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should i be offended or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been speaking to someone off fab for a while, after a phone call i decided that he was not for me, so i mailed him and told him the above

so i get a message today offering to pay me for my services?

i dont know whenever to be offened or flattered lol

and he was being serious

how would u take it

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

LMAO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would laugh to be honest because to me it just sums up his desperation! x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Report him

I would be insulted, if I was not preared to play with him as a friend/meet. I certainly would not take money to do the same, what do you say the next time and the next time?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

How much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id laught an delete his mail xx

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"how would u take it"

Used fivers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laugh it off hun..

Lifes too short.

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i had to laugh at how desprate the mail was,

just makes me think how some men will try anything to get laid off here

i deleted him and blocked and i can be arsed with that type of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How was he gonna send you the money, playpal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thing what made me laugh was how serious he was about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a foot fetishist offer me money to worship and make love my feet..... I wasn't sure how he was going to do either? I had mental pictures of a little shrine in a shoe box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't have had to pay tax on it, so why not earn some dosh on the side huh?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

An interesting proposition and could be interpreted in a multitude of ways by different people.

I would presume he didn't mean to offend but used it as one last attempt to get to see you. Maybe he was going to recompense you for fuel, outlay. Maybe he was thinking of paying you for services. It is probably best to take it more in a perverse flattering way rather than get upset over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An interesting proposition and could be interpreted in a multitude of ways by different people.

I would presume he didn't mean to offend but used it as one last attempt to get to see you. Maybe he was going to recompense you for fuel, outlay. Maybe he was thinking of paying you for services. It is probably best to take it more in a perverse flattering way rather than get upset over it. "

A very diplomatic post from the big man

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"An interesting proposition and could be interpreted in a multitude of ways by different people.

I would presume he didn't mean to offend but used it as one last attempt to get to see you. Maybe he was going to recompense you for fuel, outlay. Maybe he was thinking of paying you for services. It is probably best to take it more in a perverse flattering way rather than get upset over it.

A very diplomatic post from the big man "

Well you never know the chap might have said it out of panic or without thinking. Maybe he is sat worried he has done the wrong thing right now and is worried he may have offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd delete and block!

Sadly nothing surprises me from some of the men on these types of sites. You only have to read some posts on any given day to see the low regard some men hold us in.

You'll make yourself ill getting upset hun, not worth a second thought. Enjoy the good ones around, of which thankfully, there are still a few!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not upset just made me amazed at the message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not upset just made me amazed at the message lol

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I would point out to him not to let his fingers write cheques his body might not be able to cash

Seriously? I would tell him politely but in no uncertain terms that you don't do that kind of service - he may not have intended any malice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not upset just made me amazed at the message lol

I would point out to him not to let his fingers write cheques his body might not be able to cash

Seriously? I would tell him politely but in no uncertain terms that you don't do that kind of service - he may not have intended any malice."

I agree.

some would be offended at being asked to give it away for free, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperate for sex me thinks, plus if you verify him, he then gets access to others and puts him one foot in the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well personally id be flattered that he wanted ta meet me at all costs lol

However i still wouldnt xx

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