FabSwingers.com forum: No sex before marriage

By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Could you? I had to with my ex husband as he was Catholic and it was weird....I don't think I could do it again lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Could you? I had to with my ex husband as he was Catholic and it was weird....I don't think I could do it again lol

I'd draw the line at doing it right before the marriage.

Priests do blush ...... !

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I could. Sex is not the be all, but you do run the risk of compatability issues.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I could. Sex is not the be all, but you do run the risk of compatability issues."

That is very true...

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?

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By *leasuresharerMan
over a year ago

southampton

"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?"

I had an ex-gf who was always doing that and constantly taking them back - drove me crazy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, I would need to know we where compatable

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I think it is a brilliant idea. It would either cut teenage pregnancies or increase the marriage & divorce rates of the under 20's.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?"
I bet lots have from the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I had more sex before marriage than I did after

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the tales of woe we hear on here from partners with wildly mismatched sex drives and tastes makes enough of a case for sex to actually be compulsory before marriage, and sexual honesty to be even more compulsory (if there are degrees of compulsory

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?I bet lots have from the net"

And resell them on ebay when they don't fit

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?"

I can't believe a woman is asking that

And to the OP the answer is no! You beed to know you're compatible sexually otherwise you could have a very boring sex life for the rest of your life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP gotta try before you buy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catholic but had plenty of sex before marriage

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?I bet lots have from the net

And resell them on ebay when they don't fit

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I see a marketing opportunity here....

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

Never been married .... Must be a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you love each other that much i dont think it would bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very good of of mine waited until she was married. More from fear than anything religous. She got married at twenty one and is still married twenty three years later and from what I can tell she is very happy.

She's quite filthy as well.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I know people who waited until they were married. They are all still together and from the women who lunch chats they appear to have happy sex lives.

I've never been married and at this stage in my life I can't see me every getting married but for the right relationship I think I could wait.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Just have to say I had to wait but at the time I thought I loved my husband so waited....sexual we was not on the same wave length but I lobed him

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Just have to say I had to wait but at the time I thought I loved my husband so waited....sexual we was not on the same wave length but I lobed him "

Loved not lobed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just have to say I had to wait but at the time I thought I loved my husband so waited....sexual we was not on the same wave length but I lobed him "

Out of the window ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't want to wait, if I love someone I want to share everything with them immediately not wait for the state to sanction the commencement of our sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no sex after I got married . Is that the same

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I think it is a brilliant idea. It would either cut teenage pregnancies or increase the marriage & divorce rates of the under 20's.

most teenagers whilst fucking like rabbits are probably not intending to marry the other person..

I would hazard..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I had no sex after I got married . Is that the same

sort of

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think it is a brilliant idea. It would either cut teenage pregnancies or increase the marriage & divorce rates of the under 20's.

most teenagers whilst fucking like rabbits are probably not intending to marry the other person..

I would hazard.."

lol, our daughter has a friend and they don't know half their names let alone marry them

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Just have to say I had to wait but at the time I thought I loved my husband so waited....sexual we was not on the same wave length but I lobed him

Out of the window ?"

Haha I loved the silly shit he loved another woman more..shit happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had no sex after I got married . Is that the same

sort of

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phew thats ok then . Thought it was just me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I had no sex after I got married . Is that the same

sort of

phew thats ok then . Thought it was just me

lol no, haven't you seen the threads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No lol maybe I should look

But not married mo more so does not matter now I suppose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! Try before you buy

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.

I was abandoned when i was 6 weeks pregnant. I started seeing the man who was to be my second husband when i was 4.5 months. I wouldnt have sex with him till my daughter was 6 weeks old. I waited cos i couldnt have sex with one man while i was carrying anothers child. I dont know if i could do the same for marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine was engaged to a catholic girl, he abstained for seven months then found out she was sleeping with three married blokes, one of them her brother-in-law.

i doubt many other's would be so twisted but it seems a little odd, maybe dated? unless you're both of the same faith?

either way, bollocks to that! What if on your wedding night the sparks went out? Some people just aren't compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?I bet lots have from the net

And resell them on ebay when they don't fit

If only I knew, I could have sold my husband on e-bay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me old fashioned but if i take a bird out n she hasnt got Carpet burns on her knees n elbows after an hour she dont get a packet of chrisps let alone a slice of bloody wedding cake

Gimp

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Could you? I had to with my ex husband as he was Catholic and it was weird....I don't think I could do it again lol

I was a virgin bride. My youngest is 22 and her boyfriend 21. Both devout Christians and virgins. They've been dating for four years and saving themselves for marriage.

I wouldn't buy before I try now though.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?"

i did wasted £60 haha never again

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The very thought of marriage didn't happen till years after I'd been shagging.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

No. (Mainly because I'm not religious, but) I know sex SHOULDN'T be the be all and end all but I can't imagine anything more depressing than legally binding myself to someone who either turns out to have a very low sex-drive or who isn't compatible with me in the bedroom.

Sure, you can masturbate but it's not the same.

I become one Hell of a Bitch when I'm not being properly satisfied.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I want a try before you buy maybe a 14 day exchange policy hehe x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"No I want a try before you buy maybe a 14 day exchange policy hehe x"

A 2 year exchange policy, more like! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I waited until I found the guy I wanted to marry then lost my virginity to him and married him 8 years later so not quite the same but almost lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it is a brilliant idea. It would either cut teenage pregnancies or increase the marriage & divorce rates of the under 20's.

most teenagers whilst fucking like rabbits are probably not intending to marry the other person..

I would hazard.."

I think it was a tongue in cheek remark, but you never know it might work.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it's interesting that we all still consider waiting to have sex with someone until it's sanctioned by religion or the state to be an option. I also wonder what our respective definition of sex is, I count any sexual contact at all as sex but some people might just define penetration as sex and everything else would be ok.

I'm not disrespecting anyones views on this its a very personal thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a bloke takes me out, he can kiss me before he marries me.

Her

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Would you buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first?"

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