once we turned off the motorway too, but I freaked and did a sudden uturn to shake them off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every single day. GOD it's hard being beautiful."

And humble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just yesterday I had two guys sitting next to me at a stop light whistling, this was after blowing their horn and riding

WAY too many opportunities for innuendos in there

Haha!!! Yea! I can definitely see that - now! Hahahaaa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a lot... Mainly my smile and teeth

No surprise Kat. You are stunning "
Thankyou E-Jay

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Every single day. GOD it's hard being beautiful."

I hear ya!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not bloody likely. Lol"

You are a nice guy, a true gent and have a very nice helmet tucked away

. I didn't notice you have any problems attracting the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the type of compliment.

On appearance or looks rarely if ever and when I do I never believe them & always think the giver is after something. I do however to get good feedback for my work which I suppose is a compliment of a sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was also thankful for the huge dump truck I got behind and the guys were in front of! It allowed me to pull me into the gas station without being seen until they were well past the turn off!!! Lol!!! Sometimes I wonder what people are thinking but then it's a huge waste of time to even go there!!! lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only real life compliment I've received in the last year or so was you've lost weight. I got a comment on a nice shirt at a party. But the shirt couldn't acknowledge the compliment so I said thanks on its behalf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?

I haven't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how much I'm out and about, to be honest. And who with. From random strangers i do get compliments ranging from smile or eyes to accent, intelligence, shoes, handbag, or even how I'm handling a challenging situation with my son.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Simple question, how often in the offline world do you get complimented on your appearance? "

Depends on the type of compliments...

On my actual looks....not very often.

But things like, your hair looks nice today or that top really suits you, quite often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot at work, always by women, but it's usually about my dress or shoes or nails rather than me myself.

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

Hardly.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Every single day. GOD it's hard being beautiful.

And humble "

Yeah. It's MURDER being so humbly beautiful.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Well it happens every time I look in the mirror if that counts

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Here, frequently but ulterior motives are afoot.

IRL, not at all and I've never really noticed until I read this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot at work, always by women, but it's usually about my dress or shoes or nails rather than me myself."

You have lovely eyes and lips, things like that are almost like beacons to a mans libido.

...oh and boobs too, can't forget the boobs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots from my female friends - but then we are always complementing each other, I work in a female enviroment so don't come across complimentary men often.

The most commen compliment I get from people I don't know is that I don't look old enough to have a 11 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot at work, always by women, but it's usually about my dress or shoes or nails rather than me myself.

You have lovely eyes and lips, things like that are almost like beacons to a mans libido.

...oh and boobs too, can't forget the boobs x"

To be fair it would be a bit weird if my male colleagues started complimenting me on my boobs at work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots from my female friends - but then we are always complementing each other, I work in a female enviroment so don't come across complimentary men often.

The most commen compliment I get from people I don't know is that I don't look old enough to have a 11 year old.

Wow you really don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not bloody likely. Lol

You are a nice guy, a true gent and have a very nice helmet tucked away

. I didn't notice you have any problems attracting the ladies."

Stop it - you'll make me blush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in the music industry so compliments are dished out when all the time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often in work. My dress code is very different to here.

Occasionally when on a night out, usually about my legs and not looking my age which is lovely. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots from my female friends - but then we are always complementing each other, I work in a female enviroment so don't come across complimentary men often.

The most commen compliment I get from people I don't know is that I don't look old enough to have a 11 year old.

Wow you really don't! "

Thank you - I'm lucky as my mum looks a lot younger than her age so I'm taking after her... Either that or the fats pulling out the wrinkles!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you - I'm lucky as my mum looks a lot younger than her age so I'm taking after her... Either that or the fats pulling out the wrinkles!! Lol x "

Good genes then!

That's the approach I'm taking to wrinkle control as well lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite often,,but it can be embaressing

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

At least once a week and sometimes more. It seems to happen more now that I am older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes from blokes tits, arse, eyes, black hair, we know where that's going lol

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My complainants mainly come off my lovely children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm often told that my Straight Jacket suits me

Garrity Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day usually. I think people are more ready to give compliments nowadays, I try to say something nice to people if I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must say I find a compliment from a woman more flattering for some strange reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"must say I find a compliment from a woman more flattering for some strange reason"
I'd kiss those lips

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I dish them out regularly. Never unwarranted but I like to make people smile. The girl I see in the coffee shop on my way to work pretty much every day had a new haircut on Friday so I told her it looked fantastic because it did. As for me, I always take it as a compliment when I get asked for I D when I buy age restricted items. Considering my advancing decrepitude that is a compliment in my eyes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go a bit coy, if I'm complimented. I'm not really sure what to say

I do compliment.. If I see something I like I have not qualms in saying so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot just lately, I get people on a daily basis telling me I look great after the weight loss, had a few tell me I look a lot prettier now I don't have a fat face too

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It all depends if I'm in drab or Glam mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to pay compliments - even if I know nothing will come of it.

Putting a smile on someone's face is always a pleasure.

Let's spread the love. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm, surprisingly almost daily but less targeted at the obvious equipment

.. never sure how to take it as I really don't rate myself at all :-/"

You mean people can get their eyes of your gorgeous boobs lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I got told by a colleague the other day that I have lost loads of weight...I can't really see it myself but it was a nice compliment

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