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Why getting marryed is point less

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By *ovemenot OP   Woman
over a year ago

yeovil

I have been on and off this site for a few years but have alway made it clear I only want to meet single guys . About a year ago I met a guy a few times before his prof dis appeared and that was that So I take wedding photos as a part time job . To day I turned up on a job to find the guy getting marryed is the same guy ( I am 2nd cam so don't got and meet couple before wedding ) So there's me thinking bless he must have met her and that's why he disappeared from FabS . That is till we are doing family pics when he his wife and THEIR children age 6,4,2 want a pic . He clearly remembered me and keeped smiling and winking at me and saying what a FAB day it was .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Wasn't pointless for him.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless""

I think it's supposed to prove that all men are lying cheating fornicating dick led womanising unfaithful morally redundant gits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless"

I think it's supposed to prove that all men are lying cheating fornicating dick led womanising unfaithful morally redundant gits "

Ah yes I forgot we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless"

I think it's supposed to prove that all men are lying cheating fornicating dick led womanising unfaithful morally redundant gits "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless"

I think it's supposed to prove that all men are lying cheating fornicating dick led womanising unfaithful morally redundant gits "

Hmmmm I'll go wwith that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they were on a break when you met, they could be step children, least he left fab to build on the relationship..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, we will have been married 25 years next year_ so certainly not pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only contact was through here

No mobile, even tho you'd met him a couple of times ?

I'd have been suspicious straight away about the 'home' situation .

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By *ovemenot OP   Woman
over a year ago

yeovil

I did have a mobile for him yes but once he left this site I didn't bother contacting him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I hope they enjoyed their wedding day and that the weather was good for them

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless""

Nor I!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless"

Nor I!"

Don't you see her anecdotal evidence has now deemed every marriage null and void.

Qed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless"

I think it's supposed to prove that all men are lying cheating fornicating dick led womanising unfaithful morally redundant gits "
That's the first time I've seen that sentence used without the word prick included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is loads more pointless than marriage.....

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By *ovemenot OP   Woman
over a year ago

yeovil

Well guess that's the last time I bother posting in the forms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well guess that's the last time I bother posting in the forms "

you haven't explained how you have come to the conclusion all marriage is pointless. ... and there are many married people who would disagree. ...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Marriage is not pointless...he deleted his profile and got married these things happen...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Well guess that's the last time I bother posting in the forms "

Don't get disheartened because people disagree, reply, give your point of view, argue back. That's what forums are for discussion not blanket agreement.

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By *ovemenot OP   Woman
over a year ago

yeovil


"Marriage is not pointless...he deleted his profile and got married these things happen..."

He had been with this girl 8 years they were his children and there had been no brake . So my point is why get married if before you even get to the church you have cheated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marriage is not pointless...he deleted his profile and got married these things happen...

He had been with this girl 8 years they were his children and there had been no brake . So my point is why get married if before you even get to the church you have cheated "

Because thats what people do, not everyone though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree it doesnt make sense though.

why bother getting married in the first place, maybe because they think its the thing to do, or they dont take marriage very seriously.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As a single guy who has never been married and had no children, but has had several long term relationships, I haven't got a clue why I've even posted on this thread

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Marriage is not pointless...he deleted his profile and got married these things happen...

He had been with this girl 8 years they were his children and there had been no brake . So my point is why get married if before you even get to the church you have cheated "

Maybe his partner knew and had a profile of her own.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I don't suppose you know if they had chicken drumsticks at the reception?

I love wedding buffets.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't suppose you know if they had chicken drumsticks at the reception?

I love wedding buffets. "

Do you? I always wonder how long it's been sitting there.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I don't suppose you know if they had chicken drumsticks at the reception?

I love wedding buffets.

Do you? I always wonder how long it's been sitting there."

You're meant to eat it not think about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't suppose you know if they had chicken drumsticks at the reception?

I love wedding buffets.

Do you? I always wonder how long it's been sitting there.

You're meant to eat it not think about it "

Damn! If you knew how many times I've heard that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marriage is not pointless...he deleted his profile and got married these things happen...

He had been with this girl 8 years they were his children and there had been no brake . So my point is why get married if before you even get to the church you have cheated

Maybe his partner knew and had a profile of her own."

Maybe he cheated then reflected on his life and what's important and made amends. People do change, it's just a shame that others can get hurt in the process. Don't let it define you. You have a life to live in as much a fulfilling manner as you will make it....no one else can do that for you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Got to say I love weddings, they are great fun..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I don't suppose you know if they had chicken drumsticks at the reception?

I love wedding buffets. "

Phwoaarrr at the size of your burger !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marriage is not pointless...he deleted his profile and got married these things happen...

He had been with this girl 8 years they were his children and there had been no brake . So my point is why get married if before you even get to the church you have cheated

Maybe his partner knew and had a profile of her own.

Maybe he cheated then reflected on his life and what's important and made amends. People do change, it's just a shame that others can get hurt in the process. Don't let it define you. You have a life to live in as much a fulfilling manner as you will make it....no one else can do that for you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks time we get married. It won't be pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"3 weeks time we get married. It won't be pointless "

Why not invite Alexander Armstrong and Richard Osman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And just maybe he was getting married to a divorcee with three children of her own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 weeks time we get married. It won't be pointless

Why not invite Alexander Armstrong and Richard Osman "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one "

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only got married as I liked his surname better than mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on "
not telling anyone who to meet everyone has their own preferences but would this be a swinging site without couples or just another dating site? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on not telling anyone who to meet everyone has their own preferences but would this be a swinging site without couples or just another dating site? ??"

You told her she should be on a dating site if she only wants to meet singles.

I think its up to her if she wants to be on here and who she wants to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on not telling anyone who to meet everyone has their own preferences but would this be a swinging site without couples or just another dating site? ??

You told her she should be on a dating site if she only wants to meet singles.

I think its up to her if she wants to be on here and who she wants to meet."

Exactly! There's room on this site for couples and singles alike.

I can never understand couples who say singles shouldn't be on this site - and yet they meet singles

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

PDI until the 18th Nov


"Not sure how that makes getting married "pointless"

I think it's supposed to prove that all men are lying cheating fornicating dick led womanising unfaithful morally redundant gits That's the first time I've seen that sentence used without the word prick included. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on not telling anyone who to meet everyone has their own preferences but would this be a swinging site without couples or just another dating site? ??

You told her she should be on a dating site if she only wants to meet singles.

I think its up to her if she wants to be on here and who she wants to meet."
may have came across wrong didn't mean her only was all single guy's and ladies that's not swinging is it ?

But I also said couples do sometimes look for singles to join them but for a single to state only looking for singles in my opinion this isn't the site for them I think we will have to agree to disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The elitist swinger couple

Everyone in thread do a Mexican wave for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on not telling anyone who to meet everyone has their own preferences but would this be a swinging site without couples or just another dating site? ??

You told her she should be on a dating site if she only wants to meet singles.

I think its up to her if she wants to be on here and who she wants to meet.may have came across wrong didn't mean her only was all single guy's and ladies that's not swinging is it ?

But I also said couples do sometimes look for singles to join them but for a single to state only looking for singles in my opinion this isn't the site for them I think we will have to agree to disagree "

Is it ok for couples to just want to meet singles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on not telling anyone who to meet everyone has their own preferences but would this be a swinging site without couples or just another dating site? ??

You told her she should be on a dating site if she only wants to meet singles.

I think its up to her if she wants to be on here and who she wants to meet.may have came across wrong didn't mean her only was all single guy's and ladies that's not swinging is it ?

But I also said couples do sometimes look for singles to join them but for a single to state only looking for singles in my opinion this isn't the site for them I think we will have to agree to disagree

Is it ok for couples to just want to meet singles?"
you're not getting my point singles only interested in singles don't you think are not interested in swapping partner or seeing partner with another guy or gal but only looking for one on one fun which is fine I have no problem with this just again my opinion not swinging you see all the time single profile who also say couples only saying one on one meeting not swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on not telling anyone who to meet everyone has their own preferences but would this be a swinging site without couples or just another dating site? ??

You told her she should be on a dating site if she only wants to meet singles.

I think its up to her if she wants to be on here and who she wants to meet.may have came across wrong didn't mean her only was all single guy's and ladies that's not swinging is it ?

But I also said couples do sometimes look for singles to join them but for a single to state only looking for singles in my opinion this isn't the site for them I think we will have to agree to disagree

Is it ok for couples to just want to meet singles?you're not getting my point singles only interested in singles don't you think are not interested in swapping partner or seeing partner with another guy or gal but only looking for one on one fun which is fine I have no problem with this just again my opinion not swinging you see all the time single profile who also say couples only saying one on one meeting not swinging "

I do get your point about it not being swinging.But feel she should be able to do as she wishes on the site.Same as anybody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without married couples or couples in general this wouldn't be a swinging site

I might be wrong but swinging involves partner swapping granted not all the time we do involve single guy's and gals from time to time but to say only meeting single guy's or ladies to me you should be on a dating site not a swinging one

It is up to her who she wants to meet or not on this site.Dont think she should be being told what sites she should be on not telling anyone who to meet everyone has their own preferences but would this be a swinging site without couples or just another dating site? ??

You told her she should be on a dating site if she only wants to meet singles.

I think its up to her if she wants to be on here and who she wants to meet.may have came across wrong didn't mean her only was all single guy's and ladies that's not swinging is it ?

But I also said couples do sometimes look for singles to join them but for a single to state only looking for singles in my opinion this isn't the site for them I think we will have to agree to disagree

Is it ok for couples to just want to meet singles?you're not getting my point singles only interested in singles don't you think are not interested in swapping partner or seeing partner with another guy or gal but only looking for one on one fun which is fine I have no problem with this just again my opinion not swinging you see all the time single profile who also say couples only saying one on one meeting not swinging

I do get your point about it not being swinging.But feel she should be able to do as she wishes on the site.Same as anybody else. "
yes your right mate

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By *ovemenot OP   Woman
over a year ago

yeovil

But if I am looking for NSA than that's not dateing so why be on a dateing site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if I am looking for NSA than that's not dateing so why be on a dateing site "
point taken I apologise

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By *ovemenot OP   Woman
over a year ago

yeovil

Also I have meet with couples . But I don't meet with males that are not single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The elitist swinger couple

Everyone in thread do a Mexican wave for them "

whooooosh!

And back again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to read this but couldn't decipher enough of the comments to follow it.

But I will say, marriage is great

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

To be fair this mans situation may not be as assumed?! He may have been married to her, had the kids and divorced .. Gone on a mad one on fab, in life in general , then realize his error and decided to re marry?! Who knows? Point being, in reality could be 101 senarios to the situation... Wouldnt say marriage is pointless... For all those that do get wed, it's the right choice/ decision at that given time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why Lear. Ning inglish is poynt less.

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