FabSwingers.com forum: Falling for someone off Fab!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, in more ways than one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's happened several times. Have you fallen for someone?

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

of course its possible!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I've been to 3 weddings of various people that have met through Fab and other sites, so yes, I'd guess it possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

have u hun did it go ok xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes there's a few couples who have met on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible."

That reads so awful. Why do that to yourself , sure you can find pain but also pleasure and one bad apple does not spoil a cider.

YOlO as they say, you only live once, so live it, however it runs with whatever happens. ... Swinging is such fun if you meet the same people often, assuming the chemistry is there.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible.

That reads so awful. Why do that to yourself , sure you can find pain but also pleasure and one bad apple does not spoil a cider.

YOlO as they say, you only live once, so live it, however it runs with whatever happens. ... Swinging is such fun if you meet the same people often, assuming the chemistry is there. "

I am happy meeting the way I do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats good wyredwoman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me without my knowledge, was seeing a woman last year off of here regularly, and without my knowledge she had fallen for me in a big way. Anyway, i went to a mates house party where there were his sisters friends, I kissed another girl (that was all) and all hell broke loose with my regular friend. She didn't want to see me again and just went ape over the whole thing. So yes it can happen more than people realise, and tbh I really liked this regular girl I was seeing more than I cared to admit, so I guess it happened to me too. I was such a fool to let her go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible.

That reads so awful. Why do that to yourself , sure you can find pain but also pleasure and one bad apple does not spoil a cider.

YOlO as they say, you only live once, so live it, however it runs with whatever happens. ... Swinging is such fun if you meet the same people often, assuming the chemistry is there.

I am happy meeting the way I do."
Good on u xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think its good or bad OP ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you think its good or bad OP ? "

Not sure not in that postion yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen but in my experience it never ends well so Yolo to your heart's content but I'm with Wyrdwoman on this one

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It can and does happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it twice,, yes i do have mug written on my forehead

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances. "

I assume that means you didn't feel the same or does it mean you cut yourself off from those emotions?

OP, yes it does and to some I would least expect. My Fab "idol" has gone and fallen in love and he's moved in. It makes me smile whenever I see her post now.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Done it twice,, yes i do have mug written on my forehead "

That's harsh. Feelings come and we learn to deal with them but they add to the richness of life. Kissing and falling for the frogs makes it clear which ones are the prince when they come along. Unless you get addicted to frogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances.

I assume that means you didn't feel the same or does it mean you cut yourself off from those emotions?

OP, yes it does and to some I would least expect. My Fab "idol" has gone and fallen in love and he's moved in. It makes me smile whenever I see her post now."

If it's who I think you mean, I smile when I see her posts now too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a specific term for being addicted to Frogs ? Can't see the issue personally. As Bruce Springsteen said...what you don't surrender the world just strips away, so enjoy the experience...It may be good?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've fallen once for someone had a bit of a thing for another but never told him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances.

I assume that means you didn't feel the same or does it mean you cut yourself off from those emotions?

OP, yes it does and to some I would least expect. My Fab "idol" has gone and fallen in love and he's moved in. It makes me smile whenever I see her post now.

Cut my self off from those emoticons.

I told her how I felt and she understood. She was grateful because it was obviously something she didn't want either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"

Yes. We met for a fuck 3 1/2 years ago. Started living together 2 1/2 years ago. Recently bought our first home together.

Meeting someone through here, means you can be totally honest about subjects that are normally taboo in the 'normal' world.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

yes but he was a liar

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

" Is there a specific term for being addicted to Frogs ? Can't see the issue personally. As Bruce Springsteen said...what you don't surrender the world just strips away, so enjoy the experience...It may be good? "

My frogaphilia has taught me much and shaped who I am now. I'm sometimes still tempted by a frog but I no longer think I am addicted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's possible just cause it's fab doesn't mean you can't. When I feel it goes that way I prefer to stop seeing him as don't want to get hurt but if both feel like it why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Rather unexpectedly I have fallen for someone on here. Wasn't looking for it at all, but affairs of the heart are nothing if not unpredictable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Rather unexpectedly I have fallen for someone on here. Wasn't looking for it at all, but affairs of the heart are nothing if not unpredictable

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it can. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. But I think its important to be adults about it all. The good, bad and ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens . We are only human after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My frogaphilia has taught me much and shaped who I am now. I'm sometimes still tempted by a frog but I no longer think I am addicted.

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An addiction to Frogs is not good. It has led to many a person ending up croaking it.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

One can easily fall for someone that you meet through this site as you can through the countless myriad of ways that people do meet other than this 'aspect'..

Ben touched on one area which has some relevance..

people meet in the most varied of circumstances and places so yes this one is absolutely fine..

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Yes, it can. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. But I think its important to be adults about it all. The good, bad and ugly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did.. Had a year together.. As nice as it was, we were a habit...

I chose more wisely and live in the moment...

Id hate to meet someone lovely then find out we were sexually wrong..

I prob won't find anyone here again but its fun auditioning!;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience love happens in the least likely and most inconvenient places. I used to preach my ass off to my fab friends not to fall for anyone on here.... and now I am the one doing it. Oh well... I will enjoy it while I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to fall for a swinging lady so glad it happens

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"
Yes of course you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has happened to me without my knowledge, was seeing a woman last year off of here regularly, and without my knowledge she had fallen for me in a big way. Anyway, i went to a mates house party where there were his sisters friends, I kissed another girl (that was all) and all hell broke loose with my regular friend. She didn't want to see me again and just went ape over the whole thing. So yes it can happen more than people realise, and tbh I really liked this regular girl I was seeing more than I cared to admit, so I guess it happened to me too. I was such a fool to let her go

Then get in touch with her and tell her! Life's too short!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I have been lucky to find love on here and while it's early days I hope it lasts.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I was once bowled over by someone, but pragmatism kicks in these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then get in touch with her and tell her! Life's too short! "

This is good advise. Listen to this lady!

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

It does happen and for some people it does work out.......I moved in with him five months ago

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope, nah-uh, never, no way - never happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did once years ago had maternal feelings for a man who was 30 years younger than me, because my husbands much older than me i liked having someone young to keep me company for a change.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

This shit happens every week with my fake single bi fem profiles. I am so hot as a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This shit happens every week with my fake single bi fem profiles. I am so hot as a woman."

whats about upsy daisy or your blue women?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"This shit happens every week with my fake single bi fem profiles. I am so hot as a woman."

Great tits mate

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"This shit happens every week with my fake single bi fem profiles. I am so hot as a woman.

Great tits mate

Cheers bro! xxx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"This shit happens every week with my fake single bi fem profiles. I am so hot as a woman.

whats about upsy daisy or your blue women? "

Upsy Daisy is so up for it it's unreal. As for blue chicks, I'm struggling to find any in great quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This shit happens every week with my fake single bi fem profiles. I am so hot as a woman.

whats about upsy daisy or your blue women?

Upsy Daisy is so up for it it's unreal. As for blue chicks, I'm struggling to find any in great quantity

zip back in time and shag them all again like it was your first time,, that slut upsy daisy will still be shaggin in hundreds of years to come

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"

Yes and have done previously.

Once bitten and twice shy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could fall for someone anywhere... but it really sucks if its not reciprocated. and its less likely to be on here I think. x

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By *essie xxjxxWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes, it's mutual, and all good so far. Unexpected, not looked for, but enjoying it whilst it lasts ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"

Its happened many times some keep it low key some sing it from the rooftops shouting their undying love and that they have found their life partner so yes. You also get a lot deleting when it goes tits up though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could fall for someone anywhere... but it really sucks if its not reciprocated. and its less likely to be on here I think. x"

This

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By *inge 1985Man
over a year ago

London

Sonething i will always believe, you can not help who you love and you find love in the strangest of places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material.

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By *inge 1985Man
over a year ago

London

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material."

There is soneone there for everyone andthe journey is worth the ride

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Not really sure I understand the question. Surely someone can fall for someone else no matter where they met. At work, the post office, tescos, fab. Really don't see why it's a question?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"

It happened to me.....I wasn't looking for anything other than nsa fun, but love found me. I had arranged to meet a guy for a social and the rest as they say is history....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It's lovely to see people happy. Good luck and be happy if it does.

Dignity at all costs if it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been lucky to find love on here and while it's early days I hope it lasts. "

same here x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material.

There is soneone there for everyone andthe journey is worth the ride"

Mine has died or emigrated to the fucking North Pole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material."

Neither was I and I thought the same

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material."

Haha, I am quite concerned too and I am girlfriend material!! I started to slide down the slippery slope once on here, but he showed himself to be arsehole before I got too far luckily!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material.

Neither was I and I thought the same

Must admit I was happy to hear your news x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im hoping find a good connection with that someone and enjoy our times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it happened to me years ago...mr Dharq

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By *UXOMMOMMAWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I met my now ex partner on here and we were together nearly 4 years until he got cosy with an older woman off here!!!

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By *UXOMMOMMAWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I met my now ex partner on here and we were together nearly 4 years until he got cosy with an older woman off here!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"

Yes! I was contacted by someone on 17 November, we met on 24 November, not been apart since, we now live together.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes I started to a while ago, so I cut all contact. Might seem harsh but that's how I deal with it in these circumstances.

I assume that means you didn't feel the same or does it mean you cut yourself off from those emotions?

OP, yes it does and to some I would least expect. My Fab "idol" has gone and fallen in love and he's moved in. It makes me smile whenever I see her post now.

I wonder who you mean?!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i really enjoy the company and love spending time with all the ladies ive met on fab... i cant do the white charger thing with them i know... but i do really like them all

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

I'd love to fall for someone with such an open mind as me

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The difficulty that can arise is that many of those who use the internet for meets be they for sex or dating often embellish a little and sometimes outright lie about who they really are.

Its possible that the person you think you're falling for is virtual and not real.

Having said that, yes I know of couples. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't, just like in rl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material.

Neither was I and I thought the same

Must admit I was happy to hear your news x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was playing with someone from here . Found out they was married and he suddenly told me he loved me and was leaving his wife !!!!!

Eeeeekkkkkk!!!!!!!!

I was shocked !!

If only I loved him too and he wasn't married

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material.

Neither was I and I thought the same

Oooh, another one. Congratulations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then get in touch with her and tell her! Life's too short!

This is good advise. Listen to this lady!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material.

Neither was I and I thought the same

Oooh, another one. Congratulations.

Thank you

early days yet and going with the flow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material.

Neither was I and I thought the same

Oooh, another one. Congratulations.

Thank you

early days yet and going with the flow x "

That's lovely news. I hope it works out really well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not actively looking for a relationship . But . I think if I ever did want a relationship I reckon it would be someone I met om fab because I meet a lot more ladies on here then I do in the vanilla world . So the chances are it would be someone off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my man on bn weren't looking for a relationship but we fell in love and he's moving in with me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who was it?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I am not actively looking for a relationship . But . I think if I ever did want a relationship I reckon it would be someone I met om fab because I meet a lot more ladies on here then I do in the vanilla world . So the chances are it would be someone off here

You haven't sold yourself well. You should have mentioned your prowess as a cook, your legendary skills at moth slaying and that little incident involving skiing off a mountainside and opening a parachute emblazoned with the Union Jack.

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them."

We are no different people than those that use a dating site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them.

We are no different people than those that use a dating site..."

I think we are different to dating sites really because some people i have met thought swingers were a bit strange.

some probably are quite similar types on dating sites though.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them.

We are no different people than those that use a dating site..."

In contrast to pulling in a pub or a club, I think on here you get chance to get to know someone a bit better, as in most pubs all you tend to hear is their name, where they are from and what they do for a living, anything deeper is hard to hear due to the music.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Yep

Seen it done it got the bloody tee shirt. And if I'm honest, was quite cut up about it when it ended.

Still think about her now, and that's after nearly 3 months.

But life has to go on.

Still bloody hurts though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was seeing someone as a friend

she went quiet no taxt or whatsapp

kept asking what was wrong - no answers

finally txt me sayong she'd fallen for me and wanted to end it?

i miss her but was supposed to be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see me falling in love with anyone ever so I'm not worried about it happening on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think their would be a trust issue after a while, especially if you agreed not to use sites like this anymore, would you believe them.

We are no different people than those that use a dating site..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh how sad! - Couldn't you get in touch now?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Who knows I can fall for someone who I met in morrisons or I could fall for so,done who I met on fab....who knows where it will happen

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Love can sneak up on you and kick you in the back of the knees and before you know it you have fallen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"

Oh yes.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??

Oh yes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"

I already did!

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By *igBoobs37Woman
over a year ago

newport

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??[Yh it is possible 2 fall in luv on here quote]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??

I already did! "

I just have!!! Wow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely indeed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex fuckbuddy is now married to someone I introduced her to at a party of mine. We all still friends. Saw them both at Xtasia ffff last Saturday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it is ...and it's not a good feeling

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"They say these things happen when you least expect it so it could happen on here. I'm scared it's going to happen to me as it will only end in tears.....probably mine.

I'm not girlfriend material.

Neither was I and I thought the same

Oooh, another one. Congratulations.

Thank you

early days yet and going with the flow x "

Very best of luck lovely lady

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I introduced my ex fb to fab where he met another lady last time I heard he was engaged to her they both decided to leave fab at that stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"

Yes x I did x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my best friend on here. She left the site soon after...and our friendship became even deeper....and just that. A friendship....best buddies.

She has recently rejoined the site and has just left my flat...my bed is fucken ruined lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sazz and I met on fab over a year ago and we've never been happier. Been living together for a year now and wouldn't have it any other way. She's my partner in crime and I love her to bits. We can talk openly and honestly about anything and hide nothing from each other. I only wish I'd met her sooner.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I met a guy off here earlier this year. It soon became obvious that we were having an affair and that we both had feelings we hadn't expected. I'm backing off because he's happily married, I don't want to break them up and I don't want him for anything but good sex. So I'm back on the scene and not encouraging contact with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy off here earlier this year. It soon became obvious that we were having an affair and that we both had feelings we hadn't expected. I'm backing off because he's happily married, I don't want to break them up and I don't want him for anything but good sex. So I'm back on the scene and not encouraging contact with him.

Tough but mature decision

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over a year ago

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here as singles and have been a couple for over 2 years

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.

Last November I got a message that made me laugh and I got chatting. Sex wasn't mentioned we simply cracked each other up. After a couple of days we started chatting on the phone for hours and he asked if we could meet for a date.

He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.

We discovered sexually we were into different things, socially and politically we're polar opposites, he's never married or had kids, is a ukip voting businessman with his own company whilst I'm a divorced mum, full time union official bleeding heart, tree hugging liberal (his words). He's white, Dutch,6ft 1 fit, I'm 5ft 7, black and fat.

He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

I don't think this is a pure sex site. The name is Fab Swingers so I think you'll find that it's actually a swingers site which is a big difference.

Swinging is based around couples so dating from here makes perfect sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there, done that, never again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.

He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.

He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows...

I am soooo happy for you both.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

it worries me an awful lot the thought of relationships. I'm not girlfriend material, could never share my bed or home with anyone, but i do like to have regular swinging partners, but it stays as friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually met my wife on here 2 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually met my wife on here 2 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the feelings were never reciprocated.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have certainly fallen for someone on a similar site to this, although the feelings weren't reciprocated. Most miserable month of my life, and that's why I don't meet more than once if possible."

Snap

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

This isn't a "pure" anything site. There are all sorts of people on here, for all sorts of reasons. Sometimes some of those people find things they weren't even looking for.

I wouldn't have described it as a sex site anyway and have disagreed with others who've said that in the past.

To you it may be purely a sex site, but to others it's not, which makes it more than a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.

He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.

He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows...

Marriage! congrats!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

No its a swingers site. Were people can find like minded individuals. That may include relationships forming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

Yes you're completely missing the point of this website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its perfectly feasible for people to fall for each other on here, you would like to think that everyone here is like minded, don't like minded people get together ?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

It does happen, yes.

When I was new here a lady from down south fell for me even before we had met, I was still in a bit of a bad place from my marriage breakdown at the time and I should have made better decisions at that point. I really regret hurting her

I also had a local woman fall for me and then cause a lot of problems for me when I told her I wasn't interested. I learnt from that and I'm more careful now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Falling for someone on here is easy. Getting over it is the hard bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Falling for someone on here is easy. Getting over it is the hard bit

Yes - I've been there

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.

He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.

He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows...

Marriage! congrats!!!

He's talking, I'm not: been there, done that but he's convinced I'll want to marry him!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Am I missing something? I thought this was a 'pure' sex site?? Not a dating site

I've been on here seven years. Had a wonderful time, never had a time waster or truly bad experience.

He shocked himself as his play rules were simple: find em, fuck em and forget them. I was equally shocked as I don't date.

He moved in with me and talking marriage: we are completely surprised with this turn off events. Neither of us was looking for anything but nsa but when Cupid fires his arrows...

Marriage! congrats!!!

He's talking, I'm not: been there, done that but he's convinced I'll want to marry him!

Aww I bet you will

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It is difficult when you fall for someone in any situation and they don't feel the same...fab is no different. People use fab how they want I use it to meet guys, go to socials etc, however I'm honest I'm my intentions that I would like something a bit more it's clear as day on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's lovely to see people happy. Good luck and be happy if it does.

Dignity at all costs if it doesn't.

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it possible you can fall for someone off a site like this??"
Loads have and some have even got married .... But you get a lot of player here and liars too .......... You could go to Tesco fall for someone too . lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect there's a lot more fallen for someone on here, than care to admit.

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Yup its happened and hurts like hell! Especially more when he said he had feelings for me too then I found out through facebook he already had a girlfriend!

Going to stay single now and forget what feelings are much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect there's a lot more fallen for someone on here, than care to admit.

Agreed.

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

"Sazz and I met on fab over a year ago and we've never been happier. Been living together for a year now and wouldn't have it any other way. She's my partner in crime and I love her to bits. We can talk openly and honestly about anything and hide nothing from each other. I only wish I'd met her sooner. "

Awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened to alot of people, though some care not to admit it. I myself am in a very complicated scenario!! Each to their own xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here I have fallen for some big time I ended up not talking to her as we both decided it's would be very complicated. I still think of her now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not fallen for anyone,but lust after a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of woman do as see the sex if good as special and that makes them think it could be love .

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