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bit of a rant !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry people !!! and this has probably been covered before and I am sure someone out there will let me know !!.

Just looked at a great profile and was about to reply when after reading the profile requirements very closely she asked to see up to date pics from any people getting in touch with her !!!!

not a problem I have pics on my profile I have nothing to hide !!!

BUT this person has no pics on her profile at all !!!

So after a long winded rant my question is

what the fuck !!!!

is this a cheek or is she just looking after herself

my p/o is it's a cheek

look forward to hearing your views guys

Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women make the rules...always have, always will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always wary of people who do not have pics and/or refuse to exchange pics, as I feel they have something to hide.

I am also wary about some of the pics may not be recent or genuine.

When first I "came back out to play" after a rest of about 7 years, the only pics I had were just a couple taken 7 years ago, and my only face pic was taken 5y ago for my CRB check.

When requested to exchange pics, I would forewarn the recipients about the age of the pics in advance, so as not to mis-represent myself, as I believe it is the right thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women make the rules...always have, always will"

Do we? lol

Never noticed that

Serious answer? I feel its same rule for both - if I want a pic of somebody I feel I need to be able to send on/show one of me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

smacks of double standards ... tell her to go fuck herself

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"sorry people !!! and this has probably been covered before and I am sure someone out there will let me know !!.

Just looked at a great profile and was about to reply when after reading the profile requirements very closely she asked to see up to date pics from any people getting in touch with her !!!!

not a problem I have pics on my profile I have nothing to hide !!!

BUT this person has no pics on her profile at all !!!

So after a long winded rant my question is

what the fuck !!!!

is this a cheek or is she just looking after herself

my p/o is it's a cheek

look forward to hearing your views guys

Andy

"

Unless I'm misreading you, her profile asks that messages be accompanied by a pic. If you send her one and she doesn't reciprocate, THEN complain (and to her, not us).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"smacks of double standards ... tell her to go fuck herself "

lol nice one !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was tricked once in my early days took a train to derby for a meet once went outside to meet him and he was shouting and looked nothing like his picture I think 20 years out of date to put it mildly so ran back in train station can never be too careful.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

"

In a nutshell... lol

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

just because she didn't have a pic in her public or private gallery doesn't mean that she doesn't have any pics on the site that she can send to people as she wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

"

a liberty taken by a select few.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

a liberty taken by a select few. "

A liberty open to every member on here actually

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

In a nutshell... lol"

that's scrotum is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

"

fair comment !!! but you have never had an itch you wanted to scratch

and thats all this is after all,

people ask for requiremnts on their profile from others but do completely the opposite !!!

double standards methinks

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

fair comment !!! but you have never had an itch you wanted to scratch

and thats all this is after all,

people ask for requiremnts on their profile from others but do completely the opposite !!!

double standards methinks

"

Did she send you the first message?, or did you contact her first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and delete mate,its probably a guy!

There's obviously something iffy about it anyway.

Do you really want to meet someone with such double standards?

What annoys us is when you see a nice avatar in the forums and click on their profile and hey presto no pics!

At least with silhouettes you don't waste your time clicking on their profile,read it,then click on the pics only to find there are none!

Things were much simpler when people with no pics just had a silhouette!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

fair comment !!! but you have never had an itch you wanted to scratch

and thats all this is after all,

people ask for requiremnts on their profile from others but do completely the opposite !!!

double standards methinks

"

Plenty of people on here like that, most of the women that do it probably feel as they are in the minority that they can ask for what they want. There will be some guy on here who bows down to it, so they are probably right, but if it annoys you then just leave it!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Why are people so annoyed about other members profiles?, why does it get to people so much on here?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

Things were much simpler when people with no pics just had a silhouette!

"

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view is.....If what you see on a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to another one.

"

Oh you silly billy! If they did that there wouldn't be anything to moan about!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

[Removed by poster at 10/06/10 23:22:30]

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

So if a member (male or female) only had one photo of themselves they shouldn't feel free to use it as a avitar?......Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

listen I am not some newbie on here !!! been doing this for a while now

just thought I would express an opinion and like always replys are varied !!!

and just like some people tell me to ignore and move on !!! kool

do the fuckin same with this thread

ya dont like it it ignore it and move on

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"listen I am not some newbie on here !!! been doing this for a while now

just thought I would express an opinion and like always replys are varied !!!

and just like some people tell me to ignore and move on !!! kool

do the fuckin same with this thread

ya dont like it it ignore it and move on

"

Oh but I do like it.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"listen I am not some newbie on here !!! been doing this for a while now

just thought I would express an opinion and like always replys are varied !!!

and just like some people tell me to ignore and move on !!! kool

do the fuckin same with this thread

ya dont like it it ignore it and move on

Oh but I do like it....."

MMM lol I can tell

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

You start a thread....people are going to post on it, it's not off topic, it's just not what you wanted to hear.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

ok keep the aggression off the forums please.....there really is no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to post before this gets closed.....................................

Not saying anything ....... just sticking me mush in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok keep the aggression off the forums please.....there really is no need for it.

"

Am I not even allowed to throw my drink at the screen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You start a thread....people are going to post on it, it's not off topic, it's just not what you wanted to hear."

I have absolutely no problem with what you have to say !!!

and if I didn't want people to comment then I wouldn't post !!!

but like has been said on this thread about my objection in the beginning, you dont like move on !!!

which is what I just said you dont like whayt I said move on !!!

simples eeeek

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

You're just sticking ya plimsoll in

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"ok keep the aggression off the forums please.....there really is no need for it.

Am I not even allowed to throw my drink at the screen? "

Ah go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people so annoyed about other members profiles?, why does it get to people so much on here?

"

I've been saying the same thing for ages: it's as if there's a sense of entitlement!

For all people advocate preferences some people obviously feel slighted in some way so come on the forums to vent their spleens!

A looks at B likes the pics wants to contact B reads profile to find he doesn't meet criteria as he's a bin man and B is looking for a professional!

So what does A do, start a post about professionals being up their own arses or such like!

Honestly some of you really need to get over yourselves!

Right, off to search profiles for folk who DON'T want bbws and come back later to bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok keep the aggression off the forums please.....there really is no need for it.

Am I not even allowed to throw my drink at the screen?

Ah go on then "

Sorry, I can't see what you just wrote there, there's a bit of china handle sticking out of my screen!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"You're just sticking ya plimsoll in "

They are the flatties she wished she had at Cardiff !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a member (male or female) only had one photo of themselves they shouldn't feel free to use it as a avitar?......Why?

"

Simple,because in the past people with no pics just had a silhouette,that way the others,who are only interested in profiles with pics,ignored them.

Also,its not as if their avatar can be viewed as a photo on their profile because it doesn't come up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you just love Thurdays?!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

No I bloody hate thursdays

Im only coming back tomorrow cos Femme promised me a crunchie

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I love every day.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you just love Thurdays?! "

The forums have been at melting point for a while.

Think everyone is on each others throats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you just love Thurdays?!

The forums have been at melting point for a while.

Think everyone is on each others throats

"

Wish I was in someones throat!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Don't you just love Thurdays?!

The forums have been at melting point for a while.

Think everyone is on each others throats

"

The English are happy......at the moment

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Only 7 minutes left and traumatic Thursday will be no more..........oh..........then it will be Freaky friday

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Only 7 minutes left and traumatic Thursday will be no more..........oh..........then it will be Freaky friday "

And then roll on Sarky Saturday ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only 7 minutes left and traumatic Thursday will be no more..........oh..........then it will be Freaky friday

And then roll on Sarky Saturday ........ "

.

Saturdays are usually, "I am not meeting and I am bored!"

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Its Freaky Friday!!!!

wheres me crunchie?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Its Freaky Friday!!!!

wheres me crunchie? "

Femme will be along with it soon - you just gotta be a little patient! or a nurse ..... damn my mind is wandering now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its Freaky Friday!!!!

wheres me crunchie? "

Is that what you call it these days? You need to get some more meets!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Only 7 minutes left and traumatic Thursday will be no more..........oh..........then it will be Freaky friday

And then roll on Sarky Saturday ........

.

Saturdays are usually, "I am not meeting and I am bored!" "

Aye and that's usually when it turns into Sarky Saturday with the replies those threads get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're just sticking ya plimsoll in

They are the flatties she wished she had at Cardiff !!"

The plimosles are OFF !! Im such a durty biatch !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like Nessie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like Nessie "

and like nessie we sure would like to give u a roasting

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"Its Freaky Friday!!!!

wheres me crunchie?

Is that what you call it these days? You need to get some more meets! "

Hahahahaha

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Looks like Nessie

and like nessie we sure would like to give u a roasting"

You wanna roast our Nessie

Hung, drawn and quartered offence that is!

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton

I love it when threads change direction...

So what does a crunchie cost? Does it differ on a Friday?

Wasn't it thank Crunchie it Friday? or am I getting old remembering that ad? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like Nessie

and like nessie we sure would like to give u a roasting

You wanna roast our Nessie

Hung, drawn and quartered offence that is! "

the hours it wold take to even heat nessie would be madness. look at a turkey ffs, nessie is erm i can't believe i'm guessing - so i won't

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Looks like Nessie

and like nessie we sure would like to give u a roasting

You wanna roast our Nessie

Hung, drawn and quartered offence that is!

the hours it wold take to even heat nessie would be madness. look at a turkey ffs, nessie is erm i can't believe i'm guessing - so i won'"

Roasting does have another meaning!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah, roasting is a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like Nessie

and like nessie we sure would like to give u a roasting

You wanna roast our Nessie

Hung, drawn and quartered offence that is!

the hours it wold take to even heat nessie would be madness. look at a turkey ffs, nessie is erm i can't believe i'm guessing - so i won'

Roasting does have another meaning! "

i know y do u think i said it. thats where humour comes from - does it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Stick a smiley on the end

We can see it as humour then

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Ah, roasting is a good thing"

But not on Nessie, she would be scared for life and drop deep down to the bottom of the loch so no one could find her ..... mmmmmm Grim have you been roasting Nessie before?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

This is just too depraved even for me

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"Ah, roasting is a good thing"

oooh did see and invite to a spit roast ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, roasting is a good thing

But not on Nessie, she would be scared for life and drop deep down to the bottom of the loch so no one could find her ..... mmmmmm Grim have you been roasting Nessie before? "

thanks u reminded me of another tv show from the 80's, but what was it called?

the words went, "u can go to timbucktoo but you'll never find a nessie in the zoo"

2 kids who befriend a family of nessie monsters

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Ah, roasting is a good thing

But not on Nessie, she would be scared for life and drop deep down to the bottom of the loch so no one could find her ..... mmmmmm Grim have you been roasting Nessie before?

thanks u reminded me of another tv show from the 80's, but what was it called?

the words went, "u can go to timbucktoo but you'll never find a nessie in the zoo"

2 kids who befriend a family of nessie monsters"

It was "The Family Ness"

"Upside-downy bats and stripy cats

And monkeys too.

Big cow pats and keepers' hats

And things that whiff and phew.

Birds that stand on spiky legs,

While others bill and coo.

Yes, there's an awful lot of sadness

In the zoo.

You can knock it,

You can rock it,

You can go to Timbuktu.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

You may see an anaconda,

A giraffe and kangaroo.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

While dolphins leap,

Sealions sleep,

Gorillas stare at you.

Camel rides and penguin slides,

To catch a fish or two.

Sly vultures look you in the eye

And see you as a stew.

At feeding time they'd make

A hearty meal of you.

You can knock it,

You can rock it,

You can go to Timbuktu.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

You may go to Auchtermuchty,

And Drumnadrochit too.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

Creepy crawly things

And yawning kings

Stay out of view.

Hippopotami don't bat an eye,

They wallow in the goo.

While cuddly bears,

Just hug in pairs,

Hyenas laugh at you.

And there's not a lot to laugh at

In the zoo."

Google is your friend Grim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, roasting is a good thing

But not on Nessie, she would be scared for life and drop deep down to the bottom of the loch so no one could find her ..... mmmmmm Grim have you been roasting Nessie before?

thanks u reminded me of another tv show from the 80's, but what was it called?

the words went, "u can go to timbucktoo but you'll never find a nessie in the zoo"

2 kids who befriend a family of nessie monsters

It was "The Family Ness"

"Upside-downy bats and stripy cats

And monkeys too.

Big cow pats and keepers' hats

And things that whiff and phew.

Birds that stand on spiky legs,

While others bill and coo.

Yes, there's an awful lot of sadness

In the zoo.

You can knock it,

You can rock it,

You can go to Timbuktu.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

You may see an anaconda,

A giraffe and kangaroo.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

While dolphins leap,

Sealions sleep,

Gorillas stare at you.

Camel rides and penguin slides,

To catch a fish or two.

Sly vultures look you in the eye

And see you as a stew.

At feeding time they'd make

A hearty meal of you.

You can knock it,

You can rock it,

You can go to Timbuktu.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

You may go to Auchtermuchty,

And Drumnadrochit too.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

Creepy crawly things

And yawning kings

Stay out of view.

Hippopotami don't bat an eye,

They wallow in the goo.

While cuddly bears,

Just hug in pairs,

Hyenas laugh at you.

And there's not a lot to laugh at

In the zoo."

Google is your friend Grim "

yep, i can see that

funny thing, i don't remember all those lines

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Ah, roasting is a good thing

But not on Nessie, she would be scared for life and drop deep down to the bottom of the loch so no one could find her ..... mmmmmm Grim have you been roasting Nessie before?

thanks u reminded me of another tv show from the 80's, but what was it called?

the words went, "u can go to timbucktoo but you'll never find a nessie in the zoo"

2 kids who befriend a family of nessie monsters

It was "The Family Ness"

"Upside-downy bats and stripy cats

And monkeys too.

Big cow pats and keepers' hats

And things that whiff and phew.

Birds that stand on spiky legs,

While others bill and coo.

Yes, there's an awful lot of sadness

In the zoo.

You can knock it,

You can rock it,

You can go to Timbuktu.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

You may see an anaconda,

A giraffe and kangaroo.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

While dolphins leap,

Sealions sleep,

Gorillas stare at you.

Camel rides and penguin slides,

To catch a fish or two.

Sly vultures look you in the eye

And see you as a stew.

At feeding time they'd make

A hearty meal of you.

You can knock it,

You can rock it,

You can go to Timbuktu.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

You may go to Auchtermuchty,

And Drumnadrochit too.

But you'll never find a Nessie in the zoo.

Creepy crawly things

And yawning kings

Stay out of view.

Hippopotami don't bat an eye,

They wallow in the goo.

While cuddly bears,

Just hug in pairs,

Hyenas laugh at you.

And there's not a lot to laugh at

In the zoo."

Google is your friend Grim

yep, i can see that

funny thing, i don't remember all those lines"

They only sang part of it at the start of the show and part of it at the end but that is the whole song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what's more sad: someone actually going to the trouble of googling and posting the lyrics to the theme from Family Ness, or me saying to the screen "ooooooh, I remember that! and breaking into song, word, if not pitch perfect!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what's more sad: someone actually going to the trouble of googling and posting the lyrics to the theme from Family Ness, or me saying to the screen "ooooooh, I remember that! and breaking into song, word, if not pitch perfect!! "

given the fact i'm never wrong

it must be one of u 2

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I don't know what's more sad: someone actually going to the trouble of googling and posting the lyrics to the theme from Family Ness, or me saying to the screen "ooooooh, I remember that! and breaking into song, word, if not pitch perfect!! "

It will be the both of us then!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Anyone can ask for anything (legal) on their profiles.

It's already been said that if you don't like what they want... move on.

It may seem like taking the piss asking for something you don't have (or appear to have)... but the fact of the matter is... whether a woman has face pics on her profile or not, some guys will send face pics (whether she asks for them or not).... they will generally get preference in the selection process as she already knows what they look like.

Guys... you can complain all you like about it not being 'fair' but it is how it is.

If I get 5 similar messages and one has attached a face pic and I like the look of the face... he is getting priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what's more sad: someone actually going to the trouble of googling and posting the lyrics to the theme from Family Ness, or me saying to the screen "ooooooh, I remember that! and breaking into song, word, if not pitch perfect!!

It will be the both of us then! "

I couldn't make the call, so will have to agree!!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"If I get 5 similar messages and one has attached a face pic and I like the look of the face... he is getting priority"

Noted

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