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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone experienced stalking on Fab and in the forums? Its as if they are following all your post too etc.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Could it be that they are just commenting on current threads the same way you are ..rather than stalking you ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Has anyone experienced stalking on Fab and in the forums? Its as if they are following all your post too etc. "

I think that stalking on the forums is a matter of whether one responds or not. If you feel that somebody is responding to your posts from a motive other than straightforward reasons ignoring them often works as they get fed up and if you have misunderstood their intention then no harm has been done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but not in the Forums...It was a female jealous of a meet I'd had and went on for weeks. Amusing at first but then a royal pain in the arse

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yeah its happened both off an on, but I find if you ignore, thats usually the best way of dealing with it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You aint seen me, right

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

I don't mind online stalking. But not keen on the one that kept turning up at my work and waiting on my doorstep after we had only met twice. !!! Oh she also managed to upload loads of pics onto here of me and her together that her husband had took.!!! Thankfully admin removed them

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Yeah it happens. As others have said just ignore it, unless they are breaking forum rules and being abusive etc then report it.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Surely you haven't got a stalker yet OP you've only commented on 6 threads since joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live "

Just message me it's quicker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very good friend. Used to be a member on here. Left for that reason....guys she blocked (assholes) and other random guys outside her age range (fair enough I was too lol...but hey), would message me and ask me to get her to contact them or, basically, to act as her pimp.

We reported and blocked several guys but in the end she got well pissed off.

Everyone else's loss became my gain tho...hey!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No not on Fab.....but did have a couple on another site.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live "
Don't tell anyone, but I live in Harrow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live

Just message me it's quicker lol"

lol Where is Notts exactly??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live Don't tell anyone, but I live in Harrow lol"

I know

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"No not on Fab.....but did have a couple on another site."
Bet that couple were over the moon weren't they!!!!!!

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live Don't tell anyone, but I live in Harrow lol

I know "
WEY HEY, I've got me self a stalker, happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a real life stalker. It was scary at first. Then we found out who it was and he didn't stalk me any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live Don't tell anyone, but I live in Harrow lol

I know WEY HEY, I've got me self a stalker, happy days"

Your grass needs cutting and you're out of milk

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not really. I've got a few people who message me a lot, but not stalkers.

I feel like I'm being marginalised now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep . But they won't block people on forums

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live Don't tell anyone, but I live in Harrow lol

I know WEY HEY, I've got me self a stalker, happy days

Your grass needs cutting and you're out of milk "
Oh this womans good, real good, one of the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live Don't tell anyone, but I live in Harrow lol

I know WEY HEY, I've got me self a stalker, happy days

Your grass needs cutting and you're out of milk Oh this womans good, real good, one of the best "

See you tonight. You won't see me

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live Don't tell anyone, but I live in Harrow lol

I know WEY HEY, I've got me self a stalker, happy days

Your grass needs cutting and you're out of milk Oh this womans good, real good, one of the best

See you tonight. You won't see me "
That would be in your dream then, let me know if I was good

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I usually have several at any one time.

Mostly it's people who have an issue with opinionated, strong women who don't "know their place". They follow me around trying to put me in it.

It amuses the heck out of me.

I've had a few from other sites too.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I usually have several at any one time.

Mostly it's people who have an issue with opinionated, strong women who don't "know their place". They follow me around trying to put me in it.

It amuses the heck out of me.

I've had a few from other sites too."
maybe it is something much simpler than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had a couple where they keep pestering me for a meet, i keep blocking them, one was annoying because he kept calling me and other strange things. i ended up meeting him in the end too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually have several at any one time.

Mostly it's people who have an issue with opinionated, strong women who don't "know their place". They follow me around trying to put me in it.

It amuses the heck out of me.

I've had a few from other sites too. maybe it is something much simpler than that."
Yes I think your right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't notice really. I wonder how people keep track of what everybody says.

Mostly I only respond to whats been said and dont much care who said it. Sometimes I find I've disagreed with somebody in one discussion only to discover I've been amused by them in another.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I usually have several at any one time.

Mostly it's people who have an issue with opinionated, strong women who don't "know their place". They follow me around trying to put me in it.

It amuses the heck out of me.

I've had a few from other sites too. maybe it is something much simpler than that."

Maybe but I don't think so based on the behaviour.

Some people simply have a problem with women who can hold their own in a debate, and speak up when they have something to say, and they feel they have to keep trying to get the upper hand.

Those who take umbrage with a post and then dig through my posting history just to find other things to try to argue with me over are my favourite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you two leave it alone or take it privately? It's not much fun for everyone else who are using/reading the forums

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I am not here and when I am here I am not her so dont tell any one you have seen me ,,,,, right

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Last year several unsuspecting forumites were the victim of superstalkerfan

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Can't you two leave it alone or take it privately? It's not much fun for everyone else who are using/reading the forums "

I'd love to but apparently it's have a sly dig at me day.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can't you two leave it alone or take it privately? It's not much fun for everyone else who are using/reading the forums "

Agreed, it's getting self indulgent now.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Where can I apply to for a stalker? Obviously a fit and witty one.

I don't feel as though I've made it till I've got a stalker. The tribute act I have who uses my pics on other sites can only take me so far in the fame game

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Where can I apply to for a stalker? Obviously a fit and witty one.

I don't feel as though I've made it till I've got a stalker. The tribute act I have who uses my pics on other sites can only take me so far in the fame game "

I'll stalk you. Do you have convenient bushes to hide in at home? Do you have a rabbit?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Where can I apply to for a stalker? Obviously a fit and witty one.

I don't feel as though I've made it till I've got a stalker. The tribute act I have who uses my pics on other sites can only take me so far in the fame game

I'll stalk you. Do you have convenient bushes to hide in at home? Do you have a rabbit?"

I have a wildlife area at the bottom of the back garden, that will do

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Where can I apply to for a stalker? Obviously a fit and witty one.

I don't feel as though I've made it till I've got a stalker. The tribute act I have who uses my pics on other sites can only take me so far in the fame game

I'll stalk you. Do you have convenient bushes to hide in at home? Do you have a rabbit?

I have a wildlife area at the bottom of the back garden, that will do "

It depends what's in it. I'm not boiling butterflies or bees!

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Can't you two leave it alone or take it privately? It's not much fun for everyone else who are using/reading the forums "

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Now having a stalker could be fun ,,,,, lol follow me follow you ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

being genuinely stalked is no fun at all. In fact it can and does result in murder.

Our daughter experienced stalking, it wasn't pleasant, the person stood outside her place of work and stared at her, cycled past our house all through the night and left vile and threatening messages on social media among other things. It's testament to her strength of character and his weakness that she eventually managed to rid herself of him.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Last year several unsuspecting forumites were the victim of superstalkerfan "

Did they ever find out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"being genuinely stalked is no fun at all. In fact it can and does result in murder.

Our daughter experienced stalking, it wasn't pleasant, the person stood outside her place of work and stared at her, cycled past our house all through the night and left vile and threatening messages on social media among other things. It's testament to her strength of character and his weakness that she eventually managed to rid herself of him."

Stalkers can come in all different guises and stalk for their own reasons. Wether that in their mind be love, jealousy or they think someone has a grudge against them and they want them to pay for it in some way! They are delusional minds and irrational but they dont see that themselves. The seriousness of that state of mind Should never be taken lightly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"being genuinely stalked is no fun at all. In fact it can and does result in murder.

Our daughter experienced stalking, it wasn't pleasant, the person stood outside her place of work and stared at her, cycled past our house all through the night and left vile and threatening messages on social media among other things. It's testament to her strength of character and his weakness that she eventually managed to rid herself of him.

Stalkers can come in all different guises and stalk for their own reasons. Wether that in their mind be love, jealousy or they think someone has a grudge against them and they want them to pay for it in some way! They are delusional minds and irrational but they dont see that themselves. The seriousness of that state of mind Should never be taken lightly"

as long as your post refers only to the content of my post I agree with what you say.

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By *bovethekneeCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire / Herefordshire

Everytime I log onto my laptop a tub of margarine flies in through my window and hits me right on the head.

Apparently, I'm being storked over the internet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Terry Wogan used to put an entirely different interpretation on the phrase "I have a stalker"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a Stalker

I have Beer

Gimped

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I want a Stalker

I have Beer

Gimped "
Shame what you really need is a gag.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Also "we all have the choice to ignore"... yes but we also have the choice to give opinions, especially when asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inbox waiting

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone thought I was stalking them it would be wishful thinking as I forget which threads I've read and commented on. Most people's posts blur into nothing except a few that stand out a mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox waiting

Her"

Ooh that's a nice avatar. Might start stalking

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If someone thought I was stalking them it would be wishful thinking as I forget which threads I've read and commented on. Most people's posts blur into nothing except a few that stand out a mile"

Yep! There are one or two that I stay away from now but in general I forget from one minute to the next who said what...but then that could be my age too er what's your name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a Stalker

I have Beer

Gimped Shame what you really need is a gag. "

You so want me really

Gimpy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Sometimes we have to realise when it's time to take a step back from a thread and not read the responses and just go on a different thread....

OP I've had one or two cases of people constantly _iewing my profile then got blocked then tried to get round the block via the forums...if you feel uncomfortable then either ignore or report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few keyboard warriors but that's it. The attention's laughable.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

This thread was more than likely opened to have a pop at someone following the other being closed.

It would have died if people had risen above it.

It is the best course and more frustrating to the creators.

Just enjoy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This thread was more than likely opened to have a pop at someone following the other being closed.

It would have died if people had risen above it.

It is the best course and more frustrating to the creators.

Just enjoy

"

you're right as usual View

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"This thread was more than likely opened to have a pop at someone following the other being closed.

It would have died if people had risen above it.

It is the best course and more frustrating to the creators.

Just enjoy

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Yes, totally right as usual.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"This thread was more than likely opened to have a pop at someone following the other being closed.

It would have died if people had risen above it.

It is the best course and more frustrating to the creators.

Just enjoy

you're right as usual View "

I am sitting in a quaint country tea room and having a pot of tea and a slice of lemon drizzle

Life gets no better x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This thread was more than likely opened to have a pop at someone following the other being closed.

It would have died if people had risen above it.

It is the best course and more frustrating to the creators.

Just enjoy

you're right as usual View

I am sitting in a quaint country tea room and having a pot of tea and a slice of lemon drizzle

Life gets no better x"

Victoria sponge for me please

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Deal

On its way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Deal

On its way.

"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Deal

On its way.

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The woman at the next table has the biggest strawberry tart I have ever seen and my eyes are following every mouthful

I am stalking her

It the diabetes clinic tomorrow or I would be ramming one in my big fat face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do.. I have got few fans here and I like it .

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live

Just message me it's quicker lol

lol Where is Notts exactly?? "

Not far from where I work at least a couple of days every week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox waiting

Her

Ooh that's a nice avatar. Might start stalking "
Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously? Stalking on the forums? Following posts on a thread is hardly stalking

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Seriously? Stalking on the forums? Following posts on a thread is hardly stalking "

Phew! Thank goodness for that....There are a few regular posters that I always look out for as I enjoy their comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously? Stalking on the forums? Following posts on a thread is hardly stalking "

I'm so glad that you pointed that out! I was just about to get myself checked out for stalking tendencies

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've not noticed anyone stalking me. It would be hideously boring for them if they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox waiting

Her

Ooh that's a nice avatar. Might start stalking Thankyou "

You are welcome!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously? Stalking on the forums? Following posts on a thread is hardly stalking "

It is for the more melodramatic amongst us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think continuing to comment intelligently, rationally and calmly is maybe a better way of combatting it.

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Bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's happened to me on here but not on the forums. I just found that ignoring the user finally got through I was not interested! Six months of this guy making new accounts and constant pesting, it's not nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone experienced stalking on Fab and in the forums? Its as if they are following all your post too etc. "

Yep had them in life, on here and on the forums but its just one of those things. I had to laugh as at one point the said stalker went round making fictitious things up and when it came to life it was untrue it made other think wtf but apart from making me smile its never been that bad I needed to get the old bill in though I would have no compulsion in bringing a private prosecution for slander if it happened again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live Don't tell anyone, but I live in Harrow lol

I know WEY HEY, I've got me self a stalker, happy days

Your grass needs cutting and you're out of milk Oh this womans good, real good, one of the best

See you tonight. You won't see me "

You are too funny

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I've not noticed anyone stalking me. It would be hideously boring for them if they did. "

I can concur with that...my rhodium supporter pass gives me free teleportation to anyone's home or place of work whenever I want...I've yet to see Steve do anything but wank

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Seriously? Stalking on the forums? Following posts on a thread is hardly stalking "

I think what the op means is someone who constantly responds to your posts individually rather than simply contributing to threads. You know it when it happens.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Seriously? Stalking on the forums? Following posts on a thread is hardly stalking

I think what the op means is someone who constantly responds to your posts individually rather than simply contributing to threads. You know it when it happens. "

^ this. And every post, including dredging through old threads to find posts to comment on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't notice really. I wonder how people keep track of what everybody says.

Mostly I only respond to whats been said and dont much care who said it. Sometimes I find I've disagreed with somebody in one discussion only to discover I've been amused by them in another. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime I log onto my laptop a tub of margarine flies in through my window and hits me right on the head.

Apparently, I'm being storked over the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't found it too much of a problem. When I first joined and started posting on the forum, I did find that certain posters tried to belittle me etc, and their mates would join in. I even had a message saying ha ha noone likes you, which I found rather amusing and childish considering she was nearly 50. I challenged it publicly, I won't allow anyone to take the rise out of me. I don't really find it a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! And a friend of mine has as well, and they only comment in fourms we have commented in and now said person turns up to all the partys/clubs/socials we attend.

She even messages people my friend has meet asking why have they meet them and not her!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't found it too much of a problem. When I first joined and started posting on the forum, I did find that certain posters tried to belittle me etc, and their mates would join in. I even had a message saying ha ha noone likes you, which I found rather amusing and childish considering she was nearly 50. I challenged it publicly, I won't allow anyone to take the rise out of me. I don't really find it a problem. "

People like thaf usually has low self esteem and are unhappy with their life and have lonely as in the real world outside they tend to be social outcasts and have no friends! So they come to places like this to join forces with equally social misfits and try to bully others to give their sad little lives some distorted sence of worth. Birds of a feather etc. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deal

On its way.

The woman at the next table has the biggest strawberry tart I have ever seen and my eyes are following every mouthful

I am stalking her

It the diabetes clinic tomorrow or I would be ramming one in my big fat face"

No,you're stalking the strawberry tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't found it too much of a problem. When I first joined and started posting on the forum, I did find that certain posters tried to belittle me etc, and their mates would join in. I even had a message saying ha ha noone likes you, which I found rather amusing and childish considering she was nearly 50. I challenged it publicly, I won't allow anyone to take the rise out of me. I don't really find it a problem.

People like thaf usually has low self esteem and are unhappy with their life and have lonely as in the real world outside they tend to be social outcasts and have no friends! So they come to places like this to join forces with equally social misfits and try to bully others to give their sad little lives some distorted sence of worth. Birds of a feather etc. X"

I thought Birds of a Feather was a comedy..Made me laugh anyway

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stealth stalk the sexy men to see if they give any clues as to where they live

Just message me it's quicker lol

lol Where is Notts exactly??

Not far from where I work at least a couple of days every week "

Not so subtle hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fine some people in the forum quite funny and often like their comments, but I feel I have to be careful as if I commented to often it might be perceived as stalking.

I did send someone a message the other day 24 hours after a comment he made in a thread, he's not on my friends list and I had to send another one later cos I realized it might have come across as a bit stalkerish, luckily he took it in the good spirit it was intended in.

I do have a couple of people who comment on every status update and new vari which is a bit freaky tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I'd be quite happy if someone commented regularly on my posts, as long as it was good natured. I'm not particularly controversial when I post so I rarely get any negative comments. However it is usually a surprise to get any comments as I just post bollocks most of the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't found it too much of a problem. When I first joined and started posting on the forum, I did find that certain posters tried to belittle me etc, and their mates would join in. I even had a message saying ha ha noone likes you, which I found rather amusing and childish considering she was nearly 50. I challenged it publicly, I won't allow anyone to take the rise out of me. I don't really find it a problem.

People like thaf usually has low self esteem and are unhappy with their life and have lonely as in the real world outside they tend to be social outcasts and have no friends! So they come to places like this to join forces with equally social misfits and try to bully others to give their sad little lives some distorted sence of worth. Birds of a feather etc. X

I thought Birds of a Feather was a comedy..Made me laugh anyway

Gimp"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Last year several unsuspecting forumites were the victim of superstalkerfan

Did they ever find out?"

It took some longer than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't found it too much of a problem. When I first joined and started posting on the forum, I did find that certain posters tried to belittle me etc, and their mates would join in. I even had a message saying ha ha noone likes you, which I found rather amusing and childish considering she was nearly 50. I challenged it publicly, I won't allow anyone to take the rise out of me. I don't really find it a problem. "

maybe they didnt like you because you were classy and inteligent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I sit back and watch it happen to others on the forum. You get the same ones who take offence at something someone says to them and they follow that person round sniping at their posts for days. We haven't had it personally but do wonder if the ones who do it are on medication as often it makes no sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes I sit back and watch it happen to others on the forum. You get the same ones who take offence at something someone says to them and they follow that person round sniping at their posts for days. We haven't had it personally but do wonder if the ones who do it are on medication as often it makes no sense. "

I agree, I think there are alot of people who live in places like these in cyber land because they also cant communicate in the real world but in here they can hide away behind their computer in their safty zone.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you remind me of Sydney University OP, he was on here a little while ago and I liked his posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, I think there are alot of people who live in places like these in cyber land because they also cant communicate in the real world but in here they can hide away behind their computer in their safty zone."

I find these vague kind of statements/digs tedious and pathetic. 'Some people', 'lots of people' do this/think this/act like this ra ra ra.

If you have an issue with somebody take it up with them directly - or get over it. Or go talk to somebody in the 'real world'.

Now don't come stalking me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone experienced stalking on Fab and in the forums? Its as if they are following all your post too etc. "
thank god for stealth mode we would be all guilty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone experienced stalking on Fab and in the forums? Its as if they are following all your post too etc. thank god for stealth mode we would be all guilty "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you remind me of Sydney University OP, he was on here a little while ago and I liked his posts "

Glad I entertain

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"you remind me of Sydney University OP, he was on here a little while ago and I liked his posts

Glad I entertain "

welcome back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you remind me of Sydney University OP, he was on here a little while ago and I liked his posts

Glad I entertain

welcome back "

Thanks mate but you have wrong fella, but He sounds like a good un !

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Not niticed any one stalking me , inbox waiting .

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