FabSwingers.com forum: Why can't....

By *inkyKimbles OP Woman
over a year ago

Northants

People just be honest

For personal reasons I chose not to have any meets with "attached" men unless of course im meeting a couple (which I have so far never done)

So I find someone im comfortable with and the sex is literally explosive,,, only to figure out that although he said he was seperated from his ex.. hes maybe not so much and now I feel awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't beat yourself up if you wasn't aware of it, it happens all the time.. Don't blame yourself

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

He lied to you and his "ex" I hope you only feel awful because of that, you haven't done anything bad.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You acted/took a decision on the information you had. He lied to you. You have not done anything wrong.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Unfortunately if they lie to their partners they'll have no qualms lying to get a shag.

You acted on the information you had: don't beat yourself up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were all honest, nobody would get a shag (6ft1 slim, tanned and muscles)

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By *inkyKimbles OP Woman
over a year ago

Northants

I know and thanks all its just hard cause I had my marriage ripped from under me and my family torn apart (my husband died from cancer) so I have a really strong dislike of cheating and well

If im honest im bitter because the chemistry was great meaning the sex was

well you get the idea haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People just be honest

For personal reasons I chose not to have any meets with "attached" men unless of course im meeting a couple (which I have so far never done)

So I find someone im comfortable with and the sex is literally explosive,,, only to figure out that although he said he was seperated from his ex.. hes maybe not so much and now I feel awful

Sites like this don't promote honesty from the monument you sign up you are persuaded not to use your real name, many don't use face pictures and just as many old pictures or ones that are not them little wonder people are not honest about other things. To feel awful about not being in full knowledge is pointless just mark it down to experience.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

They are willing to lie and cheat on the person they are meant to love more than anyone else, lieing to a stranger on the internet to empty there balls is nothing, we wont knowingly meet a cheat either, some state on there profile or in a early message what they are, but other than that, certain signs usually give it away, but you have to accept sometimes 1 might slip through, like in your case, you were totally unaware, if you had known you would have sent him packing (only right), so dont beat yourself up about it, just hope he gets his come uppance one day and his poor partner moves on to find someone they deserve, he did everything wrong, you did nothing wrong.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"If we were all honest, nobody would get a shag (6ft1 slim, tanned and muscles)"

You forgot to mention your 12" cock,

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By *od6Woman
over a year ago

redcar

"I know and thanks all its just hard cause I had my marriage ripped from under me and my family torn apart (my husband died from cancer) so I have a really strong dislike of cheating and well

If im honest im bitter because the chemistry was great meaning the sex was

well you get the idea haha "

Don't beat yourself up or at least try not to..!!

Enjoy the experience and try and take something positive from it.

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