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"And does it make you feel popular the more people you have on your friends list?" Not at all. | |||
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"Pic access. To look popular. (Although if your list is public it only shows 20!) A possible sense of entitlement to meets/more pics/cam/personal details/gossip. The old 'bookface' mentality. Who knows? We only add those we've met. Pics can be shared without adding and 'friends' is a definition that varies from person to person. We could easily survive if friends lists weren't an option on site. A" That all makes sense and I agree about the FB thing. | |||
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"And does it make you feel popular the more people you have on your friends list?" Nope, I'm not that shallow to need the ego boost of lots of friends on here. Fab fun is the icing on a cake - not the cake and substance of life itself, so its not something I use to define my popularity, or validate myself with. | |||
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"oh dear, just had a count up, 7 friends and 47 on the hotlist! Think it's safe to assume I don't add willy nilly.......I don't know who he is anyway? " You have to be careful of him, he's a sneaky fucker. | |||
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"And does it make you feel popular the more people you have on your friends list? Nope, I'm not that shallow to need the ego boost of lots of friends on here. Fab fun is the icing on a cake - not the cake and substance of life itself, so its not something I use to define my popularity, or validate myself with." Thats good, I feel some do. | |||
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"oh dear, just had a count up, 7 friends and 47 on the hotlist! Think it's safe to assume I don't add willy nilly.......I don't know who he is anyway? You have to be careful of him, he's a sneaky fucker." I did hear that, him and sweet fanny adams are very elusive! | |||
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"I don't have anyone in my hotlist and my friends list is a mixture if people I have met and this I would like to meet plus the ones I like to have a natter with " Oops should be those I would like to meet, stupid phone | |||
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"I believe my friends list is hidden anyway so the whole popularity thing here isn't the case at all" I am not on about a visual thing, t some it appears its the be all and end all, just an observation. | |||
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"And does it make you feel popular the more people you have on your friends list?" No I like to look at the fajiners. | |||
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"And does it make you feel popular the more people you have on your friends list? No I like to look at the fajiners." Can you not get those in restaurants? | |||
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"And does it make you feel popular the more people you have on your friends list? No I like to look at the fajiners.Can you not get those in restaurants? " Yeah I've had a few in restaurants, you find them every where. | |||
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"I believe my friends list is hidden anyway so the whole popularity thing here isn't the case at all I am not on about a visual thing, t some it appears its the be all and end all, just an observation." I see. People have been boasting in assuming? | |||
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"I believe my friends list is hidden anyway so the whole popularity thing here isn't the case at all I am not on about a visual thing, t some it appears its the be all and end all, just an observation. I see. People have been boasting in assuming?" Lets just say, it seems to be a be all to a lot, from merely watching and listening...not with a glass though. | |||
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"What's the difference between a hotlist and a friends list apart from the ability to look at the pictures? Do you add people to your friends list willy nilly? I only have 8 people on my friends list, I have considerably more on my hotlist. Why are people obsessed with being "Friends"? " Probably for the same reason they are obsessed about people have verifications | |||
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"Only 2 friends and only met one of them ...sad (" better than loads of lurkers. Her | |||
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"So no one else is admitting to being a friend whore??? Is it really just me that is completely lazy and isn't that bothered who is on my friend's list?? As many have said it doesn't mean anything really. If I'm honest many are there because we'd been chatting and I fancied a perv at their friend only pics and they have just stayed there. Oh well at least you can't accuse me of having OCD!! " I knew there would be at least one. | |||
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"So no one else is admitting to being a friend whore??? Is it really just me that is completely lazy and isn't that bothered who is on my friend's list?? As many have said it doesn't mean anything really. If I'm honest many are there because we'd been chatting and I fancied a perv at their friend only pics and they have just stayed there. Oh well at least you can't accuse me of having OCD!! " lol pretty much the same here like a good perv now and then i do go through it now and then and boot one or two but then feel guilty when they mail all sad and end up sticking them back on | |||
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"So no one else is admitting to being a friend whore??? Is it really just me that is completely lazy and isn't that bothered who is on my friend's list?? As many have said it doesn't mean anything really. If I'm honest many are there because we'd been chatting and I fancied a perv at their friend only pics and they have just stayed there. Oh well at least you can't accuse me of having OCD!! " my friends list is a bit like this lol | |||
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"Last person I added only wanted to look at my willy..........nilly " Is your willy called Nilly? | |||
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"What's the difference between a hotlist and a friends list apart from the ability to look at the pictures? Do you add people to your friends list willy nilly? I only have 8 people on my friends list, I have considerably more on my hotlist. Why are people obsessed with being "Friends"? " I just had a cull! I usually add 'friends' when we start talking with the hope of meeting. I never get around to removing them if we dont! Half the 'friends' I have are forumites. I have a fair few on my hotlist, mainly to perve over their pics. My block list is extensive and growing all the time | |||
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"Randoms not ransoms* I promise none are being held without their will " e jay please hold me without my will I wont report you I promise | |||
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"I friend request everybody in the forums that is sexy/funny/intelligent and interesting. " where's mine then? (waits to get a whack around the back of the head ) | |||
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"I friend request everybody in the forums that is sexy/funny/intelligent and interesting. " Thanks. | |||
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"I friend request everybody in the forums that is sexy/funny/intelligent and interesting. " No you don't | |||
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"I friend request everybody in the forums that is sexy/funny/intelligent and interesting. " Now attempting to figure out which of the criteria I am lacking. | |||
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"I friend request everybody in the forums that is sexy/funny/intelligent and interesting. No you don't " Busted I've only ever sent two requests and they were both by accident - fat fingers on the touch screen. I think they both declined too | |||
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"I friend request everybody in the forums that is sexy/funny/intelligent and interesting. Now attempting to figure out which of the criteria I am lacking. " I'd happily be your friend whore | |||
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"I have 17. I've had sex with 8 of them " Hahaha. | |||
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"I'm choosy with who I have on my friends list .... Most are forum regulars " me too...and barely any are "forum regulars" | |||
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"I'm choosy with who I have on my friends list .... Most are forum regulars " yes we have one on friends list now from here - | |||
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"I maybe on the wrong site? I have friends on my list, whom I actually, call friends! People I can call upon when needed if I need some sound advice, or just people whom I feel I've clicked with. Most I've met some I've not, some I hope to. It's extremely short... " Awe I feel special oh wait hang on errr oooh err I've been blocked! | |||
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"Randoms not ransoms* I promise none are being held without their will " you can hold me to ransom anytime | |||
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"What's the difference between a hotlist and a friends list apart from the ability to look at the pictures? Do you add people to your friends list willy nilly? I only have 8 people on my friends list, I have considerably more on my hotlist. Why are people obsessed with being "Friends"? " Apart from a couple of forum people and some hot tottie that's awol at the moment, I only keep people on my friend list if I talk to them regularly and there are 29 even after I culled a few recently. My hotlist is vast - I'm not gonna live long enough to meet them! | |||
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"do you drink every night ?" No, but I think you need to. | |||
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"do you drink every night ?No, but I think you need to. " I sup Earl Grey, does this count towards it? | |||
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"do you drink every night ?No, but I think you need to. I sup Earl Grey, does this count towards it? " Only if you lift your pinky. | |||
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"What's the difference between a hotlist and a friends list apart from the ability to look at the pictures? Do you add people to your friends list willy nilly? I only have 8 people on my friends list, I have considerably more on my hotlist. Why are people obsessed with being "Friends"? " If I get the feeling men only want to be friends so they can perv at me but not actually engage with me then they're removed. I have 10 friends and that's usually enough at any one time. | |||
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