FabSwingers.com forum: are you an attention seeker

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I know we all are to agree putting threads up ect but would you admit to being an attention seeker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Runs in waving knickers above my head and with a feather up my arse shouting "No not me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on my mood but i deffo can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I hate being centre of attention or even standing out in a crowd

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes. More of an exhibitionist but I don't mind if no one looks or responds.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Runs in waving knickers above my head and with a feather up my arse shouting "No not me"

I really like those knickers. Does the feather match?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't we seek attention when we put threads up...whether good or bad attention??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Runs in waving knickers above my head and with a feather up my arse shouting "No not me"

I really like those knickers. Does the feather match?

But of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't we seek attention when we put threads up...whether good or bad attention?? "

I don't. I put up a thread because I think it might cheer people up or create interesting debate. Or sometimes just because it popped into my head

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I guess having the look I've got, I stand out. When I'm at a TG event everyone seems to know me. However, I'm not that fussed about the attention per se, I see it more as a chance to have an audience for me to mess about in front of.

That probably sounds pretty shallow.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Don't we seek attention when we put threads up...whether good or bad attention?? "
yes miss cheeky I said that in my post. I so wish you would pay attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, yes a bit. In real life, hardly at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or sometimes just because it popped into my head"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't do anything to blend in and I like to dress in a certain way so although I don't seek attention as such I don't go out of my way to avoid it and I actively enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh god please stopping looking at my pic's

I'm shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't seek approval....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hhhmmmm, i actually spend more time dodging attention than seeking it but at times i do play up to the stereotype that many british people have about loud and proud Americans.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I don't seek approval....

That's the answer to a different question isn't it?

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I will happily admit to being an extrovert and an exhibitionist. Not sure if that qualifies me as an attention seeker or not?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Runs in waving knickers above my head and with a feather up my arse shouting "No not me"

That arse has been giving me filthy thoughts all week. And those pics don't help either.

But, i'm not complaining..am i?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No I`d rather be in the background

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I think everyone seeks a certain amount of attention, but some seem to thrive on it and others crave it.

*disclaimer, ma green goatee is a long overdue midlife crisis thingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would say I am, if I am realy horny I get even more seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am indeed. But out of the 1000's of single males around here, I need to stand out somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.....pay me some attention dammit!

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Yes I would say I am, if I am realy horny I get even more seeking

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you surprise me your the most fun assuming guy on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i comment again just to let people know I'm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I would say I am, if I am realy horny I get even more seeking

.you surprise me your the most fun assuming guy on here

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Thanks and yes, its fun to be funnie and things

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Don't we seek attention when we put threads up...whether good or bad attention?? yes miss cheeky I said that in my post. I so wish you would pay attention

Lol yes mum....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I would say I am, if I am realy horny I get even more seeking

you should advertise you have a 6 pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes i comment again just to let people know I'm here

and to show off your lovely bum

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My posts tend to be cheerful ones and try and be positive I hate negativity in my life I have enough of that at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I would say I am, if I am realy horny I get even more seeking

you should advertise you have a 6 pack

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And yes I should lol.. I got a 6pack

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"My posts tend to be cheerful ones and try and be positive I hate negativity in my life I have enough of that at work

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you are very cheery some people are just negative through and through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't seek approval....

That's the answer to a different question isn't it?

Perhaps so......

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I hope im not an attention seeker

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By *anglefootedMan
over a year ago

northampton

Attention seeking!? Me???? Noooooo! Lol

(Look at me! Look at me! Look at me!)

"Don't look at me! I'm shy!!!!!!"

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I hope im not an attention seeker"
do you think its a negative thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pink hair so I would say I am a big attention seeker. No wallflower here

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Attention seeking!? Me???? Noooooo! Lol

(Look at me! Look at me! Look at me!)

"Don't look at me! I'm shy!!!!!!"

Posting don't look at me is the funniest thing.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I do think you get those that thrive on seeking attention some do it in a negative manner

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By *anglefootedMan
over a year ago

northampton

"Attention seeking!? Me???? Noooooo! Lol

(Look at me! Look at me! Look at me!)

"Don't look at me! I'm shy!!!!!!"

Posting don't look at me is the funniest thing.

It's my quirky sense of humour....at least I make myself laugh!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't we seek attention when we put threads up...whether good or bad attention??

I don't. I put up a thread because I think it might cheer people up or create interesting debate. Or sometimes just because it popped into my head"
ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do post for the attention with stupid funny or feel sorry for me threads,

But lets face it we all like some kind of attention and are on here for that reason some just like it more then others

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all are. I think it goes with the territory in swinging...isn't that part of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every now and then though I get my tits out,just for the hell of it. I wouldn't in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people do post for the attention with stupid funny or feel sorry for me threads,

But lets face it we all like some kind of attention and are on here for that reason some just like it more then others

Just my opinion

If no one posted at all then it would be a very boring forum,so im glad they do

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Some people do post for the attention with stupid funny or feel sorry for me threads,

But lets face it we all like some kind of attention and are on here for that reason some just like it more then others

Just my opinion

If no one posted at all then it would be a very boring forum,so im glad they do

The whole site would be a bit dull if we all hid our profiles to avoid seeking attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am, I like attention paid to me. Not ashamed to admit that. I will give attention back though too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people do post for the attention with stupid funny or feel sorry for me threads,

But lets face it we all like some kind of attention and are on here for that reason some just like it more then others

Just my opinion

If no one posted at all then it would be a very boring forum,so im glad they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably less than a lot though we all do it which there is nothing wrong with. its the ones who sulk when they don't get it who have a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a total and utter attention seeker! i like to go on skype because i love the thought of people enjoying me perform for them.(actually performing does nothing for me i just love knowing people are getting off on watchong me)

so yep im well and truly an attentuon seeker! feel free to shower me with your attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me Me Me

Nope - I'm definitely not an attention seeker

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I wish some people would be slightly more aware of how they come across when constantly seeking attention and approval.

I don't like the overt seeking of attention, though I revel in it when I get it I admit, out dancing for instance, I think that's pretty balanced. To my mind it's worth so much more when you don't court it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes, I seek attention from time to time, and usually think before I wade in. Otherwise fairly low key and happy to be one of the many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish some people would be slightly more aware of how they come across when constantly seeking attention and approval.

Seeking attention isn't always bad but constant seeking of approval drains you if someone is doing it to me and is a sure fire way of making me disinterested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never started a thread on here so I guess my answer to the original question is no !!!

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

I'm not especially an attention seeker. But when it's on me I am going to enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No."

Your man there is though.

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

I'm not one to thrive or buckle when it comes to attention if that makes any sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will do absolutely anything to get it be it good or bad I guess its important to them which is rather sad.

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