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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I've been on n off this since I've made my account on here, would like to experience the swinging life try new things but their must be something I'm doing wrong on here as I can't seem go get no reply off anyone on here

Ladies do u prefer a man to message you saying "I want to fuck you" or something small to break the ice to see if there's a mutual chemistry and then take it further then?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

fuck messages are an instant delete from me.

There isn't any formula for a first message that will snap knicker elastic and have the ladies beating a path to your door.

You're young, which will work against you for some folk as they have children older than you (the nature of swinging tends to appeal to more mature folk from my experience)

Get out and about, clubs, socials etc - its not just about sex for many folk on here.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

Pick a lady you like and send her this message

Hello do you like ham cobs??

Guaranteed response

You owe me a pint for that tip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pick a lady you like and send her this message

Hello do you like ham cobs??

Guaranteed response

You owe me a pint for that tip "

haha I'm actually going to try that trusting my luck it won't lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Pick a lady you like and send her this message

Hello do you like ham cobs??

Guaranteed response

You owe me a pint for that tip "

What the feck is a ham cob?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Pick a lady you like and send her this message

Hello do you like ham cobs??

Guaranteed response

You owe me a pint for that tip

What the feck is a ham cob?"

a sandwich roll I think... I personally prefer a bacon butty hahah

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You obviously don't mind showing your face on here, so why not take some pics where you are smiling! There are too many pics on male profiles where they look like they're being held up at gun point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha should I start asking the ladies if they like a bacon.butty instead then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick a lady you like and send her this message

Hello do you like ham cobs??

Guaranteed response

You owe me a pint for that tip "

I can say for absolute certain that opening message has never failed for me yet.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Pick a lady you like and send her this message

Hello do you like ham cobs??

Guaranteed response

You owe me a pint for that tip

haha I'm actually going to try that trusting my luck it won't lol "

Did it work ? Lol

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Pick a lady you like and send her this message

Hello do you like ham cobs??

Guaranteed response

You owe me a pint for that tip

What the feck is a ham cob?"

Ham roll you southerner lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Only contact those who like your age group. Dont do the wanna fuck messages, make them personal to the recipients. And change your profile to reflect who you will meet, as it states female couples only at present. Swinging is not the easiest way to find sex for most single guys who will just use an internet site and not clubs or meet at socials. Improve your profile as it is hard to get much of a feel for who you are from it. And add a better range of pics. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate the fuck messages. But also hate the messages that have been generated for.copy and paste grrrr the hi ive read and loved your profile and would.love to.meet blah blah when they obviously haven't read at all! Take time to read profiles it does make a difference. I have no meeting but if i get on with someone well my mind can be changed in time. Also hate after you say no.they accuse you of time wasting ah well enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and the i think you are so pretty when my profile pic is of my chest lmfao DOH!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You obviously don't mind showing your face on here, so why not take some pics where you are smiling! There are too many pics on male profiles where they look like they're being held up at gun point. "

That is most mens reaction to having a picture taken of them, it takes alcohol to get a smile right lol.

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