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By *embud OP   Woman
over a year ago

LONDON

As a woman of mature years, I seem to be attracted to women in their 30s, but it makes me uncomfortable, as my sons are that age. Any thoughts on this?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

yes ..i like people my own age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As they saying goes ...age is just a number, but if you arent comfortable then that number will interfer with any happiness you are hoping for .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does to some and others it does not, personally anyone under about 40 is far too close to my daughters age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age can be an issue if, the people aren't on the same wavelength. Personally I love older women and love being in their company (40-50).

You can't help who you're attracted to, and if the feeling is mutual then why not, two consenting adults = happy and fun times.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

NO end of discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES end of discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - it's about the person, not their age. At the end of the day it's what you're both comfortable with. I know couples with massive age gaps - in some the woman is older, in others - the guy. They work because of the people involved irrespective of their ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my friend's sons age as a benchmark so don't tend to go younger than that.

Any younger & I feel we probably wouldn't have any connection & he was just ticking the MILF box off in his head...

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

NO YES NO YES end of discussion..lol

try it and if feels good , when you will know, we like to meet younger couples, age is a number and all that thing..connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no im attracted to men in their twenties and thirties i just dont think about my son why would you? if someone wants to meet me and i think we may get on ok thats all i care about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I luv older guys usually have more confidence

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If it's just for sex - probably not, though there may be problems either end of the range.

If it's for a relationship - eventually it could be.

If it's to but alcohol - it most definitely is.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Age is evidently not just a number. Otherwise, it wouldn't be a subject for discussion so often on the forums.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

age doesnt matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age does matter i could never sleep with someone around the same age as my kids.....i prefer my age and older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a woman of mature years, I seem to be attracted to women in their 30s, but it makes me uncomfortable, as my sons are that age. Any thoughts on this?"

Usually go for 35 to 50...any younger and it just doesn't work for me, personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - it's about the person, not their age. At the end of the day it's what you're both comfortable with. I know couples with massive age gaps - in some the woman is older, in others - the guy. They work because of the people involved irrespective of their ages. "

I think this is the best reply to the post

It's about connection with 1 another.

I ve seen people a parties acting like children and then others be it singles of cpls just act mature , sensible and everything else just seems to fall into place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope age doesn't matter one bit to me either it's the personality all the way age is as said above merely a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter if both are comfortable with it. A thread on age difference (plus and minus) turned up some interesting posts and a huge range of answers.

Personally I have been with 14 yrs older (when I was much younger) and with 34 yrs younger (when I was 53). Her mum is 13 years younger than me and yes I've met her a few times too.

In both cases it was no problem. An infrequent, but still regular meet of mine...her dad is 5 yrs younger than me. None of US see it as a problem. If outside observers do then it's their problem.

Does this face look bothered?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

To a point. I don't want to hear someone's stories about D Day when I'm sucking them off. Nor do I want to have to explain how some mature fruit passed away whilst I was in their company and 'at the inquest, officer, do I have to appear in drab or glammed up?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People seem to worry so much about age on here,I even have age preferences on my profile,yet Ive never asked the age of someone ive met and got on well with at a party or a club,it doesn't seem to matter at all in a face to face situation

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"As a woman of mature years, I seem to be attracted to women in their 30s, but it makes me uncomfortable, as my sons are that age. Any thoughts on this?"

The only bit about age that matters to me - is they are above the age of consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul says yes. shel says no. But then shel likes older men, same age ladies and Paul likes younger ladies

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