FabSwingers.com forum: Ahhhh rant

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry couldn't think of another social media platform to put this on! Just been out with a fuck buddie who was not up for it tonight so I tried to pull And she got jealous and kicked off! She knows she is a fuck buddie and nothing more so why try and wreck reck things for me! Sorry but this is not for face book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its likely she sees you as more than an FB methinks mate..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't you let her watch you? Watching is fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She knows me ants what I'm lie and knows where she stands! Really fucked things up for me tonight was chatting to a real hot women and she came between us last time I go out with her on a night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't you let her watch you? Watching is fun.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Didn't you let her watch you? Watching is fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow epic typos in my message! Stupid auto correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry couldn't think of another social media platform to put this on! Just been out with a fuck buddie who was not up for it tonight so I tried to pull And she got jealous and kicked off! She knows she is a fuck buddie and nothing more so why try and wreck reck things for me! Sorry but this is not for face book "

Were there just the 2 of you? If so is it not just a bit disrespectful?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

She possibly thought that tonight was one of the buddy nights not one of the fuck nights. And if it was just the two of you in a bar then it possibly wasn't the best time or place to leave her on her own whilst you socialised with someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not really she knew what tonight was about and in the end was not up for it so what's wrong with letting me go out and pull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really she knew what tonight was about and in the end was not up for it so what's wrong with letting me go out and pull? "

Could you sound anymore selfish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really she knew what tonight was about and in the end was not up for it so what's wrong with letting me go out and pull? "

What do you mean 'she knew what tonight was about'? That you intended to have sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fuck buddies you just dont take out lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Not really she knew what tonight was about and in the end was not up for it so what's wrong with letting me go out and pull? "

Because going to a bar with a friend who then abandons you to go off and socialise with others (whether it's to pull or not) is not fun for a woman.

Perhaps she kicked off because of that and not out of jealousy.

Fuck buddies are buddies too you know. And this evening you made it clear that the only thing you are interested in is the fucking, if she isn't up for fucking you then she's of no use or interest to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were there just the 2 of you? If so is it not just a bit disrespectful? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She obviously wasn't feeling it for a reason. Why did you not focus on her to make her feel better rather than trying to look for an easy lay elsewhere?

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so tonight was all about you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She obviously wasn't feeling it for a reason. Why did you not focus on her to make her feel better rather than trying to look for an easy lay elsewhere?

crystal"
well said

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because she can! Women do these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

laughable how you can apologise that this isnt for facebook but call your buddy for not being up for sex -

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you will just have to be crystal clear with her where she stands....

she will need to be crystal clear where you stand in the FB dynamic.

like 2 adults and then take it from there.

communication usually gets to the core of the problem..

communication with her, not us

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Sounds to me that she probably sees you as a FWB; whereas, you see it a FB. FBs you don't take out, but meet up occasionally for sex and that's it. Even so, anyone has the right to change their mind and was disrespectful to go and flirt with another woman when you realised that 'she wasn't up for it'. I bet you didn't even ask her first if it was ok?

If you wanted to pull, the decent thing to do was to end the night with your FB by taking her home and then go on the 'pull'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really she knew what tonight was about and in the end was not up for it so what's wrong with letting me go out and pull? "

If you went out together then left her on her own to go and 'pull' I'd say that was inconsiderate and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know about Faecesbook because i dont use it but i think it may have been a bad move putting it on here.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all going off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say if you had gone out with the lady then you need to make sure she gets home ok (that's what friends do for each other). If the shoe was on the other foot how would you have felt if she had done the same to you?

Yeah as you say friends with benefits and she understands this but you should treat you friends with more respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a piss poor way to treat a friend.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe you shouldn't of taken her out. If there was just the two of you its not fair to leave her on her own.

Make it clear where she stands and leave her at home next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selfish man to be honest, I hope she finds better.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really she knew what tonight was about and in the end was not up for it so what's wrong with letting me go out and pull?

Because going to a bar with a friend who then abandons you to go off and socialise with others (whether it's to pull or not) is not fun for a woman.

Perhaps she kicked off because of that and not out of jealousy.

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yikes... gonna have to side with the buddy here. Jerk move dude.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

OP, you posted this obviously looking for comment and reaction. You've already got some, and here's a bit more.

I see you're only 26; once you grow up, hopefully you'll come to understand that irrespective of titles and sexual equality, real men treat women with respect and not just as fuck toys.

I hope the lady concerned has learned from the experience, and goes looking for at least an FWB, rather than just an FB.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Not really she knew what tonight was about and in the end was not up for it so what's wrong with letting me go out and pull?

Because going to a bar with a friend who then abandons you to go off and socialise with others (whether it's to pull or not) is not fun for a woman.

Perhaps she kicked off because of that and not out of jealousy.

This. "

Yep. Just because you're fucking someone doesn't mean you can use and abuse them. Common respect to another human being comes into it too. You sound like a real catch.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

How would you feel if she'd seen someone she fancied more than you and 'went on the pull'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you posted this obviously looking for comment and reaction. You've already got some, and here's a bit more.

I see you're only 26; once you grow up, hopefully you'll come to understand that irrespective of titles and sexual equality, real men treat women with respect and not just as fuck toys.

I hope the lady concerned has learned from the experience, and goes looking for at least an FWB, rather than just an FB."

I think the key word here is Friend, if i left Nette sitting at a table on her own while i went off chatting someone up i think she may attract my attention with a chair leg round me ear..and deservedly so.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if she'd seen someone she fancied more than you and 'went on the pull'?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, what a nice thing to do to someone!! My FB would never do that if we were out. I see other people now and then as he does but we don't blatantly do it in front of each other. How disrespectful.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

But why go out with her if she just a FB.. Mixing signals

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it was 2 mates on a night out, one wanted to pull, the other didn't....

don't overly see the drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But why go out with her if she just a FB.. Mixing signals"

Hes obviously a Romantic at heart lol

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But why go out with her if she just a FB.. Mixing signals"

Why not? I go out socially with my FB. We know exactly where we stand with each other and the evening always ends in fun, we wouldn't meet if it didn't. I don't want to date him but enjoy his company socially and obviously sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you treat her like a piece of meat that only serves one purpose to you and wonder why she's upset?!

Maybe if you'd made her the centre of attention, rather than the urge to empty your balls, she'd have stayed calm and maybe, just maybe changed her mind.

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