FabSwingers.com forum: Sober meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've read quite a few profiles today where it says the person is quite shy but turns wild after a drink or two.

Does anyone meet totally sober? Or do you all have at least one drink to get the horny glow going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Totally sober here. I always drive so not even one passes my lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober... tend not to drink if theres a chance of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make here always totally sober never drink, gilly likes a drink but not essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink so it's always sober for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always sober, mostly have to drive to meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met sober a few times because ive been driving but I do prefer the option of being able to have a drink if I want one

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes, when I'm on one to ones always stone cold sober unless we've shared a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be completely plastered to meet me. I'll stay sober to write the verify thingymajig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read quite a few profiles today where it says the person is quite shy but turns wild after a drink or two.

Does anyone meet totally sober? Or do you all have at least one drink to get the horny glow going?

We don't meet and drink if you need alcohol to play you are better off doing something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets have been totally sober meets.. I would refuse a guy too if he turned up pissed and stinking of booze or fags!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet sober and drink very little, no more than a glass of wine.

Got d*unk once on a meet think he was buying me doubles and that was the last time due to later occurrences I will ever get pissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubbing more often sober than not as if crystal drives neither of us drink. Other than that it varies depending on who and where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read quite a few profiles today where it says the person is quite shy but turns wild after a drink or two.

Does anyone meet totally sober? Or do you all have at least one drink to get the horny glow going?

I'm teetotal (pretty much) and never drink on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read quite a few profiles today where it says the person is quite shy but turns wild after a drink or two.

Does anyone meet totally sober? Or do you all have at least one drink to get the horny glow going?

Always totally sober! A first meet determines if I'm gonna get lucky or not... It's a delicate, surgical operation, that requires precision and finesse... One wrong step and things get messy, Although...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always sober. Had a social meet once and when I got to town he was d*unk and couldn't understand why things didn't go any further. I had quite a few unwanted text that night too. I didn't reply until the following morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol doesn't change my personality, so I can take or leave having a drink. Be it before or during a fab meet, or any social occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally sober as I meet while at work during the day and I'm driving

and yes during a meet sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet sober, like to know we are in control and know what we are doing, no one can take advantage in any way, I.e. safe sex and no crossing of boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no set rule. It depends who we're meeting and where.

Never d*unk though.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Sober meet? Whats one of them then?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm teetotal, so always sober. If I had a drink, I'd be out of hand, spending all night pissing about

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I don't drink so it's always sober for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally sober as I am driving....but when we go to clubs I will drink and I have been known to have the odd overnighter where I've been able to have a drink, but that isn't the norm for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have no set rule. It depends who we're meeting and where.

Never d*unk though. "

Couldn't of put it better we do like a drink or two on meets but never d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never drink before a meet but if I'm meeting someone in a bar, I'll probably have a drink or two as will the person with me (or I'll share a nice bottle of wine to break the ice if it happens at mine).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sober once, Found the world a scary place so i was straight back on the Windolene.

Gi*hic*imp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nither of us drink..so it's sober for us!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us drinks so we are always sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink before a meet. If we meet in a pub I'll have a beer or two, but not get anywhere near d*unk. So in closing, sober.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes we often have meets where we won't drink alcohol at all.

Other times we will have one or two but that's about it. Like to stay in control of our actions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had a drink before or during our meets

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

usually sober, although with a few special meets have been known to have a wee bit of fizz.

but i usually drive, and would never drink on a meet away from home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always sober.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Unless I am at a club I'm usually totally sober.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I've read quite a few profiles today where it says the person is quite shy but turns wild after a drink or two.

Does anyone meet totally sober? Or do you all have at least one drink to get the horny glow going?

I never drink before, during or after a meet. I find it adversely affects my performance - and confidence levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet totally sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober for meets as I like to be aware of what's going on, plus I often drive. Only person I used to drink with was an ex fb, but that wasn't something I did straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The list for my Christmas party has just got considerably shorter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually sober unless it's a meet at home when I have 1 or 2

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Reading this thread I'm thinking we might have a drinking problem ??

We tend to meet at ours, or we spend a weekend away visiting a club, this takes up all of our babysitting time so do like to have a drink the same time, we have had some wonderful meets sober however so we can manage it

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I've read quite a few profiles today where it says the person is quite shy but turns wild after a drink or two.

Does anyone meet totally sober? Or do you all have at least one drink to get the horny glow going?

nope... I am a non-alcoholic drinker now...

I am testing all the alcohol free beers...

Becks Blue... nice

Fosters Radler 0.0%... not bad

Non-alcohol kopperburg... okay for cider, nothing special

Cobra 0.0%.. never a fan on the indian lager special.. even less of a fan of this!!!

anyone what to send suggestion... i'll start a new segment...

fab drinks pop!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely drink before or during sex. If I do it will only be a couple. I hate d*unk sex and I don't need warming up or an alcoholic confidence boost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or 2 doesn't hurt, but it's not compulsory. .

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Am absolutely never sober and all seems to go well. The morningsh are pretty bad though.

However, I absolutely do not drink on the days of special religious observance or dispensation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually meet sober unless I'm at a party night / club then I'll drink but I've never got totally wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we hardly drink but do have one or two socially - hes very protective especially if we are out and about so stays totally sober -

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I am quite a reserved person, so having a glass of wine does chill me out a bit - but that's not to say I can't have fun sober, with the right person/people

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't drink beforehand as I always drive, but I like one glass of wine or so on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally ask Gimp to roll the keg into the back of the car for me..it saves spillages, then I ponse a straw

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we have meets at home, we have our own bar. So afew drinks to break the ice

SharonGerry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm teetotal, so always sober. If I had a drink, I'd be out of hand, spending all night pissing about "

Same here , haven't touched alcohol for over 18 years now . Wife sometimes has one or two but rarely

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

For me drinking never mix it with driving as the clubs are not local. Funny thing is I sometimes get jealous of other people drinking as I stare at another empty pepsi can

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I always drive, so mostly sober, or if not, a glass of wine or two.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've read quite a few profiles today where it says the person is quite shy but turns wild after a drink or two.

Does anyone meet totally sober? Or do you all have at least one drink to get the horny glow going?

Totally sober here. I seldom drink anyway, so wouldn't even contemplate drinking prior to a meet.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Meeting locally, I'll maybe have a glass of wine or two if I'm not driving...meeting at a club I'll take drinks but don't usually get bladdered (although the Xtasia social in February was different as I started on the wine in the afternoon - that's usually fatal)...I'm off to Sparkle this weekend so there'll probably be a few schooners of sherry pass my lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had a few drinks with one person I've met but I had met them regularly I have never had a drink on any other meet.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Sober here. Like to keep my wits about me.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I won't drink and play, I like to be completely aware of what's going on and fully capable of making decisions. I'm usually driving too (a great way to refuse a drink) and I like to know that, if I had to, I can leave under my own steam.

If I go to socials with the intention of it just being social then I have been known to indulge in the occasional tequila...

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