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By *moSexGeeks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warwick

We have been to a club and met a some really good people's! They say they will verify us and long story short, we verify them and don't get one in return.

This had happened twice. Does anyone else get the same or similar situations?

Thanks

J & S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we verified some and not had one back - not an issue for us at all - dont give to receive

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

All the time. Some don't verify, some don't know what to say and the rest I assume didn't enjoy it as much as I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give anything to receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive verified a few guys where i have been their first meet to give them a helping hand and they have not verified me back, it don't bother me as i only show a few anyway, i don't do it to get back i do it to help newbies, if they are already verified i don't even bother

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By *moSexGeeks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warwick

It wouldn't be so much of a problem for us except that we haven't actually got a verification for a proper meet yet.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

been shagging a fella for nearly 2 years now and never verified him

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's bad form to use a verification from someone and not return it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Its a pity that youre in need of a veri, and have helped others. I think it is probably just a magnified issue as youre in this situation, and perhaps they are not. It is easy for the rest of us, where we have veris, and some overlook the needs of others. For now, Id recommend meeting some great people socially who will understand and provide that support for you. Once established, you probably wont give it much thought, as many dont. Look out for any pending socials, or set up a social meet for coffee etc, and discuss veri in advance. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the last few meets that I have had we both decided not to bother with veris. Also the guy I meet most regular with we have never verified each other.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"It's bad form to use a verification from someone and not return it. "

I agree. Even if just to confirm they are real and turned up.

If people are not into using the veri system - fine. But don't then use one given you and not have the courtesy to do one in return.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I hardly verify who I meet for sex on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been shagging a fella for nearly 2 years now and never verified him "

Christ I bet you guys are sore! I'm sure his verification will be amazing once you've finished!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bad form to use a verification from someone and not return it.

I agree. Even if just to confirm they are real and turned up.

If people are not into using the veri system - fine. But don't then use one given you and not have the courtesy to do one in return. "

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bad form to use a verification from someone and not return it. "

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Did you meet couples ?

You've set your preferences for just F and FF - it's occasionally the case that veri's people try and leave you won't work if they're outside your filters.

This happened to us with someone older than out age preferences and they tried three times to leave us one - it didn't work until we raised the upper age.

I'm not saying this is the case - but have you messaged those people and asked if they actually left you one in the first place?

They might be thinking you rude for not displaying what they wrote.

It's never good to assume - and if you all had a good time what's the harm in a short message to ask the question?

A

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Did you meet couples ?

You've set your preferences for just F and FF - it's occasionally the case that veri's people try and leave you won't work if they're outside your filters.

This happened to us with someone older than out age preferences and they tried three times to leave us one - it didn't work until we raised the upper age.

I'm not saying this is the case - but have you messaged those people and asked if they actually left you one in the first place?

They might be thinking you rude for not displaying what they wrote.

It's never good to assume - and if you all had a good time what's the harm in a short message to ask the question?

A"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"All the time. Some don't verify, some don't know what to say and the rest I assume didn't enjoy it as much as I did.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bad form to use a verification from someone and not return it. "

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bad form to use a verification from someone and not return it. "

yep I totally agree with this.

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