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wink or invite as friend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi was just wondering is it best to send a wink 1st or invite as a friend.New to the site, well been here a while but just getting use to things

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending a wink can show interest... Getting one back means they are too..

Sending a friends invite to us first just suggests you want to see our pics... When we get we normally either just delete and block.. or reply telling them to sod off..

So wink.. maybe, add to friends looks desperate for wan* fodder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm dnt know i tend to ignore winks a lot , ok i know im a single guy and such dont get very many lol but it tells me nothing about them , even if i look at their profile and its poor , doesnt help , wwhat about a message ? iv had this advice in the past and i think it was the best i could have got , just be honest with them , what attarcted you to their profile , take the time to read through the rpofile and make sure they might be interested in you things such as smokers etc etc or are they looking for couples , singles etc dont know if its of any use to you all that but thought id put it in there , good luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we tend to wink at people just to let them know that we are interested but we have just recently put on our profile about not adding us as friends before speaking to us...cant understand why the want to see our private pics anyway as we have face pics in gallery and nothing rude in the privte

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol shit! jus spent most of the day inviting friends! lol gonna look like a real desperardo now!!

thanks for the help x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok wasnt thinking of inviting friends just to see there pics

jus that invite as a friend sounds more inviting than send a wink

Guess i better start winking!

thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol shit! jus spent most of the day inviting friends! lol gonna look like a real desperardo now!!

thanks for the help x"

lol and the thing is there is no way of telling who u have invited so it's not as if you can go and send them a message explaining yourself lol

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hopefully maybe they will see it in this thread and hey presto problem solved lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok wasnt thinking of inviting friends just to see there pics

jus that invite as a friend sounds more inviting than send a wink

Guess i better start winking!

thanks again"

Ohhh Your short of friends then lol...

Why not if you really thought you liked mail em..

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