FabSwingers.com forum: relationship material

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Are you good relationship material or not? If not why not?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

I'm fucking perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im made of skin material, and from what i can gather, men need to be made of a slightly stronger material to cope with the female of the species.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt."

But you're adorable View!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.

But you're adorable View!

cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.

if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think I am yes but I have children so it's not to everyone's taste ,

No doubt others would think otherwise, I guess it depends what attracts others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.

But you're adorable View!

cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.

if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake."

Crikey, I wont call for tea then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be, its been going on for 33years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to describe myself as material then probably suede.... So you make the call!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from being a fussy eater

I'm OK

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I believe I am yes, however like most of us normal people on here deep inside we are looking for our soul mate. And as you all know that is very hard to find. I don't believe in love. Love comes and goes but understanding and forgiving and appreciating well that's very hard for us humans for some reason as our egos get in the way.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with a canine.

In a purely platonic way, you understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Apparently according to an ex I'd make a great wife and was a pretty cool girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I am selfish and only think of me me me and how good my body looks, gym and muscle diet is for me, that's y I do one night stands

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.

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why do you think you'd make a cracking girlfriend?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't think so, I used to be.... but after 8 years single, I think it would take someone really special to tempt me, though I do miss some closeness at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.

why do you think you'd make a cracking girlfriend?

Im loyal, faithful, attentive, like to cook, good at housework, im funny, great to talk too, im a good listener, love kisses/cuddles etc

.. love music, open minded, dont mind watching sports etc..

i like my space, id give him his,,

pretty chilled out to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.

why do you think you'd make a cracking girlfriend?

Im loyal, faithful, attentive, like to cook, good at housework, im funny, great to talk too, im a good listener, love kisses/cuddles etc

.. love music, open minded, dont mind watching sports etc..

i like my space, id give him his,,

pretty chilled out to be fair.

It does rather beg a question ....

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"i think id make a cracking gf to someone. but realistically my daughter is more important and would take someone very special to take us both on.

why do you think you'd make a cracking girlfriend?

Im loyal, faithful, attentive, like to cook, good at housework, im funny, great to talk too, im a good listener, love kisses/cuddles etc

.. love music, open minded, dont mind watching sports etc..

i like my space, id give him his,,

pretty chilled out to be fair.

So why do you think your single?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I don't think I make a bad girlfriend... I am pretty laid back, I like to do things to make the people in my life happy whether that means taking them somewhere as a surprise, cooking something special, making something, keeping things varied and interesting in the bedroom... Etc!

However I can't see me wanting to coexist with anyone again, for a long time at least. It's been 2.5 years since I split with my husband and it still feels refreshing to have my own space and answer to no one.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes and no.

The yes only works if we don't live together and we have time and space. No if we have to regularly share a bathroom. I don't want people in my bathroom.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don't think I make a bad girlfriend... I am pretty laid back, I like to do things to make the people in my life happy whether that means taking them somewhere as a surprise, cooking something special, making something, keeping things varied and interesting in the bedroom... Etc!

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you can be perfectly happy in a relationship and not want to live together

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Yes and no.

The yes only works if we don't live together and we have time and space. No if we have to regularly share a bathroom. I don't want people in my bathroom.

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so what qualities do you have to make the yes part

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

People often ask why am I single and it's the 64 million dollar question....maybe my prince has not arrived

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"People often ask why am I single and it's the 64 million dollar question....maybe my prince has not arrived

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so do you think you make a good girlfriend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often ask why am I single and it's the 64 million dollar question....maybe my prince has not arrived

Has he even got to the heavy breathing stage?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"People often ask why am I single and it's the 64 million dollar question....maybe my prince has not arrived

so do you think you make a good girlfriend?

In some aspects yes, I am a pretty laid back person a bit wacky but I do have a heart..However I've got bored in relationships and lose interest however I just think I put that down to not being with someone right for me...I like sex and I love to cook and I think I'm a pretty down to earth person...I have a lot of qualities but I also have traits so for the most part yes but I know that I may get on their nerves at times

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes and no.

The yes only works if we don't live together and we have time and space. No if we have to regularly share a bathroom. I don't want people in my bathroom.

so what qualities do you have to make the yes part

Apart from being scintillating company in and out of bed you mean?

Those I have had relationships with are still my friends. Those that met my ex at the social could see that we are still close. I have staying power with people.

The reason that I am not with those people anymore is largely that we weren't the right fit for forever one on one. That has been for a range of reasons that have put a strain on the relationship that we didn't find ways of fixing. With the passage of time the friendships remain and we wish each other well.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This thread is really interesting

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single."

Other than the legendary blow jobs bit and the cooking bit, this sums up me too.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

I won't blow my own trumpet (fnar, fnar) regarding my BJs and I'm a shite cook but otherwise this is me to a T...it's no bloody wonder Wyrd and I get on so well, I reckon we may have been separated at birth

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single."

well that's a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you good relationship material or not? If not why not?

Nope. I'm far too focused on bringing my kids up to concentrate on a relationship at the minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I'd make an alright boyfriend. Even if I do say so myself.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I reckon I'd make an alright boyfriend. Even if I do say so myself."
why?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.

She's more use at a club than any blokes I've ever visited one with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so, single 4 years and walked over too many times, has made me to realistic.

Always want me as a fb but not a gf....

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don't think so, single 4 years and walked over too many times, has made me to realistic.

Always want me as a fb but not a gf....

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why do you think that is?

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

"I don't think so, I used to be.... but after 8 years single, I think it would take someone really special to tempt me, though I do miss some closeness at times

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its just like riding a bike

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I don't think so, I used to be.... but after 8 years single, I think it would take someone really special to tempt me, though I do miss some closeness at times

its just like riding a bike "

Really? I think I'd be a bit wobbly at that as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon I'd make an alright boyfriend. Even if I do say so myself.why?

Erm, 'cause I'm awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why do you think your single?

ask my ex.. lol

no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think so, single 4 years and walked over too many times, has made me to realistic.

Always want me as a fb but not a gf....

why do you think that is?

My face doesn't fit x

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

So why do you think your single?

ask my ex.. lol

no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows "
but what about before you had a child, you've said before that you've never had a long term relationship?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.

She's more use at a club than any blokes I've ever visited one with.

Right back atcha, girlfriend

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.

I've joked about setting up an FF profile, but I don't think Fab's menfolk are ready for BlondeWyrd as yet

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

So why do you think your single?

ask my ex.. lol

no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows "

Looks have nothing to do with relationships. Looks might be an early hook but it's not what makes a relationship.

My experience is that once you love someone you see them as beautiful.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

So why do you think your single?

ask my ex.. lol

no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows

Looks have nothing to do with relationships. Looks might be an early hook but it's not what makes a relationship.

My experience is that once you love someone you see them as beautiful.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

No because I like being on my own too much...and apparently have too many cats.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.

I've joked about setting up an FF profile, but I don't think Fab's menfolk are ready for BlondeWyrd as yet

Are you kidding? It's what they have all been waiting for. I think it's WyrdBlonde though; sometimes you are blue.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I do agree looks don't have anything to do with it, maybe some have their guard well and truly up and get blinded by people...just my thoughts though I maybe chatting out me bum

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

Nope!

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Nope!"
why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never really had a serious long term relationship so not had the chance to find out, would like to think i would be a good BF, though being single for so long has made me pretty selfish.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.

She's more use at a club than any blokes I've ever visited one with.

Right back atcha, girlfriend

We're so romantic!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Nope!"

You'd be perfect for me as you're never around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just call me Mary fucking Poppins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.

But you're adorable View!

cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.

if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake."

View you and I would be a perfect match. I don't like people moving my cushions or throws. If my rug is a centimetre squint it drives me insane. I had to realign a curtain track because the handyman for the flat put it up squint...

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I am the best girlfriend ever

Aren't I Obi?!?!?!

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

"Nope!

You'd be perfect for me as you're never around."

Hahahahaha - exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why do you think your single?

ask my ex.. lol

no seriously i think its possibly down to my looks and that i have a young child.. who knows but what about before you had a child, you've said before that you've never had a long term relationship?

wasnt mature enough for one, afraid of commitment, since Amber ive grown a lot.. i had her young at 21

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I do agree looks don't have anything to do with it, maybe some have their guard well and truly up and get blinded by people...just my thoughts though I maybe chatting out me bum "

I agree. You may not see that you have your guard up but it will come across to others in little things. If you have trust issues how can a new person ever win?

Everything they do will face some level of wariness that links to your past. I know this has ended the potential of some relationships for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a long term relationship,

But I do get the "why are you not married/have kids" question all the time,

If I new the answer I would of tried to do something about it by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if I'm good relationship material. Ask him.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have been single for just over a year now, and the longer this situation continues the harder it becomes to adjust to being in a relationship again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the fact I am single speaks for itself on this question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am married so maybe not but you could come feel me and make your own decision

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.

I've joked about setting up an FF profile, but I don't think Fab's menfolk are ready for BlondeWyrd as yet

Aww do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate

I love being single, I love my freedom, to be able to do what I like, when I like and not have to think about anyone else, I honestly do not think I will ever be in a relationship again, people ask me all the time if i've found anyone yet and look quite shocked when I say no, and they say things like...never mind your find someone one day, mr right will come along soon...I think to some being with someone is a must and they think all single people are looking

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate

I think if I was in your position I.e with kids etc I'd feel the same but I haven't got what I've wanted in terms of settling down and having children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate

I think if I was in your position I.e with kids etc I'd feel the same but I haven't got what I've wanted in terms of settling down and having children

that's fair comment x

mr right will come along soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done all that. Had my children, been married twice. Now I'm 56 and having just the best time. Not just on Fab either. I don't need nor wish to be in a relationship.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I am the best girlfriend ever

Aren't I Obi?!?!?!

Won't find me arguing with that!

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thank you all for your honest answers its been enlightening

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I can honestly say I don't like being single however I'm not needy or desperate

I think if I was in your position I.e with kids etc I'd feel the same but I haven't got what I've wanted in terms of settling down and having children

that's fair comment x

mr right will come along soon

Lol or I just find a sperm donor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm quality relationship material because I have a lot of patience. Would love to find a nice woman, settle down and do the family bit but all in good time. I'm happy on my own and I think you need to be before you think about sharing your life with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom "

Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom

Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol"

I never answered back, I always got in there first

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Guess I best answer myself now.

The reason I'm good girlfriend material is because I have found someone who wants the same things as me and someone I'm perfectly comparable with. Jay says its because I'm lovely, sweet and thoughtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom

Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol"

I didn't answer back. Bit of a doormat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom

Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol

I didn't answer back. Bit of a doormat lol "

well you won't ever be again

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yes.

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By *aughtyButExtraNice69Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Apparently according to an ex I'd make a great wife and was a pretty cool girlfriend

My ex fiance said that...i imagen he will have told that also to the poor cow whos now in a relationship with him hehe!

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Yes.

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why are you good relationship material?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"No, I'm dreadful at relationships. I hate compromising. I hate being told what I can watch, listen to, eat, or wear. I hate sharing my bed (and I'm not happy having people in my house).

I can cook and my blow jobs are legendary, but I get bored far too easily an enjoy sampling the wide variety of men on Fab, so am best left single.

I think the pair of you are in a relationship together. It works well and you make each other very happy.

I've joked about setting up an FF profile, but I don't think Fab's menfolk are ready for BlondeWyrd as yet

WyrdBlonde, surely?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates."
just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Yes.

why are you good relationship material?

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I do as I am told.

Seriously...respect, trust, honesty.

And I am a fucking kinky bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was the perfect wife according to my cheating husband. I couldn't commit to someone again after 30 years of belonging to someone. I like my freedom

Ditto except I wasn't perfect apparently as I answer back lol

I didn't answer back. Bit of a doormat lol

well you won't ever be again "

I try not to be but it's an innate characteristic

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together

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Neither do I, but I really don't judge the relationship I am in by others around me, maybe that's the problem with some?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

you can be perfectly happy in a relationship and not want to live together

Oh I agree

I meant to say that I think I am reasonable girlfriend material but wouldn't want to progress to the living in stage - so it would be important to make that clear early on in a relationship I think

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Are you good relationship material or not? If not why not?

Nope cause i hog the duvet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you good relationship material or not? If not why not?

Hmmm you have to think carefully answering that one on here as there are so many NSB's on here (No String Bullshitters) who say im after no strings but are here to ensnare a guy one way or another (the block button comes in handy) so for the record i am shit as a shit thing at relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

yep too set in my ways now,i don't think I could live with someone again,and im pretty selfish with my time now,also I do not like being told what to do

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

"I don't think so, I used to be.... but after 8 years single, I think it would take someone really special to tempt me, though I do miss some closeness at times

its just like riding a bike

Really? I think I'd be a bit wobbly at that as well

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A nice man like me would always be willing to be your stabilizers and to keep you steady on the bumpy road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

why are you good relationship material?

I do as I am told.

Seriously...respect, trust, honesty.

And I am a fucking kinky bitch.

Not to mention fuckin' funny, and you like football.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Yes.

why are you good relationship material?

I do as I am told.

Seriously...respect, trust, honesty.

And I am a fucking kinky bitch.

Not to mention fuckin' funny, and you like football."
I know I am an Epic catch.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.

Just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together

I don't think that. I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship though.

I've had 2 long monogamous relationships in the past - 8 years and 7 years - so I can't be too bad.

I don't want another monogamous relationship though. I don't think that is something you can really look for. You need to be open to it and it'll come along at the right time.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.

Just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together

I don't think that. I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship though.

I've had 2 long monogamous relationships in the past - 8 years and 7 years - so I can't be too bad.

I don't want another monogamous relationship though. I don't think that is something you can really look for. You need to be open to it and it'll come along at the right time."
who said you have to be monogamous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon I'd make an alright boyfriend. Even if I do say so myself.why?

Erm, 'cause I'm awesome."

Being serious, I'm respectful, considerate, and I have a lot of love to give. And I like a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

why are you good relationship material?

I do as I am told.

Seriously...respect, trust, honesty.

And I am a fucking kinky bitch.

Not to mention fuckin' funny, and you like football.I know I am an Epic catch.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.

Just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together

I don't think that. I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship though.

I've had 2 long monogamous relationships in the past - 8 years and 7 years - so I can't be too bad.

I don't want another monogamous relationship though. I don't think that is something you can really look for. You need to be open to it and it'll come along at the right time.who said you have to be monogamous?"

Nobody, but finding someone who wants a relationship but not a monogamous one and doesn't ultimately expect to live together if the relationship works is more tricky than finding something more traditional.

Anyway, no, currently I am not good relationship material. I have the potential to be but only if the right person happens along.

I'm not looking for a relationship. If I happen to find someone who changes my mind, great.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I love my own space too much but damn do I miss regular sex and occasional dates.

Just don't live with them then, I never get why people think you have to live together

I don't think that. I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship though.

I've had 2 long monogamous relationships in the past - 8 years and 7 years - so I can't be too bad.

Anyway, no, currently I am not good relationship material. I have the potential to be but only if the right person happens along.

I'm not looking for a relationship. If I happen to find someone who changes my mind, great."
so what are your potential qualities?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yeah, I'm perfect girlfriend material, always have been, always will be.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Yeah, I'm perfect girlfriend material, always have been, always will be.

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so what makes you perfect girlfriend material

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

".so what are your potential qualities?

Well, they're only good qualities to people looking for that. For example, I'm independent and not needy or clingy. Some want that, some don't. I'm very open-minded and extremely kinky.

I also have honesty, loyalty, intelligence and determination. I'm reliable, caring, considerate and thoughtful.

I'm also adventurous and interesting. I'm not a sit at home in front of the television type.

Of course, some prefer the sit in front of the television types.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't post pissed in the forums

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Yeah, I'm perfect girlfriend material, always have been, always will be.

so what makes you perfect girlfriend material

I don't really feel OK with sharing a list of stuff.......partly because I'm equally good at being a soulmate and a playmate I guess. It's funny, I never really had the 'us and them' thing that many women seem to develop either. The only 'us' was ever me and my man, my lover was always my best friend, and I his.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Yeah, I'm perfect girlfriend material, always have been, always will be.

so what makes you perfect girlfriend material

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so you think you can have more than one soulmate?

For me if you find a soulmate the only way the relationship would end would be on the death of one of the partners otherwise your not soulmates just partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is like to think I am. But others don't seem to think so

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Is like to think I am. But others don't seem to think so

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why do you think you are

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

For me if you find a soulmate the only way the relationship would end would be on the death of one of the partners otherwise your not soulmates just partners

I don't really agree - to my mind it is about the depth and openness of the bond, and I seem to be able to do that to the nth degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is like to think I am. But others don't seem to think so

why do you think you are

I'm decent crack. Decent looking. (I think) I make an effort and as much as a deviant I am I'm faithful and loving. I'm just an all round alright person in general tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone explain what a soulmate is. I've heard it mentioned a few times and I haven't a clue what it means.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

If you google it there's a bunch of different definitions - OP obviously means the 'one person by fate' type definition whereas I feel that kind of depth and affinity can be found more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I a marriage material for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I have been there for 27yrs and im free for over a year now. Not interested in any relationship at present

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over a year ago

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument"

thats not healthy ...if you never row ..you never chat

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument

thats not healthy ...if you never row ..you never chat "

I dont think its not healthy.my husband and I never argued. He just laugh, it was better to talk things through than shout at each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument

thats not healthy ...if you never row ..you never chat "

I dont think its not healthy.my husband and I never argued. He just laugh, it was better to talk things through than shout at each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument

thats not healthy ...if you never row ..you never chat "

we chat all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have been together for 5 years, never had a fall out or an argument

thats not healthy ...if you never row ..you never chat

I dont think its not healthy.my husband and I never argued. He just laugh, it was better to talk things through than shout at each other"

exactly, ty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm too much of a pain in the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

With the right lady I have good relationships x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Me Gobs too big and me Brains too small

Gimp

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Am married so maybe not but you could come feel me and make your own decision

if you where not so far away we could feel each other then take it from there theres nothing like a good feel .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm single for a few good reasons .one being I wouldn,t let them sleep for long

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Can someone explain what a soulmate is. I've heard it mentioned a few times and I haven't a clue what it means. "

a soulmate is ones perfect partner, thats me fucked .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Are you good relationship material or not? If not why not?

At 53 I'm on my second proper relationship so hardly!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yes I am blody perfect , its just that I have a wife that doesn't understand me ,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.

But you're adorable View!

cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.

if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake."

I nearly threw Ben out when I saw he'd moved my cushions then compounded the situation by asking "what's girls obsession with cushions?"

He's a heating engineer with his own business. There are boiler parts among my Waterford crystal, copper piping beside the cello, pictures of fish vying for space beside family wedding photos.

I'm in therapy!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Keep your cushion , do you want it puffing up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a rubbish gf because I won't make the first drink of the day

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I'm a rubbish gf because I won't make the first drink of the day

well I am good because I would ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - because I can pour a pint with just the right amount of head.

And

No-because I've been single so long that I'm very set in my ways and like my own space too much.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?"

I can be faithful without monogamy. I could also return to monogamy. I can't manage being without alone time and space.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No, I am a selfish, self absorbed old cunt.

But you're adorable View!

cheers my dear...... but a nightmare to live with.

if people dare touch my soft furnishings, I will deskin them fully awake.

I nearly threw Ben out when I saw he'd moved my cushions then compounded the situation by asking "what's girls obsession with cushions?"

He's a heating engineer with his own business. There are boiler parts among my Waterford crystal, copper piping beside the cello, pictures of fish vying for space beside family wedding photos.

I'm in therapy! "

You've made me smile again.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?

I can be faithful without monogamy. I could also return to monogamy. I can't manage being without alone time and space.

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I could quite happily be monogamous,i just don't want someone living with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be wont as they don't make beds that big, like my space to move around, girl I was with earlier in week decided to try to cuddle up, wtf its like frigging boiling as it is, not good night sleep so no more of girl.

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

I agree after being married for 18 years I do miss the I intimacy with someone. But am enjoying my space and freedom.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?"
really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.

As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?

I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.

Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others

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over a year ago

"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.

As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?

I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.

Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others

I think this would be the only way I could have a relationship now. I don't think I could live with someone permanently again

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over a year ago

"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?

really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.

As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?

I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.

Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others

It was a question not an accusation. I agree, I couldn't live with someone either.

I was just wondering where the line is between relationship and FWB that's all.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.

As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?

I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.

Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others

I think this would be the only way I could have a relationship now. I don't think I could live with someone permanently again "
it works perfectly for us, the time we spend together is quality time, no falling out over things. To me I really do have the best of both worlds

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?

really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.

As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?

I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.

Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others

It was a question not an accusation. I agree, I couldn't live with someone either.

I was just wondering where the line is between relationship and FWB that's all. "
as far as I see it fwb don't have deep feelings for each other, have no commitment and either can get up and walk away with no questions asked

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By *panker53Man
over a year ago

leeds

def not into a full time relationship

my ex wife saw to that (robbed me blind and killed a lot of trust)

happy now for casual friends and some fun

no need try the relationship road again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People want no monogamy, don't live together, free to do as they please. So FWB not a relationship?

really, so people can't have those things and still be in a committed relationship.

As I said earlier why do people think you have to live together to be in a relationship?

I've absolutely no intention of living with another human being, I love my space, which brings out the best in me.

Some might think I'm having my cake and eating it and the answer is we both are, our relationship is perfect to us, we don't feel the need to run our relationship to suit others

It was a question not an accusation. I agree, I couldn't live with someone either.

I was just wondering where the line is between relationship and FWB that's all. as far as I see it fwb don't have deep feelings for each other, have no commitment and either can get up and walk away with no questions asked"

Good point. Mystery solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard one to answer.

I'm the perfect gf in some ways, he gets sex and bjs on tap whenever he wants. I cook for him, bake him cakes. I'm supportive of his hopes and dreams. I socialise with his friends and family, I let him watch his sports. I dress nicely day and night, grow my hair the way he likes. I work hard, I do 2 jobs one of them running a business.

But... I'm terribly high maintenance, I can be a total bitch at times, I can have tantrums and strops, I expect to be treated like a lady day to day, doors open for me, back rubs after a long day at work. I expect him to help me with my business

So it all depends what people expect from a relationship.

Shel x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would like to think I have the potential to be a good gf as in the past I was loyal and caring and devoted to my ex partner

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Yes I am blody perfect , its just that I have a wife that doesn't understand me ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not aside from the love word, I've been on my own for nearly 20 yrs and very set in my ways, not interested in sharing with someone nor interested in losing what I've worked hard for when the relationship fails

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I think I'm an alright girlfriend lol

I'm not a domestic goddess, my flat certainly looks 'lived in' most of the time. I can cook, I'm fun, I'm caring, I'm great in the sack!!

I have my moments of craziness that I let slip out from time to time but luckily they haven't scared him away yet.

I'm patient and understanding about things. I let him have his own space. it's important for each other to have their own hobbies etc, i don't think it's healthy to be on each others pockets all the time!

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