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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Would you arrange a meet with anyone who happened to be online and local-ish (and the right sex)?

or

Would you have to find them as attractive as if you were arranging a meet and weren't madly horny?

or

Would you compromise a bit on your standards, not being willing to meet someone you found unattractive but being a bit more flexible on what you want?

(i.e. to explain the question, if you're horny at 4am and someone local happens to be online, when (if) you message them is it because you fancy them, you're desperate enough not to care or you have beer googles on? )

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I know I'm going to regret this question.

Not deleting it now is going down as the second stupid thing I've done so far today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never meet anyone without talking at least a few days first so wouldn't matter how horny I was feeling I wouldn't meet anyone I wasn't attracted too

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By *ornyspiceCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We take it your feeling horny right now ok coming round lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I never meet anyone without talking at least a few days first so wouldn't matter how horny I was feeling I wouldn't meet anyone I wasn't attracted too "

Same here x (I can't meet short notice like that anyway so there's no possibility of beer goggles or anything for me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never meet anyone without talking at least a few days first so wouldn't matter how horny I was feeling I wouldn't meet anyone I wasn't attracted too

Same here x (I can't meet short notice like that anyway so there's no possibility of beer goggles or anything for me) "

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"We take it your feeling horny right now ok coming round lol"

Ha, no!

I'm writing a paper on why I suddenly become gorgeous and stunning when I happen to be online at 4am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I never meet anyone without talking at least a few days first so wouldn't matter how horny I was feeling I wouldn't meet anyone I wasn't attracted too

Same here x (I can't meet short notice like that anyway so there's no possibility of beer goggles or anything for me) "

I feel the same way. It's partly a safety thing too. I always have a social first and someone has to know where I'm going, who I am meeting and when I am expecting to be back.

A lot of people do seem happy to meet spontaneously at odd times though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't. But, your body your life. Just be safe.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've met a couple of guys within hours of a first message and played the same evening...as horny is kinda my default setting not sure whether this counts

In fairness, I've also met guys (either quickly or after a while messaging) where I've not been attracted so haven't played so I must occasionally have some standards other than pulse and penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair I'd probably.....!!

lower my standards and as so not to insult them I'd put a bag over my head, and think of Britain lol

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

If I could get away then yes I'd arrange a local ASAP, lol xx

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

The only late night Booty calls I have ever had have been with guys I already knew..would not meet someone random, especially if I wasn't attracted to them just because I was horny

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I just LOVE last-minute, spontaneous, impulsive meets!

Delicious, exciting, thrilling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me as I like to chat with the person for a while to see if there's chemistry and take things from there.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd have a wank rather than meet someone I didn't fancy and have a connection with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wake Dave up. He'd think all his christmases had come at once

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Just wake Dave up. He'd think all his christmases had come at once"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm going to regret this question.

Not deleting it now is going down as the second stupid thing I've done so far today.

"

Lol

Too early for complex x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I know I'm going to regret this question.

Not deleting it now is going down as the second stupid thing I've done so far today.

"

Was going for option one your first of the day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you arrange a meet with anyone who happened to be online and local-ish (and the right sex)?

or

Would you have to find them as attractive as if you were arranging a meet and weren't madly horny?

or

Would you compromise a bit on your standards, not being willing to meet someone you found unattractive but being a bit more flexible on what you want?

(i.e. to explain the question, if you're horny at 4am and someone local happens to be online, when (if) you message them is it because you fancy them, you're desperate enough not to care or you have beer googles on? )"

I arranged to meet someone once who I'd never met before and had only been chatting to for about 20 minutes on here. no phone call just messaging. he picked me up, bit of a long drive for 15 minutes quickie. drove home that was that. never saw or spoke to him again. I wouldn't do it again

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I know I'm going to regret this question.

Not deleting it now is going down as the second stupid thing I've done so far today.

Was going for option one your first of the day? "

No but I did wonder if I should count turning down someone in the early hours as mistake number one.

It was the sensible decision so I didn't.

Mistake one was not going to sleep

I'm still curious why I become so much more gorgeous, stunning, amazing and wonderful between 1am and 4am

I'm like Princess Fiona (before Shrek broke the curse) in reverse!

- see? Green. Definitely Princess Fiona-esque.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second one for me.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Second option although I did once turn down someone I had previously met and fancied like mad because although we both had the raging horn it was late and we were both pissed. I was sure I'd regret being sensible but we met a few days later and spent a whole day, night and morning fucking rather than the d*unken quickie we would have had so it was worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the above. I'd just have a wank. Meets for me are about fun not being desperstely horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you arrange a meet with anyone who happened to be online and local-ish (and the right sex)?

or

Would you have to find them as attractive as if you were arranging a meet and weren't madly horny?

or

Would you compromise a bit on your standards, not being willing to meet someone you found unattractive but being a bit more flexible on what you want?

(i.e. to explain the question, if you're horny at 4am and someone local happens to be online, when (if) you message them is it because you fancy them, you're desperate enough not to care or you have beer googles on? )"
I have had the odd occasion where I was extremely horny and came online and met with a guy that under not so horny circumstances I probably wouldn't have met but can honestly say they were bloody good shags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These forum posts only ever serve to show what a very wide variety of people and points of view exist in Fab.

Between those who say "You are horny; go for it" and those wanting 3 socials, great chemistry, a Brad Pitt look alike and the Developed Vetting results before they would even think if holding hands, there is a wide gap. Ce la vie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never meet anyone without talking at least a few days first so wouldn't matter how horny I was feeling I wouldn't meet anyone I wasn't attracted too "

Gotta establish a connection before "connecting" loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None of the above. I'd just have a wank. Meets for me are about fun not being desperstely horny. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have a wank instead these days xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No they'd have to be as attractive, and mind -bogglingly so to get me to turn out late. I did once get a 1am booty call from a hot young millionaire guy begging me to come to his penthouse suite in a top London hotel. We'd been chatting for some days, but I turned him down as I'd just got in from an evening dancing in Brighton. Ive always regretted that, as we never did meet!! Well not yet anyway. ...

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


" These forum posts only ever serve to show what a very wide variety of people and points of view exist in Fab."

Is there a problem with that? Given such a wide range of views, it's interesting to hear some of them, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past experience has put me off random spur of the moment meets.

So it's a no from me

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

This research is leading me to wonder where are all the hotties that want to shag me at 4am at less anti-social times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive done it before, lowered standards just to get a fix.

ah i was young n stupid back then. Id not do it now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" These forum posts only ever serve to show what a very wide variety of people and points of view exist in Fab.

Is there a problem with that? Given such a wide range of views, it's interesting to hear some of them, no?"

No problem at all.

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