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"Some women are stunning and look great, but some just look like a man in a dress. Agree? Disagree? Discuss...." Some are a man in a dress. | |||
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"What group do you fall into?" The first category of course. | |||
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" On many occasions, it would be (and is)a refreshing change to see a woman in a dress, preferably stylish and feminine. " I don't think I have any butch dresses. I love a frock. I have about 30+ for day wear. I must cure this habit of seeing a dress and buying it. | |||
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"Interesting how people think it's ok to take the piss and be rude about tv's... yet when I post a thread very similar about women, (some) people react differently.... xx" I haven't looked at the TV thread yet but I saw this title and assumed it was one of your social experiments. | |||
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"Interesting how people think it's ok to take the piss and be rude about tv's... yet when I post a thread very similar about women, (some) people react differently.... xx I haven't looked at the TV thread yet but I saw this title and assumed it was one of your social experiments." Am I so predictable? Oops. I am trying to imagine you in a butch dress... whatever one of those is! No way you'd be mistaken for a man. | |||
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"Interesting how people think it's ok to take the piss and be rude about tv's... yet when I post a thread very similar about women, (some) people react differently.... xx" Not quite the same though is it? they are really men dressing as women, they werent born looking like that they make themselves look like that because they want to. | |||
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"off topic slightly but since we are talking of identity issues i have seen some women so caked in fake tan ive actually had to ponder if they are black or not.." | |||
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"off topic slightly but since we are talking of identity issues i have seen some women so caked in fake tan ive actually had to ponder if they are black or not.." Have you tried specsavers? | |||
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"Some women are stunning and look great, but some just look like a man in a dress. Agree? Disagree? Discuss...." Some do not many as most just look good and neither one way or the other. | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.." Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. " | |||
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"damn,youve spotted me out and about,will now have to change my look......." Another bloody woman posing as a tv! xx | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. " Double standards exist here and elsewhere, they sometimes work in favour of women and sometimes in favour of men. I hate it but all any of us can do is ensure that we are consistent in our repsonse to men and women. | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. Double standards exist here and elsewhere, they sometimes work in favour of women and sometimes in favour of men. I hate it but all any of us can do is ensure that we are consistent in our repsonse to men and women. " And challenge, even though I know I annoy many with the challenge. Behaviour change takes time. | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. Double standards exist here and elsewhere, they sometimes work in favour of women and sometimes in favour of men. I hate it but all any of us can do is ensure that we are consistent in our repsonse to men and women. And challenge, even though I know I annoy many with the challenge. Behaviour change takes time. " Hypocrisy is hypocrisy. It does not matter who perpetrates it. It is wrong. It undermines many good arguments in favour of equality when the party shouting for equality acts in a discriminatory fashion. It must be called out and exposed at every turn. | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. Double standards exist here and elsewhere, they sometimes work in favour of women and sometimes in favour of men. I hate it but all any of us can do is ensure that we are consistent in our repsonse to men and women. And challenge, even though I know I annoy many with the challenge. Behaviour change takes time. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy. It does not matter who perpetrates it. It is wrong. It undermines many good arguments in favour of equality when the party shouting for equality acts in a discriminatory fashion. It must be called out and exposed at every turn. " There was an interesting bit of research featured on the one off Kirsty Wark made on sexism. Men who are sexist/misogynistic find sexist jokes funny and the fact that it is "jokes" reinforces the sexism and makes them more sexist as it validates their thoughts. I am consistent in challenging both sexes and admit to my own flaws when I fail. | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. Double standards exist here and elsewhere, they sometimes work in favour of women and sometimes in favour of men. I hate it but all any of us can do is ensure that we are consistent in our repsonse to men and women. And challenge, even though I know I annoy many with the challenge. Behaviour change takes time. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy. It does not matter who perpetrates it. It is wrong. It undermines many good arguments in favour of equality when the party shouting for equality acts in a discriminatory fashion. It must be called out and exposed at every turn. There was an interesting bit of research featured on the one off Kirsty Wark made on sexism. Men who are sexist/misogynistic find sexist jokes funny and the fact that it is "jokes" reinforces the sexism and makes them more sexist as it validates their thoughts. I am consistent in challenging both sexes and admit to my own flaws when I fail. " It is strange that any discussion on misandristic women very quickly gets turned into one about misogynistic men. It seems very hard to have a discussion about misandry where discussions on misogyny are commonplace. | |||
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"Some women are stunning and look great, but some just look like a man in a dress. ...." OMG I'm so flattered,,,, | |||
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"Some women are stunning and look great, but some just look like a man in a dress. .... OMG I'm so flattered,,,, " xx | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. Double standards exist here and elsewhere, they sometimes work in favour of women and sometimes in favour of men. I hate it but all any of us can do is ensure that we are consistent in our repsonse to men and women. And challenge, even though I know I annoy many with the challenge. Behaviour change takes time. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy. It does not matter who perpetrates it. It is wrong. It undermines many good arguments in favour of equality when the party shouting for equality acts in a discriminatory fashion. It must be called out and exposed at every turn. There was an interesting bit of research featured on the one off Kirsty Wark made on sexism. Men who are sexist/misogynistic find sexist jokes funny and the fact that it is "jokes" reinforces the sexism and makes them more sexist as it validates their thoughts. I am consistent in challenging both sexes and admit to my own flaws when I fail. It is strange that any discussion on misandristic women very quickly gets turned into one about misogynistic men. It seems very hard to have a discussion about misandry where discussions on misogyny are commonplace." I challenge misandric women too. I hadn't realised this discussion was solely about misandry. I mistakenly took it to be about the treatment subjects get depending on the gender of the OP. | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. Double standards exist here and elsewhere, they sometimes work in favour of women and sometimes in favour of men. I hate it but all any of us can do is ensure that we are consistent in our repsonse to men and women. And challenge, even though I know I annoy many with the challenge. Behaviour change takes time. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy. It does not matter who perpetrates it. It is wrong. It undermines many good arguments in favour of equality when the party shouting for equality acts in a discriminatory fashion. It must be called out and exposed at every turn. There was an interesting bit of research featured on the one off Kirsty Wark made on sexism. Men who are sexist/misogynistic find sexist jokes funny and the fact that it is "jokes" reinforces the sexism and makes them more sexist as it validates their thoughts. I am consistent in challenging both sexes and admit to my own flaws when I fail. It is strange that any discussion on misandristic women very quickly gets turned into one about misogynistic men. It seems very hard to have a discussion about misandry where discussions on misogyny are commonplace. I challenge misandric women too. I hadn't realised this discussion was solely about misandry. I mistakenly took it to be about the treatment subjects get depending on the gender of the OP. " Haha you misunderstand me. I was not attacking you. I was simply talking on the subject. | |||
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"This kind of thread rarely ends well for the OP.. Only if the op is a man. It seems rank hypocrisy is the order of the day when it comes to talking about gender. Double standards exist here and elsewhere, they sometimes work in favour of women and sometimes in favour of men. I hate it but all any of us can do is ensure that we are consistent in our repsonse to men and women. And challenge, even though I know I annoy many with the challenge. Behaviour change takes time. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy. It does not matter who perpetrates it. It is wrong. It undermines many good arguments in favour of equality when the party shouting for equality acts in a discriminatory fashion. It must be called out and exposed at every turn. There was an interesting bit of research featured on the one off Kirsty Wark made on sexism. Men who are sexist/misogynistic find sexist jokes funny and the fact that it is "jokes" reinforces the sexism and makes them more sexist as it validates their thoughts. I am consistent in challenging both sexes and admit to my own flaws when I fail. It is strange that any discussion on misandristic women very quickly gets turned into one about misogynistic men. It seems very hard to have a discussion about misandry where discussions on misogyny are commonplace. I challenge misandric women too. I hadn't realised this discussion was solely about misandry. I mistakenly took it to be about the treatment subjects get depending on the gender of the OP. " It wasn't about gender either. Just people. Well for me anyway. Anyone can make of it what they want. | |||
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"Okay, so staying with the OP and ignoring the OPs latter social experiment statement (Scarlet you cheeky monkey!). Looking like a lady / looking feminine is more than just a snapshot visual of the woman concerned. Movement is a massive distinction, posture as well. My sister has always slouched for example. Then look at the way different women walk. I would suggest that with correct movement and posture that a not so attractive woman could gain points " Didn't that used to be called deportment? | |||
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"Okay, so staying with the OP and ignoring the OPs latter social experiment statement (Scarlet you cheeky monkey!). Looking like a lady / looking feminine is more than just a snapshot visual of the woman concerned. Movement is a massive distinction, posture as well. My sister has always slouched for example. Then look at the way different women walk. I would suggest that with correct movement and posture that a not so attractive woman could gain points Didn't that used to be called deportment? " They deport women with inelegant movement | |||
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"I love Tilda Swinton's look... she is stunning " shes fit. | |||
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" Looking like a lady / looking feminine is more than just a snapshot visual of the woman concerned. Movement is a massive distinction, posture as well. My sister has always slouched for example. Then look at the way different women walk. I would suggest that with correct movement and posture that a not so attractive woman could gain points " Movement is a massive thing to try to get the hang of. Some people are very heavy on their feet. I was at a TG event the other month and one of the girlys walked as if she was carry a big bag of coal on each shoulder. She was really stomping her feet down and it spoilt her look, as she looked good otherwise. I'm finding it a learning curve, a bit of a steep one. I once spent a week practicing a feminine walk (not mincing, but walking like a lass - tutorials on youtube) only to go on a night out and be seen by a friend who pointed out I still had to work on my walk. Damn you Scarlet! | |||
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"Some women are stunning and look great, but some just look like a man in a dress. Agree? Disagree? Discuss...." you sure they are not a man in a dress | |||
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"Okay, so staying with the OP and ignoring the OPs latter social experiment statement (Scarlet you cheeky monkey!). Looking like a lady / looking feminine is more than just a snapshot visual of the woman concerned. Movement is a massive distinction, posture as well. My sister has always slouched for example. Then look at the way different women walk. I would suggest that with correct movement and posture that a not so attractive woman could gain points Didn't that used to be called deportment? They deport women with inelegant movement " shocking idea | |||
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" Looking like a lady / looking feminine is more than just a snapshot visual of the woman concerned. Movement is a massive distinction, posture as well. My sister has always slouched for example. Then look at the way different women walk. I would suggest that with correct movement and posture that a not so attractive woman could gain points Movement is a massive thing to try to get the hang of. Some people are very heavy on their feet. I was at a TG event the other month and one of the girlys walked as if she was carry a big bag of coal on each shoulder. She was really stomping her feet down and it spoilt her look, as she looked good otherwise. I'm finding it a learning curve, a bit of a steep one. I once spent a week practicing a feminine walk (not mincing, but walking like a lass - tutorials on youtube) only to go on a night out and be seen by a friend who pointed out I still had to work on my walk. Damn you Scarlet! " So do you think movement is copied and learnt as a child then. I.e. You copy your elder own sex. I haven't met many TVs to be honest, but those that I have, this is a major thing that makes them obviously men. But then again, women can also be bad at this | |||
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" Looking like a lady / looking feminine is more than just a snapshot visual of the woman concerned. Movement is a massive distinction, posture as well. My sister has always slouched for example. Then look at the way different women walk. I would suggest that with correct movement and posture that a not so attractive woman could gain points Movement is a massive thing to try to get the hang of. Some people are very heavy on their feet. I was at a TG event the other month and one of the girlys walked as if she was carry a big bag of coal on each shoulder. She was really stomping her feet down and it spoilt her look, as she looked good otherwise. I'm finding it a learning curve, a bit of a steep one. I once spent a week practicing a feminine walk (not mincing, but walking like a lass - tutorials on youtube) only to go on a night out and be seen by a friend who pointed out I still had to work on my walk. Damn you Scarlet! " xxxxx I can't walk in heels. Or any shoes! I often find myself stomping around like I have a massive pair of bollocks dangling under my skirt. I giggle to myself and stomp off scratching my arse. | |||
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" So do you think movement is copied and learnt as a child then. I.e. You copy your elder own sex. I haven't met many TVs to be honest, but those that I have, this is a major thing that makes them obviously men. But then again, women can also be bad at this " I think it probably is. My natural drab walk is a stride, almost a march and looking like you've just come off a parade ground when you're glammed up doesn't help you. If you watch how the different sexes stand, walk, move their hands when they talk, hunch their shoulders, it can all be a clue as to gender. | |||
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"So if you're a straight man who has sex with a woman who looks like a man, does that mean you're kidding yourself and you're actually bi/gay? " Pmsl I've feckin heard it all now !! WTF | |||
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"So if you're a straight man who has sex with a woman who looks like a man, does that mean you're kidding yourself and you're actually bi/gay? Pmsl I've feckin heard it all now !! WTF " Well apparently you can be straight if the man looks enough like a woman, just wondered if it worked the other way. | |||
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"So if you're a straight man who has sex with a woman who looks like a man, does that mean you're kidding yourself and you're actually bi/gay? Pmsl I've feckin heard it all now !! WTF Well apparently you can be straight if the man looks enough like a woman, just wondered if it worked the other way. " Good thinking - I'm with you on that one then . So how are your moves? Posture looks good on pics, can the animated Jodie walk the walk | |||
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" Some girls do, some girls don't. Some girls need a lot of loving and some look more androgynous, as so some men, and some look a little man-like in a frock. Some TVs look more womanly in a dress than I ever could. " i know I've got the feeling but, I don't know why? | |||
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" Looking like a lady / looking feminine is more than just a snapshot visual of the woman concerned. Movement is a massive distinction, posture as well. My sister has always slouched for example. Then look at the way different women walk. I would suggest that with correct movement and posture that a not so attractive woman could gain points Movement is a massive thing to try to get the hang of. Some people are very heavy on their feet. I was at a TG event the other month and one of the girlys walked as if she was carry a big bag of coal on each shoulder. She was really stomping her feet down and it spoilt her look, as she looked good otherwise. I'm finding it a learning curve, a bit of a steep one. I once spent a week practicing a feminine walk (not mincing, but walking like a lass - tutorials on youtube) only to go on a night out and be seen by a friend who pointed out I still had to work on my walk. Damn you Scarlet! So do you think movement is copied and learnt as a child then. I.e. You copy your elder own sex. I haven't met many TVs to be honest, but those that I have, this is a major thing that makes them obviously men. But then again, women can also be bad at this " I think it's to do with hip alignment and leg bones | |||
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" So do you think movement is copied and learnt as a child then. I.e. You copy your elder own sex. I haven't met many TVs to be honest, but those that I have, this is a major thing that makes them obviously men. But then again, women can also be bad at this I think it probably is. My natural drab walk is a stride, almost a march and looking like you've just come off a parade ground when you're glammed up doesn't help you. If you watch how the different sexes stand, walk, move their hands when they talk, hunch their shoulders, it can all be a clue as to gender. " that and the pipe full of rough shag | |||
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"So if you're a straight man who has sex with a woman who looks like a man, does that mean you're kidding yourself and you're actually bi/gay? " Yup. | |||
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"Men in dresses who look like men in dresses are far more sexy than men in dresses who look like women." What if they are men in dresses that look like women that look like men? | |||
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"Men in dresses who look like men in dresses are far more sexy than men in dresses who look like women. What if they are men in dresses that look like women that look like men?" Fuck no ! That's just not sexy. | |||
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"So if you're a straight man who has sex with a woman who looks like a man, does that mean you're kidding yourself and you're actually bi/gay? Pmsl I've feckin heard it all now !! WTF Well apparently you can be straight if the man looks enough like a woman, just wondered if it worked the other way. Good thinking - I'm with you on that one then . So how are your moves? Posture looks good on pics, can the animated Jodie walk the walk " Fuck yeah, it's about the only time my legs are together :D | |||
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"Some girls are bigger than others. Some girls mothers are bigger than other girls mothers. " My mother has shrunk. This does not bode well for me. | |||
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"Some women are stunning and look great, but some just look like a man in a dress. Agree? Disagree? Discuss...." No I rarely think a woman looks like a man in a dress ok some are munters but some men are too but a man in a dress always has a slight ball aroma going. | |||
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"I remember when a gang of us were involved with a carnival and the ladies all dressed up in burlesque outfits. Amazingly one of the ladies ended up looking very much like an aging transvestite. " Not sure if that's rude to old people or transvestites.. or both... | |||
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"Some people have genetic and hormonal mixes that means not everyone is going to look like a porn star, in the traditional sense. Just find who you are attracted to, and have sensitivity to those who are not so well blessed as you would like them to be. Diversity is good for the species. " Good post. | |||
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"I look like a man trying to look like a lady in a dress " Me too | |||
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"I look like a man trying to look like a lady in a dress Me too " And me | |||
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" That old maxim - "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" still holds true today. " Bollocks!! | |||
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"Interesting how people think it's ok to take the piss and be rude about tv's... yet when I post a thread very similar about women, (some) people react differently.... xx" Oh god just chill,lol relax | |||
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"some men look better in dresses than some women do " I try my hardest honey | |||
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"some men look better in dresses than some women do I try my hardest honey " We all try. Some are more successful than others tho. | |||
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