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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.......ask for a meet then demand you accommodate! What's that all about? No mention of sharing hotel costs or anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They live in a shithole isn't it obvious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face it, you're not doing them a favour by turning up, so I guess they see it as your end of the bargain.

I'm sure if you got to know people property, reasonable sorts would at least discuss it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had that happen to me

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Men usually expect me to accommodate at my place even though my profile says I won't. They seem to take it for granted.

Most disappear when I mention sharing hotel costs. That's fine by me. I'm not running a free, one woman brothel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men usually expect me to accommodate at my place even though my profile says I won't. They seem to take it for granted.

Most disappear when I mention sharing hotel costs. That's fine by me. I'm not running a free, one woman brothel."

I really do think there's a niche in the market for it though. Personally I wouldn't accept cheque's as a form of payment

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Men usually expect me to accommodate at my place even though my profile says I won't. They seem to take it for granted.

Most disappear when I mention sharing hotel costs. That's fine by me. I'm not running a free, one woman brothel.

I really do think there's a niche in the market for it though. Personally I wouldn't accept cheque's as a form of payment "

It's not really a "market" if it's free!

I hate to be made to feel cheap. Or as though they think I might be cheap.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

That's not saying I expect people to pay me, incidentally.

I like to feel they think I'm worth half the cost of a cheap hotel room though!

The suggestion they'll only bother if it costs them no more than fuel to get here makes me feel very cheap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had that happen to me "

That's because your a Lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not saying I expect people to pay me, incidentally.

I like to feel they think I'm worth half the cost of a cheap hotel room though!

The suggestion they'll only bother if it costs them no more than fuel to get here makes me feel very cheap."

Oh you don't want to do a cheap hotel room that is just conforming to the cheap image people will leave with always go mid range or above.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"That's not saying I expect people to pay me, incidentally.

I like to feel they think I'm worth half the cost of a cheap hotel room though!

The suggestion they'll only bother if it costs them no more than fuel to get here makes me feel very cheap.

Oh you don't want to do a cheap hotel room that is just conforming to the cheap image people will leave with always go mid range or above. "

I'm poor. Going halves dictates a cheap room!

Cheap is ok. Expecting free puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not saying I expect people to pay me, incidentally.

I like to feel they think I'm worth half the cost of a cheap hotel room though!

The suggestion they'll only bother if it costs them no more than fuel to get here makes me feel very cheap."
whoahhh there I was jesting ! Isn't this whole game all about mutual consent and respect ? If it's a case of you pay for this and ill do that etc it all becomes a turn off? Makes it seem like a legal contract ? Just communicate.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"That's not saying I expect people to pay me, incidentally.

I like to feel they think I'm worth half the cost of a cheap hotel room though!

The suggestion they'll only bother if it costs them no more than fuel to get here makes me feel very cheap. whoahhh there I was jesting ! Isn't this whole game all about mutual consent and respect ? If it's a case of you pay for this and ill do that etc it all becomes a turn off? Makes it seem like a legal contract ? Just communicate. "

I wasn't suggesting you were serious, just clarifying I don't expect reward beyond a good fuck. (I'll expect a refund if it's bad!)

I read back what I wrote and it sounded a bit dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if they're got away with such demands in the past they'll keep doing it until someone says ~ no I'm not that desperate to meet you!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

OP ..

Your profile states that you travel with work and are looking to meet while on your travels...

This (rightly or wrongly) sounds like you'd have a hotel room anyway, paid for by your employer.

If this is the case then I wouldn't expect the other party to offer to pay half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone demanding anything off me gets nowhere

I do think that some people have delusions of being so sought after and fuckable that they can make all sorts of ridiculous demands.....bless em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone demanding anything off me gets nowhere

I do think that some people have delusions of being so sought after and fuckable that they can make all sorts of ridiculous demands.....bless em! "
darn I was just about to demand you get your kit off !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone demanding anything off me gets nowhere

I do think that some people have delusions of being so sought after and fuckable that they can make all sorts of ridiculous demands.....bless em! darn I was just about to demand you get your kit off ! "

I demand you get yours off first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP ..

Your profile states that you travel with work and are looking to meet while on your travels...

This (rightly or wrongly) sounds like you'd have a hotel room anyway, paid for by your employer.

If this is the case then I wouldn't expect the other party to offer to pay half. "

It was an observation I made whilst looking at local meets and they way couples seem to demand that a potential "meeter" would have to stump up to accommodate or pay for a hotel!

All for the privilege of a shag,

If I am away on business I have no problems in accomadating and I wouldn't dream of asking for recompense

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


".......ask for a meet then demand you accommodate! What's that all about? No mention of sharing hotel costs or anything?"

We don't respond to demands from anyone...

If your not happy to accommodate then simply say no. If you can't agree on other arrangements then move on.

Perhaps they are used to people dancing to their tune....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP ..

Your profile states that you travel with work and are looking to meet while on your travels...

This (rightly or wrongly) sounds like you'd have a hotel room anyway, paid for by your employer.

If this is the case then I wouldn't expect the other party to offer to pay half. "

Abd the paragraph that specifically mentions finding hotel bars boring and that the OP is looking to meet people when he is working away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Face it, you're not doing them a favour by turning up, so I guess they see it as your end of the bargain.

I'm sure if you got to know people property, reasonable sorts would at least discuss it."

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

its all really rather simple..

avoid the folks that don't tick your boxes, have similar interests etc..

concentrate on those who do so perhaps..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its all really rather simple..

avoid the folks that don't tick your boxes, have similar interests etc..

concentrate on those who do so perhaps..?"

And I do! It was merely an observation on how people can be so demanding in return for a shag

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Demands only work if some mug/mugs succumb to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".......ask for a meet then demand you accommodate! What's that all about? No mention of sharing hotel costs or anything?"

Some lack respect I guess would you meet someone who demanded you do something?

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