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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called unconditional love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She needs to get bigger balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep "

Heard it all before.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some just love the drama...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prepare for next weeks installment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww babe you don't understand me lol xxx plus if it's who I know you're talking about stay away xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I used to have a friend who I privately thought of as the washing machine. She had a cycle. She'd meet a guy, flirt with him for a week, start seeing him, have a nice week, begin to see faults, complain of faults then dump him. This occurred most months and as I sat next to her at work she always told me all about it. After a couple of years I got to the point where I knew the script pretty well.

With my male friends it was the same. Most of them had a cycle, but it was on a fast spin, so this only lasted a couple of weeks, rather than a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He will have talked her round lol u kno wot men are like

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Half the time we don't understand ourselves so what chance does the males of the species have lol

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

I must have wagged school the day that was covered and regretted it ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some just love the drama..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually we are good at seeing other people's lives clearly & giving great advice , but when it comes to our own we have no logic!

Catch up on your Zzzz's & maybe soon she'll see the light !

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Cheers all

Just needed to get it out my head. Thankfully some lovely words of wisdom have cleared my head and taught me not to bother with her emotional trip.

As much i'd be glad to see her in a secure relationship it's her journey and she'll have to learn her own way. Just as long (& i hate to say this cause its not normally me) she doesn't count on me being there to confide in all the time cause i really like my sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the mysteries of women, still the make up for it by being so very horny lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's called the Jeremy Kyle show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never understanded women and never will! Probably why i cant talk to them that fluently lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have a friend who I privately thought of as the washing machine. She had a cycle. She'd meet a guy, flirt with him for a week, start seeing him, have a nice week, begin to see faults, complain of faults then dump him. This occurred most months and as I sat next to her at work she always told me all about it. After a couple of years I got to the point where I knew the script pretty well.

With my male friends it was the same. Most of them had a cycle, but it was on a fast spin, so this only lasted a couple of weeks, rather than a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes if we love someone so much we don't want to look like we have failed so women and men can just stay with someone for the sake of it despite being fully aware of how the relationship is about to be a massive doom x

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

The man that says he can understand women, is either a genius or a liar!!!

No offence ladies but you are a mystery to us mere mortals

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Never try to understand women.

Women understand women and they fucking hate eachother".

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep "

I wouldn't try if I was you but some consolation to you is many women don't understand men either.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

This one is easy.....Low Self-Esteem.

A lot of girls have it and a few guys.

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep

I wouldn't try if I was you but some consolation to you is many women don't understand men either. "

No i was a friend she confided in and if she wants to have him back it's her choice. It is difficult to end things sometimes and have been through the pain so can empathise with her but in the end she's a grown woman and it's her decision. I'm just gonna keep well away from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep

I wouldn't try if I was you but some consolation to you is many women don't understand men either.

No i was a friend she confided in and if she wants to have him back it's her choice. It is difficult to end things sometimes and have been through the pain so can empathise with her but in the end she's a grown woman and it's her decision. I'm just gonna keep well away from it "

Don't get involved tell her anything so you don't have to as you will be to blame if it goes wrong relationship advice is a hiding to nothing you only have to look at the forum relationships that have hit the manure pile.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep "
When the shit hits the fan, she will spend another 6 hours talking.......

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

No man will ever understand why a woman does what she does,because she does not know why she does it.her self.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

This thread highlights perfectly why I live on my own.

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep

I wouldn't try if I was you but some consolation to you is many women don't understand men either.

No i was a friend she confided in and if she wants to have him back it's her choice. It is difficult to end things sometimes and have been through the pain so can empathise with her but in the end she's a grown woman and it's her decision. I'm just gonna keep well away from it

Don't get involved tell her anything so you don't have to as you will be to blame if it goes wrong relationship advice is a hiding to nothing you only have to look at the forum relationships that have hit the manure pile. "

im staying well away from it now. They are adults (sort of) so let them sort themselves out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep "

Next time (because no doubt they'll be a next time) just tell her to talk to him about it

Sometimes you just can't help people where blind love is concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some would rather be with the wrong one than no one. Never understood it myself. I'd rather be on my own and happy that with someone who makes me miserable, but some fear being alone and put up with being unhappy instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh my oh my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gimps top tip.

Take her out n get her pissed, Slip her a length for a week or so until she starts complaining about you to someone else.

Stops talking to you Job done

Dr Freud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is easy.....Low Self-Esteem.

A lot of girls have it and a few guys."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"it's bloody impossible !!

Wont bore everyone but have a rant & the basics are this - flat mate (nothing going on between us) confides in me about probs with bf. I trying to be a gent and good flat mate listen. 6 hours of it and late into last night she comes to the conclusion it's over...

...today i get home and they are a couple and she's forgiven his 'extra relationship activities'

WTD im utterly confused not to mention tired from the lack of sleep "

But that's not because you don't understand women, it's because you don't understand this woman. We aren't all the same and Mr Suki I know that you know that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up trying to understand women in 1992

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I gave up trying to understand women in 1992 "

I'm smiling at your comment and your user name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gave up trying to understand women in 1992 "

omg what happened in '92?

xx

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Should of read 'Understanding Relationships'. It takes two to Tango and the pair of them need to grow up, thank god theres no kids caught up in the on/off of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love the washing machine cycle comparison.

i have about 50 combos on mine. at the mo im on a slow spin and i cant pump out the water....if you get my drift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's probably happened a million times. ...I'm not surprised by the slightest

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