FabSwingers.com forum: Dodgy usernames

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just received a message from someone that has the name of a well known fictional serial killer as part of his username. Why, why would you do that?!?!

Anyone else seen anything totally off putting?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Too many "Christian Grey"s on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he likes the film and not the fact he kills

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Earlier I was looking for some potential meets for a good friend of mine in East Anglia and cripes, some of the usernames were just so off putting. They sounded like names given to people appearing in Crown Court by the scandal pages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many "Christian Grey"s on here."

Ain't that the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just received a message from someone that has the name of a well known fictional serial killer as part of his username. Why, why would you do that?!?!

Anyone else seen anything totally off putting?"

Erm... are you sure it is not an unfortunate reference to something else? Otherwise, it is either someone with a very weird sense of humour or somebody to avoid as much as you can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Earlier I was looking for some potential meets for a good friend of mine in East Anglia and cripes, some of the usernames were just so off putting. They sounded like names given to people appearing in Crown Court by the scandal pages

I'm in Anglia! We've probably seen the same bloke....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many "Christian Grey"s on here."

Well, at least you can be sure of their lack of originality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many "Christian Grey"s on here.

Ain't that the truth

Wanna be duminants, makes them easy to avoid

(and no its not a typo!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message from a man whose username included "DESTROYER" - all capitalised for maximum impact!

Perhaps unsurprisingly, his message included sexist slurs. Lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many "Christian Grey"s on here."

Very true I wouldnt mind but I thought the books were boring so I dont consider claiming to be the new/next mr grey as a badge of honour the way the guys that use it seem to.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I saw a profile the other day..

Really good, well written profile with great photos...

I hadn't paid attention to the username... then I looked and actually felt sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a profile the other day..

Really good, well written profile with great photos...

I hadn't paid attention to the username... then I looked and actually felt sick

Really? Without revealing it, what was the name about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen some very off putting usernames on here

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Ouch that would put me off...

Previous site I was on had far too many Bridget Jones!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what you mean!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I saw a profile the other day..

Really good, well written profile with great photos...

I hadn't paid attention to the username... then I looked and actually felt sick

Really? Without revealing it, what was the name about?

A vatiety of things.. including bareback, spunking, and orifices.. oh and a cock more than a foot long apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a profile the other day..

Really good, well written profile with great photos...

I hadn't paid attention to the username... then I looked and actually felt sick

Really? Without revealing it, what was the name about?

A vatiety of things.. including bareback, spunking, and orifices.. oh and a cock more than a foot long apparently

Mmmh, what a lovely character this person seems to be...

(I'm actually trying to figure out what user name I'd have following these indications, but it appears that I am far too innocent for that

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I saw a profile the other day..

Really good, well written profile with great photos...

I hadn't paid attention to the username... then I looked and actually felt sick

Really? Without revealing it, what was the name about?

A vatiety of things.. including bareback, spunking, and orifices.. oh and a cock more than a foot long apparently

Was it 'FartMyGreenJizz12incher' ?

Don't be put off by the name... he's a keeper.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I got a message from a man whose username included "DESTROYER" - all capitalised for maximum impact!

Perhaps unsurprisingly, his message included sexist slurs. Lovely."

Like Conan?

Did you find out if he owns furry underpants?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people forget that the first thing the recipient of a message receives is usually their user name

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I think some people forget that the first thing the recipient of a message receives is usually their user name "

definitely this. I've been put off by quite a few in my time on here.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think some people forget that the first thing the recipient of a message receives is usually their user name

definitely this. I've been put off by quite a few in my time on here."

Some think mine is rude - I'm just misunderstood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is also a fictional character....but not Christian Grey FFS!

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley

I sometimes think I have a dodgy username because it looks a bit like "scat", when it actually has nothing to do with that.

Do people read it that way?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I sometimes think I have a dodgy username because it looks a bit like "scat", when it actually has nothing to do with that.

Do people read it that way?"

I did at first glance

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I sometimes think I have a dodgy username because it looks a bit like "scat", when it actually has nothing to do with that.

Do people read it that way?"

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes think I have a dodgy username because it looks a bit like "scat", when it actually has nothing to do with that.

Do people read it that way?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes think I have a dodgy username because it looks a bit like "scat", when it actually has nothing to do with that.

Do people read it that way?"

It kinda reminded me of John Scatman, does that count?

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Yes

Ah buggerit. I wonder if the site mods will let me change it?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes

Ah buggerit. I wonder if the site mods will let me change it?

Yeah it looks like scat.

Wasn't scatman one of the cats in a Disney film?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just received a message from someone that has the name of a well known fictional serial killer as part of his username. Why, why would you do that?!?!

Anyone else seen anything totally off putting?"

People do it to get attention rather than just get ignored in the mass and with you it did exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of names put me off, I just think

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By *lacklistedMan
over a year ago

Clapham

You got to at least put some thought into your user name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People do it to get attention rather than just get ignored in the mass and with you it did exactly that. "

Is all/any attention a positive thing?

I've just remembered another case... IIRC it was a couple, profile was neutral, username went along the lines of "cumdump". Rather unnerving - I'm not hardcore enough for this!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I sometimes think I have a dodgy username because it looks a bit like "scat", when it actually has nothing to do with that.

Do people read it that way?"

honest answer - yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People do it to get attention rather than just get ignored in the mass and with you it did exactly that.

Is all/any attention a positive thing?

I've just remembered another case... IIRC it was a couple, profile was neutral, username went along the lines of "cumdump". Rather unnerving - I'm not hardcore enough for this!"

For a single guy who doesn't get any replies he may like at least some replies even if it Erggh though it won't get you a meet having a bad one but it will get someone noticed.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It is fortunate that many users give easy tell tale signs that help us to quickly move on to the next. Iharvestyourorgans was one on another site, since banned, that I thought wise to avoid for a sleep over.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I didn't think I'd be on fab for long so just thought of the easiest thing to remember which was sexy! Not very original and it makes me cringe cos I don't like calling myself sexy but it's stuck and I stayed!! Haha! Some names on here are atrocious and at the risk of sounding like a hypocrite (although mine was just cos I lacked imagination not because I think I'm sexy), the ones that big themselves up or call themselves beautiful really put me off personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got to at least put some thought into your user name "

Your name made me laugh: good point!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You got to at least put some thought into your user name "

Spent weeks thinking of mine.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Mine is also a fictional character....but not Christian Grey FFS!"

Yes, but yours suggests you need a certificate of humanity from the Patrician

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You got to at least put some thought into your user name

Spent weeks thinking of mine. "

I can tell

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"You got to at least put some thought into your user name

Spent weeks thinking of mine. "

It shows. I love that level of devotion and planning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Ah buggerit. I wonder if the site mods will let me change it?

There's an option under "My account" (on desktop) / "Account" (on mobile), or follow the link below. It's pretty straightforward, you get three goes! Choose wisely

http://www.fabswingers.com/account/name_manage.aspx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current one was done with the help of some forumites on my 50th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many "Christian Grey"s on here."
soon as I see Christian grey I'm creeped that someone thinks they are alter ego. X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You got to at least put some thought into your user name

Spent weeks thinking of mine.

I can tell

I might change it to 'The Fuckmeister' or 'cum-canyon-filler' if I can get a lady to change her name to 'cum-canyon'.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes

Ah buggerit. I wonder if the site mods will let me change it?

There's an option under "My account" (on desktop) / "Account" (on mobile), or follow the link below. It's pretty straightforward, you get three goes! Choose wisely

http://www.fabswingers.com/account/name_manage.aspx

The option is available to site supporters.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You got to at least put some thought into your user name

Spent weeks thinking of mine.

It shows. I love that level of devotion and planning

I might move to Hove. My user name will be a real hoot then when people say 'where are you from?'.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"You got to at least put some thought into your user name

Spent weeks thinking of mine.

It shows. I love that level of devotion and planning

I might move to Hove. My user name will be a real hoot then when people say 'where are you from?'.

Nah too many people wouldn't get the humour in that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a profile the other day..

Really good, well written profile with great photos...

I hadn't paid attention to the username... then I looked and actually felt sick

Really? Without revealing it, what was the name about?

A vatiety of things.. including bareback, spunking, and orifices.. oh and a cock more than a foot long apparently

Mmmh, what a lovely character this person seems to be...

(I'm actually trying to figure out what user name I'd have following these indications, but it appears that I am far too innocent for that

I know who you're talking about. He sent me a message calling me a slut. He seemed to think he was saying it in a "sexy" way. The username and message were unreal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's pretty straightforward, you get three goes! Choose wisely

http://www.fabswingers.com/account/name_manage.aspx

The option is available to site supporters.

Doh! Surely a fiver is a small price to pay to get rid of that sh*t

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