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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the weird ones

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite yet but sure we'll get there at some point.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

Nope people can hide

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

I've not been on here long enough yet. But it would be nice to get to that point.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Nope people can hide "

People can hide in real life too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the people I've met

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person "
I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their persona on here may be different in RL

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

"

I think many 'think' they know.

But can you actually know someone you haven't met? Surely all you've created is a picture in your head based on forum posts, profiles and pictures? And perhaps the opinions of others and third hand chit chat/gossip/graffiti on toilet doors.

A

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only the weird ones

Gimp"

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

You can never judge a person in font, people are totally different in real life

Anyone can write stuff, because you are just looking at a screen, when it comes to looking into someone eyes, it's a different kettle of fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shock horror, I'm not quite as big an arsehole in real life as I am on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

"

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down "
or I just spend too much time on here

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

[Removed by poster at 20/07/14 11:11:19]

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down "

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down or I just spend too much time on here "

Or you're stalking certain people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009 "

I can barely remember my own name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

I think many 'think' they know.

But can you actually know someone you haven't met? Surely all you've created is a picture in your head based on forum posts, profiles and pictures? And perhaps the opinions of others and third hand chit chat/gossip/graffiti on toilet doors.

A"

this, although I don't read the graffiti on toilet doors!

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down or I just spend too much time on here

Or you're stalking certain people "
I could be lol. It could just be I've got a good memory.

But I know the decor of some peoples houses, what they like for tea, what they drink, what pets they have, favourite films and music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a poor memory,

They only have to change their profile picture and I forget who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

I think many 'think' they know.

But can you actually know someone you haven't met? Surely all you've created is a picture in your head based on forum posts, profiles and pictures? And perhaps the opinions of others and third hand chit chat/gossip/graffiti on toilet doors.

A

this, although I don't read the graffiti on toilet doors! "

Hey my Graffiti is always true

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

"

to a certain degree yes as some people are very open on here so you have an insight into their lives.

but it's also easier to be 'someone else' in the virtual world as you have the control over what information is delivered for others to read.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm too self centred to register most people, although there are a few forum posters who insist on providing us with blow by blow details of every drama in their lives. But my memory is so bad these days I just about remember usernames when I meet people in real life. Its a concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down or I just spend too much time on here

Or you're stalking certain people I could be lol. It could just be I've got a good memory.

But I know the decor of some peoples houses, what they like for tea, what they drink, what pets they have, favourite films and music

"

Are you rain man?? I sometimes notice when people don't post for a while. I can't remember what people post about very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

I think many 'think' they know.

But can you actually know someone you haven't met? Surely all you've created is a picture in your head based on forum posts, profiles and pictures? And perhaps the opinions of others and third hand chit chat/gossip/graffiti on toilet doors.

A

this, although I don't read the graffiti on toilet doors!

Hey my Graffiti is always true

Gimp"

Well I'm assuming you use the gents and no matter how desperate I am, I use the Ladies. Although never public ones

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009 "

On 22nd September 2009 you said - Sorry I don't accomodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the pseudo anonimity of the forum makes people more aggressive and critical than they are in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

I think many 'think' they know.

But can you actually know someone you haven't met? Surely all you've created is a picture in your head based on forum posts, profiles and pictures? And perhaps the opinions of others and third hand chit chat/gossip/graffiti on toilet doors.

A

this, although I don't read the graffiti on toilet doors! "

That's not my mobile number on the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not really.. there used to be a few people id chat to in depth via pm's and kept in contact through facebook (which was more day to day real life than just this side of their lives)

recently theres no one..

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down or I just spend too much time on here

Or you're stalking certain people I could be lol. It could just be I've got a good memory.

But I know the decor of some peoples houses, what they like for tea, what they drink, what pets they have, favourite films and music

Are you rain man?? I sometimes notice when people don't post for a while. I can't remember what people post about very often "
there are some worse than me, some can remember peoples birthdays each year, I haven't mastered that one yet lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes, I can almost guess what people will post

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009 "
I remember lots of stuff, if people don't want people to remember shit, they should refrain from posting stuff they can't remember themselves.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"yes, I can almost guess what people will post "

That just means you've been here too long

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"yes, I can almost guess what people will post

That just means you've been here too long "

for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009 I remember lots of stuff, if people don't want people to remember shit, they should refrain from posting stuff they can't remember themselves. "

Ermmmm riight ok

Zen Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the keyboard can be someones biggest enemy on forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only met one regular poster

Others, you can form an opinion by their posts but wouldn't set them in stone

And one poster (sure you know who you are ) always types what I'm thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

I think many 'think' they know.

But can you actually know someone you haven't met? Surely all you've created is a picture in your head based on forum posts, profiles and pictures? And perhaps the opinions of others and third hand chit chat/gossip/graffiti on toilet doors.

A"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009 I remember lots of stuff, if people don't want people to remember shit, they should refrain from posting stuff they can't remember themselves.

Ermmmm riight ok

Zen Gimp"
What?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

"

No but the forums do give away a lot about how a person thinks, their sense of humour, their personality & if they are on my level of wrirdness

so for me personally it is a great place to get to know, flirt and chat to see if i'd like to meet someone socially and/or to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

"

I have a couple of friends on here that I consider very god friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009 I remember lots of stuff, if people don't want people to remember shit, they should refrain from posting stuff they can't remember themselves.

Ermmmm riight ok

Zen GimpWhat?"

Me head hurts n i was trying to unscramble it, dont moan at me im poorly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes, I can almost guess what people will post "

This is true of most of the regular forumites , but whether this means one truly knows them is debatable .

It's so easy to adopt a different persona behind a keyboard , and this can be entirely different to the true personality of the individual in reality .

There are plenty on here , including ourselves , where judgement is made from forum posts .

But unless we have met someone face to face , we never really know them properly .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009 I remember lots of stuff, if people don't want people to remember shit, they should refrain from posting stuff they can't remember themselves. "

I know, just makes me chuckle is all.

I do sometimes think.I share too much on here.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009

I can barely remember my own name "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum is also a place to display the things about us that we want others to see....

It is a place of deception and freedom where we can be something that we are not normally.

Or it is a place to bare your sole.....take your pick but there is no substitute for person to person.....everything else is an illusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is also a place to display the things about us that we want others to see....

It is a place of deception and freedom where we can be something that we are not normally.

Or it is a place to bare your sole.....take your pick but there is no substitute for person to person.....everything else is an illusion "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel as though you know as much about some forum posters as you do your friends even though you've never met?

I do

I think many 'think' they know.

But can you actually know someone you haven't met? Surely all you've created is a picture in your head based on forum posts, profiles and pictures? And perhaps the opinions of others and third hand chit chat/gossip/graffiti on toilet doors.

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their persona on here may be different in RL "

You really think so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that post on threads or use the chat rooms at unsociable hours through the week usually d*unk,

Are the people I try to remember but avoid

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The ones that post on threads or use the chat rooms at unsociable hours through the week usually d*unk,

Are the people I try to remember but avoid "

And the ones that get really angry. They tend not to hang around anyway but its good to know who to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon Diamond is a nice reliable friendly lady.

She's up for a laugh but wont let you take liberties.

What you see is what you get, and she doesn't put on any aires and graces.

Can laugh at herself but there are also some signs of her insecurities, although she hides them well, she'll let you know if you over step the mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. You can't tell what a person is really like until you meet them in person I mean about their lives, beliefs, tastes ect

I can never remember what people have said. You must have a good memory or you're writing everything down

I swear to god there are some posters with a database of things people have said that they have to hand just so they can pull out something a poster said on the 22nd September 2009 I remember lots of stuff, if people don't want people to remember shit, they should refrain from posting stuff they can't remember themselves. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I Know You" is "You Know I do" backwards....

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I reckon Diamond is a nice reliable friendly lady.

She's up for a laugh but wont let you take liberties.

What you see is what you get, and she doesn't put on any aires and graces.

Can laugh at herself but there are also some signs of her insecurities, although she hides them well, she'll let you know if you over step the mark "
very interesting, I would say spot on except the insecurities bit, I would probably say I have vulnerabilities rather than insecurities

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There are some fantastic people on here and not so fantastic people....I tend be the same on here as in real life and I'm pretty much what it says on the tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some fantastic people on here and not so fantastic people....I tend be the same on here as in real life and I'm pretty much what it says on the tin "

Eat while Hot ?

Gimp

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Think you can get the ' feel' for a person ( or the person they want you to feel!) but know them properly no, not till you have met someone face to face.

Some do thrive on drama and tell the world all their life history.

Takes all sorts amazes me the stuff some disclose , sometimes without realizing perhaps?!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I know when the op's birthday is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not really - dont even really know people after you have met them - do get a feeling with some that we would get along more than just fine though if we were to get together at some point

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I try to remain consistent wherever I am

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