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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

having been on her for some time now on and off i have been amazed at how many people will brush off a single guy and yet they don't seem to be meeting anyone, does anyone else notice the snobbery from people and to be honest they usually have little or no verifications? i cant claim to be a swinger as i feel swingers are couples but shit me not some people on here take the piss ........ rude is not even close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There at least 50 single guys to one woman lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd think they'd be grateful heh?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"having been on her for some time now on and off i have been amazed at how many people will brush off a single guy and yet they don't seem to be meeting anyone, does anyone else notice the snobbery from people and to be honest they usually have little or no verifications? i cant claim to be a swinger as i feel swingers are couples but shit me not some people on here take the piss ........ rude is not even close "

Yep, agree with some of what you say, there is a lot of single man bashing goes on here. I can't agree with your comments on people with no verifications brushing you off though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think that some couples get on here before they are ready to meet, and single women must have a hard time but the amount of rude comments i get from people is pretty unbelievable and i would like to think im a pretty nice guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think that some couples get on here before they are ready to meet, and single women must have a hard time but the amount of rude comments i get from people is pretty unbelievable and i would like to think im a pretty nice guy lol"

I'm sure you're nice. But I wouldn't call you pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think that some couples get on here before they are ready to meet, and single women must have a hard time but the amount of rude comments i get from people is pretty unbelievable and i would like to think im a pretty nice guy lol"

Make sure you report them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i agree loads of guys on here lol but when a cpl has single guys on a profile but come back with dismissive comments i just find it odd and rude, a polite put down shouldn't be harder to write than a rude one. i have met some amazing people on my road to happiness but when i think about how many messages i send in relation to decent replies i receive it just gets me thinking .......

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"i think that some couples get on here before they are ready to meet, and single women must have a hard time but the amount of rude comments i get from people is pretty unbelievable and i would like to think im a pretty nice guy lol"

some couples certainly get on here before they are BOTH ready to meet that is true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

grateful ? im not here for hand outs and to be grateful, i am grateful for the people i have fun with and i would like to think they are for the pleasure i provide also? its not a meat market and its also not a place for people to dangle the carrot. or am i wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i never claimed to be pretty, you may well be a picture but i generally don't comment on looks , a little shallow i find x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish you had never said - it's put be right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never claimed to be pretty, you may well be a picture but i generally don't comment on looks , a little shallow i find x"

It was a joke on your claim to be 'pretty nice' not meant as an actual statement on your looks!

I am quite happily shallow however, and appreciate a sense of humour, and now have some empathy for those you've messaged before.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"grateful ? im not here for hand outs and to be grateful, i am grateful for the people i have fun with and i would like to think they are for the pleasure i provide also? its not a meat market and its also not a place for people to dangle the carrot. or am i wrong? "

no you're not wrong. What you say is true in many ways. There are some breath taking examples of people being incredibly rude about single men and treating them with utter contempt BUT there are also breath taking examples of single men treating women and couples contemptuously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never claimed to be pretty, you may well be a picture but i generally don't comment on looks , a little shallow i find x"

You seem to be misinterpreting the tone of comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

dont get me wrong i think fab is great and as i said i have met some amazing people, just some times i feel like single guys get judged a little harsh and some cpls and apparently the odd female think they are worth more, wish i never opened this can now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish you had never said - it's put be right off "

Do you have a code?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont get me wrong i think fab is great and as i said i have met some amazing people, just some times i feel like single guys get judged a little harsh and some cpls and apparently the odd female think they are worth more, wish i never opened this can now lol"

It happens to us all. Chin up and carry on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i may be, and i am sorry if that is the case. just here to get a feel of peoples opinions to be honest x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you get offensive comments from others, report them. We are all equally valid and of value on fab. Ignore put downs in the forums or take note not to make a move on the posters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

a joke is not always easy to spot in a message thread as letters and numbers are only a print..... love your input though x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"i may be, and i am sorry if that is the case. just here to get a feel of peoples opinions to be honest x"

And that's your absolute right.

Single men get a rough ride on here, it's seen as ok to ridicule and put them down, God knows why except that some of them do have a sense of entitlement that doesn't endear a person.

However you shouldn't feel that you can't post or you have to justify your reasons for doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a nice guy isn't always enough lol if you're not what they want people can be quite horrible and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i appreciate the comment, thanks x i was only putting the feelers out and didn't expect so many people to have such strong feelings lol i do have a dry scene of humor and personality so most negative comments get chucked off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think you are right lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"i appreciate the comment, thanks x i was only putting the feelers out and didn't expect so many people to have such strong feelings lol i do have a dry scene of humor and personality so most negative comments get chucked off "

oh and p.s. if you use reply and quote we'll know who you're answering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the post i feel that you understand exactly what i was trying to put across, i am defiantly not a hater and want even less to be hated for my opinions or comments x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i appreciate the comment, thanks x i was only putting the feelers out and didn't expect so many people to have such strong feelings lol i do have a dry scene of humor and personality so most negative comments get chucked off

oh and p.s. if you use reply and quote we'll know who you're answering "

haha thanks for the tip X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"i appreciate the comment, thanks x i was only putting the feelers out and didn't expect so many people to have such strong feelings lol i do have a dry scene of humor and personality so most negative comments get chucked off

oh and p.s. if you use reply and quote we'll know who you're answering

haha thanks for the tip X"

welcome! Good luck

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By *ig 123Couple
over a year ago

sevenoaks

We met quite a few single guys all respectful and cool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"grateful ? im not here for hand outs and to be grateful, i am grateful for the people i have fun with and i would like to think they are for the pleasure i provide also? its not a meat market and its also not a place for people to dangle the carrot. or am i wrong?

no you're not wrong. What you say is true in many ways. There are some breath taking examples of people being incredibly rude about single men and treating them with utter contempt BUT there are also breath taking examples of single men treating women and couples contemptuously.

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oh yes and that is the problem all round i think, you cant judge people by a status you need to make a judgement on the merit of the person or people and comments should be specific to people not m f mm ff or mf groups as im sure as in life you will find good and bad in all areas x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have to say thanks for all of your comments, and as i thought before most people on here are amazing and i think i will continue to message people that i think have great profiles. i would ask that if someone messages anyone on here and you might not want to know just a no thanks message maybe....... if you are not entirely snowed under with messages and yes i am aware that some profiles will simply have to many messages to mention lol

happy fabbing guys don't be afraid to pm me x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"grateful ? im not here for hand outs and to be grateful, i am grateful for the people i have fun with and i would like to think they are for the pleasure i provide also? its not a meat market and its also not a place for people to dangle the carrot. or am i wrong?

no you're not wrong. What you say is true in many ways. There are some breath taking examples of people being incredibly rude about single men and treating them with utter contempt BUT there are also breath taking examples of single men treating women and couples contemptuously.

oh yes and that is the problem all round i think, you cant judge people by a status you need to make a judgement on the merit of the person or people and comments should be specific to people not m f mm ff or mf groups as im sure as in life you will find good and bad in all areas x "

Were you a member of any other group,

Which group would you be most cautious of meeting.

It would be wrong to stereotype all single males.

Although as a percentage,

it's also the most likely to be accurate.

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