FabSwingers.com forum: Ex being a cock

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you ever look at ur ex's and think 'what the fuck was I thinking' ??

Mine was a monster and still is 7 years later, we share 3 beautiful kids and now a grand child, I'm in a new r/ship and engaged, he has had various gf's and still tries to control me and the kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh god yes - what was i thinking of back then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed I do just that

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

wonder what site he is posting my ex is being a fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I spent time with her. It was not a mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and I'm sure they think the same about us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wonder what site he is posting my ex is being a fanny

you always beat me to it

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"wonder what site he is posting my ex is being a fanny

you always beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes its why ive remained single for so long

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Do you ever look at ur ex's and think 'what the fuck was I thinking' ??

Nah, he seemed perfect - just turned out not to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she stays under that patio i dont give a toss what she thinks

Gimp

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I wondered if I wrote that and forgot then!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You often find people were not thinking.

At the start hindsight is a beautiful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I'm sure they think the same about us

no - he has admitted he was a twat - not to me mind you as he cant even look me in the eye

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You could always tell him to fcuk off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could always tell him to fcuk off

oooo and waste the energy it takes to get out two words nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how this feel 12 year down the line and he still continue to be a t**t !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I'm sure they think the same about us

no - he has admitted he was a twat - not to me mind you as he cant even look me in the eye "

To be honest i would have a problem looking in your Eyes too

Gimp

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Don't think I've clapped eyes on my ex for at least six years, had the odd phone conversation but the last one of those was about 18 months ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I'm sure they think the same about us

no - he has admitted he was a twat - not to me mind you as he cant even look me in the eye

To be honest i would have a problem looking in your Eyes too

Gimp"

?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I'm sure they think the same about us

no - he has admitted he was a twat - not to me mind you as he cant even look me in the eye

To be honest i would have a problem looking in your Eyes too

Gimp

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The Cleavage young Lady

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm just sad it wasn't for happily ever after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual head fuck, trying to drag me down, he was so far up his own arse I'm surprised he didn't choke lol

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what I was thinking and learned that lesson the hard way. I learn all my lessons the hard way come to think of it. ~Sea

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

No I don't. I chose him. He wasn't forced upon me and at one point he was the person I loved with all my heart.

all my own choices....

so if I thought he was a cock then it doesn't say much for MY choices....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was ans is complete nasty piece of work. But dont regret meeting him as he gave me the most presious and beautiful thing ever, my daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 1 ex that I'm a bit like that about, I wouldn;t stop to talk to her in the street because i have no interest in her life. But even then there is no real bitterness or acrimony - I certainly wouldn't wish misfortune on her. We all make choices and we have to live with the consequences of them. I'm on good terms with most of my ex's. I don't really want to live a life angry at the people I have shared it with.

That said i've never had kids, a mortgage or got married which I guess makes break ups a lot easier!

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I have a couple I'd happily never see again, one unfortunately pops up every so often as I live in a rural area, the other is 12000 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I'm sure they think the same about us

no - he has admitted he was a twat - not to me mind you as he cant even look me in the eye

To be honest i would have a problem looking in your Eyes too

Gimp

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oooooooo its not that amazing but thanks

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My last 2 have robbed me for every single penny they could get their greedy little hands on (nearly 100k)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people make more a drama out of an ex(whos an ex for a bad reason), cut ties, ignore..of course..act civil where its needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some people make more a drama out of an ex(whos an ex for a bad reason), cut ties, ignore..of course..act civil where its needed."

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The only ex's I don't like are the ones that used me as a punch bag but I don't think Ill of them...life is too short to give a shit about those that didn't give a shit about you.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I think some people make more a drama out of an ex(whos an ex for a bad reason), cut ties, ignore..of course..act civil where its needed."
Not always possible, when they have kids together or he's a psycho .Ahhh for a perfect world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I have a meet I wonder why the f**k it took me so long to realise I was in the wrong place. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some people make more a drama out of an ex(whos an ex for a bad reason), cut ties, ignore..of course..act civil where its needed.Not always possible, when they have kids together or he's a psycho .Ahhh for a perfect world."

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I don't know, difficult one.

I loved them at some point but in both cases, I do wonder why I stayed for so long after they changed - One managed to get a hold of me and slowly chipped away at my confidence before becoming abusive, the other one just sort of closed himself off to the world after 3 years.

The 2nd one never forgave me for breaking up with him so there's no contact there but the first one got nastier after I got rid of him. Cut all contact when he continued trying to control me and put me down but that was easy as we had no financial/legal/family ties.

I prefer to look at them as learning curves if I'm honest.

- Amy. x

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