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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln

Feeling very sad my cat of 14 years has just died

Never had to deal with a pet death before and it's the worst feeling ever.

I have no idea what to do with her.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Losing a pet is sometimes harder than losing a distant relative.

She had a good innings.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Sorry to hear of your cats death it's always sad to loose a pet.

You could look on the Internet for pet crematoriums and get her cremated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awe I'm so sorry. 14yrs is a good age! Console yourself to the fact that she must have been a very contented kitty. X

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Feeling very sad my cat of 14 years has just died

Never had to deal with a pet death before and it's the worst feeling ever.

I have no idea what to do with her. "

Aw, yes it is very sad, I love my animals desperately. If you have a long term home somewhere bury her and plant a little tree over. If not take her to the vets to be cremated. Big hugs anyway.

(((( ))))

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By *chillesHeelCouple
over a year ago

Somerset

I'm sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself and don't feel daft about being upset. X

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Ah sorry to hear that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hug I know just how you feel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww sending hugs. My old man cat died in feb and i still miss him everyday. I hope u are ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart goes out to you and I'm very sorry for your loss.

If you contact your local vet they can make arrangements for her to be cremated then you can collect her and put her to rest in your garden.

A lot of my friends have planted a special tree or bush in their gardens as a remembrance.

Take care x

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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln

Thanks everyone

My son has just said bye to her and we are going to bury her in the garden later.

Going to see if I can find a nice box and a tree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs for you. Sorry for your loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone

My son has just said bye to her and we are going to bury her in the garden later.

Going to see if I can find a nice box and a tree "

That's a lovely idea. We have one cat and two rabbits buried In the back garden and a memorial Rose bush in the front for our border collie. Very sad but always lovely memories xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs man. Pets are the best friends people can have and loss felt is huge and real. Tough to feel thankful for all the smiles they gave when grieving but that will come. Sorry for your loss and total understanding of how you feel xx ~Sea

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

losing a pet is horrible, they become part of our lives so when they do go its natural to feel upset..

that feeling will pass and you will still miss the little guy but the happier memories will linger..

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

So sorry to hear that... Big hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was going to suggest bury or put ashes under a tree. That way always have a reminder....seems you got there before me.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Sorry to hear your sad news. Pets become a part of the family and the gap they leave is immeasurable x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

That is so sad. My cats are my babies I can't imagine what I will be like when one dies

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Aww it's so sad when you lose a pet. We had our 17 year old cat put to sleep 2 days before Xmas. We buried her at the bottom of my in laws garden. We recently got a new kitten which has really cheered the kids up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear your news. It's hard losing a furry friend.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you get another would you consider a rescue cat? Three of mine are rescue

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Aww, I'm so sorry.

We lost our Yorkie a few months ago after 14 years.

We burried her in her favourite spot in the garden and have planted a rose bush over her.

It's a horrible thing to think about but just remember to take precautions to stop anything possibly digging them up again (foxes, ect).

- Amy. x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Feeling very sad my cat of 14 years has just died

Never had to deal with a pet death before and it's the worst feeling ever.

I have no idea what to do with her. "

That's awful. A proper burial and headstone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling very sad my cat of 14 years has just died

Never had to deal with a pet death before and it's the worst feeling ever.

I have no idea what to do with her. "

Aww sorry to hear losing a pet can be very sad as I feel you're losing almost a soul mate

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

When one of my cats died we buried him in the garden. The children each put one of his toys in box so he had something. to play with when he reached the land of open fields. We also got some sparklers and lit them and said a few words. I was heartbroken but the children coped better than me. Sorry to hear of your loss.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Thanks everyone

My son has just said bye to her and we are going to bury her in the garden later.

Going to see if I can find a nice box and a tree "

sorry to hear that my cat is 15!! can help if you get another straight away cant replace them but does help

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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln

Wow so many nice comments

I still have two other cats to keep me company so won't be getting another one.

The hardest part was when my son stroked her and said goodbye but he is looking forward to choosing a nice box. I'm loving the idea of putting bayou in, he will like that .

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By *eard-lincoln OP   Man
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Wow so many nice comments

I still have two other cats to keep me company so won't be getting another one.

The hardest part was when my son stroked her and said goodbye but he is looking forward to choosing a nice box. I'm loving the idea of putting bayou in, he will like that .

"

Should have said putting a toy in ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your little mate, it's always so sad when they go. We always rescue the older cats to give them a happy last few years of their lives. When they go, the vet has them cremated and we spread the ashes across our garden - the place they found comfort, safety and happiness.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Remember the good times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hug

Have you thought of a memorial plaque to put as a reminder. Xxx

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Feeling very sad my cat of 14 years has just died

Never had to deal with a pet death before and it's the worst feeling ever.

I have no idea what to do with her. "

hugs, so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear of your loss xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My cats are 13 now and I dread the day I lose them.

My condolences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad news. I buried my old dog in woods beside my house. Put a big stone on top to deter foxes from digging or make sure you dig a deep hole.

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