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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual preference isn't shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"

Should people meet you just because you are here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept that as a reason for you not getting meets

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are plenty if larger figured people of both sexes who get plenty of meets.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are plenty of larger figured people of both sexes who get lots of great meets.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"

I'm very sorry you feel that way.

I'm not sure why you think people are going to be anything other than shallow on here though.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

im fat and get meets

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No one is too fat to be on here but it's down to preference I've never had an issue meeting because of my size

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I don't accept that as a reason for you not getting meets"

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Hell I'm fat and I get meets so that's got nowt to do with lack of meets!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you make me sick you don't meet people over 58 your so shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TaTa,

And please dont slam the door

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty if larger figured people of both sexes who get plenty of meets."

When I was active it was never an issue x never has been x it's all about confidence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fat and I get meets!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Im fat and I get meets! "

Nice ink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can feel a UNLOS coming

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

i'm over weight, and i get meets....And i am a single bloke who cant always accommodate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all to do with attitude.......

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"OP you make me sick you don't meet people over 58 your so shallow "

Or under 22's ... blatant bloody ageism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm slim and I don't get meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can feel a UNLOS coming "

nah this is a look at me thread they will hang about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fat and I get meets!

Nice ink "

Thanks Nice chicken!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I doubt it's your size. Looking at your pictures I have met many the same size and larger who do very well on here.

I'm short and fat and my size has never been the reason for me to be without a meet. Me being a fussy fat furby has more to do with my lack of meets than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it could be your attitude maybe?

Just saying

Her

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Im fat and I get meets!

Nice ink

Thanks Nice chicken!"

It's Colin he is a legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol "

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fat and I get meets!

Nice ink

Thanks Nice chicken!

It's Colin he is a legend "

He is a legend! How do I get to take his place?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it "

what 6 pack? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you're so right it's an utter disgrace people who don't find you attractive didn't provide the free escort service you were looking for.

The shame of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Im fat and I get meets!

Nice ink

Thanks Nice chicken!

It's Colin he is a legend

He is a legend! How do I get to take his place? "

You will have to work that one out for yourself

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

well going by your profile status, seems you have come across others who have perhaps rattled ya cage a tadd? Never been a prob with meets for us and me ( mrs ) aint no size O at all!! Deffinatly wouldn't let others dictate to you OP.... Up to you what you decide to do... But can't see how size alone can be the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it "
lol I know, I cant help it you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen an obese woman being shagged by two guys on cam. How fat are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodbye. ( wonder if the really go)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it

what 6 pack? lol"
lol and yes "I got a 6pack"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it "

Or the dodgy haircut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen an obese woman being shagged by two guys on cam. How fat are you?"

sorry i know i shouldn't but....lol

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

Why are you making threads if your leaving? You wont be able to view the replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you had a meet just a couple of weeks ago - more than a lot of people - but if you aint happy nobody making you stay

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I'd say it's more to do with attitude than how you look or your weight.

I'm a bigger girl n I do ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one is too fat to be on here but it's down to preference I've never had an issue meeting because of my size "

Same here!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you read the thread on squashing? theres folk out there for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm slim and I don't get meets!"

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'd say it's more to do with attitude than how you look or your weight.

I'm a bigger girl n I do ok. "

I think the issue might be that a "bigger girl" will do better than a "bigger bloke" on his own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it

Or the dodgy haircut "
Its not dodgy lol, very trendy and its called slick back

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Some happier looking pics might go along way. A lot of people complain of not getting meets then you see a face pic and it's no wonder. It's not like a passport pic you can smile and show some feeling in the pic. This isn't crimewatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I can't see anything wrong.

I've been with a larger person and she was a lovely person and a great person to be with and it was great

Don't let them get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it

Or the dodgy haircut Its not dodgy lol, very trendy and its called slick back "

Its extremely dodgy..... but thats just my opinion...i bet most ladies love it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

OP there are plenty of people on the site that are looking to meet with bigger people so I doubt its that.

But if something about the site is making you sick to your stomach then you probably do need to think about whether or not its the right time and place for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some happier looking pics might go along way. A lot of people complain of not getting meets then you see a face pic and it's no wonder. It's not like a passport pic you can smile and show some feeling in the pic. This isn't crimewatch "

You beat me to that response.

Get some decent pics of each other being happy!. Take a happy together selfie or get someone else to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't travel or accommodate.....that kind of makes it a bit tricky unless you're looking for some back seat fun at the end of your drive

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"OP there are plenty of people on the site that are looking to meet with bigger people so I doubt its that.

But if something about the site is making you sick to your stomach then you probably do need to think about whether or not its the right time and place for you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it

Or the dodgy haircut Its not dodgy lol, very trendy and its called slick back

Its extremely dodgy..... but thats just my opinion...i bet most ladies love it "
y is it dodgy then maibe ur generation? and yes the younger women likes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"
hey don't be too emotional. Lots of guys are single here and just wank themself laughing. Be happy. Post more pictures wana check out your fat ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it "

Well done naughty! One of the best forum replies I have read in ages. Made me laugh.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it

Or the dodgy haircut Its not dodgy lol, very trendy and its called slick back

Its extremely dodgy..... but thats just my opinion...i bet most ladies love it y is it dodgy then maibe ur generation? and yes the younger women likes it "

oh shag touché lol younger women lol

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By *all fella 1878Man
over a year ago

/Liverpool

I am the ultimate bbw lover no way I'd ever meet a skinny woman xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for the size- i once had a fantastic evening with a girl who was about size 26 and she's by far one of the sexiest women i've ever met, mainly because she was happy, confident, giggly, cheeky and just accepted her size and that some people fancied her and others didn't

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Some happier looking pics might go along way. A lot of people complain of not getting meets then you see a face pic and it's no wonder. It's not like a passport pic you can smile and show some feeling in the pic. This isn't crimewatch "

Justin Bieber had a cheeky grin on his police pic when he got arrested, lol.

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By *all fella 1878Man
over a year ago

/Liverpool

I love bigger women would never meet a skinny girl x

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

There are a lot of larger ladies on here and they don't seem to have a problem. One i know of has 90 verifications!!

Maybe you are sending out the wrong message. Are you getting messages and not answering them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for the size- i once had a fantastic evening with a girl who was about size 26 and she's by far one of the sexiest women i've ever met, mainly because she was happy, confident, giggly, cheeky and just accepted her size and that some people fancied her and others didn't"

aww i enjoyed that night too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow hey don't be too emotional. Lots of guys are single here and just wank themself laughing. Be happy. Post more pictures wana check out your fat ass"

You're hilarious! love it!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Some happier looking pics might go along way. A lot of people complain of not getting meets then you see a face pic and it's no wonder. It's not like a passport pic you can smile and show some feeling in the pic. This isn't crimewatch

Justin Bieber had a cheeky grin on his police pic when he got arrested, lol. "

Love it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

People don't want to fuck fat people??? Wonder who all the people on my bbw bash lists are there to fuck then??

OP I doubt it's your size that puts people off. I'm a size 24 and have enjoyed many fruitful years on here.

There are hundreds of bbw threads where people show their appreciation for fuller figured women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for the size- i once had a fantastic evening with a girl who was about size 26 and she's by far one of the sexiest women i've ever met, mainly because she was happy, confident, giggly, cheeky and just accepted her size and that some people fancied her and others didn't

aww i enjoyed that night too "

You're not big yer daft moo.....i do remember you almost falling out of a dressing gown several years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don't want to fuck fat people??? Wonder who all the people on my bbw bash lists are there to fuck then??

OP I doubt it's your size that puts people off. I'm a size 24 and have enjoyed many fruitful years on here.

There are hundreds of bbw threads where people show their appreciation for fuller figured women. "

The female might not be the author.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True, not gonna be so easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get any meets because I'm too sexy for fabswingers. I'm also too sexy for your cat, poor pussy, poor pussy cat. And I'm too sexy for Milan, New York and Japan. It's very, very frustrating.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's up to you what you do, but your profile really could do with work. If that was titivated it would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to you what you do, but your profile really could do with work. If that was titivated it would help. "

If anyone knows about titivating you do Tina.

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By *iscreet corkMan
over a year ago

CORK

looked at ur profile and ye look like a hot couple keep swinging folks

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Its hard to comment as there is little info that you have provided. Assuming that you are flexible on the types of people that you meet, and havent just contacted those who want slimmer - which could happen, if you were unlucky - then probability would suggest you should be meeting people. Clubs have larger people aplenty having fun too. My bet is that if you post into meets section this week you will get fucked rotten.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I don't get any meets because I'm too sexy for fabswingers. I'm also too sexy for your cat, poor pussy, poor pussy cat. And I'm too sexy for Milan, New York and Japan. It's very, very frustrating. "

That made me laugh, which makes you pretty sexy, way too sexy for my cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bbw are so sexy, i look for them always xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get any meets because I'm too sexy for fabswingers. I'm also too sexy for your cat, poor pussy, poor pussy cat. And I'm too sexy for Milan, New York and Japan. It's very, very frustrating. "

Not too sexy for my mum though....she lurves you!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't accept that as a reason for you not getting meets"

Neither do I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah chicks don't like fat blokes but lots of guys like fat chicks. So I presume male half wrote the op.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

drama queen !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of bullocks !!!

Size has nothing to do with it.

I'm fat and I get meets

Have a look at your profile.

Can't accommodate and can't travel ??

Maybe smile in your pics ?

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wide load coming through....never had any problems finding meets as many other larger ladies have said. It has a lot to do with presentation and approach though. I have to say....those profile pics are not in the slightest welcoming or even remotely approachable. They make you look like youre not at all happy to be here and to be honest, if its such a drag for you, maybe a rethink is in order and a wee break required. But, good luck whatever you decide. (Big chubby happy faced emoticon)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a load of bullocks !!!

Size has nothing to do with it.

I'm fat and I get meets

Have a look at your profile.

Can't accommodate and can't travel ??

Maybe smile in your pics ?

M

"

But you are a woman so doesn't matter if you big or slim. You could have no pulse and you will still get meets. Op must of been written by guy, in which case, makes sense because woman don't like big guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get any meets because I'm too sexy for fabswingers. I'm also too sexy for your cat, poor pussy, poor pussy cat. And I'm too sexy for Milan, New York and Japan. It's very, very frustrating.

Not too sexy for my mum though....she lurves you!!! "

And I lurve her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a load of bullocks !!!

Size has nothing to do with it.

I'm fat and I get meets

Have a look at your profile.

Can't accommodate and can't travel ??

Maybe smile in your pics ?

M

But you are a woman so doesn't matter if you big or slim. You could have no pulse and you will still get meets. Op must of been written by guy, in which case, makes sense because woman don't like big guys "

I'm sure some must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single person has a taste they prefer, we are all so different in many ways be it shape, size, looks, personality .... If I'm happy being in an environment or a site like this then I won't ever let shallow minded folk chase me away , just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder profile misleading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are going why is the profile still here?

These "IM LEAVING" threads always make me laugh.

If any one was going to leave they would have done it already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can feel a UNLOS coming

nah this is a look at me thread they will hang about "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going why is the profile still here?

These "IM LEAVING" threads always make me laugh.

If any one was going to leave they would have done it already"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat I get meets. Why don't you step back have a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"

What a really silly comment. I'm fat and have no problems attracting men to play with me, and your shallow comment is even sillier. People who join this site have every right to be as shallow and as fussy as they want. It's called being and adult and having preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going why is the profile still here?

These "IM LEAVING" threads always make me laugh.

If any one was going to leave they would have done it already"

lol just seen their profile, they wont leave until after Saturday, they have a meet request up. But with such a negative status I'd say their chances are pretty slim [n pun intended]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't panic folks, they have a meet request for Saturday so they're not leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going why is the profile still here?

These "IM LEAVING" threads always make me laugh.

If any one was going to leave they would have done it already

lol just seen their profile, they wont leave until after Saturday, they have a meet request up. But with such a negative status I'd say their chances are pretty slim [n pun intended] "

You type quicker than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going why is the profile still here?

These "IM LEAVING" threads always make me laugh.

If any one was going to leave they would have done it already

lol just seen their profile, they wont leave until after Saturday, they have a meet request up. But with such a negative status I'd say their chances are pretty slim [n pun intended]

You type quicker than me "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smiles, positive attitude and punctuation (please find the full stop on your keyboard!) will all help.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No wonder profile misleading."

How is their profile misleading?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Every single person has a taste they prefer, we are all so different in many ways be it shape, size, looks, personality .... If I'm happy being in an environment or a site like this then I won't ever let shallow minded folk chase me away , just be yourself "

Why is it shallow to not find fat attractive? I have no qualms regarding people not finding me sexually attractive. If *they* decide to tell me I shouldn't be on this site because of my size however...well, yeah, I can see how that could have me crying over my chocolate croissant and triple mocha chocha cappuccino...not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"

So having preferences and/ or not finding you attractive is shallow? Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye bye.

From a couple def not on the slim side but no problems with meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol

its nothing to do with the fact you have a 6 pack its the fact you won't shut the fook up about it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot accomodate cannot travel = come and pick us up if you want to play and oh yes we only like couples. You are kind of limiting yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fat but I get meets. Personally while be honest your not my type but I dont meet couples

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"

Thanks for letting us know.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

[Removed by poster at 17/07/14 07:21:17]

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Smiles, positive attitude and punctuation (please find the full stop on your keyboard!) will all help."

I'd have to agree. Glad i'm not the only one who thinks the OPs profile and attitude does them no favours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh, I'd better leave too as I'm fat, also should the BBW events all be cancelled as no-one wants to fuck fatties so surely there can't be any demand for such events??

I do find the OP very strange as I never have a problem finding lovely people to meet me and the BBW events I've attended have always been very busy nights.

Not sure your issues are with your size OP. I'd look at how you're using the site & what attitude you are portraying to people, because In my vast experience of the site fatties can get plenty of meets too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a big girl and have no problem getting meets, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm loathed to say this but your Fab profile is your advertisement, you have to sell yourselves to other people, Catch their eye with what you have to offer and then close the deal (no, I'm not making any connection between swinging and free prostitution).

Think of it as your shop window.

A nicely laid out display with clear labelling and lots to offer will always get more customers than a few dead wasps and outraged stock....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm loathed to say this but your Fab profile is your advertisement, you have to sell yourselves to other people, Catch their eye with what you have to offer and then close the deal (no, I'm not making any connection between swinging and free prostitution).

Think of it as your shop window.

A nicely laid out display with clear labelling and lots to offer will always get more customers than a few dead wasps and outraged stock...."

Outdated....stupid phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention seeking dont work , all you have done is thought wright were not getting any meets why ? If I put up were leaving coz were too fat people will get in touch feeling sorry for you and arrange a meet , sorry but your plans gone tits up , I'm a large , very large girl and I get a hell of a lot of meets

Try changing your attitude and profile , oh and a few more better pics won't go a miss !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weight is not an issue for me but whiners really turn me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"

With all due respect, I don't think you are correct. There are some people on here who would have an issue with size, but there are also many men and couples who seek larger built women/men/couples.

Sandra is not a slim lady, and its never been an issue. We found smoking, and not being able to accommodate, was more of an issue with most.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's seems a bit daft to me to miss out on fab rather than miss on out on flab.

People on here do meet overweight people and some overweight people are very successful so the evidence of that act suggests that the reason you were given may not be strictly accurate.

Think about all this in a more positive way: you're both confident to get naked with relative strangers, are open minded and comfortable with what you do. See it as a wake up call and consider losing a little weight, if not for swinging purposes but also perhaps for health reasons. Perhaps for your self esteem too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others said, it's all about attitude. We are all attracted to different qualities in a person. I do think, it's only my opinion , that smiling in your pics would help. You look unhappy to be on here. When someone is looking for a meet - they're looking for fun, so your photos & profile need to pull them in & make them feel like they'd have a good time with you.

I'm a BBW & I've been turned down due to my size , I'm just not their preference , but I'll be someone else's.

Be positive - smiles are infectious.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

larger ladies still get plenty but larger guys less so I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexual preference isn't shallow "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confusing when your profile says you've had no meets so you're off but you're latest veri is quite new and very negative status is off putting. No one likes negativity, its depressing and this is supposed to be fun.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"

The wonderful thing about Fab is there is someone for everyone, often just a case of finding them.

No one is attractive to everyone! I'm sure there are people you don't find sexually attractive on here.

Yes your weight will be a factor to some but I don't believe thats why no one, supposedly wants to meet you.

Would suggest a more positive attitude and a profile rewrite would be a good start. Also some more flattering happy looking photos might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm loathed to say this but your Fab profile is your advertisement, you have to sell yourselves to other people, Catch their eye with what you have to offer and then close the deal (no, I'm not making any connection between swinging and free prostitution).

Think of it as your shop window.

A nicely laid out display with clear labelling and lots to offer will always get more customers than a few dead wasps and outraged stock....

Outdated....stupid phone!"

ha ha....but maybe stock does get outraged when it's left in the shop window because no one fancies it ~ similar to the OP's dilemma minus the dead wasps!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

u could maybe crack a smile on your profile pictures you look proper miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u could maybe crack a smile on your profile pictures you look proper miserable"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u could maybe crack a smile on your profile pictures you look proper miserable"

I know that expression its the 'greggs are out of sausage rolls' face

Sad times

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

How is the leaving going....still packing ?

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"u could maybe crack a smile on your profile pictures you look proper miserable

I know that expression its the 'greggs are out of sausage rolls' face

Sad times"

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u could maybe crack a smile on your profile pictures you look proper miserable

I know that expression its the 'greggs are out of sausage rolls' face

Sad times"

Lol

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By *ohnweMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Am slim n fit , love women of all sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all

Well we have now decided to leave the site as being fat means that no 1 wants to play with ya.

Makes me sick to the stomach knowing that most on here r that shallow"

I'm fat and I get plenty

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"u could maybe crack a smile on your profile pictures you look proper miserable

I know that expression its the 'greggs are out of sausage rolls' face

Sad times"

Omg that's so funny! I've just shrieked with laughter in the office! Oh fuck. I've had to apologize an now been asked what I'm laughing at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is the leaving going....still packing ?"

They can't go yet, they have a meet advertised for Saturday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And relax....like many have said a positive attitude and a rewrite of your profile maybe helpful. Some new pictures and ones where your smiling too as you both don't look that happy.

Fab is a huge melting pot , not everyone will be attracted to you so concentrate on the ones that are.

Good luck OP and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is the leaving going....still packing ?"

Big clothes take longer to fold and are harder to fit in the suitcase!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I have been told I'm too fat for the site by one or two people. I accept I'm not for everyone, but its not stopped me from having plenty of meets. I'm proof that fat people can get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these replies offering very useful and helpful advice.........

What do we think the chances of them actually trying to help themselves out?

I forsee a UNLOS in our immediate future, after nobody meets em on Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP...to be honest it think you'v shot yourself in the foot, if it was a sympathy post it didn't work, can't see things getting any better for you after this! now might be a good time to leave

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

See I don't get it, I've never been told I'm too fat to swing or be on this site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these replies offering very useful and helpful advice.........

What do we think the chances of them actually trying to help themselves out?

I forsee a UNLOS in our immediate future, after nobody meets em on Saturday "

The thread was posted 11hrs ago and they've been online in the last 4hrs, they've obviously seen the advice and chosen to ignore it. They're doing themselves no favours whatsoever. They'll either stay and continue to be negative and blaming everyone else or be UNLOS very shortly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, 9hrs ago....dunno where I got 11 from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I don't get it, I've never been told I'm too fat to swing or be on this site... "

No neither have i surprisingly enough.

theres always a first time though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may have just been a drive by rant

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"

I forsee a UNLOS in our immediate future, after nobody meets em on Saturday "

I've seen this a few times on here - excuse my ignorance, but what's an UNLOS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is the leaving going....still packing ?

Big clothes take longer to fold and are harder to fit in the suitcase! "

fold? never fold clothes when packing, always roll them less creases

thats my tip for today..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I forsee a UNLOS in our immediate future, after nobody meets em on Saturday

I've seen this a few times on here - excuse my ignorance, but what's an UNLOS?"

User no longer on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is the leaving going....still packing ?

Big clothes take longer to fold and are harder to fit in the suitcase!

fold? never fold clothes when packing, always roll them less creases

thats my tip for today.. "

And a great one it is too, can also seemingly fit so much more in when you roll up rather than fold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I don't get it, I've never been told I'm too fat to swing or be on this site... "

nor me, i was a size 24 before i joined fat camp and i got as many messages then as i do now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I don't get it, I've never been told I'm too fat to swing or be on this site...

nor me, i was a size 24 before i joined fat camp and i got as many messages then as i do now "

no way were you that size? you've always looked sexy Miss Naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I don't get it, I've never been told I'm too fat to swing or be on this site...

nor me, i was a size 24 before i joined fat camp and i got as many messages then as i do now

no way were you that size? you've always looked sexy Miss Naughty "

i really was, i gained a little since you last saw me but then that was a while ago

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"

I forsee a UNLOS in our immediate future, after nobody meets em on Saturday

I've seen this a few times on here - excuse my ignorance, but what's an UNLOS?

User no longer on site "

Thank you

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Well I am chatting a larger lady up at the moment , all woman and am I going to bed her , yes a womans a woman no matter what shape or size .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I don't get it, I've never been told I'm too fat to swing or be on this site...

nor me, i was a size 24 before i joined fat camp and i got as many messages then as i do now

no way were you that size? you've always looked sexy Miss Naughty

i really was, i gained a little since you last saw me but then that was a while ago "

Well i'm always happy to pop round for a hands on update

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read the rest of this thread, so I dont know if its been mentioned already. I dont think its your size as there are lots of larger people having lots of fun.

I have seen loads of 'Plus Size' play at clubs... although sometimes I wished I hadn't!

Looking at your profile, its not your size that would put me off. Personally, I would be put off by the pictures alone. Without wanting to get personal, you look miserable/agressive in them.

That may be shallow, but your profile is like an advertising board!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fat and I get meets! "
I'm fit and I eat meat

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

We dont have enough fat threads on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont have enough fat threads on fab "

The 'I'm to skinny to get meets' dont get as much response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't read the rest of this thread, so I dont know if its been mentioned already. I dont think its your size as there are lots of larger people having lots of fun.

I have seen loads of 'Plus Size' play at clubs... although sometimes I wished I hadn't!

Yes i agree.

Looking at your profile, its not your size that would put me off. Personally, I would be put off by the pictures alone. Without wanting to get personal, you look miserable/agressive in them.

That may be shallow, but your profile is like an advertising board!"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Don't you just love the negative look at me threads.....going by your new status, you obviously have no intention on leaving!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

At least they've taken on board some of the comments made and doing new pics. Maybe they'll get more luck and no more negativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and can't keep up with my meet requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think no matter how down the site gets you negative and ranting status wont do you any favours

i looked at a profile the other day that said on his status....this site is full of wasters....whos going to reply to that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm skinny and get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And still here. Suprise Suprise.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I also think no matter how down the site gets you negative and ranting status wont do you any favours

i looked at a profile the other day that said on his status....this site is full of wasters....whos going to reply to that?"

Totally agree with you just makes you bypass them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The response to this thread is hilarious! So much vitriol and sarcasm! Someone has a paddy and throws their toys out Ha ha it happens all the time but the comments wow some are really interesting but not in a good way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't read the rest of this thread, so I dont know if its been mentioned already. I dont think its your size as there are lots of larger people having lots of fun.

I have seen loads of 'Plus Size' play at clubs... although sometimes I wished I hadn't!

Yes i agree.

Looking at your profile, its not your size that would put me off. Personally, I would be put off by the pictures alone. Without wanting to get personal, you look miserable/agressive in them.

That may be shallow, but your profile is like an advertising board! "

See, very occasionally I make sense!!!

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By *3PKMan
over a year ago

south of england


"Op, for me its the opposite, no one wanna fuck one with a 6pack and I got one lol "

Teach me your ways

#youaremyhero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg thats so rude ive met busty and omg awsome personality and an awsome friend to match so siz eis nothing its the personality but if you meet her and speak to her her heart is massive think that cple shuld be banned off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u could maybe crack a smile on your profile pictures you look proper miserable

I know that expression its the 'greggs are out of sausage rolls' face

Sad times"

That made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see so many friendly welcoming comments to a first time poster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm skinny and get meets. "

Ive seen your profile, no wonder your get meets

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I don't abuse people in pm's I don't see the need for it personally childish and pathetic.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As the OP is about wondering they are not having success then people are allowed to give some pointers, but please , be polite while doing it, some posts removed were really bitchy.

Welcome to the forum OP....hopefully you will realise that it just a preference as to whether people play with you or not and it could be anything that stops them wanting to, not just a persons weight.

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