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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

90% of all first meets are"do you want to go for coffee". Is this a human failsafe location or am I the only person who's not a coffee drinker?

Any suggestions on good 1st meet locations or is it keep taking the hot chocolate?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The gum clinic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The gum clinic? "

cheeky

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

skip the coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The gum clinic? "

Do you have your own booth there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet is always a good idea. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing but find them as dull as dishwater personality wise when you meet in person. For me it's 25% aesthetics and 75% mental so a social is a good 'no pressure' way of deciding if I'm truly interested in getting jiggy wid it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A social meet is always a good idea. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing but find them as dull as dishwater personality wise when you meet in person. For me it's 25% aesthetics and 75% mental so a social is a good 'no pressure' way of deciding if I'm truly interested in getting jiggy wid it!"

That's the idea but coffee is such a boring suggestion. Was seeing if any other ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A social meet is always a good idea. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing but find them as dull as dishwater personality wise when you meet in person. For me it's 25% aesthetics and 75% mental so a social is a good 'no pressure' way of deciding if I'm truly interested in getting jiggy wid it!

That's the idea but coffee is such a boring suggestion. Was seeing if any other ideas"

It's hard to discuss the finer points of anal sex while bungee jumping!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"The gum clinic?

Do you have your own booth there? "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tea? Costa do a great range now lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The gum clinic?

Do you have your own booth there?

Yep "

Cool. Now there's a unique introduction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tea? Costa do a great range now lol"
so do i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about registry office? How many would panic and not tun up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually meet in a pub as we tend to meet evenings and weekends.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

meet in a wetherspoons as the d*unken old geezers will make u look better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more of a social in a pub girl.. dont drink coffee or tea.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Im more of a social in a pub girl.. dont drink coffee or tea. "

We also tend to go for social meets in a pub, a glass of wine or a beer can help a nervous couple relax..... much more than a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meet in a wetherspoons as the d*unken old geezers will make u look better"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me or do all wetherspoons have a d*unk in residence or lead d*unk? Depending on the time of day of course!

Maybe suggest something different, I love rock climbing, though I'm yet to find a meet brave enough to join me!

Duo bungee jump too extreme for you all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Library? Too boring. Park? Could be risky. Dinner? Expensive... Coffee is just easy, cheap, and safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swimming pool. You get to see all the varicose veins, wobbly bits,hairy spots and if you still want hanky panky with them you're either desperate or you actually like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of places but my favourites are lunch in a nice café or a meal or a drink in a country pub or dinner in a nice restaurant or wine and tapas....or cocktails

Hell... loads of things really

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Quasar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quasar?"

Dark place, heightened senses, seems like an ok idea until a spotty 15 year old stumbles in on you getting frisky! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet in the woods. Bring your own rope,gag and machete

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Dark place, heightened senses, seems like an ok idea until a spotty 15 year old stumbles in on you getting frisky! Lol"

Who the Hell gets frisky in Quasar? Don't you know there's a war on, Man?!!!

- Amy. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Meet in the woods. Bring your own rope,gag and machete "

This all sounded like great fun until you mentioned machete... x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A social meet is always a good idea. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing but find them as dull as dishwater personality wise when you meet in person. For me it's 25% aesthetics and 75% mental so a social is a good 'no pressure' way of deciding if I'm truly interested in getting jiggy wid it!

That's the idea but coffee is such a boring suggestion. Was seeing if any other ideas"

find somewhere that has a beautiful garden, a park, a beach, a stroll along the seafront. You could take drinks of choice and chat amiably. Imagination

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I suggest either meeting at a club or in a friendly pub. It all depends on the nature of the meet. A lot more guys seem to want to meet me in a layby in the back of beyond than wish to be seen having a drink with me in a TG friendly pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dark place, heightened senses, seems like an ok idea until a spotty 15 year old stumbles in on you getting frisky! Lol

Who the Hell gets frisky in Quasar? Don't you know there's a war on, Man?!!!

- Amy. x"

Sorry Major General Amy Mam

I am awaiting your orders mam! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet in the woods. Bring your own rope,gag and machete

This all sounded like great fun until you mentioned machete... x"

Coffee then?

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