FabSwingers.com forum: lie and be fake for a shag?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondered what your _iews are on people who feel they have to be fake and lie just to get a shag?

Surely if you click with someone and they like you for being you and you like them for being them, why would you feel the need to be something your not and lie and be fake ??

This is just a question and nothing to do thankfully from my own personal experience.Just wondered if you think that behaviour is ever acceptable etc etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never lie to get a shag and I type this as I stroke my 12inch cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shag is a shag too some people

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some people will say whatever it takes to get a shag, that's the game they play and I don't see anything wrong with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A shag is a shag too some people

I agree but why would you have to lie to get a shag?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

both in the swinging world and in everyday life.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Technically if you lie to get a shag you could be guilty of rape...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some people will say whatever it takes to get a shag, that's the game they play and I don't see anything wrong with it.

So you saying they cant get a shag unless they have to lie and be fake then? Thats very sad in my eyes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the sex is good you could tell someone you're a brain surgeon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Technically if you lie to get a shag you could be guilty of rape..."

Good point !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cynic would say there is always some lies and trickery when trying to meet people! Be it make up, fake nails or a push up bra, we are not being our true selves (don't think anyone would want to meet me in my pj's!).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as the sex is good you could tell someone you're a brain surgeon "

you dont have to lie to have great sex !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people will say whatever it takes to get a shag, that's the game they play and I don't see anything wrong with it.

So you saying they cant get a shag unless they have to lie and be fake then? Thats very sad in my eyes !"

Sad for the women who have to be lied to to shag these men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to lie, its just a fuck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"some people will say whatever it takes to get a shag, that's the game they play and I don't see anything wrong with it.

So you saying they cant get a shag unless they have to lie and be fake then? Thats very sad in my eyes !"

people have been saying the things they think the other person wants to hear to get in that person's pants for ever....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as the sex is good you could tell someone you're a brain surgeon

you dont have to lie to have great sex !"

What lies are you talking about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A cynic would say there is always some lies and trickery when trying to meet people! Be it make up, fake nails or a push up bra, we are not being our true selves (don't think anyone would want to meet me in my pj's!).

you know what I meant !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey girl, if you want me

Come an' get me

Don't hang around

Or we could spend the night sleeping alone

If you could change your style for a while

An' look in my direction

Tell me do I look the kind of guy

Who takes advantage of a women like you

Or is that what you want?

Would I lie to you?

I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to you?

Would I lie to you?

Baby, I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to, would I lie to, would I lie to you?

Hey girl, if you need

Some love an' affection

I'll whisper all the sweet, sweet nothings

I know you little girls like to hear

Now listen

If you would change your mind

We could find a night of satin sheet action

I promise I won't do anything

Baby, unless you wanted me to

And that's a fact

Would I lie to you?

I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to you?

Baby, baby, would I lie to you?

Would I lie to you?

I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to, would I lie to, should I lie to you?

Just to get in your pants

I don't wanna sleep alone tonight

After all you put me through

I've spent the whole night searching

For a woman just like you

Look in my eyes

Hear the words that I say

If my eyes tell you lies

Then, baby, it's just because I want you to stay

Would I lie to you?

Baby, I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to, would I lie to, should I lie to you?

Just to get in your pants

I think so

Care of Whitesnake

This is not a statement of my position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as the sex is good you could tell someone you're a brain surgeon

you dont have to lie to have great sex !

What lies are you talking about? "
To fake an orgasm I think lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you know what I meant !

Plus i find women in PJS rather sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey girl, if you want me

Come an' get me

Don't hang around

Or we could spend the night sleeping alone

If you could change your style for a while

An' look in my direction

Tell me do I look the kind of guy

Who takes advantage of a women like you

Or is that what you want?

Would I lie to you?

I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to you?

Would I lie to you?

Baby, I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to, would I lie to, would I lie to you?

Hey girl, if you need

Some love an' affection

I'll whisper all the sweet, sweet nothings

I know you little girls like to hear

Now listen

If you would change your mind

We could find a night of satin sheet action

I promise I won't do anything

Baby, unless you wanted me to

And that's a fact

Would I lie to you?

I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to you?

Baby, baby, would I lie to you?

Would I lie to you?

I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to, would I lie to, should I lie to you?

Just to get in your pants

I don't wanna sleep alone tonight

After all you put me through

I've spent the whole night searching

For a woman just like you

Look in my eyes

Hear the words that I say

If my eyes tell you lies

Then, baby, it's just because I want you to stay

Would I lie to you?

Baby, I would do anything that you want me to

But would I lie to, would I lie to, should I lie to you?

Just to get in your pants

I think so

Care of Whitesnake

This is not a statement of my position

I didn't read it. Song lyrics waste space and bore me

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"people have been saying the things they think the other person wants to hear to get in that person's pants for ever....

as ever View, spot on..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"people have been saying the things they think the other person wants to hear to get in that person's pants for ever....

as ever View, spot on.."

But does that make it acceptable?

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By *odcillaTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, those who have lied to me have been married or attached men who have claimed to be single. Not a dig at all men, just those who feel it is neccessary to lie to get a shag.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"people have been saying the things they think the other person wants to hear to get in that person's pants for ever....

as ever View, spot on..

But does that make it acceptable?"

would depend on ones own code of conduct or moral _iewpoint I assume..

what may or may not be acceptable in any aspect to you or I will perhaps differ..

twas ever thus..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people have been saying the things they think the other person wants to hear to get in that person's pants for ever....

as ever View, spot on..

But does that make it acceptable?"

It happens because people want to believe the lies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"people have been saying the things they think the other person wants to hear to get in that person's pants for ever....

as ever View, spot on..

But does that make it acceptable?

It happens because people want to believe the lies "

its seems its going off track somewhat, The thread was... why would you need to lie to get a shag?? If two people like each other and click why would you need to lie for a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well take them off then and meet me o natural

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

" The thread was... why would you need to lie to get a shag?? If two people like each other and click why would you need to lie for a fuck? "

Well obviously some people feel they are not acceptable - so they start out with lies. They claim to be single when they are married, they use fake or out of date pictures, fake cock pics, or they will lie about what they are looking for, eg FB vs One-off, or promise a meet when they only want to talk. They will lie to keep you available, or exclusive, or to try to get you to go bareback. They will lie to con you into a quickie when they know full well you want to spend more time, outdoors when they said they could accomm etc, etc , etc. The list is endless it seems, sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't care if someone lies to me. Depending on the lie and how they are aside from that, I might meet them anyway. Or I might not. Who cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by some of the compliments paid to any women on cam, it's obvious that some guys think it will get them a shag. Something along the lines of " you look stunning " swiftly followed by " can we meet".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I really don't care if someone lies to me. Depending on the lie and how they are aside from that, I might meet them anyway. Or I might not. Who cares. "

your choice if your happy with lies but alot of honest people out there arnt.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I really don't care if someone lies to me. Depending on the lie and how they are aside from that, I might meet them anyway. Or I might not. Who cares.

your choice if your happy with lies but alot of honest people out there arnt. "

yep and there's no less than honest ones on here is there..?

maybe if there was eh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don't care if someone lies to me. Depending on the lie and how they are aside from that, I might meet them anyway. Or I might not. Who cares.

your choice if your happy with lies but alot of honest people out there arnt. "

I didn't say I'm happy with lies, I just don't care. Life is much too short for other people to make me miserable.

No-one is totally honest.......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never lie to get a shag and I type this as I stroke my 12inch cock"

Im too busy to stroke my 12.5" cock, instead I lick my eyebrows whilst changing from my fireman's uniform to my astronauts outfit not forgetting my lint brush as I have to rescue some puppies and kittens on my way to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don't care if someone lies to me. Depending on the lie and how they are aside from that, I might meet them anyway. Or I might not. Who cares.

your choice if your happy with lies but alot of honest people out there arnt.

I didn't say I'm happy with lies, I just don't care. Life is much too short for other people to make me miserable.

No-one is totally honest.......!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read it. Song lyrics waste space and bore me

Tbh I'm not surprised. It's an example of the misogynistic clap trap that was prevalent in rock lyrics when I was growing up. I knew that when I was a teenager. I think it still underpins some attitudes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone lied to me just to get a shag, I would like to think I would pretty much see it, and they would be gone.

I would rather fuck myself, than put up with the bollox, self respect and all that.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people have been saying the things they think the other person wants to hear to get in that person's pants for ever....

as ever View, spot on..

But does that make it acceptable?

It happens because people want to believe the lies

its seems its going off track somewhat, The thread was... why would you need to lie to get a shag?? If two people like each other and click why would you need to lie for a fuck? "

I assume those two people didn't lie to each other. I don't know anyone personally who fell into bed with someone and went off them after they found out they lied to get them into bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read it. Song lyrics waste space and bore me

I can't scroll for that long. I go cross eyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read it. Song lyrics waste space and bore me

I can't scroll for that long. I go cross eyed "

No worries it's not worth it...it was just a stream of consciousness brain fart anyway

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think maybe you were telling a wee fib OP

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

he'll be back

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Wooooooshhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookofleaves leaves leaving no leaf unturned

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We all lie in our lives, but not being honest to get a meet is totally unacceptable. white lies told that stop others from hurting is the better aspect of truth economising. A little white lie to turn someone down is maybe ok - you forgot something etc. To get meets it is just stupid and immoral to lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow OP is UNLOS. I didn't see that coming at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it from me, being honest doesn't work much here either. Maybe i should start lying......?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd never lie to get a shag and I type this as I stroke my 12inch cock"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'd never lie to get a shag and I type this as I stroke my 12inch cock

You may chortle, but he owns chickens, so he's telling the truth. But am I?

There....used the 'quizzical' emoticon. Strange how the OP left for no apparent reason. One of you lot upset him.

Own up and don't fib!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bookofleaves leaves leaving no leaf unturned

Lol was that him who started this thread

. That was beautiful...like watching a supernova implode off the shoulder of Orion

Don't you just love threads started by people who end up leaving half way through lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is ludicrous. It would still be consensual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bookofleaves leaves leaving no leaf unturned

Lol was that him who started this thread

. That was beautiful...like watching a supernova implode off the shoulder of Orion

Don't you just love threads started by people who end up leaving half way through lol

Think he ejaculated himself prematurely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bookofleaves leaves leaving no leaf unturned

Lol was that him who started this thread

. That was beautiful...like watching a supernova implode off the shoulder of Orion

Don't you just love threads started by people who end up leaving half way through lol

Think he ejaculated himself prematurely

Lol hopefully he was wearing a parachute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no point in lying, you'll get found out eventually and it will all be for naught

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