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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok we not had loads about half a dozen.

But how was your first?

I will admit as the male half I freaked out a bit after and got a bit jealous. But all is good now.

Guessing jealousy must be a normal reaction when first starting out.

Did anyone have any major panic attacks or nerves?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Nerves like you wouldn't believe. But he was just as nervous and luckily we knew each other pretty well as people by the time we met so we just laughed at our mutual bashfulness. Then he kissed me and the rest was history!

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

will never forget -- he was lovely

and we had a super time pity he was in south wales and we are in yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet was with a single guy who had only had 1 meet with a single lady, we were both extremely nervous, but it was an excited nervous!

The men were more shy than me so I had to lead them both upstairs

There was no jealousy on Luke's behalf think he rather enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was spectacular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was a disaster. Dave could do whateverto the lady but the minute her oh touched me she hit the roof. X

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Ours wasn't arranged but was with a girl at a party.

And it was awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet was with an experienced couple who couldn't have been nicer. I was very nervous but Mrs P was very brave and guided me through it. It was probably our best meet.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Mine was cracking. They went into therapy soon after, though.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Mine was cracking. "

Your what was ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Mine was cracking.

Your what was ?"

My knees on my first meet as I was on them for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrNotts arranged ours for my 28th birthday I think. It was at a hotel on the M1 j28 to be precise. He'd got this guy arranged to come and please me

The guy turned out to be rather large in the trouser department and mrNotts felt a bit inadequate, or so he told me! So he watched us for a bit, but he wasn't over comfortable. How you described your feelings OP I think.

Still be clearly got past it because watching me with other guys is his favourite thing poor me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still remember my first meet, it was fantastic. The guy was so down to earth the nerves I had went within the first ten mins of being with him..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My first from here, my first from the Internet, or my first ever?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Went to a friends house party with a guy id been chatting to on here. He was lovely but me being me drank a bit too much. He bought me home and put me to bed. lol. We met a few times after that though so I can't of scared him off completely x

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Our first meet with play (after meeting the previous week for a drink) was lovely but seperate rooms so we didn't see what the other was up too.

My OH (the male) had swung in a previous relationship so knew roughly what to expect, me i just knew there would be sex somewhere Anyway the bloke was lovely & we had some good fun

We have since ventured into same room fun (my OH didn't think it would work for him as it hadn't in a previous relationship) but it was fabulous. The connection we share when he is with women is awesome. I don't know if he watches me & i don't really mind if he doesn't. For me it's all about the voyeur in me being released

Julie x

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

My first from here, we chatted for a bit, I drove to her house. I was nervous as it was my first meet.

To be fair to her, she didn't seem nervous and nobody has given me oral like she did. She literally had me ready to cum by oral within the first 5 mins! I pulled out and said "Wow... Make me wait!" Haha. The memories!

Yeah, nice woman.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

We dived in feet first to a group situation. So nerve wracking. We were both mortified and didn't speak all the way home. Then...wow! We had the best sex ever! We have never wanted each other as much as we did that night.

We pondered over that nights events for that week and decided to return to the club the next weekend as we wanted to explore more, as our fantasies were still there. Needless to say, we now love our kinky lifestyle. x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

that is all I'm saying about my first meet....I nearly jacked it all in after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was not too bad, a house party, so you got to mingle a bit.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First experience was at a club and was a brilliant way to kick things off ! Our first arranged meet was Amazing....wouldn't of changed it at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first was a 3some with a lovely couple. It was all of our first times. We had lunch together as a social meet in a pub which helped settle the nerves a bit, but we were still very nervous on the day. We drank tea and chatted for quite a while before I broached the idea of playing. Once we all got going it was great fun and very naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before my first fab meet I had nerves like I hadn't ever had before. My first time with a MF as well as first meet. When I met them the nerves soon went. It was a fantastic experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was when I was still married, we met another couple and it was also their first meet, all of us was nervous and none brave enough to make the first move so we just talked all night

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Ours was a guy we both worked with ..he came home with us one night after a few beers after work and left about 6 months later

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can't remember my first ever meet. It was probably the same as my first internet meet but I'm not certain.

It would have been about 15 years ago, after the end of an 8 year relationship.

My first meet from here? I was really nervous. I still get really nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was such a long time ago lol....on another site.

Was I nervous - yes of course I was.

Was supposed to be with a couple from dee side (I lived merseyside at the time). Both of them 30.

Was to meet her in a pub car park then back to "their" flat.

Turned out I don't reckon he existed. She was nearer 20 than 30. We finished up in a local dogging spot off the A55!

All in all everything was wrong....but it was an excellent meet!

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