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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on and off this site and have noticed that folks are hiding their verifications and friends....not quite the liberal swinging attitude me things.....the fun is gone of reading verifications and linking people with people and realising what a small fraternity swinging is...come on swinger loosen up!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

what an interesting post

i shan't sleep tonite

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sounds like a piss take from a mushroom...bloody nitemares tonight for me...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it must be easier to be labelled a hardened swinger as a man than it is for a woman. Obviously the world is not ready for woman to be labelled as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

"

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

if only there was a market for used urine i'd be a rich man

oh well, i can dream

ooops, no i can't, not tonite anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

if only there was a market for used urine i'd be a rich man

oh well, i can dream

ooops, no i can't, not tonite anyways"

actually urea is used to cream skins...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Been on and off this site and have noticed that folks are hiding their verifications and friends....not quite the liberal swinging attitude me things.....the fun is gone of reading verifications and linking people with people and realising what a small fraternity swinging is...come on swinger loosen up!!!"

nope.... you don't need to know who people are friends with and who has met who.....

its none of ya business...

with the greatest of respect of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

if only there was a market for used urine i'd be a rich man

oh well, i can dream

ooops, no i can't, not tonite anyways

actually urea is used to cream skins..."

so are u suggesting that the girls should take up WS

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted..."

jesus.... the more I read the less I thick you actually have a clue......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

if only there was a market for used urine i'd be a rich man

oh well, i can dream

ooops, no i can't, not tonite anyways

actually urea is used to cream skins...

so are u suggesting that the girls should take up WS "

just suggesting an application lol

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

if only there was a market for used urine i'd be a rich man

oh well, i can dream

ooops, no i can't, not tonite anyways

actually urea is used to cream skins...

so are u suggesting that the girls should take up WS

just suggesting an application lol "

u can apply cream to my rear EXTERNALLY anytime u want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on and off this site and have noticed that folks are hiding their verifications and friends....not quite the liberal swinging attitude me things.....the fun is gone of reading verifications and linking people with people and realising what a small fraternity swinging is...come on swinger loosen up!!!"

we use to show our friends list but there are some people that spoil it,we were getting messages from friends of friends that didnt match our profile in any way! so now we hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted...

jesus.... the more I read the less I thick you actually have a clue...... "

Everybody knows something but not everyone can know everything. We are jigsaws in a puzzle. we need to interact with ppl to get the best from this world.

So yes your probably right.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

i hate it when a jigsaw puzzle has a piece missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

if only there was a market for used urine i'd be a rich man

oh well, i can dream

ooops, no i can't, not tonite anyways

actually urea is used to cream skins...

so are u suggesting that the girls should take up WS

just suggesting an application lol

u can apply cream to my rear EXTERNALLY anytime u want "

was not going to interalise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God this gets worse every day

It makes me wonder what the jells going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God this gets worse every day

It makes me wonder what the jells going on "

jellie beans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God this gets worse every day

It makes me wonder what the jells going on "

goddam it, i can't remember the last time i had a bubble bath. I'm to tall and big for the bath.

(u can ignore it, if that picture u have is not of bubbles)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God this gets worse every day

It makes me wonder what the jells going on

jellie beans?"

bloody phones auto spell checker lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God this gets worse every day

It makes me wonder what the jells going on

jellie beans?

bloody phones auto spell checker lol xx "

and there was I THINKING it was deliberate lol.. sorry did not mean to pull you up on spelling lol xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i show some, i hide some , on my couples profile all verifications are hidden.....why.......cuz i like it that way!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What IS it with people wishing to dictate what people do with their profiles?!!

Don't get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What IS it with people wishing to dictate what people do with their profiles?!!

Don't get it! "

The problem is ppl define things by their own standards not by a set standard. Thats y ppl get confused when they talk to each other cos each of us has a unique way of describing the word we are using.

i'm going to create a post for u to explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to us it does not matter who people are or are not freinds with if we like them we like them and if there are honest in what the profile says then does anything else matter well yes having some sexy fun matters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What IS it with people wishing to dictate what people do with their profiles?!!

Don't get it!

The problem is ppl define things by their own standards not by a set standard. Thats y ppl get confused when they talk to each other cos each of us has a unique way of describing the word we are using.

i'm going to create a post for u to explain

"

It has nothing to do with definition!

People exercise their right to hide who they play with.

Why would someone take offense at that and start a thread about it?!!

If I see a profile saying "seeking petite blonde" I wouldn't start a thread about racist profiles or write to the person saying he doesn't know what he's missing not meeting a bbw!!!

I respect the right of people to have what they like on their profile, and the choice to play with whoever they like!

Or do you think my concept is flawed?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on and off this site and have noticed that folks are hiding their verifications and friends....not quite the liberal swinging attitude me things.....the fun is gone of reading verifications and linking people with people and realising what a small fraternity swinging is...come on swinger loosen up!!!"

You are getting jaded. Lighten up yourself and change the way you approach things or try something new. Change YOURSELF.

It may surprise you to know that other site users are not honking seals flapping at keyboards waiting to be trained.... ...... oooooer ... Nice thought alert

I think they are C'mon Sammy .... Roll your balls for Granny !

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted...

jesus.... the more I read the less I thick you actually have a clue...... "

He's right actually Fabio. Its a well documented part of feminist theory. Well, the bit about women being expected to be meek and mild anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted...

jesus.... the more I read the less I thick you actually have a clue......

He's right actually Fabio. Its a well documented part of feminist theory. Well, the bit about women being expected to be meek and mild anyway."

Too Right Sisters !

We meek bitches are still being stoned in the market place !!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted...

jesus.... the more I read the less I thick you actually have a clue...... "

He has a point......unless I am reading it wrong.

I think he is saying a man seems to be allowed to tell all who he shagged and is called a stud, where as a woman would be called a slag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has a point......unless I am reading it wrong.

I think he is saying a man seems to be allowed to tell all who he shagged and is called a stud, where as a woman would be called a slag?

"

.

Thanks Rugby for the translation.

at that age old chestnut again!

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted..."

Its only tainted if you take it as tainted, each person is different and we all have our own ways.

And women are more discrete than men.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

And there was me thinking knowing who someone has fucked is less important than knowing if they want to fuck you next.... ya learn something new every day.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Oh dear, is my personality not laid sufficiently bare because the snapshot remarks of some of the people I've met in life are not visible to some other people I may meet in future?

Oh, what a shame.

* moves on with my life *

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

[Removed by poster at 12/06/10 09:47:34]

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Oh dear, is my personality not laid sufficiently bare because the snapshot remarks of some of the people I've met in life are not visible to some other people I may meet in future?

Oh, what a shame.

* moves on with my life *

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

You got a stutter this morning honey?

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By *udereMan
over a year ago

haringey

o.p Fab getting boring is it ? The delete profile link is somewhere to the left of your screen mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got a stutter this morning honey?"

.

I believe it may have something to do with Fab being slow to load, and he was impatient and clicked twice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted..."

Same old story a man plays about then hes a hero But a lady doing it then shes a slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live and let live I say !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its got nothing to do with being a hardened swinger and more to do with discretion

the world doesn't like woman to be non discrete.

but a man - yes, it's allowed.

this world is fucked up. everything u hear is so tainted...

Same old story a man plays about then hes a hero But a lady doing it then shes a slut."

I've done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me too !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too !!

"

Slut bucket ! ( insert obligatory wink to show gaspers it's not intended as a true reflection of regard for the quoted )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too !!

Slut bucket ! ( insert obligatory wink to show gaspers it's not intended as a true reflection of regard for the quoted ) "

taken as the compliment it was intended as !!!im happy to be one !!! but i am a lady !!!

grannys r us !!!! come on laine where are ya ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this may be swimming against the tide but what the Hell.

We do understand what the O.P means.

Why hide your friends or verifications,unless your ashamed of them or are trying to give a false impression.

We admit that we have made a decision to contact or not based on them.

For instance,they may have a profile that states that they are advocates of safe sex but their verifications prove that they frequently meet bareback only couples.

That would be a good reason for hiding them and is why we view profiles that do with suspicion.

What was the point in having those facility in the first place,if not to help people make informed choices?

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too !!

Slut bucket ! ( insert obligatory wink to show gaspers it's not intended as a true reflection of regard for the quoted )

taken as the compliment it was intended as !!!im happy to be one !!! but i am a lady !!!

grannys r us !!!! come on laine where are ya ???"

I'm here have been recovering from a slutty day yesterday... but oh was he worth it!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You got a stutter this morning honey?"

I posted 3 times???

It's a glitch on my browser. I click send, but it takes me back to the same screen instead of on to the thread...sometimes.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Well this may be swimming against the tide but what the Hell.

We do understand what the O.P means.

Why hide your friends or verifications,unless your ashamed of them or are trying to give a false impression.

We admit that we have made a decision to contact or not based on them.

For instance,they may have a profile that states that they are advocates of safe sex but their verifications prove that they frequently meet bareback only couples.

That would be a good reason for hiding them and is why we view profiles that do with suspicion.

What was the point in having those facility in the first place,if not to help people make informed choices?

XXXX"

I could selectively hide all my "bareback" verifications, and you'd be none the wiser, though.

In fact that's more misleading.

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton


"Been on and off this site and have noticed that folks are hiding their verifications and friends....not quite the liberal swinging attitude me things.....the fun is gone of reading verifications and linking people with people and realising what a small fraternity swinging is...come on swinger loosen up!!!"

having been on more sites than a care to remember FABSWINGERS , is by far and away the best yet

it does have a few very minor things that arent perfect

having said that , if a person gave you a free car that had 6 months tax 10 months mot , and a full tank of petrol

would you complain if the rear window wiper didnt work ?

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"Been on and off this site and have noticed that folks are hiding their verifications and friends....not quite the liberal swinging attitude me things.....the fun is gone of reading verifications and linking people with people and realising what a small fraternity swinging is...come on swinger loosen up!!!

having been on more sites than a care to remember FABSWINGERS , is by far and away the best yet

it does have a few very minor things that arent perfect

having said that , if a person gave you a free car that had 6 months tax 10 months mot , and a full tank of petrol

would you complain if the rear window wiper didnt work ? "

dam right i would lol

it's what single men do best lol whinge and whine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this may be swimming against the tide but what the Hell.

We do understand what the O.P means.

Why hide your friends or verifications,unless your ashamed of them or are trying to give a false impression.

We admit that we have made a decision to contact or not based on them.

For instance,they may have a profile that states that they are advocates of safe sex but their verifications prove that they frequently meet bareback only couples.

That would be a good reason for hiding them and is why we view profiles that do with suspicion.

What was the point in having those facility in the first place,if not to help people make informed choices?

XXXX

I could selectively hide all my "bareback" verifications, and you'd be none the wiser, though.

In fact that's more misleading."

I agree wholeheartedly!

Nothing to stop people being selective about the photos they post, verifications they show.

We all have sex with strangers! We try to mitigate the risks as best we can but it's laughable scrutinising profiles to see who's slept with whom then go off to a club and shag whoever walks through the door without a by your leave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet people for sex at clubs and on here???

I thought it was an evangelist website xx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Well this may be swimming against the tide but what the Hell.

We do understand what the O.P means.

Why hide your friends or verifications,unless your ashamed of them or are trying to give a false impression.

We admit that we have made a decision to contact or not based on them.

For instance,they may have a profile that states that they are advocates of safe sex but their verifications prove that they frequently meet bareback only couples.

That would be a good reason for hiding them and is why we view profiles that do with suspicion.

What was the point in having those facility in the first place,if not to help people make informed choices?

XXXX"

The point of having those facilities is to allow people to use them on their own profiles as they see fit and tbh it's no one else's business who meets who and who is friends with who apart from the profile owners themselves!

As always just my tuppence worth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet people for sex at clubs and on here???

I thought it was an evangelist website xx "

You'd be forgiven for thinking so!

Some people seem to have so many things on their check list I'm surprised they meet at all: they seem right hoots!

We can only account for ourselves, playmates will say anything to get a meet, we make judgement calls, take all the precautions we can, but we ALL indulge in a high risk past time: sex with strangers!

If it got to the stage where I worried "unduly" about getting a STD I'd knock this on the head and join the jam and Jerusalem brigade!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided to hide my verifications from Day 1, as I consider them as private between individuals, and do not see the need to display them just to please others in order to show I have nothing to hide!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i too keep my friends private and will put on verifications if i want to what happens is my business and not really anyone elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people really need to get out and enjoy the sunshine and the real live world if this is all they have to worry about.....

its gettin boring....leave!! simple! its up to the couple or individual in question what they want to show and if someone doesnt like it thats their problem! why u want to see everythin? looking to make up wee fantasies about what they did and who too blah blah?? plenty of porn online!

i keep mine hidden and only show verifications if its to prove to a potential meet that i am female and have met people! it doesnt mean im gonna meet them though! same with friends list no ones business except mine i cant be arsed with this " oh you friends with them blah blah they did x y z no so forth! pictures under friends list because i dont want the world gawpin at them!

go out and join the real world for a wee while you might enjoy it! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on and off this site and have noticed that folks are hiding their verifications and friends....not quite the liberal swinging attitude me things.....the fun is gone of reading verifications and linking people with people and realising what a small fraternity swinging is...come on swinger loosen up!!!"

Its fine to say that but when you reject someone and they badmouth you to others who you have met its not nice. We just like a little privacy is that so wrong?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As always, the site lets people choose what they want to do, be it hide verifications/ friends lists or show them to anyone who wants to look at your profile.

Us.....we use our gut instinct to decide wether to meet anyone or not.

We don't need to see who they have played with or who their friends are to make that decision......and if I am honest, if a person put so much importance on what OTHER people say about a person/persons before they decide to meet someone or not, then I would be worried they can't actually make their own minds up, and we wouldn't want to play with them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As always, the site lets people choose what they want to do, be it hide verifications/ friends lists or show them to anyone who wants to look at your profile.

Us.....we use our gut instinct to decide wether to meet anyone or not.

We don't need to see who they have played with or who their friends are to make that decision......and if I am honest, if a person put so much importance on what OTHER people say about a person/persons before they decide to meet someone or not, then I would be worried they can't actually make their own minds up, and we wouldn't want to play with them anyway."

O.K,lets put this another way.

Your interests list "safe sex",you may be adamant about that,we are,also you only meet single guys.

Try doing a search for people who only play bareback or for cumsluts.

Then see how many single guys who do "safe sex" are on their lists.

Then tell us it doesn't interest you,maybe even worry you!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"As always, the site lets people choose what they want to do, be it hide verifications/ friends lists or show them to anyone who wants to look at your profile.

Us.....we use our gut instinct to decide wether to meet anyone or not.

We don't need to see who they have played with or who their friends are to make that decision......and if I am honest, if a person put so much importance on what OTHER people say about a person/persons before they decide to meet someone or not, then I would be worried they can't actually make their own minds up, and we wouldn't want to play with them anyway.

O.K,lets put this another way.

Your interests list "safe sex",you may be adamant about that,we are,also you only meet single guys.

Try doing a search for people who only play bareback or for cumsluts.

Then see how many single guys who do "safe sex" are on their lists.

Then tell us it doesn't interest you,maybe even worry you!"

Do you not just insist that any males you play with wear a condom or they don't get near you? Or is that just too simple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As always, the site lets people choose what they want to do, be it hide verifications/ friends lists or show them to anyone who wants to look at your profile.

Us.....we use our gut instinct to decide wether to meet anyone or not.

We don't need to see who they have played with or who their friends are to make that decision......and if I am honest, if a person put so much importance on what OTHER people say about a person/persons before they decide to meet someone or not, then I would be worried they can't actually make their own minds up, and we wouldn't want to play with them anyway.

O.K,lets put this another way.

Your interests list "safe sex",you may be adamant about that,we are,also you only meet single guys.

Try doing a search for people who only play bareback or for cumsluts.

Then see how many single guys who do "safe sex" are on their lists.

Then tell us it doesn't interest you,maybe even worry you!

Do you not just insist that any males you play with wear a condom or they don't get near you? Or is that just too simple? "

How many people on here honestly use condoms for oral?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"As always, the site lets people choose what they want to do, be it hide verifications/ friends lists or show them to anyone who wants to look at your profile.

Us.....we use our gut instinct to decide wether to meet anyone or not.

We don't need to see who they have played with or who their friends are to make that decision......and if I am honest, if a person put so much importance on what OTHER people say about a person/persons before they decide to meet someone or not, then I would be worried they can't actually make their own minds up, and we wouldn't want to play with them anyway.

O.K,lets put this another way.

Your interests list "safe sex",you may be adamant about that,we are,also you only meet single guys.

Try doing a search for people who only play bareback or for cumsluts.

Then see how many single guys who do "safe sex" are on their lists.

Then tell us it doesn't interest you,maybe even worry you!

Do you not just insist that any males you play with wear a condom or they don't get near you? Or is that just too simple?

How many people on here honestly use condoms for oral? "

Taking on a football analogy (even although I hate football) lol - you changed the goalposts there

Anything to try and win a game tonight eh? Sorry I couldn't resist that one!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"As always, the site lets people choose what they want to do, be it hide verifications/ friends lists or show them to anyone who wants to look at your profile.

Us.....we use our gut instinct to decide wether to meet anyone or not.

We don't need to see who they have played with or who their friends are to make that decision......and if I am honest, if a person put so much importance on what OTHER people say about a person/persons before they decide to meet someone or not, then I would be worried they can't actually make their own minds up, and we wouldn't want to play with them anyway.

O.K,lets put this another way.

Your interests list "safe sex",you may be adamant about that,we are,also you only meet single guys.

Try doing a search for people who only play bareback or for cumsluts.

Then see how many single guys who do "safe sex" are on their lists.

Then tell us it doesn't interest you,maybe even worry you!"

All's you can do is protect yourself really as not everyone will tell the truth.

Anyone can publish or hide verifications , people can hide verifications that has a bareback theme to it, or even not ask for the verification at all and only show the ones that do do safe sex...so nothing is foolproof.

Even if they had 5 verifications of playing with people who don't do bareback, whos to say they didn't? Unless you were at their meet no one would know the truth.

What if they had sex three days ago from a one night stand that they met in a pub and that was bareback, we wouldn't know that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As always, the site lets people choose what they want to do, be it hide verifications/ friends lists or show them to anyone who wants to look at your profile.

Us.....we use our gut instinct to decide wether to meet anyone or not.

We don't need to see who they have played with or who their friends are to make that decision......and if I am honest, if a person put so much importance on what OTHER people say about a person/persons before they decide to meet someone or not, then I would be worried they can't actually make their own minds up, and we wouldn't want to play with them anyway.

O.K,lets put this another way.

Your interests list "safe sex",you may be adamant about that,we are,also you only meet single guys.

Try doing a search for people who only play bareback or for cumsluts.

Then see how many single guys who do "safe sex" are on their lists.

Then tell us it doesn't interest you,maybe even worry you!

Do you not just insist that any males you play with wear a condom or they don't get near you? Or is that just too simple?

How many people on here honestly use condoms for oral?

Taking on a football analogy (even although I hate football) lol - you changed the goalposts there

Anything to try and win a game tonight eh? Sorry I couldn't resist that one! "

Just stating the facts,very few people use condoms for oral.

However if one of your "rules" is no ejaculating into the woman's mouth then the risk of infection is extremely low as stated in hivinsite.ucfs.edu/InSite?page=pr-rr-05%20

Would you want your partner sucking a guy you knew had been bare backing on a regular basis?

No one can play 100% safe but we can play as safe as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

O.K,lets put this another way.

Your interests list "safe sex",you may be adamant about that,we are,also you only meet single guys.

Try doing a search for people who only play bareback or for cumsluts.

Then see how many single guys who do "safe sex" are on their lists.

Then tell us it doesn't interest you,maybe even worry you!

All's you can do is protect yourself really as not everyone will tell the truth.

Anyone can publish or hide verifications , people can hide verifications that has a bareback theme to it, or even not ask for the verification at all and only show the ones that do do safe sex...so nothing is foolproof.

Even if they had 5 verifications of playing with people who don't do bareback, whos to say they didn't? Unless you were at their meet no one would know the truth.

What if they had sex three days ago from a one night stand that they met in a pub and that was bareback, we wouldn't know that either."

We fully understand what your saying and agree.

However were that information does exist it would be foolhardy not to take advantage of it!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We do fine on how we out the people we don't want to play with.

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over a year ago


"We do fine on how we out the people we don't want to play with. "

Well lets hope instinct and fingers crossed continues working for you.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"As always, the site lets people choose what they want to do, be it hide verifications/ friends lists or show them to anyone who wants to look at your profile.

Us.....we use our gut instinct to decide wether to meet anyone or not.

We don't need to see who they have played with or who their friends are to make that decision......and if I am honest, if a person put so much importance on what OTHER people say about a person/persons before they decide to meet someone or not, then I would be worried they can't actually make their own minds up, and we wouldn't want to play with them anyway.

O.K,lets put this another way.

Your interests list "safe sex",you may be adamant about that,we are,also you only meet single guys.

Try doing a search for people who only play bareback or for cumsluts.

Then see how many single guys who do "safe sex" are on their lists.

Then tell us it doesn't interest you,maybe even worry you!

Do you not just insist that any males you play with wear a condom or they don't get near you? Or is that just too simple?

How many people on here honestly use condoms for oral?

Taking on a football analogy (even although I hate football) lol - you changed the goalposts there

Anything to try and win a game tonight eh? Sorry I couldn't resist that one!

Just stating the facts,very few people use condoms for oral.

However if one of your "rules" is no ejaculating into the woman's mouth then the risk of infection is extremely low as stated in hivinsite.ucfs.edu/InSite?page=pr-rr-05%20

Would you want your partner sucking a guy you knew had been bare backing on a regular basis?

No one can play 100% safe but we can play as safe as possible. "

Seeing as I don't have a partner then the question of her sucking someone else won't ever come up - you might need to ask my ex-wife that question though!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"We do fine on how we out the people we don't want to play with.

Well lets hope instinct and fingers crossed continues working for you."

Obviously EVERYONE on this site is hoping that everyone is telling the truth, including the people you have met.....so I suppose everyone keeps their fingers crossed that the people you are choosing to play with are actually being honest.

For us, and I will repeat, we don't put a huge importance on peoples verifications as to how well they can shag or who they have met.....but we do enough checks for US to get the fun we want.

We would never sneer or question at how you decide who to meet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on and off this site and have noticed that folks are hiding their verifications and friends....not quite the liberal swinging attitude me things.....the fun is gone of reading verifications and linking people with people and realising what a small fraternity swinging is...come on swinger loosen up!!!"
My friends list is my business and i do chance it around a lot As for verifications i have hidden mine be course i am fed up with Couples and single Woman asking me what some of the blk guys on my list are like in the trouser department.

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