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"Perhaps try asking them to be quieter? Communication is a wonderful thing. Passive aggressive gestures don't tell them what you want. " Should I just ask them tomorrow ? Eeeeekkkkkkkk I'm nervous | |||
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"Ppl like that never do a good shut the fuck up would b better lol " People like what? They may be on holiday and just enjoying the balmy evening/night. | |||
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"Perhaps try asking them to be quieter? Communication is a wonderful thing. Passive aggressive gestures don't tell them what you want. Should I just ask them tomorrow ? Eeeeekkkkkkkk I'm nervous " Yes. Just point out they are keeping you awake and could they reduce the noise after 11pm. | |||
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"Ppl like that never do a good shut the fuck up would b better lol People like what? They may be on holiday and just enjoying the balmy evening/night. " People like unconsiderate numpties who have no thought for anyone else but themselves i think he meant? | |||
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"The couple below me were waging World War III on Friday night, screaming, banging, slamming doors, so after 1/2hr, I put some AC/DC on full blast
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"Ppl like that never do a good shut the fuck up would b better lol People like what? They may be on holiday and just enjoying the balmy evening/night. People like unconsiderate numpties who have no thought for anyone else but themselves i think he meant? " I find that people enjoying themselves don't notice the time or realise they are being inconsiderate. A little bit of conversation has to be better for everyone than calling the police. | |||
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"Ppl like that never do a good shut the fuck up would b better lol People like what? They may be on holiday and just enjoying the balmy evening/night. People like unconsiderate numpties who have no thought for anyone else but themselves i think he meant? I find that people enjoying themselves don't notice the time or realise they are being inconsiderate. A little bit of conversation has to be better for everyone than calling the police." Agreed. why go straight in for calling for the police? go and politely ask them to quieten down. why make a drama out of it? | |||
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"Some ppl never listen and have no respect for others I've had this many times and asking Nicely doesn't seam to have any effect or do as someone as already said phone the police " She hasn't even tried. Slamming the window is an ambiguous signal. How are they really to know that she isn't waging war against moths? It's festival time for some. I hope none of you calling the police ever make any noise after 11pm. Make sure you never have a screamer visit. | |||
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That soon shut the feckers up "An eye for an eye will only make the whole world blind (Mahatma Ghandi). Take note, Israel and Hamas. | |||
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"Cannot believe people are suggesting calling the police. It's the next door neighbours, knock on the door! Or ask them from out of the window if that's easier. Give them the benefit of communication before calling the riot squad in, why not!?" Why not call the police? Its an offence to make loud public noise after 11pm, so well within rights to call the police and report them for disturbing the peace. | |||
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"Ppl like that never do a good shut the fuck up would b better lol People like what? They may be on holiday and just enjoying the balmy evening/night. People like unconsiderate numpties who have no thought for anyone else but themselves i think he meant? I find that people enjoying themselves don't notice the time or realise they are being inconsiderate. A little bit of conversation has to be better for everyone than calling the police. Agreed. why go straight in for calling for the police? go and politely ask them to quieten down. why make a drama out of it?" It's obviously a drama. Forty minutes after 11pm must call for capital punishment at the very least. | |||
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"Cannot believe people are suggesting calling the police. It's the next door neighbours, knock on the door! Or ask them from out of the window if that's easier. Give them the benefit of communication before calling the riot squad in, why not!? Why not call the police? Its an offence to make loud public noise after 11pm, so well within rights to call the police and report them for disturbing the peace. " I should have had most of my street arrested this weekend then. All those people chatting outside after their barbecue parties. If you ask and it continues. If it goes on beyond midnight then I think the noise patrol could be used but as a first resort? I want my police doing more useful things. | |||
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"Some ppl never listen and have no respect for others I've had this many times and asking Nicely doesn't seam to have any effect or do as someone as already said phone the police She hasn't even tried. Slamming the window is an ambiguous signal. How are they really to know that she isn't waging war against moths? It's festival time for some. I hope none of you calling the police ever make any noise after 11pm. Make sure you never have a screamer visit. " If i've ever had a party that i know will go on past 11pm then i have always called round the neighbours and told them in advance. For neighbours to do this without giving any notice to next door is bang out of order. As i said in a previous comment, shows they are inconsiderate of others so if it was me i would'nt hesitate to call the police and report them for it. | |||
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"Shall I call out of the window please can you keep it down " Yes. | |||
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"I want my police doing more useful things." You have your own? There's P-osh. Are any of them fit? If so, may I borrow one, or five, please? | |||
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"Cannot believe people are suggesting calling the police. It's the next door neighbours, knock on the door! Or ask them from out of the window if that's easier. Give them the benefit of communication before calling the riot squad in, why not!? Why not call the police? Its an offence to make loud public noise after 11pm, so well within rights to call the police and report them for disturbing the peace. " Because calling the police would, quite obviously, be your last resort, not the first thing you do if you have an issue over noise with your neighbour, no matter what the law might be. What an odd attitude you have. | |||
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"Ppl like that never do a good shut the fuck up would b better lol People like what? They may be on holiday and just enjoying the balmy evening/night. People like unconsiderate numpties who have no thought for anyone else but themselves i think he meant? I find that people enjoying themselves don't notice the time or realise they are being inconsiderate. A little bit of conversation has to be better for everyone than calling the police. Agreed. why go straight in for calling for the police? go and politely ask them to quieten down. why make a drama out of it? It's obviously a drama. Forty minutes after 11pm must call for capital punishment at the very least. " we once had a neighbour complaining because we dared to do some diy on a saturday afternoon at 2pm. We didn't give them a month's written warning apparently  . I wish I had the op as a neighbour!  | |||
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"I think they are polish" if I were closer to fairy land id come round and ask them for you 
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"I think they are polish" Go on Google, English to Polish translation and type the following into it ; "Have you noisy, inconsiderate neighbours ever wondered what would me, your neighbourly neighbour, happy". Print the search result and take it round to show them. Should keep em quiet for quite a while. Good luck. | |||
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"I think they are polish if I were closer to fairy land id come round and ask them for you
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"I want my police doing more useful things. You have your own? There's P-osh. Are any of them fit? If so, may I borrow one, or five, please?" They post notes through my door telling me what they are doing to keep me safe and inviting me to meet them. They even say hello when we pass on the street. They're mine. | |||
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"I think they are polish Go on Google, English to Polish translation and type the following into it ; "Have you noisy, inconsiderate neighbours ever wondered what would me, your neighbourly neighbour, happy". Print the search result and take it round to show them. Should keep em quiet for quite a while. Good luck." A puzzle often keeps people occupied, that's for sure. | |||
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"I want my police doing more useful things. You have your own? There's P-osh. Are any of them fit? If so, may I borrow one, or five, please? They post notes through my door telling me what they are doing to keep me safe and inviting me to meet them. They even say hello when we pass on the street. They're mine." But are they fit? And may I borrow them? | |||
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"I think they are polish" that mr sheen s a right chatterbox | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down " Just go and talk to them. They probably haven't a clue they are bothering you. Smile, be friendly, just ask them to keep it down late at night because they kept you awake. | |||
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"I think they are polish if I were closer to fairy land id come round and ask them for you
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Pretty certain it's polish "All of the Polish I have come across, some my neighbours, would apologise and move inside if I spoke to them. Jeez, my Polish neighbour even changed his smoking location when I said it was drifting into my living room! I live in a poor inner city area - communication works. | |||
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"I don't know what the law is saying no loud music after 11pm (cos surely pubs n clubs wouldn't be excluded from law)...noise nuisance is an issue for environmental health at the local council n they can put measures in place etc which can ultimately lead to eviction (if council/housing association) or controls imposed to the landlord if private! The only thing the police can do is advise them of their anti social behaviour! Just my two penneth worth!" Why do you suppose licensed premises need to get late licences for events that run beyond a certain time? | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down " if polish write this note:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór, bo jestem rtying spac i zachowac mA jawie dziekuje | |||
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"I don't know what the law is saying no loud music after 11pm (cos surely pubs n clubs wouldn't be excluded from law)...noise nuisance is an issue for environmental health at the local council n they can put measures in place etc which can ultimately lead to eviction (if council/housing association) or controls imposed to the landlord if private! The only thing the police can do is advise them of their anti social behaviour! Just my two penneth worth! Why do you suppose licensed premises need to get late licences for events that run beyond a certain time?" law states loud noise between 11Pm and 7am is not allowed if it causes a nusance | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down " Knock on the door and try to speak to them first, only leave them a note if you don't get any answer. It may take a bit more nerve, but it's by far the most likely way of getting them to consider your feelings. People tend to pay more attention to people they have communicated with. You may even get to know them. | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down if polish write this note:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór, bo jestem rtying spac i zachowac mA jawie dziekuje" Hopefully it doesn't say please come and watch me undress for bed in the evenings through my curtains | |||
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"Cannot believe people are suggesting calling the police. It's the next door neighbours, knock on the door! Or ask them from out of the window if that's easier. Give them the benefit of communication before calling the riot squad in, why not!? Why not call the police? Its an offence to make loud public noise after 11pm, so well within rights to call the police and report them for disturbing the peace. Because calling the police would, quite obviously, be your last resort, not the first thing you do if you have an issue over noise with your neighbour, no matter what the law might be. What an odd attitude you have." Its not obviously a last resort, that maybe true for yourself but you can't speak for others. For some people calling the police would be the 1st port of call. If the neighbours had been drinking then thay are unlikely to listen to reason from a neighbour, more likely to listen to a uniformed police officer at the front door. Could maybe make an exception if it was a weekend but on a weeknight when people have to get up for work the next day its really not on. | |||
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"I want my police doing more useful things. You have your own? There's P-osh. Are any of them fit? If so, may I borrow one, or five, please? They post notes through my door telling me what they are doing to keep me safe and inviting me to meet them. They even say hello when we pass on the street. They're mine. But are they fit? And may I borrow them?" I don't think they fit your view of fit. Perfectly fine for me as I don't have a type. | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down if polish write this note:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór, bo jestem rtying spac i zachowac mA jawie dziekuje Hopefully it doesn't say please come and watch me undress for bed in the evenings through my curtains " no not at all it says:- sorry to bother you but can you please keep the music a little bit quieter of an evening because i am trying to sleep and you keep ma awake thank you | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down if polish write this note:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór, bo jestem rtying spac i zachowac mA jawie dziekuje Hopefully it doesn't say please come and watch me undress for bed in the evenings through my curtains no not at all it says:- sorry to bother you but can you please keep the music a little bit quieter of an evening because i am trying to sleep and you keep ma awake thank you" oops miss type correct wording:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór bo staram sie spac, a ty mnie nie zasnac dziekuje and if you like ill come help you undress and make sure they not watching | |||
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"Is it really possible to be capable of meeting strangers via the internet, for sex but not be able to speak face-to-face to one's neighbours? "It would appear so. | |||
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"Is it really possible to be capable of meeting strangers via the internet, for sex but not be able to speak face-to-face to one's neighbours? "Yep 100% possible . I don't meet strangers from the internet for sex for one And two I am shy and I suffer from nerves | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down if polish write this note:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór, bo jestem rtying spac i zachowac mA jawie dziekuje Hopefully it doesn't say please come and watch me undress for bed in the evenings through my curtains no not at all it says:- sorry to bother you but can you please keep the music a little bit quieter of an evening because i am trying to sleep and you keep ma awake thank you oops miss type correct wording:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór bo staram sie spac, a ty mnie nie zasnac dziekuje and if you like ill come help you undress and make sure they not watching "Lol thanks | |||
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"Is it really possible to be capable of meeting strangers via the internet, for sex but not be able to speak face-to-face to one's neighbours?
It would appear so.
"always easier to meet people first thru web...you get idea of who and what they are like...takes lots of the anxiety out of the first meet...that's why we here aint it? | |||
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"Cannot believe people are suggesting calling the police. It's the next door neighbours, knock on the door! Or ask them from out of the window if that's easier. Give them the benefit of communication before calling the riot squad in, why not!? Why not call the police? Its an offence to make loud public noise after 11pm, so well within rights to call the police and report them for disturbing the peace. Because calling the police would, quite obviously, be your last resort, not the first thing you do if you have an issue over noise with your neighbour, no matter what the law might be. What an odd attitude you have. Its not obviously a last resort, that maybe true for yourself but you can't speak for others. For some people calling the police would be the 1st port of call. If the neighbours had been drinking then thay are unlikely to listen to reason from a neighbour, more likely to listen to a uniformed police officer at the front door. Could maybe make an exception if it was a weekend but on a weeknight when people have to get up for work the next day its really not on." No...it's definitely odd. You might not realise it, but if your first instinct is to call the police when you have any minor disagreement with your neighbours, it is very, very odd. | |||
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"Is it really possible to be capable of meeting strangers via the internet, for sex but not be able to speak face-to-face to one's neighbours? "Apparently so.....we are clearly losing the art of communicating face to face | |||
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"Cannot believe people are suggesting calling the police. It's the next door neighbours, knock on the door! Or ask them from out of the window if that's easier. Give them the benefit of communication before calling the riot squad in, why not!? Why not call the police? Its an offence to make loud public noise after 11pm, so well within rights to call the police and report them for disturbing the peace. Because calling the police would, quite obviously, be your last resort, not the first thing you do if you have an issue over noise with your neighbour, no matter what the law might be. What an odd attitude you have. Its not obviously a last resort, that maybe true for yourself but you can't speak for others. For some people calling the police would be the 1st port of call. If the neighbours had been drinking then thay are unlikely to listen to reason from a neighbour, more likely to listen to a uniformed police officer at the front door. Could maybe make an exception if it was a weekend but on a weeknight when people have to get up for work the next day its really not on." Why make an exception at the weekend? People work at the weekend too. If you have a stance then be consistent with it. Silent sex after 11pm too don't forget. | |||
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"Is it really possible to be capable of meeting strangers via the internet, for sex but not be able to speak face-to-face to one's neighbours? "I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported. | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down if polish write this note:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór, bo jestem rtying spac i zachowac mA jawie dziekuje Hopefully it doesn't say please come and watch me undress for bed in the evenings through my curtains no not at all it says:- sorry to bother you but can you please keep the music a little bit quieter of an evening because i am trying to sleep and you keep ma awake thank you oops miss type correct wording:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór bo staram sie spac, a ty mnie nie zasnac dziekuje and if you like ill come help you undress and make sure they not watching "you cant send them that .. it hasnt got enough vowels in it .. perhaps put a few a s some e s and an o or two in a separate p.s. note | |||
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"Cannot believe people are suggesting calling the police. It's the next door neighbours, knock on the door! Or ask them from out of the window if that's easier. Give them the benefit of communication before calling the riot squad in, why not!? Why not call the police? Its an offence to make loud public noise after 11pm, so well within rights to call the police and report them for disturbing the peace. Because calling the police would, quite obviously, be your last resort, not the first thing you do if you have an issue over noise with your neighbour, no matter what the law might be. What an odd attitude you have. Its not obviously a last resort, that maybe true for yourself but you can't speak for others. For some people calling the police would be the 1st port of call. If the neighbours had been drinking then thay are unlikely to listen to reason from a neighbour, more likely to listen to a uniformed police officer at the front door. Could maybe make an exception if it was a weekend but on a weeknight when people have to get up for work the next day its really not on. No...it's definitely odd. You might not realise it, but if your first instinct is to call the police when you have any minor disagreement with your neighbours, it is very, very odd." No, its only odd in your opinion. A number of people have posted here and said call the police, so i am not alone in my opinion. | |||
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"Is it really possible to be capable of meeting strangers via the internet, for sex but not be able to speak face-to-face to one's neighbours?
I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported. "Sometimes you have an impromptu late evening. Not a planned party just people chatting and getting on with each other and not noticing the time slip away. Those memorable evenings that leave a happy feeling. | |||
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"Is it really possible to be capable of meeting strangers via the internet, for sex but not be able to speak face-to-face to one's neighbours?
I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported. "Some people don't plan out their entire lives minute by minute.....you never had a friend pop round, bbq, couple of drinks, ooopsie it's gone 11 pm.....how did that happen? | |||
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"It's gone quiet now
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"Is it really possible to be capable of meeting strangers via the internet, for sex but not be able to speak face-to-face to one's neighbours?
I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported.
Some people don't plan out their entire lives minute by minute.....you never had a friend pop round, bbq, couple of drinks, ooopsie it's gone 11 pm.....how did that happen?"Just like to reiterate this is the second night running it's happened | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down if polish write this note:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór, bo jestem rtying spac i zachowac mA jawie dziekuje Hopefully it doesn't say please come and watch me undress for bed in the evenings through my curtains no not at all it says:- sorry to bother you but can you please keep the music a little bit quieter of an evening because i am trying to sleep and you keep ma awake thank you oops miss type correct wording:- Przepraszam, ze przeszkadzam, ale czy mozesz przechowywac muzyke nieco spokojniejsza od wieczór bo staram sie spac, a ty mnie nie zasnac dziekuje and if you like ill come help you undress and make sure they not watching "Where's Mr Who when you need him? | |||
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"Cannot believe people are suggesting calling the police. It's the next door neighbours, knock on the door! Or ask them from out of the window if that's easier. Give them the benefit of communication before calling the riot squad in, why not!? Why not call the police? Its an offence to make loud public noise after 11pm, so well within rights to call the police and report them for disturbing the peace. Because calling the police would, quite obviously, be your last resort, not the first thing you do if you have an issue over noise with your neighbour, no matter what the law might be. What an odd attitude you have. Its not obviously a last resort, that maybe true for yourself but you can't speak for others. For some people calling the police would be the 1st port of call. If the neighbours had been drinking then thay are unlikely to listen to reason from a neighbour, more likely to listen to a uniformed police officer at the front door. Could maybe make an exception if it was a weekend but on a weeknight when people have to get up for work the next day its really not on. No...it's definitely odd. You might not realise it, but if your first instinct is to call the police when you have any minor disagreement with your neighbours, it is very, very odd. No, its only odd in your opinion. A number of people have posted here and said call the police, so i am not alone in my opinion. " Indeed...you're all odd! | |||
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Result! Don't forget to go and chat to them tomorrow though if you can, you don't want it to happen again."The last neighbours where great no idea what language they spoke but they was quiet . | |||
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I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported.
Some people don't plan out their entire lives minute by minute.....you never had a friend pop round, bbq, couple of drinks, ooopsie it's gone 11 pm.....how did that happen?
Just like to reiterate this is the second night running it's happened "Yes but if you don't communicate with them, how do they know they are upsetting you? | |||
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Result! Don't forget to go and chat to them tomorrow though if you can, you don't want it to happen again.
The last neighbours where great no idea what language they spoke but they was quiet .
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I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported.
Some people don't plan out their entire lives minute by minute.....you never had a friend pop round, bbq, couple of drinks, ooopsie it's gone 11 pm.....how did that happen?
Just like to reiterate this is the second night running it's happened "Exactly, if you allow them to get away with it then they will keep on doing it. If it happens tomorrow for a 3rd night in a row, call the police and put a stop to it. | |||
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Result! Don't forget to go and chat to them tomorrow though if you can, you don't want it to happen again.
The last neighbours where great no idea what language they spoke but they was quiet .
Sure, but these are new people, so it's a new situation. And because they don't speak English to each other doesn't necessarily mean they can't speak English with you, so you may as well try to get a friendly relationship started.
Alternatively, you could take Centaur's advice, set up some sort of security camera to monitor their every move and hope to involve the authorities in all of your lives as soon as you can. Peace and love for all! "I'd like to see you quote me where i said put up a security camera???? lol  | |||
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I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported.
Some people don't plan out their entire lives minute by minute.....you never had a friend pop round, bbq, couple of drinks, ooopsie it's gone 11 pm.....how did that happen?
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I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported.
Some people don't plan out their entire lives minute by minute.....you never had a friend pop round, bbq, couple of drinks, ooopsie it's gone 11 pm.....how did that happen?
Just like to reiterate this is the second night running it's happened
Exactly, if you allow them to get away with it then they will keep on doing it. If it happens tomorrow for a 3rd night in a row, call the police and put a stop to it. "So you really think this is a police matter?? Jeez......if the op had gone round there and they become abusive or refuse to quieten down then yes, but seriously?? Straight in with the police?? Drama..... | |||
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Result! Don't forget to go and chat to them tomorrow though if you can, you don't want it to happen again.
The last neighbours where great no idea what language they spoke but they was quiet .
Sure, but these are new people, so it's a new situation. And because they don't speak English to each other doesn't necessarily mean they can't speak English with you, so you may as well try to get a friendly relationship started.
Alternatively, you could take Centaur's advice, set up some sort of security camera to monitor their every move and hope to involve the authorities in all of your lives as soon as you can. Peace and love for all!
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Result! Don't forget to go and chat to them tomorrow though if you can, you don't want it to happen again.
The last neighbours where great no idea what language they spoke but they was quiet .
Sure, but these are new people, so it's a new situation. And because they don't speak English to each other doesn't necessarily mean they can't speak English with you, so you may as well try to get a friendly relationship started.
Alternatively, you could take Centaur's advice, set up some sort of security camera to monitor their every move and hope to involve the authorities in all of your lives as soon as you can. Peace and love for all!
I'd like to see you quote me where i said put up a security camera???? lol
Just using a bit of poetic license there. No need to make a police matter of it. "Licence valid here, i understood. | |||
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I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported.
Some people don't plan out their entire lives minute by minute.....you never had a friend pop round, bbq, couple of drinks, ooopsie it's gone 11 pm.....how did that happen?
Just like to reiterate this is the second night running it's happened
Exactly, if you allow them to get away with it then they will keep on doing it. If it happens tomorrow for a 3rd night in a row, call the police and put a stop to it.
So you really think this is a police matter?? Jeez......if the op had gone round there and they become abusive or refuse to quieten down then yes, but seriously?? Straight in with the police?? Drama....."Yes as the OP said this is the 2nd night in a row, and disturbing the peace and causing noise nuisance after 11pm is against the law people are well within their rights to report this kind of thing to the authorities. When they are doing this 2 nights in a row its just proves how inconsiderate they are of other neighbours, and generally inconsiderate people like that don't take any notice when you have a quiet neighbourly word in their ear. | |||
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Result! Don't forget to go and chat to them tomorrow though if you can, you don't want it to happen again.
The last neighbours where great no idea what language they spoke but they was quiet .
Sure, but these are new people, so it's a new situation. And because they don't speak English to each other doesn't necessarily mean they can't speak English with you, so you may as well try to get a friendly relationship started.
Alternatively, you could take Centaur's advice, set up some sort of security camera to monitor their every move and hope to involve the authorities in all of your lives as soon as you can. Peace and love for all!
I'd like to see you quote me where i said put up a security camera???? lol
Just using a bit of poetic license there. No need to make a police matter of it. "Yep i just called them up and reported you for making stupid comments on the forums, lol. | |||
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"People just don't realise how much further sound travels in summer. I live in a detached house with a largish garden, my neighbours have similar homes. Problems occur when the weather gets warm an they have a barbecue at 7 in the evening inviting friends who bring large amounts of booze, the party goes on usually until 2am. Everybody has been drinking so conversations are loud enough to be heard 50 feet away, any sensibilities and restraint has long since disappeared. And foul language and music is heard all a cross the estate.the only people who can stop it is the police, banging on doors only gets 10 minutes quiet before it goes back to full volume. " Exactly the point i was trying to make, but you just can't reason with some people. | |||
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I always tell neighbours in advance of any late parties i have to avoid any ill feeling. If neighbours don't give any notice then quite frankly they deserve to be reported.
Some people don't plan out their entire lives minute by minute.....you never had a friend pop round, bbq, couple of drinks, ooopsie it's gone 11 pm.....how did that happen?
Just like to reiterate this is the second night running it's happened
Exactly, if you allow them to get away with it then they will keep on doing it. If it happens tomorrow for a 3rd night in a row, call the police and put a stop to it.
So you really think this is a police matter?? Jeez......if the op had gone round there and they become abusive or refuse to quieten down then yes, but seriously?? Straight in with the police?? Drama.....
Yes as the OP said this is the 2nd night in a row, and disturbing the peace and causing noise nuisance after 11pm is against the law people are well within their rights to report this kind of thing to the authorities.
When they are doing this 2 nights in a row its just proves how inconsiderate they are of other neighbours, and generally inconsiderate people like that don't take any notice when you have a quiet neighbourly word in their ear."You are making an assumption they won't take any notice ..... and they won't get a chance to following your advice. There go any chances of getting in with your neighbours. | |||
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"People just don't realise how much further sound travels in summer. I live in a detached house with a largish garden, my neighbours have similar homes. Problems occur when the weather gets warm an they have a barbecue at 7 in the evening inviting friends who bring large amounts of booze, the party goes on usually until 2am. Everybody has been drinking so conversations are loud enough to be heard 50 feet away, any sensibilities and restraint has long since disappeared. And foul language and music is heard all a cross the estate.the only people who can stop it is the police, banging on doors only gets 10 minutes quiet before it goes back to full volume. Exactly the point i was trying to make, but you just can't reason with some people. "But that is a point about trying to reason in the first place. A different scenario altogether. | |||
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"People just don't realise how much further sound travels in summer. I live in a detached house with a largish garden, my neighbours have similar homes. Problems occur when the weather gets warm an they have a barbecue at 7 in the evening inviting friends who bring large amounts of booze, the party goes on usually until 2am. Everybody has been drinking so conversations are loud enough to be heard 50 feet away, any sensibilities and restraint has long since disappeared. And foul language and music is heard all a cross the estate.the only people who can stop it is the police, banging on doors only gets 10 minutes quiet before it goes back to full volume. Exactly the point i was trying to make, but you just can't reason with some people. "Except the example you replied to above is one where in that situation it would be reasonable to consider calling the police...and completely different from the situation where you were advocating calling them. | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace?" You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either. | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace? You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either. " To misquote : What have the Roma ever done for you? | |||
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"People just don't realise how much further sound travels in summer. I live in a detached house with a largish garden, my neighbours have similar homes. Problems occur when the weather gets warm an they have a barbecue at 7 in the evening inviting friends who bring large amounts of booze, the party goes on usually until 2am. Everybody has been drinking so conversations are loud enough to be heard 50 feet away, any sensibilities and restraint has long since disappeared. And foul language and music is heard all a cross the estate.the only people who can stop it is the police, banging on doors only gets 10 minutes quiet before it goes back to full volume. Exactly the point i was trying to make, but you just can't reason with some people.
Except the example you replied to above is one where in that situation it would be reasonable to consider calling the police...and completely different from the situation where you were advocating calling them."Yes as the OP said this has happened now 2 nights in a row, a different situation that still calls for a phone call to the police. | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace? You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either. "
Think you'll find that staying up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise while not caring or having consideration for their neighbours is not the sole preserve of sections of the Roma community in the UK.
You may not have seen it reported in the news, but members of all sections of UK society have been known to exhibit those traits. | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace? You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either.
Think you'll find that staying up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise while not caring or having consideration for their neighbours is not the sole preserve of sections of the Roma community in the UK.
You may not have seen it reported in the news, but members of all sections of UK society have been known to exhibit those traits."Maybe but the Roma gypsy community more so than any other section of society here in the UK. | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace? You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either.
Think you'll find that staying up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise while not caring or having consideration for their neighbours is not the sole preserve of sections of the Roma community in the UK.
You may not have seen it reported in the news, but members of all sections of UK society have been known to exhibit those traits.
Maybe but the Roma gypsy community more so than any other section of society here in the UK. "And you know that how? | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace? You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either.
Think you'll find that staying up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise while not caring or having consideration for their neighbours is not the sole preserve of sections of the Roma community in the UK.
You may not have seen it reported in the news, but members of all sections of UK society have been known to exhibit those traits.
Maybe but the Roma gypsy community more so than any other section of society here in the UK.
And you know that how?"Its been reported in the news, in several different newspapers over the last year or so. I'm guessing these journalists don't get paid for writing fantasy stories??? | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace? You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either.
Think you'll find that staying up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise while not caring or having consideration for their neighbours is not the sole preserve of sections of the Roma community in the UK.
You may not have seen it reported in the news, but members of all sections of UK society have been known to exhibit those traits.
Maybe but the Roma gypsy community more so than any other section of society here in the UK.
And you know that how?
Its been reported in the news, in several different newspapers over the last year or so. I'm guessing these journalists don't get paid for writing fantasy stories???"1) So you have read a newspaper article that presented evidence that members of the Roma community stay up more, drink more in the street and make more noise than anyone else in the UK?
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"why did your man have no backbone ...could he walk in a council office and report things that you couldnt ?" He didn't want to go knock on the neighbours door at 2am encase he hit him. His reasoning was that thr bloke wouldn't hit a 8 month pregnant lady with glasses lol. I had to always deal with stuff like that as he always had a reason why he shouldn't do it. After years of me doing all the stuff I eventually realised he was spineless and there would always be an excuse. | |||
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"I think they are polish if I were closer to fairy land id come round and ask them for you
It's either Russian or Polish
Pretty certain it's polish
All of the Polish I have come across, some my neighbours, would apologise and move inside if I spoke to them. Jeez, my Polish neighbour even changed his smoking location when I said it was drifting into my living room!
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"I think they are polish if I were closer to fairy land id come round and ask them for you
It's either Russian or Polish
Pretty certain it's polish
All of the Polish I have come across, some my neighbours, would apologise and move inside if I spoke to them. Jeez, my Polish neighbour even changed his smoking location when I said it was drifting into my living room!
I live in a poor inner city area - communication works.
Polish people do seem quite friendly."They are quite friendly. I have met some lovely people through my job. My neighbour is half polish and we have polish opposite us they can be quite noisy sometimes but not all the time thank god | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace? You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either.
Think you'll find that staying up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise while not caring or having consideration for their neighbours is not the sole preserve of sections of the Roma community in the UK.
You may not have seen it reported in the news, but members of all sections of UK society have been known to exhibit those traits.
Maybe but the Roma gypsy community more so than any other section of society here in the UK. "Visiting towns and cities across the UK young white British do a fairly good job and manage to fill A&E and keep the police busy too. | |||
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"All the stuff I hear about it not being like the old days and no sense of community etc. can all be solved by talking to each other. There will be the odd person/family that don't respond but most people are better face to face than sending hostile notes or the police. Just think how you would like to be treated if you had been naïvely breaching the peace? You are making the assumption that they were doing this naively? For all you know they could be well aware they are not meant to be making loud noise after 11pm but just don't give a stuff about neighbours. Its been reported in the news that certain sections of the Roma community like to stay up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise. They are aware that this is an offence here in the uk but they just don't care or have any consideration for their neighbours or respect for the law either.
Think you'll find that staying up late, drinking in the street and making a lot of noise while not caring or having consideration for their neighbours is not the sole preserve of sections of the Roma community in the UK.
You may not have seen it reported in the news, but members of all sections of UK society have been known to exhibit those traits.
Maybe but the Roma gypsy community more so than any other section of society here in the UK.
Visiting towns and cities across the UK young white British do a fairly good job and manage to fill A&E and keep the police busy too."According to some all the issues we have are down to immigrants and not our own citizens.. Clearly they have their head up their arses on that one... | |||
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"Sme people have really got the arse on this thread and I think you need to look at how you comment as quite a lot of it has been pretty rude and could come across as bullying . It's great to have a discussion . Even a heated one . But to presume things about others and make snide comments is not ok . " Really? There has been a discussion countering points made by others from both the pro and against police contingent. Conversation is good - it's how we get to know and learn about each other. Agreeing with everything presented tells us only one thing. Maybe two, on here, if the OP is female and the support is largely male. If you can't face seeing your neighbours then put a note through the door at least. At this stage you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. | |||
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"Ppl like that never do a good shut the fuck up would b better lol People like what? They may be on holiday and just enjoying the balmy evening/night. People like unconsiderate numpties who have no thought for anyone else but themselves i think he meant? I find that people enjoying themselves don't notice the time or realise they are being inconsiderate. A little bit of conversation has to be better for everyone than calling the police." | |||
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"Goodness me! There are some right gems in this thread I agree with all those who say communication is best" It should be the only option you need to take, but what happens if your polite request gets ignored? Heard the "host" say to his guests on more than one occasion as the door was being closed "its that c**t from next door complaining about the noise "F**k him, its my house and I'll do what I want in it, he doesn't own the street". so when the police do get called you are the one whose they know has complained and come in for all the aggro. One ex neighbour actually took his own kids to their grandparents because he knew they wouldn't be able to sleep with the noise his party would make, so he knew how much it would disrupt other children's sleep with his racket but as his own kids were well away from it he didn't care about anyone else's | |||
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"Oooooh I am going t write a note tomorrow and put in thru their door asking them to keep it down Just go and talk to them. They probably haven't a clue they are bothering you. Smile, be friendly, just ask them to keep it down late at night because they kept you awake."
I agree. You dont have to worry they dont understand you. Its stereotype, most not British ppl dont speak in English.
Your smile can much more help than letters or direct call to police ( its also regulation at the moment, police can ask you for call to your emergency council line, and council after taken your report will send you via post a form to fill in).
Few years ago I had a similar situation.. after 3 times I called to police.. 2am with 8months child who was awake.. Now I have enemy behind the fence | |||
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"They are all asleep may need to go cut my grass "
Best advice is to have a chat with them first, maybe they'll invite you to the festivities in future!... | |||
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"OMG my neighbours been in two days and both nights been out in the garden until late listening to their music talking very loudly in whatever language it is I have just slammed my bedroom window but they haven't taken the hint FFS!!! You can record the problem and get in touch with police and environmental health. What they are doing is breaking the law. Always have proof to back it up. Good luck " I tried that with no luck what so ever | |||
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"I don't take no notice if it is a one off here and there. If something is persistent, environmental health are apparently good. I get screaming mothers where I live, who don't know how to chastise their kids properly. To them screaming swear names at them seems to be the way, very charming. Her" I hate hearing that it's awful | |||
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"OMG my neighbours been in two days and both nights been out in the garden until late listening to their music talking very loudly in whatever language it is I have just slammed my bedroom window but they haven't taken the hint FFS!!! " I feel your pain. My neighbors are the same. You may be glad you don't understand them. Mine are English and in this weather the kids can't have their window open because all you hear is fuck fuck fucking fuck and the like. This goes on till about three am sometimes. And of course their delightfully shite music. | |||
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"OMG my neighbours been in two days and both nights been out in the garden until late listening to their music talking very loudly in whatever language it is I have just slammed my bedroom window but they haven't taken the hint FFS!!! After midnight they have to turn it off the council will provide you with a noise journal and the police will tell them to turn off the music as for the chatter that is harder have the same here but I can normally sleep through although I got her in my house and told her I can hear word for word what you are saying and I don't want to bear this in mind she went blood red realising we heard all her personal stuff in rows the road is quiet she is not alas I feel your pain. My neighbors are the same. You may be glad you don't understand them. Mine are English and in this weather the kids can't have their window open because all you hear is fuck fuck fucking fuck and the like. This goes on till about three am sometimes. And of course their delightfully shite music. " | |||
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"Nuke the site from orbit......only way to be sure. "Yay! I said that on a thread the other day, too
It's probably best going and having a chat with them about the hours they keep. Getting on with neighbours is more useful than rowing with them.  | |||
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"They are all asleep may need to go cut my grass "Put the lawn mower on then do the hoovering and then put some music on full blast, see how they like a dose of their own medicine, and as its now the middle of the day you are within your right to make as much noise as you like. | |||
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"They are all asleep may need to go cut my grass
Put the lawn mower on then do the hoovering and then put some music on full blast, see how they like a dose of their own medicine, and as its now the middle of the day you are within your right to make as much noise as you like. "Then that will make her no better than them...tit for tat only leads to further issues | |||
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"They are all asleep may need to go cut my grass
Put the lawn mower on then do the hoovering and then put some music on full blast, see how they like a dose of their own medicine, and as its now the middle of the day you are within your right to make as much noise as you like.
Then that will make her no better than them...tit for tat only leads to further issues "Well if they sleep all day more than likely they will be up all night again? | |||
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"Goodness me! There are some right gems in this thread I agree with all those who say communication is best It should be the only option you need to take, but what happens if your polite request gets ignored? Heard the "host" say to his guests on more than one occasion as the door was being closed "its that c**t from next door complaining about the noise "F**k him, its my house and I'll do what I want in it, he doesn't own the street". so when the police do get called you are the one whose they know has complained and come in for all the aggro. One ex neighbour actually took his own kids to their grandparents because he knew they wouldn't be able to sleep with the noise his party would make, so he knew how much it would disrupt other children's sleep with his racket but as his own kids were well away from it he didn't care about anyone else's" One thing at a time,they may well say ok we didn't realise we were being so noisy and from then on in all is well Doesn't have to descend into anarchy all the time | |||
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"They are all asleep may need to go cut my grass
Put the lawn mower on then do the hoovering and then put some music on full blast, see how they like a dose of their own medicine, and as its now the middle of the day you are within your right to make as much noise as you like.
Then that will make her no better than them...tit for tat only leads to further issues
Well if they sleep all day more than likely they will be up all night again?"Not necessarily...there is a helpful website about dealing with nuisance neighbours and point 1 is communication it's already been suggested writing a letter stating facts regarding their noise.....tit for tat is not the answer...I deal with the aftermath of neighbour disputes on a daily basis and see how it can escalate into mayhem...it's usually solved in mediation where they are able to communicate with each other | |||
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"It's the summer I'm sorry we are in our garden having a good time... Chill the fuk out So it's ok to be an inconsiderate ass then just because summer??? Erm don't think so!!!" Yes | |||
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"It's the summer I'm sorry we are in our garden having a good time... Chill the fuk out" I suppose it depends on how late it is, and how noisy you are. Especially now when its hot and people have their windows open at bedtime. Also if your neighbours get up early for work or have children. All these things matter. | |||
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"I asked them to quieten the music as my daughter couldn't sleep and they did immedietly . It was a case of sign language as they didn't understand me . However they talk so loudly in the garden and I think they smoking out there . The land lord told me it was a family well it is a big family if it is as there is at least two couples and two kids living there away for a week from tomorrow will have to have a think .
"If they responded to turning the music down immediately then be specific with them about how loud they are being when they speak. They gave you a good and immediate response on the music front. | |||
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"I asked them to quieten the music as my daughter couldn't sleep and they did immedietly . It was a case of sign language as they didn't understand me . However they talk so loudly in the garden and I think they smoking out there . The land lord told me it was a family well it is a big family if it is as there is at least two couples and two kids living there away for a week from tomorrow will have to have a think .
If they responded to turning the music down immediately then be specific with them about how loud they are being when they speak. They gave you a good and immediate response on the music front.
"They can't understand me they are not English I had to make signs etc for the music . May have to see with the landlord if they are polish and see if I can get a polish friend round one evening and ask them to speak to them for me | |||
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"Why didn't you just ask in the first place? People aren't mind readers, you know. That said, the last time (when I was with my ex), I went round to ask a neighbour to turn the music down, I ended up staying on and getting rather d*unk.....oops. " I wasn't going down in the dark then I wasn't here this is the first chance I have had and first night my kids are here | |||
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"Why didn't you just ask in the first place? People aren't mind readers, you know. That said, the last time (when I was with my ex), I went round to ask a neighbour to turn the music down, I ended up staying on and getting rather d*unk.....oops. " I bet your ex was fuming. | |||
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"Why didn't you just ask in the first place? People aren't mind readers, you know. That said, the last time (when I was with my ex), I went round to ask a neighbour to turn the music down, I ended up staying on and getting rather d*unk.....oops. I bet your ex was fuming. "To be fair, they did turn the music down.....and then filled me full of whiskey. There was a distinct lack of sympathy in the morning, as I recall. | |||
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"Why didn't you just ask in the first place? People aren't mind readers, you know. That said, the last time (when I was with my ex), I went round to ask a neighbour to turn the music down, I ended up staying on and getting rather d*unk.....oops. I bet your ex was fuming.
To be fair, they did turn the music down.....and then filled me full of whiskey.
There was a distinct lack of sympathy in the morning, as I recall. "Those cruel people, holding you hostage and making you drink. We ended up with the neighbours coming over and joining us one evening when we ran out of vodka for the cocktails. We just asked over the fence if they had any and they came over and joined in. | |||
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"Ring up language line or the big word, they'll translate for you. "Or try sign language for speaking. Or give them a note they can read and translate. | |||
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