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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably a FAQ but never mind, I'm going to ask anyway.

I've been on the site nearly 3 years now have met some wonderful people who have been kind enough to leave me verifications. I have 37 in tota, which isn't bad. Probably half have been from coffee meets, some are duplications (why, I don't know!)

I am honest enough to show how many I have and discreet enough not to share what's gone on.

Question is, do you think the amount of veris put potential dates off or would you prefer to see them rather than somebody who has been on the site and either hides everything or has had no meets?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I choose my meets on whether their profile and/or message attracts me and their face doesn't make me cry. Verifications are just a bit of added info.

However I won't meet people who think people with lots of veris are undiscerning. They probably wouldn't like me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I choose my meets on whether their profile and/or message attracts me and their face doesn't make me cry. Verifications are just a bit of added info.

However I won't meet people who think people with lots of veris are undiscerning. They probably wouldn't like me anyway."

I Would rather meet someone who has verification either published or not, than someone who has been on for ages and either hides all mention of veris or has none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah you got too many now. Women won't be impressed with it. Just show 5 or 6 of the actual verifications rather then summary

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like reading verifications, some are very funny. Some even intentionally.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I like reading verifications, some are very funny. Some even intentionally. "

And some make you go

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

In the same vein of obstinance that led me not to have a cock pic, I now refuse to show any verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been told I look like a complete slut

They seen how many I have

But clearly haven't read them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah you got too many now. Women won't be impressed with it. Just show 5 or 6 of the actual verifications rather then summary "

So whose veri's do I show without upsetting the others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah you got too many now. Women won't be impressed with it. Just show 5 or 6 of the actual verifications rather then summary

So whose veri's do I show without upsetting the others "

The latest 5?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Nah you got too many now. Women won't be impressed with it. Just show 5 or 6 of the actual verifications rather then summary

So whose veri's do I show without upsetting the others "

Show the verifications YOU want to show.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have no major hard and fast rules, except i only meet men with 10 inches plus. Sorry, oh it is about veris. It is all about the people, their wants and attractiveness. The volume and content of veris is a bit of an aside, but Id expect more than none. No veris are going to be giveaways that someone is dreadful, so I expect them all to be positive, so Im not sure if any detail is that important. Display several but dont feel you have to show them all. Im not deterred by those who have 101, but it is a bit overdone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer to see them so i have an idea what sort of person i might be meeting, dont think theres any need to show too many though just a few recent ones.

someone told me that he didnt like to show too many verifications as it looks like bragging about how many people hes met. i think its different for couples though. I would think its not a good idea for men who are cheating on their wives to show too many, it wouldnt look good if their wives were to see them if they found out, or maybe they arent realy bothered if they did see them.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Judging people based on verifications always seems odd.. you miss all the data from meets via other sites, casual encounters in clubs or just offsite, or repeat meets that don't bother. And any of those situations could be the utter opposite of what the verifications on here *seem* to tell you.

However, as always, each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a FAQ but never mind, I'm going to ask anyway.

I've been on the site nearly 3 years now have met some wonderful people who have been kind enough to leave me verifications. I have 37 in tota, which isn't bad. Probably half have been from coffee meets, some are duplications (why, I don't know!)

I am honest enough to show how many I have and discreet enough not to share what's gone on.

Question is, do you think the amount of veris put potential dates off or would you prefer to see them rather than somebody who has been on the site and either hides everything or has had no meets?"

It has virtually no affect on who we meet apart from if they had just done a 50 man bareback gangbang or met people we want on association with.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I've yet to turn down a meet who hasn't any verifications as I'm more than capable of finding out if they're for me or not. The opinions of a total stranger in deciding if I should fuck another stranger is bizarre to me.

That said, verifications have put me off meeting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to turn down a meet who hasn't any verifications as I'm more than capable of finding out if they're for me or not. The opinions of a total stranger in deciding if I should fuck another stranger is bizarre to me.

That said, verifications have put me off meeting! "

Same for us a lack of a verification has never put us off or the presence of one made us meet though some verifications have tipped the scale in deciding no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to turn down a meet who hasn't any verifications as I'm more than capable of finding out if they're for me or not. The opinions of a total stranger in deciding if I should fuck another stranger is bizarre to me.

That said, verifications have put me off meeting! "

You cant really know what a persons like though and you dont usually find out what they are like until after you have had sex with them. i dont believe everything their verifications say though its just to get an idea.

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