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By *oo hot OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Form a very impartial point of view, I do find it quite hypocritical that an endearing term is invented for larger ladies but larger guys get quite a raw deal.

No personal motivation in this subject other than a thread I was following on another site and I ended up feeling quite sorry for some of the lardier guys who get completely overlooked because of their size and the fact that that same site (as do others) actively promotes events and themed sub sets for BBW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't the larger man referred to as a bear ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought BBM was Black Berry Messenger what does it stand for?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

The male equivalent of BBW is BHM.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Isn't the larger man referred to as a bear ?"

Bears are usually large but not all large guys are bears.

In my experience the term bear is mostly used in the gay scene. It usually means a big, hairy guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't the larger man referred to as a bear ?

Bears are usually large but not all large guys are bears.

In my experience the term bear is mostly used in the gay scene. It usually means a big, hairy guy."

Ok. Makes sense. A large unhairy man wouldn't be bear like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't the larger man referred to as a bear ?

Bears are usually large but not all large guys are bears.

In my experience the term bear is mostly used in the gay scene. It usually means a big, hairy guy."

That's what I thought.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Form a very impartial point of view, I do find it quite hypocritical that an endearing term is invented for larger ladies but larger guys get quite a raw deal.

No personal motivation in this subject other than a thread I was following on another site and I ended up feeling quite sorry for some of the lardier guys who get completely overlooked because of their size and the fact that that same site (as do others) actively promotes events and themed sub sets for BBW.

"

Hypocritical of whom?

Whom do you blame for inventing the term BBW and, you allege, ignoring large men?

Should everyone who finds large women attractive also find large men attractive?

I'm failing to understand whom you are suggesting is responsible for this hypocrisy and unfairness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a BWW!!! Big Wobbly Woman. I don't like to add the extra B for beautiful, as not everyone thinks I am, although I think I have a pretty face! BWW and proud! My arse twerks just by walking!

Miss Saint

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford


"I'm a BWW!!! Big Wobbly Woman. I don't like to add the extra B for beautiful, as not everyone thinks I am, although I think I have a pretty face! BWW and proud! My arse twerks just by walking!

Miss Saint "

Take it from me. You are beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a BWW!!! Big Wobbly Woman. I don't like to add the extra B for beautiful, as not everyone thinks I am, although I think I have a pretty face! BWW and proud! My arse twerks just by walking!

Miss Saint "

Lolz - much prefer your lighthearted approach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the term bbw used on me I,m fat end of. I do happen to like a larger man .....but it does depends on them

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

For me it's far more about personality in both men and women. The ability to hold a decent conversation, similar sense of humour, passion for life and I'm hooked

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I'm a BWW!!! Big Wobbly Woman. I don't like to add the extra B for beautiful, as not everyone thinks I am, although I think I have a pretty face! BWW and proud! My arse twerks just by walking!

Miss Saint

Take it from me. You are beautiful.

"

thank you kindly

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I'm a BWW!!! Big Wobbly Woman. I don't like to add the extra B for beautiful, as not everyone thinks I am, although I think I have a pretty face! BWW and proud! My arse twerks just by walking!

Miss Saint

Lolz - much prefer your lighthearted approach! "

I'm just a bit of a nutter, with a daft sense of humour and probably confusing the hell out of you as I've swapped profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a BWW!!! Big Wobbly Woman. I don't like to add the extra B for beautiful, as not everyone thinks I am, although I think I have a pretty face! BWW and proud! My arse twerks just by walking!

Miss Saint

Lolz - much prefer your lighthearted approach!

I'm just a bit of a nutter, with a daft sense of humour and probably confusing the hell out of you as I've swapped profiles!"

Errrrrrrrm, now I really am confused!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I thought BBM was Black Berry Messenger what does it stand for? "

Me too

now i'm confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Form a very impartial point of view, I do find it quite hypocritical that an endearing term is invented for larger ladies but larger guys get quite a raw deal.

No personal motivation in this subject other than a thread I was following on another site and I ended up feeling quite sorry for some of the lardier guys who get completely overlooked because of their size and the fact that that same site (as do others) actively promotes events and themed sub sets for BBW.

"

I don't use either word I think they are deceive at best and at worst validifies its acceptable to be overweight and unhealthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use either word I think they are deceive at best and at worst validifies its acceptable to be overweight and unhealthy. "

I think that sometimes too.

It is weird that the largest users do seem to be younger, fitter men and older, fatter women. But then in the outside world it's not unusual to see younger, fitter women with older, fatter men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was recently part of a medical study where overweight people were put against the some what 'healthy' looking people and I came out on top as being very fit and healthy, being over weight doesnt mean you are un healthy any more so than using the term BBW means a woman is beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this beat the fatties down in the forum day?! There has been to a of theads about fatter people surely you can read one of them rather than posting another. Shel is classed as BBW she is a size 22 (big) and she is stunningly beautiful in my opinion. Not all big girls are beautiful and she is the first big girl I ever had although I always go for curvaceous woman. But I don't see what the hell it matters if she is a size 10 or the size she is now. She probably wouldn't suit being a small size.

Although made me lol the unhealthy comment I am a wellness coach for a well known company. She has all her vitamins minerals and portions of fruit required of her. She works out. She also has a busy job. Yeah she is big although a lot smaller than she was but she is a hell of a lot healthier than most girls smaller than her.

Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The definition of 'healthy' is maybe a little variable though. Of course there are people that are not overweight who are unhealthy in other respects - that doesn't make excess body fat a healthy state in most circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this beat the fatties down in the forum day?! There has been to a of theads about fatter people surely you can read one of them rather than posting another. Shel is classed as BBW she is a size 22 (big) and she is stunningly beautiful in my opinion. Not all big girls are beautiful and she is the first big girl I ever had although I always go for curvaceous woman. But I don't see what the hell it matters if she is a size 10 or the size she is now. She probably wouldn't suit being a small size.

Although made me lol the unhealthy comment I am a wellness coach for a well known company. She has all her vitamins minerals and portions of fruit required of her. She works out. She also has a busy job. Yeah she is big although a lot smaller than she was but she is a hell of a lot healthier than most girls smaller than her.

Paul "

Its been going on for years, bareback, BBM,BBW hairies and so may others its like a big circle the same thing every month or so.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I thought BBM was Black Berry Messenger what does it stand for?

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That really tickled me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought BBM was Black Berry Messenger what does it stand for?

That really tickled me "

Was your's on vibrate?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I thought BBM was Black Berry Messenger what does it stand for?

That really tickled me

Was your's on vibrate? "

Full speed and your Big Black Wand was not too bad either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought BBM was Black Berry Messenger what does it stand for?

That really tickled me

Was your's on vibrate?

Full speed and your Big Black Wand was not too bad either "

Bambi does BBM and BBW at the same time.

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having a fanny is the difference maker between fat chicks and fat guys onhere

thats just the way it is

both parties can get some but one has a much better odds

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I thought BBM was Black Berry Messenger what does it stand for?

That really tickled me

Was your's on vibrate?

Full speed and your Big Black Wand was not too bad either

Bambi does BBM and BBW at the same time.

Wow "

I aim to please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was on a dating site a long time ago i was chatting to a man for a long time before i decided to meet him, when i met him i didnt realy fancy him he was very overweight, after we had sex he told me he found overweight women repulsive, we were looking at some women on a website like this.

Then i met a man who was very slim and we had a good time. I told him what the other man had said and he said that fat people dont like other fat people and i think hes right a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife is size 18/20 and hates her body. I love it,

nothing better then a lady who is naked and lets you touch. The feel of their soft skin turns me on whatever size

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By *iceduoCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having a fanny is the difference maker between fat chicks and fat guys onhere

thats just the way it is

both parties can get some but one has a much better odds"

Pretty much sums it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my wife is size 18/20 and hates her body. I love it,

nothing better then a lady who is naked and lets you touch. The feel of their soft skin turns me on whatever size"

lol you`d touch anything then with a fanny then

point proven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my wife is size 18/20 and hates her body. I love it,

nothing better then a lady who is naked and lets you touch. The feel of their soft skin turns me on whatever size

lol you`d touch anything then with a fanny then

point proven "

True lol

just love women and naked women phwoooor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have seen quite a lot of chubby men who get meets on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have seen quite a lot of chubby men who get meets on here. "

Maybe they could give me some pointers then haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met chubby men on here and they didnt want to see me again but i have met slim men who did.

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