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Why the Vitriol???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It saddens me the way some Fabbers use blanket statements based on one or two bad experiences. As a single man on here I am constantly included in nasty comments that single guys are ALL wasters or messers. I'm not so I resent the statement.

I politely answer questions that Fabbers ask in their status but in the majority of cases get no response.

My Mum used to say "manners cost nothing".

On the other hand the people I class as Fab-Friends are brilliant and make it worth staying here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligent people know that all those blanket statements are a load of crap and they're able to work out who's decent and who isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely just take it with a pinch of salt and pat yourself on the back for not being a toss pot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give a sheet about blanket statements...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

C'mon guys, can't we all just get along?

Group hug? No-one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forum btw and hope traffic isnt too bad down your way tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C'mon guys, can't we all just get along?

Group hug? No-one? "

Sod off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its ALL Bollox.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C'mon guys, can't we all just get along?

Group hug? No-one? "

No we cant.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There there! All will be better in the morning

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligent people know that all those blanket statements are a load of crap and they're able to work out who's decent and who isn't "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If it's not applicable to you why worry? If someone says something that *could* include me but doesn't, my response is "they're not talking about me!" and the earth continues to turn!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"C'mon guys, can't we all just get along?

Group hug? No-one?

Sod off "

Negative vibes, man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It saddens me the way some Fabbers use blanket statements based on one or two bad experiences. As a single man on here I am constantly included in nasty comments that single guys are ALL wasters or messers. "

Only you can choose whether or not generalisations upset you or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It saddens me the way some Fabbers use blanket statements based on one or two bad experiences. As a single man on here I am constantly included in nasty comments that single guys are ALL wasters or messers. I'm not so I resent the statement.

I politely answer questions that Fabbers ask in their status but in the majority of cases get no response.

My Mum used to say "manners cost nothing".

On the other hand the people I class as Fab-Friends are brilliant and make it worth staying here. "

My Mum used to say "manners cost nothing" too mind she also said the woman at no 33 is a right cow lol.

Blanket statements are in essence used by small minded people so just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All attention is good attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pissing on the group statements are often problematic, as implied members of the group pissed on ask "do they mean me?"

It's a good idea to have an umbrella if you don't want to be pissed on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C'mon guys, can't we all just get along?

Group hug? No-one?

Sod off

Negative vibes, man. "

Aww ok,have a big hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum used to say whothefuckareyou, I never took offence though.

Although i once took the Garden gate and sold it to the gypsies

Gimpo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of wind up mechants haunt social media. Probably the safest place for them, given that they would get a punch in the face if spouting that guff in ordinary conversation.

I always bear that thought in mind when reading certain comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anger management issues springs to mind

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's not applicable to you why worry? If someone says something that *could* include me but doesn't, my response is "they're not talking about me!" and the earth continues to turn!"

I think this post is about me.

Is it about me?

I am offended either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a jungle sometimes, it makes me wonder ,how I keep from goin' under..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I dont think in all my years on fab I have seen any universal condemnations for any gender or marital/swinging statuses. They would not be accepted as truthful, and as much as someone may be messed about, they would realise it could not be true for all similar people. As a single guy you will likely get most messages unanswered. And quite a few blocks will happen as a result. This is not because those users are rude etc, but because it is a norm for use on here. If anyone slurs others but you know this does not apply to you, then ignore and carry on. Life is to short to ponder and agonise on difficulties, other than to make the most of what you have. And culture great relationships on here - the rest dont matter at all, they are not for you.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I might post a new thread asking if I should stay on fab. Wondering if the flood of supportive posts can sway my decision ?

Then again might as well stay and keeping fabbing the pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am avoiding MTV crashes Cute. I could get in for free even but still not interested.

Thanks for the welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am avoiding MTV crashes Cute. I could get in for free even but still not interested.

Thanks for the welcome. "

your welcome.. good timing i just re checked this thread from last night Morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It saddens me the way some Fabbers use blanket statements based on one or two bad experiences. As a single man on here I am constantly included in nasty comments that single guys are ALL wasters or messers. I'm not so I resent the statement.

I politely answer questions that Fabbers ask in their status but in the majority of cases get no response.

My Mum used to say "manners cost nothing".

On the other hand the people I class as Fab-Friends are brilliant and make it worth staying here.

My Mum used to say "manners cost nothing" too mind she also said the woman at no 33 is a right cow lol.

Blanket statements are in essence used by small minded people so just ignore them. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am avoiding MTV crashes Cute. I could get in for free even but still not interested.

Thanks for the welcome.

your welcome.. good timing i just re checked this thread from last night Morning "

Good morning to you too. Have a great dsy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of wind up mechants haunt social media. Probably the safest place for them, given that they would get a punch in the face if spouting that guff in ordinary conversation.

I always bear that thought in mind when reading certain comments.

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Absolutely agree with this statement.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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