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"Up to them nothing should be forced onto them to lose weight...I couldn't care less if a fat doctor told me I had to lose weight as they are giving medical advice it's up to me if I want to lose weight or not " They are just giving advice as per guidelines...its not their personal advice. | |||
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"Up to them nothing should be forced onto them to lose weight...I couldn't care less if a fat doctor told me I had to lose weight as they are giving medical advice it's up to me if I want to lose weight or not They are just giving advice as per guidelines...its not their personal advice." Next thing is that they should be able to operate on themselves and not have to seek medical attention. Fine coming from politicians - they shouldn't lie but that's never stopped them. I guess it will be another decade when we will actually look back fondly on the medical profession (which is in the process of being discredited by politicians) and the NHS when it only exists in name and health care provision in the UK is privatised. | |||
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"Up to them nothing should be forced onto them to lose weight...I couldn't care less if a fat doctor told me I had to lose weight as they are giving medical advice it's up to me if I want to lose weight or not " Touché | |||
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"I kinda agree and doctors should be fit and set an example for their clients as they give out advice so should be in tip top shape " I'd rather my doctors spend their time learning about medicine than busting blood vessels in the gym, tbh. An experienced doctor, up-to-date with new medical knowledge is going to be more use to me than a fit doctor. | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying!" | |||
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". Treat the causes, not the symptom and remember that it's entirely possible that each individual will need a different treatment regime to anyone else." So so true.. Fix the problem please... Shame politicians don't seem To think like that.... | |||
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"it is appropriate to ask, gives them more credibility when advising others. and better for them" True but weight issues aren't always straightforward. And it rarely works if someone tells you to do it x | |||
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"Whether my doctor is fat or slim has no bearing on my weight. Actually having a doctor that knows what it's like to struggle with weight control could help some people talk about it. Also telling educated adults that they are fat and it's bad for their health is ridiculous, I reckon they know already, they aren't going to be suddenly enlightened and exclaim "oh my goodness, I hadn't even noticed I am 5 stone overweight, I will lose it asap!"" | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying!" Well said.... and i've not had a single patient say "excuse me love but can you lose 6 stone before you take my blood" Grrrrrrrr | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying!" Dont forget about dehydration too. | |||
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"Having worked for the NHS for 20 years I'll give you the shortened version of how this will pan out. A lot of money will be wasted on upper-management meetings with HR to discuss how to best implement the orders from above. Several thousands of pounds per health authority later, pamphlets extolling the virtues of weight-loss will be left in the nurse's staff rooms and that's the last anyone will hear from it again." we dont have a staff room or anywhere to keep food cool or heat up food. | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying!" That's half the trouble too many people make excuses why they are overweight, easier to blame someone else than themselves. so how come some nurses are skinny then? | |||
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"Having worked for the NHS for 20 years I'll give you the shortened version of how this will pan out. A lot of money will be wasted on upper-management meetings with HR to discuss how to best implement the orders from above. Several thousands of pounds per health authority later, pamphlets extolling the virtues of weight-loss will be left in the nurse's staff rooms and that's the last anyone will hear from it again." One would think so, but occipational Health are following thr men in suits guidelines to the letter, a friend if mine has been told its not a choice, she has to lose weight. She is struggling with workload due to being vastly overweight though. Some trusts have been like this for the last couple of years so its nothing new. | |||
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"Having worked for the NHS for 20 years I'll give you the shortened version of how this will pan out. A lot of money will be wasted on upper-management meetings with HR to discuss how to best implement the orders from above. Several thousands of pounds per health authority later, pamphlets extolling the virtues of weight-loss will be left in the nurse's staff rooms and that's the last anyone will hear from it again.One would think so, but occipational Health are following thr men in suits guidelines to the letter, a friend if mine has been told its not a choice, she has to lose weight. She is struggling with workload due to being vastly overweight though. Some trusts have been like this for the last couple of years so its nothing new." That's across the board if your physical health is affecting your work then employers have to take action...however I hope it would be in a supportive, empathic approach | |||
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"Having worked for the NHS for 20 years I'll give you the shortened version of how this will pan out. A lot of money will be wasted on upper-management meetings with HR to discuss how to best implement the orders from above. Several thousands of pounds per health authority later, pamphlets extolling the virtues of weight-loss will be left in the nurse's staff rooms and that's the last anyone will hear from it again.One would think so, but occipational Health are following thr men in suits guidelines to the letter, a friend if mine has been told its not a choice, she has to lose weight. She is struggling with workload due to being vastly overweight though. Some trusts have been like this for the last couple of years so its nothing new. That's across the board if your physical health is affecting your work then employers have to take action...however I hope it would be in a supportive, empathic approach " To be fair its helped quite a few in the trust. | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying! That's half the trouble too many people make excuses why they are overweight, easier to blame someone else than themselves. so how come some nurses are skinny then?" and you can also say that about many jobs, its not just NHS staff that works long hours and eats on the go, your job has nothing to do with your weight in my opinion there are fat and thin in all professions some just choose to use their busy life as an excuse to not eat right some don't | |||
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"I think, by the same reasoning, any MP who tells us to slim should not be overweight. " And any MP who tells us how austerity measures are essential should be living the same way, not chucking a bottomless expense account around. | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying! That's half the trouble too many people make excuses why they are overweight, easier to blame someone else than themselves. so how come some nurses are skinny then?" What an absolutely ridiculous thing to ask | |||
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"I think it's a piss take All nhs staff are over worked and underpaid. It's only gonna get worse as this govt makes working conditions, pay, pensions worse How about we stop paying out silly money onaircraft carriers, war planes etc and stop donating money to every country that asks for it and actually spend some real money on this country rather than peanuts" So if they are underpaid or overworked why do they decide to become nurses in the first place? its their choice in the first place and I don't happen to agree with you I don't think they are underpaid and not all of them are overworked either as a lot of them stand around chattering when they should be looking after their patients. | |||
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"you would think if they are working as hard as they say they are they wouldn't be overweight. unlike someone who is sitting down all day in an office. surely wouldn't they be able to look after their patients better if they were less overweight as they would have more energy." How dare you!! I work bloody hard, I look after my patients well. I have the energy to do my job and my shifts. I do nursing and run a business on my day offs I work in excess if 60 hrs a week. Weight does not effect how people do there job I am more than fit enough to do it and as my employers and patients tell me I do it bloody well!! The shifts do effect weight I can be on a day shift one day and nights the next. It's a proven fact that shifts affect weight. However there are other factors such as medical issues that also affect my weight (BUT don't affect my ability to do my job) I assume you will be refusing a fat person to look after you if you ever need medical help as you have such low opinion on fatties doing there job properly!! I actually like being big, it suits me it's sexy as hell as far as Paul is concerned. I'm stepping away from this thread - I don't want to entertain troll that have nothing better to do. | |||
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"you would think if they are working as hard as they say they are they wouldn't be overweight. unlike someone who is sitting down all day in an office. surely wouldn't they be able to look after their patients better if they were less overweight as they would have more energy. How dare you!! I work bloody hard, I look after my patients well. I have the energy to do my job and my shifts. I do nursing and run a business on my day offs I work in excess if 60 hrs a week. Weight does not effect how people do there job I am more than fit enough to do it and as my employers and patients tell me I do it bloody well!! The shifts do effect weight I can be on a day shift one day and nights the next. It's a proven fact that shifts affect weight. However there are other factors such as medical issues that also affect my weight (BUT don't affect my ability to do my job) I assume you will be refusing a fat person to look after you if you ever need medical help as you have such low opinion on fatties doing there job properly!! I actually like being big, it suits me it's sexy as hell as far as Paul is concerned. I'm stepping away from this thread - I don't want to entertain troll that have nothing better to do." should have ignored it like the rest of us, you've just made her day | |||
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"you would think if they are working as hard as they say they are they wouldn't be overweight. unlike someone who is sitting down all day in an office. surely wouldn't they be able to look after their patients better if they were less overweight as they would have more energy. How dare you!! I work bloody hard, I look after my patients well. I have the energy to do my job and my shifts. I do nursing and run a business on my day offs I work in excess if 60 hrs a week. Weight does not effect how people do there job I am more than fit enough to do it and as my employers and patients tell me I do it bloody well!! The shifts do effect weight I can be on a day shift one day and nights the next. It's a proven fact that shifts affect weight. However there are other factors such as medical issues that also affect my weight (BUT don't affect my ability to do my job) I assume you will be refusing a fat person to look after you if you ever need medical help as you have such low opinion on fatties doing there job properly!! I actually like being big, it suits me it's sexy as hell as far as Paul is concerned. I'm stepping away from this thread - I don't want to entertain troll that have nothing better to do." no I wouldn't refuse a fat nurse obviously, I have nothing against them some are very nice, just saying it would be easier for them to do their job if they were carrying less weight it stands to reason and im not sure about shifts affecting weight because lots of people work shifts and they aren't overweight. just because you don't agree with what I have to say doesn't mean im a troll. | |||
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"I think it's a piss take All nhs staff are over worked and underpaid. It's only gonna get worse as this govt makes working conditions, pay, pensions worse How about we stop paying out silly money onaircraft carriers, war planes etc and stop donating money to every country that asks for it and actually spend some real money on this country rather than peanuts So if they are underpaid or overworked why do they decide to become nurses in the first place? its their choice in the first place and I don't happen to agree with you I don't think they are underpaid and not all of them are overworked either as a lot of them stand around chattering when they should be looking after their patients." | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying!" Well said!!!!! | |||
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"Just been watching the news and apparently the new head of NHS has requested all obese doctors and nurses to slim down to set good example to patients at this time of what they call an obesity crisis not sure how i feel about this, on one hand i don't feel anyone has the right to tell you to diet but on the other if i was going to the doctors and being told i was over weight and recommend to diet by someone who was over weight themselves id think...bloody check if i went to a smoking clinic i wouldn't expect the staff to nip out for a fag, or the guy who run the AA meeting to be sat there with a pint of larger, so at a time when the NHS is saying the cost of obesity is at breaking point is it reasonable for them to ask over weight staff to slim to set an example to patients? " I don't see the issue its a requirement in many other jobs. | |||
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"The NHS seem to have taken over from the Church in telling us how we should run our lives, according to them. Those saying that they wouldn't take advice on slimming from an over-weight clinician should ask themselves, would they not take advice on cancer care from a clinician who has cancer? It seems a bit self defeating." Not all cancers are the result of the behaviour of the sufferer. | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying!" really, is it just that. | |||
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"The NHS seem to have taken over from the Church in telling us how we should run our lives, according to them. Those saying that they wouldn't take advice on slimming from an over-weight clinician should ask themselves, would they not take advice on cancer care from a clinician who has cancer? It seems a bit self defeating. Not all cancers are the result of the behaviour of the sufferer." You're quite right, actually very few are - but how would the patient know that? | |||
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"It's disgusting most nursing staff are obese because of lack of staffing we don't get lunch breaks - we get given choc from patients that's our fuel for the day. After being at work 14 hours we eat crap whatever can be thrown together quickly or picked up on the way home. Reduce our working day and make sure we have breaks with access to healthy food and we would lose weight Just saying! That's half the trouble too many people make excuses why they are overweight, easier to blame someone else than themselves. so how come some nurses are skinny then? and you can also say that about many jobs, its not just NHS staff that works long hours and eats on the go, your job has nothing to do with your weight in my opinion there are fat and thin in all professions some just choose to use their busy life as an excuse to not eat right some don't " | |||
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