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By *homasP80 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linwood

On this website depsite being on for months or even a year. I know your not allowed to name names.

I know we've all had the odd occasion where something genuine has turned up etc and had to cancel, which I've had to do rarely.

But I'm more wondering why people who've been on these website for as long as a year have never met or even a verification.

Some would argue, "they've just been unlucky"

Any thoughts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're perfectly happy doing what they do I imagine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people are only here to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they have no intention of meeting anyone and just chat.

Or they have no intention of using verifications so you don't know who they have met.

Saying that I don't meet unverified users

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they haven't met? Some people hide their verifications.

I met a women on here about 2 months ago who I know has met other people, but doesn't show the verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're here to chat, browse the Forums, perv at pics. I don't meet many or often due to my location. We all have our reasons for being here. There are no rules to say you have to meet and be verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have much issue with it, but I will make sure they pass my rules for arranging a meet.

The problem many have is they jump through hoops to get a shag...sometimes bypassing their own common sense and dignity lol

its only a fucking shag at the end of the day ffs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"How do you know they haven't met? Some people hide their verifications.

I met a women on here about 2 months ago who I know has met other people, but doesn't show the verifications "

The green tick shows even if hidden.

I guess the OP meant no tick, flag or veri's and on for over a year.

We see plenty of those profiles - and ignore them.

Simples!

A

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

If someone leaves the site then you lose their verification. So you can't always be sure that someone's never met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont have much issue with it, but I will make sure they pass my rules for arranging a meet.

The problem many have is they jump through hoops to get a shag...sometimes bypassing their own common sense and dignity lol

its only a fucking shag at the end of the day ffs"

amen to that

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Some people don't want verifications. I've met someone with no verifications who asked me not to leave one.

He meets but you'd never know from his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know they haven't met? Some people hide their verifications.

I met a women on here about 2 months ago who I know has met other people, but doesn't show the verifications

The green tick shows even if hidden.

I guess the OP meant no tick, flag or veri's and on for over a year.

We see plenty of those profiles - and ignore them.

Simples!

A"

Green tick? I thought that was photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know they haven't met? Some people hide their verifications.

I met a women on here about 2 months ago who I know has met other people, but doesn't show the verifications

The green tick shows even if hidden.

I guess the OP meant no tick, flag or veri's and on for over a year.

We see plenty of those profiles - and ignore them.

Simples!

A

Green tick? I thought that was photo verified "

No, that's he green flag. Green tick is cam or meet verified.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Or they have met but don't feel the need to broadcast their business.

If only people would concentrate on their own affairs and allow others to use the site how they see fit. Somehow I think there'll be peace in the middle East before that happens!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Or they have met but don't feel the need to broadcast their business.

If only people would concentrate on their own affairs and allow others to use the site how they see fit. Somehow I think there'll be peace in the middle East before that happens!!! "

We'll be living on space stations before that happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only met unverified people, so we can't verify each other. Catch 22!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're here to chat, browse the Forums, perv at pics. I don't meet many or often due to my location. We all have our reasons for being here. There are no rules to say you have to meet and be verified. "

That's what I did for the first year on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're here to chat, browse the Forums, perv at pics. I don't meet many or often due to my location. We all have our reasons for being here. There are no rules to say you have to meet and be verified.

That's what I did for the first year on here "

I hope u masturbated throughout that whole year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really worry about what other people use the site for..... I just hope they all enjoy the experience as much as I do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're here to chat, browse the Forums, perv at pics. I don't meet many or often due to my location. We all have our reasons for being here. There are no rules to say you have to meet and be verified.

That's what I did for the first year on here "

You did not have a meet for over a year surely that's a crime according to fab law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're here to chat, browse the Forums, perv at pics. I don't meet many or often due to my location. We all have our reasons for being here. There are no rules to say you have to meet and be verified.

That's what I did for the first year on here

You did not have a meet for over a year surely that's a crime according to fab law "

It was perfect for escapism. I had just gone through a bad break up and also it gave me chance to get to know the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone leaves the site then you lose their verification. So you can't always be sure that someone's never met."
If an op leaves the person they verified still owns that green tick.

Its so easy to sort the fake profiles from the genuine anyway, just the mention of a brief phone chat makes the messages dry up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on here before when i was single, and met a few people, but when i got into a relationship i deleted my profile.

I've came back on now, still in the same relationship (i know, boo hiss) but haven't met anyone this time. Mainly due to bad timing more than anything.

I'm photo verified ( even someone that hates computers as much as me can do it in seconds) but only willing to meet certain people within tight guidlines, so not managed to arrange any meet.

It doesn't mean i wont in the future, it also doesn't mean that i will in the future.

If i get to the point of arranging a meet, i'd definately go through with it, but due to my hectic work schedule and active social life it is hard to find someone free when i am.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't really worry about what other people use the site for..... I just hope they all enjoy the experience as much as I do... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're here to chat, browse the Forums, perv at pics. I don't meet many or often due to my location. We all have our reasons for being here. There are no rules to say you have to meet and be verified.

That's what I did for the first year on here

You did not have a meet for over a year surely that's a crime according to fab law

It was perfect for escapism. I had just gone through a bad break up and also it gave me chance to get to know the right people "

You mean the clique don't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they've never met, they might be a regular at clubs? Many reasons someone may or may not have veri's, don't want them, never met a verified person, had a time out for health/personal reasons and hid their profile for a bit, don't actually want to meet, just chat or use the forums. If its an issue then move on, plenty of other people on here to meet. People are free to run their profile as they wish as people are free to search for and message who they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're here to chat, browse the Forums, perv at pics. I don't meet many or often due to my location. We all have our reasons for being here. There are no rules to say you have to meet and be verified.

That's what I did for the first year on here

You did not have a meet for over a year surely that's a crime according to fab law

It was perfect for escapism. I had just gone through a bad break up and also it gave me chance to get to know the right people

You mean the clique don't you "

Ha ha nope.. I used the chatrooms and the forums and that's where all my meets are from

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"If someone leaves the site then you lose their verification. So you can't always be sure that someone's never met."
that's so true, I had a couple of great verifications, which I have now lost, which is a shame as women might be a bit reluctant to meet me now, thinking why so few meets when he has been on the site for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're here to chat, browse the Forums, perv at pics. I don't meet many or often due to my location. We all have our reasons for being here. There are no rules to say you have to meet and be verified.

That's what I did for the first year on here

You did not have a meet for over a year surely that's a crime according to fab law

It was perfect for escapism. I had just gone through a bad break up and also it gave me chance to get to know the right people

You mean the clique don't you

Ha ha nope.. I used the chatrooms and the forums and that's where all my meets are from "
I know just playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone leaves the site then you lose their verification. So you can't always be sure that someone's never met.that's so true, I had a couple of great verifications, which I have now lost, which is a shame as women might be a bit reluctant to meet me now, thinking why so few meets when he has been on the site for a long time "

Show your summary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't let what other people do with their profiles ans swinging life bother me unless it affects me directly

People question what everyone else is doing and why they're doing it far too much on here

I just concentrate on my own fun....its far more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't let what other people do with their profiles ans swinging life bother me unless it affects me directly

People question what everyone else is doing and why they're doing it far too much on here

I just concentrate on my own fun....its far more interesting "

how is that cross stitch pattern coming?..ya boring fuck

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By *ottie91jay89Couple
over a year ago

Camborne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't let what other people do with their profiles ans swinging life bother me unless it affects me directly

People question what everyone else is doing and why they're doing it far too much on here

I just concentrate on my own fun....its far more interesting

how is that cross stitch pattern coming?..ya boring fuck"

Have moved on to loom bands now...I have a special one to choke your cock with

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By *ottie91jay89Couple
over a year ago

Camborne


"I don't let what other people do with their profiles ans swinging life bother me unless it affects me directly

People question what everyone else is doing and why they're doing it far too much on here

I just concentrate on my own fun....its far more interesting

so true

how is that cross stitch pattern coming?..ya boring fuck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it so hard to get verified? Cant get any meets bcause no verifications, yeah hav chattd with few people but thats as far as it goes until I get verified! I get loads of messages from guys, thank you but im straight & sorry guys arnt my thing, any help or views? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is it so hard to get verified? Cant get any meets bcause no verifications, yeah hav chattd with few people but thats as far as it goes until I get verified! I get loads of messages from guys, thank you but im straight & sorry guys arnt my thing, any help or views? X"

Its relatively easy, get to a social meet, there are usually quite a few around these days to get known at and have a giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont have much issue with it, but I will make sure they pass my rules for arranging a meet.

The problem many have is they jump through hoops to get a shag...sometimes bypassing their own common sense and dignity lol

its only a fucking shag at the end of the day ffs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you flamehaired, il that a try x

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By *ottie91jay89Couple
over a year ago

Camborne


"How is it so hard to get verified? Cant get any meets bcause no verifications, yeah hav chattd with few people but thats as far as it goes until I get verified! I get loads of messages from guys, thank you but im straight & sorry guys arnt my thing, any help or views? X

Its relatively easy, get to a social meet, there are usually quite a few around these days to get known at and have a giggle."

Try cam hun x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't let what other people do with their profiles ans swinging life bother me unless it affects me directly

People question what everyone else is doing and why they're doing it far too much on here

I just concentrate on my own fun....its far more interesting "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't let what other people do with their profiles ans swinging life bother me unless it affects me directly

People question what everyone else is doing and why they're doing it far too much on here

I just concentrate on my own fun....its far more interesting

how is that cross stitch pattern coming?..ya boring fuck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here for quite while and had a meet......but not sharing that with rest of the world...

Why o why would you want to kiss n tell, value discretion and repeat performances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, lots of people on here just want to chat, use the forums and chatrooms. Not necessarily looking to meet. They aren't worried about veri's.

As long as they are happy, that's the main thing, Fab is a form of escapism!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont have much issue with it, but I will make sure they pass my rules for arranging a meet.

The problem many have is they jump through hoops to get a shag...sometimes bypassing their own common sense and dignity lol

its only a fucking shag at the end of the day ffs"

Too bloody right. I'll not shag anybody just to get verified. It may come as a shock to some but sex exists outside of fab. I'm on here to meet like-minded peeps not cause I'm desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont message everywoman asking for a fuck. I just chat with people in the chat rooms and message in the forums. Not pushy for a meet although I wouldnt mind meeting some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's a revelation for you. Not all people that meet verify each other. It's also a bit ridiculous here because you will be criticised and judged for who you meet if you do verify, so it shouldn't really be an issue. Don't get caught up in that endless debate.

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