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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most of us are here because we love porn, sex and seeing other people naked!

The majority of us have friends and family that would be disgusted to find out we were on a sex site, but how many single people on here have ever thought of using this site for more than just finding a quick shag one evening and but to find LOVE??

Anyone?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont believe in love.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Most of us are here because we love porn, sex and seeing other people naked!

The majority of us have friends and family that would be disgusted to find out we were on a sex site, but how many single people on here have ever thought of using this site for more than just finding a quick shag one evening and but to find LOVE??

Anyone?"

Finding a quick shag??

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I dont believe in love."

love is a many splendid thing

love lifts us up where we belong

all you need is love...

and in answer to the OP's question i dont think you can go looking for love, it wil find you

maybe you will find it on here as you are likely to have the same attitudes on sex etc

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well im totally in love with someone i adore and yes i met him through swinging but not on here when it was the last thing i expected 3+ years and its still like when we first met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already found love now we are here so I can help my wife get a gd spit roasting & more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i want is to be loved and to give love in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are a number of couples who have found each other on here or through swinging.

It does happen, but I would think, that if you go looking for it, it's going to be hard to find

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"there are a number of couples who have found each other on here or through swinging.

It does happen, but I would think, that if you go looking for it, it's going to be hard to find"
Yep i would have to agree there, but i would wouldnt i? lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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It does happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it does Happen!

"in a world of pure imangination" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met Siren through swinging in 2007 and now we are married with a young son.

I think it's very sad to hear people say they don't believe in love and I don't agree with the worn out cliche that if you look for love it's harder to find - like a watched kettle never boils - it does, it takes the same amount of time to boil as it does if you don't watch it, it just *appears* to take longer. Love is recognising it when it's in your life and putting away any notions you may hold from bad experiences from the past. How can your new partner be given a decent shot at love if he/she is being compared to the past?

Relationships are like shopping for a new suit - you try many on before finding one that is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This wouldn't be my first port of call if I were looking for love!

I have made some very good friends, and one very special friend in particular through a swinging site. I was, and still am, the only person he's met.

Work and family means we don't get to see each other as often as we like, but we talk every day and he uses words like "commitment". We rarely talk about sex but life and we meet socially.

It's hard to deny that feelings are involved and I will eventually stop being a greedy commitment phobe and hang up my butt plugs...

To the OP - as others have said quite a few couples here have met, fallen in love and married people they've met through swinging - you never know where Cupid's arrow will strike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met Siren through swinging in 2007 and now we are married with a young son.

I think it's very sad to hear people say they don't believe in love and I don't agree with the worn out cliche that if you look for love it's harder to find - like a watched kettle never boils - it does, it takes the same amount of time to boil as it does if you don't watch it, it just *appears* to take longer. Love is recognising it when it's in your life and putting away any notions you may hold from bad experiences from the past. How can your new partner be given a decent shot at love if he/she is being compared to the past?

Relationships are like shopping for a new suit - you try many on before finding one that is perfect. "

Agree with you 100%!! I think it's sad some people don't believe in love: to be honest I don't believe them. I think it's a protection mechanism used by people who've been hurt in the past.

I was married for 24 years...would like to buy a new hat and do it again one day, think I'll forego the white frock next time though... !!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Agree with missy n wishy....i always think it very sad when people dont believe in love....

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Once in love, always in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does happen"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with missy n wishy....i always think it very sad when people dont believe in love.... "

perhaps because we have been hurt badly in the past, up goes the brickwall so no i dont believe in the love of another human being enough to want to move in, marry blah blah, but love my kids? Absolutely believe in that one

been looking for a long time, watch people around me find THE ONE but not me, think i shall stick around here, least i get to touch another even if its not for long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i met fatprick thru this site a year and a half ago. moved in last september

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Everyone has their heartbroken, but we all have to move on. Baggage should be left where it belongs firmly in the past. New relationship new start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with missy n wishy....i always think it very sad when people dont believe in love.... "

Yep..nods in agreement..it is sad.. and swingers do fall in love...

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