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By *i fem hunters OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

Hey all, have any of you found that there are site users that regularly look at you but never message or wink?

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Oh yes lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, love our little stalkers

I get worried if they haven't looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all like a nosey lol ,,, I am a rotter for it ,, bit if I like what I see and the profile is well written I pop a wink or message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've got a couple or two like that, and one female. I used to wonder why, but now I just left them to it

Maybe they're just really forgetful people.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yep.

Some end up on the block list - the 'over a year old but no text/pics/veri's' ones.

Others we let perve away.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it narcissistic to look at your own too much lol x

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By *i fem hunters OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

Lol

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

It happens to me a lot. In fact my spider senses are tingling so it's probably happening right now lol

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Hey all, have any of you found that there are site users that regularly look at you but never message or wink? "

if there interested they will eventually message you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and if it gets to the stage where I find it creepy, they get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont see anything particularly wierd or bad about it.

I am in the forums constantly and i have a bad memory for profiles and if someone writes something interesting or contravertial i take a peek at their profile to try and have an understanding of that person its only then i realise ive _iewed them before nothing sinister just general curiosity

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By *i fem hunters OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

Could someone forget looking at a profile less than 24 hours ago continuously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, quite flattering though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone forget looking at a profile less than 24 hours ago continuously?"

i didnt mention looking for 24 hours constantly unless your not referring to my post. And yed it may be possible cos if i have looked at yours previously i cannot genuinly remember your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said don't look Ethel....but it was too late she'd already looked.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nosey curious or just perving,

If am browsing the pictures sometimes i forget their name and end up looking at their profile again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nosey curious or just perving,

If am browsing the pictures sometimes i forget their name and end up looking at their profile again "

I do this to often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads, some are stupid enough to message me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone forget looking at a profile less than 24 hours ago continuously?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it alot. I say let them say hi i dont bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just checked mine for the first time in ages. I have several repeat visitors, mostly men. Leave em to it I say, there's not really a lot for them to perv over anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's probably loads of stealth people looking. If you post on the Internet it's fair game, so don't worry about it.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Yep, I ve a few regulars, not sure about guys as they Don t show

I m a in perve mode,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look to see who has looked very often but when I do check there seems to be s few faces that keep looking but never message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I have a number that do. Quite a few of them, I think, are actually advertising their profile to get Fabs or publicise meets.

I used to get alot more but that reduced dramatically when I blocked single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People look at my pics....

Then come back three or four times.... In disbelief...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots especially since I put my toy pics up wonder how many want to ask questions but are too scared lol

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


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I used to get alot more but that reduced dramatically when I blocked single men

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This

I do repeatedly go onto profiles as I forget I have already checked them out.

Usually from the forums as I like to know who says what....builds up a pic in my mind.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have people who look 15 minutes after joining the site, I block them and they never log on again.

strange

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By *eedycplCouple
over a year ago

belfast

O yes lots we actually have been keeping an eye on 1 cpl cos they seem to _iew r profile every few hours for the past 2 weeks it's easy 10/15 times a day they _iew us lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Oh yes lots "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes and then don't reply to messages you send them.

Think we may be used as some guys wank bank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same ones and always on the weekends. Maybe they haven't reached desperation point. We'll find out next weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, love our little stalkers

I get worried if they haven't looked "

same here lol

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Yes definitely ...mind you I do it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are loads of lurkers, but because we use laptop and mobiles at different times so we might look at the same profile over and over aswell we do wink or message if we like the profile though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes - and one we keep a note of cos it was almost a monthly thing (just our bit of fun)- missed a couple but hey ho last night there she was again - been going on for ages now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My stalker hasn't looked today, I hope he's ok

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

I do it if I am chatting in forums to find out more about folk. I message a few most I am not in their range so don't. It's only natural to check people out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look at a lot of profiles especially if they have a lovely profile pic just seems polite to have a nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are profiles i like, but due to my own interests they aren't compatable.

I don't wink or message them as i've read their profile, and i'm not what they are looking for. Some are because they are hot, and some are because they are funny, i like to check out the funny ones from time to time in the hope they've updated.

As far as i'm concerned, it's the same as liking someone in your office, when they walk past, you look up. You think to yourself - if only, and then get back to work.

Winking constantly, or messaging them even when they don't is like following them home and raking in their bin though..

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By *he. frayMan
over a year ago

fareham

This thread has pangs of kids in a school playground "umm im telling on you cos you keep looking at me" some people need to grow up.

Like it or not by placing a profile on here you are advertising yourself if being _iewed upsets you hide your profile or leave. I expect the moaners have another rant thread going saying why wont people look at me.

You can always stop paying site supporters fees you wont have a clue who _iews you then. But you wont as i expect you enjoy moaning.

Some days i have had in excess of 150 _iews. Do i know or care by whom? No i couldnt give a flying fart.

Set your filters hide your profile and stop paying is all available and at your disposal this way you wont have a clue whos _iewed you. Wise up and grow up.

There endeth todays sermon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have regular lookers but they don't mail as im scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have regular lookers but they don't mail as im scary "

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread has pangs of kids in a school playground "umm im telling on you cos you keep looking at me" some people need to grow up.

Like it or not by placing a profile on here you are advertising yourself if being _iewed upsets you hide your profile or leave. I expect the moaners have another rant thread going saying why wont people look at me.

You can always stop paying site supporters fees you wont have a clue who _iews you then. But you wont as i expect you enjoy moaning.

Some days i have had in excess of 150 _iews. Do i know or care by whom? No i couldnt give a flying fart.

Set your filters hide your profile and stop paying is all available and at your disposal this way you wont have a clue whos _iewed you. Wise up and grow up.

There endeth todays sermon "

oh the irony,, you are ranting about what you call ranty posts and tell peeps not to look at who has looked... did someone make you read this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely message profiles I look at as I tend to not fit the criteria plus most of the beautiful ladies I do look at don't need the likes of me messaging them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had some lady looking at me nearly every day but she will never wink or message . I refuse to out of principle now lol . I do wonder what she actually looks at or wants . Maybe I should swallow my pride and message her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last 5 to look,

2 from Liverpool

1 Club owner,

1 From London

And 1 from the Seaside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread has pangs of kids in a school playground "umm im telling on you cos you keep looking at me" some people need to grow up.

Like it or not by placing a profile on here you are advertising yourself if being _iewed upsets you hide your profile or leave. I expect the moaners have another rant thread going saying why wont people look at me.

You can always stop paying site supporters fees you wont have a clue who _iews you then. But you wont as i expect you enjoy moaning.

Some days i have had in excess of 150 _iews. Do i know or care by whom? No i couldnt give a flying fart.

Set your filters hide your profile and stop paying is all available and at your disposal this way you wont have a clue whos _iewed you. Wise up and grow up.

There endeth todays sermon "

Take it no one has looked at you

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I have had some lady looking at me nearly every day but she will never wink or message . I refuse to out of principle now lol . I do wonder what she actually looks at or wants . Maybe I should swallow my pride and message her "

Damn! I need to switch on stealth mode. Wonder if I can get stealth boobies?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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There endeth todays sermon Take it no one has looked at you "

With no pics, there is only so much point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had some lady looking at me nearly every day but she will never wink or message . I refuse to out of principle now lol . I do wonder what she actually looks at or wants . Maybe I should swallow my pride and message her

Damn! I need to switch on stealth mode. Wonder if I can get stealth boobies? "

nah I like the boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had some lady looking at me nearly every day but she will never wink or message . I refuse to out of principle now lol . I do wonder what she actually looks at or wants . Maybe I should swallow my pride and message her "

Last time I did that to someone who kept looking he was UNLOS the next day

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By *i fem hunters OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"This thread has pangs of kids in a school playground "umm im telling on you cos you keep looking at me" some people need to grow up.

Like it or not by placing a profile on here you are advertising yourself if being _iewed upsets you hide your profile or leave. I expect the moaners have another rant thread going saying why wont people look at me.

You can always stop paying site supporters fees you wont have a clue who _iews you then. But you wont as i expect you enjoy moaning.

Some days i have had in excess of 150 _iews. Do i know or care by whom? No i couldnt give a flying fart.

Set your filters hide your profile and stop paying is all available and at your disposal this way you wont have a clue whos _iewed you. Wise up and grow up.

There endeth todays sermon "

I didn't ask for a sermon, or expect any prats to comment on this thread. You appear to be the one moaning..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread has pangs of kids in a school playground "umm im telling on you cos you keep looking at me" some people need to grow up.

Like it or not by placing a profile on here you are advertising yourself if being _iewed upsets you hide your profile or leave. I expect the moaners have another rant thread going saying why wont people look at me.

You can always stop paying site supporters fees you wont have a clue who _iews you then. But you wont as i expect you enjoy moaning.

Some days i have had in excess of 150 _iews. Do i know or care by whom? No i couldnt give a flying fart.

Set your filters hide your profile and stop paying is all available and at your disposal this way you wont have a clue whos _iewed you. Wise up and grow up.

There endeth todays sermon

I didn't ask for a sermon, or expect any prats to comment on this thread. You appear to be the one moaning.........."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had some lady looking at me nearly every day but she will never wink or message . I refuse to out of principle now lol . I do wonder what she actually looks at or wants . Maybe I should swallow my pride and message her

Last time I did that to someone who kept looking he was UNLOS the next day "

lol ok will leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread has pangs of kids in a school playground "umm im telling on you cos you keep looking at me" some people need to grow up.

Like it or not by placing a profile on here you are advertising yourself if being _iewed upsets you hide your profile or leave. I expect the moaners have another rant thread going saying why wont people look at me.

You can always stop paying site supporters fees you wont have a clue who _iews you then. But you wont as i expect you enjoy moaning.

Some days i have had in excess of 150 _iews. Do i know or care by whom? No i couldnt give a flying fart.

Set your filters hide your profile and stop paying is all available and at your disposal this way you wont have a clue whos _iewed you. Wise up and grow up.

There endeth todays sermon "

I know it's Sunday but no one asked for a sermon, we're just having a chat about the ops post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread has pangs of kids in a school playground "umm im telling on you cos you keep looking at me" some people need to grow up.

Like it or not by placing a profile on here you are advertising yourself if being _iewed upsets you hide your profile or leave. I expect the moaners have another rant thread going saying why wont people look at me.

You can always stop paying site supporters fees you wont have a clue who _iews you then. But you wont as i expect you enjoy moaning.

Some days i have had in excess of 150 _iews. Do i know or care by whom? No i couldnt give a flying fart.

Set your filters hide your profile and stop paying is all available and at your disposal this way you wont have a clue whos _iewed you. Wise up and grow up.

There endeth todays sermon "

Blimey, calm down! The op only asked if other people had regulars that looked at their profile regularly but never make contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last 5 to look,

2 from Liverpool

1 Club owner,

1 From London

And 1 from the Seaside

"

Not that I've counted but I've a few from Scotland and loads of couples of all ages

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By *he. frayMan
over a year ago

fareham

(quote/)Take it no one has looked at you [/my point exactly a child trying to make a quip to try and gain support and by doing so hopes will raise his popularity and get himself a meet.

Feel free if by making snide remarks helps you at my expense carry on i like to be of service.

But just one observation you obviously didnt read all of my post as it did actually state the number of _iews i had.

But carry on and have fun (/quote)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" (quote/)Take it no one has looked at you [/my point exactly a child trying to make a quip to try and gain support and by doing so hopes will raise his popularity and get himself a meet.

Feel free if by making snide remarks helps you at my expense carry on i like to be of service.

But just one observation you obviously didnt read all of my post as it did actually state the number of _iews i had.

But carry on and have fun (/quote)"

Nah . Doing quite well for meets cheers .

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

Yes and also people who keep sending friend requests but never message.... am I scary or something?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have platinum membership so I get to _iew all the pervs too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I don't look on the who looked so often anymore, usually just men and maibe one woman who looks, if lucky lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have platinum membership so I get to _iew all the pervs too...

"

shit . I'll be on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few serial lookers... they tend to be from further afield though. I just take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have platinum membership so I get to _iew all the pervs too...

"

Not all of us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stops browsing at platinum members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stops browsing at platinum members

"

Upgrade then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had some lady looking at me nearly every day but she will never wink or message . I refuse to out of principle now lol . I do wonder what she actually looks at or wants . Maybe I should swallow my pride and message her

Last time I did that to someone who kept looking he was UNLOS the next day lol ok will leave it "

we have messaged our main one a couple of times - she went into hiding quite early on so is just hotlisted now for fun - she is down as a forum lurker so will probably read this - makes us smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" (quote/)Take it no one has looked at you [/my point exactly a child trying to make a quip to try and gain support and by doing so hopes will raise his popularity and get himself a meet.

Feel free if by making snide remarks helps you at my expense carry on i like to be of service.

But just one observation you obviously didnt read all of my post as it did actually state the number of _iews i had.

But carry on and have fun (/quote)"

Views mean nothing, its meets that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one _iews me in the deepest parts of Devon, must be my accent that puts them off

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