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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm thinking about getting sterilised can people tell me what their experiences of this have been! I have read some pretty negative stuff but not sure how common bad things happen. Also anyone have it done that have regretted it??

Thanks

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Are you thinking having your tubes tied or something more drastic?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Given that you are only 30 you will find it difficult to find a doctor that will agree to you being sterilised at such a young age...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They won't do it on the NHS at your age. It sucks I know, but doctors are very iffy about sterilising women younger than menopause because they think our only goal is to have kids. When I asked to get sterilised after I had my daughter the doctor said 'but what if she dies?', as if I'd just replace her like a pair of shoes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh also what's the waiting list for it??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you thinking having your tubes tied or something more drastic?

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Whichever is the least instrusive but most effective really x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Oh also what's the waiting list for it??"

Depends on the hospital but when I asked it was a year.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Oh also what's the waiting list for it??"

That depends on your health trust, if they agree.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Are you thinking having your tubes tied or something more drastic?

Whichever is the least instrusive but most effective really x"

You need to do more research. It's not reading like you know what you want and this will work against you with your age when requesting sterilisation. It's an operation - they are expensive and risky and not to be carried out willy nilly.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Are you thinking having your tubes tied or something more drastic?

Whichever is the least instrusive but most effective really x

You need to do more research. It's not reading like you know what you want and this will work against you with your age when requesting sterilisation. It's an operation - they are expensive and risky and not to be carried out willy nilly."

Like lickety said you have to be 100% sure it's what you want...it sounds to me that you are not 100% sure???it's a life changing operation and can have devastating consequences if you are not 100% sure..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got sterilised @ 24 after my forth child. But they don't do it so young nowadays I'm afraid. Simple easy procedure, sore for a few weeks but otherwise its ok. I don't regret it because I was ready

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you thinking having your tubes tied or something more drastic?

Whichever is the least instrusive but most effective really x

You need to do more research. It's not reading like you know what you want and this will work against you with your age when requesting sterilisation. It's an operation - they are expensive and risky and not to be carried out willy nilly."

Hence why I'm on here!! I'm finding out about other peoples experiences!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my tubes tied via the NHS 9 years ago I was 31. On the day if the operation both the nurse and surgeon tried to talk me out of it.

They only reason they agreed to do it was when I said I had 2 kids 1 of each sex.

So be prepared for a battle on your hands as you are so young. But if you can justify your reasons it should be ok.

The operation was very straightforward no hassle and is still working.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"I'm thinking about getting sterilised can people tell me what their experiences of this have been! I have read some pretty negative stuff but not sure how common bad things happen. Also anyone have it done that have regretted it??

Thanks"
Had mine done at 27 I had one daughter by then. I did not want children at all. The op was as a day patient through a local private hospital no issues all very straight forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex had the snip when he was 27, if they will do a man in his 20s why not a woman?

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By *taryscorpCouple
over a year ago

boston

Mrs Stary was done when she was 29 but we got 4 kids she was ok with it and only about 3 months on list

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"My ex had the snip when he was 27, if they will do a man in his 20s why not a woman? "

Isn't the snip for men pretty much reversible though (I know it's not guaranteed...)? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine done at 21 20+ plus years ago i had 3 children by that time. Something i was pushed into by the heath visitor and my mum .

It's something i wished to god i had never had done( wish they had the injections etc they have now)

Found out later i should of had counseling etc before having it done.

If there was something i could give my husband( i remarried) it would be his own flesh and blood

There is only a very small amount of time you can have it reversed if you change your mind.

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