FabSwingers.com forum: Does money prove safety?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.

Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?

I of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If a person thought I'd be impressed by them flashing their cash I'd make a point of proving them wrong.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, it guarantees nothing more than it may be safer to park your car and return to and it be there...

Note... May

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the hallmark of a good meet is a happy meet, so if someone wants a social hook up first then that is totally fine! be wary of anyone bragging about a penthouse and insensitive to a sensible request!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

We are all different, some meet for a social first, some go straight to the place.

Depends how much fear you have

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Nope, I'm poor and I don't want to murder anyone

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"If a person thought I'd be impressed by them flashing their cash I'd make a point of proving them wrong. "

Yep, it would bring out the reverse snob in me, too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Million pound penthouse? Hahahaha

I went to a party that claimed it was in a penthouse by Marble Arch in London.....it wasn't!

No...money doesn't mean safety at all

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would go though, just for a mosey around his gaff....

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

It has been known for some of the very wealthy to think they are above the law and untouchable, protected by their money and status. I think there's been a few court cases lately where this was the case.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Is the "penthouse" to top flat on an estate? They are worth over a £1m here in London.

Of course it doesn't equate to safety, either physical or psychological.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If a person thought I'd be impressed by them flashing their cash I'd make a point of proving them wrong.

Yep, it would bring out the reverse snob in me, too

I know a lot of rich snobby people.

They think I'm weird as I say things like 'have you thought of buying a personality?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a bedsit in London?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A million pound penthouse........pfft too cheap for us they would have to make a better offer to entice us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would go though, just for a mosey around his gaff...."

It could, of course be hers!

A million pound gaff huh, i'm not slumming it for anyone lol, repeat LOL.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know people meet without socials first, that works for them and that's great. I've had a couple of scary experiences so I'm cautious.

I couldn't help picture Patrick Bates when he said that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise wealthy people were renowned as never committing crimes or endangering peoples lives.

It's moronic that such said people think because they are wealthy that all rules go out the window.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.

Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?

I of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first.

This made me laugh. Why on earth would where they live and the cost of it mean that they are any more trustworthy than anyone else...people are funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have their word they live in a penthouse they could be sending you to someone else's house for a laugh, imagine what a knob you'd feel

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Yeah, and not to mention the Krays had posh houses.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been known for some of the very wealthy to think they are above the law and untouchable, protected by their money and status. I think there's been a few court cases lately where this was the case.

I thought the same thing. I'd be more wary of someone in this situation than if they just invited me to a caravan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh and I know the "penthouse" he's talking about, they certainly arent worth anywhere near a million! In fact you aren't allowed more than 8 people in tthe kitchen at a time because the floor is unstable

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Someone wealth means fuck all to me....and I certainly wouldn't go all gooey if a bloke said come to my million pound pent house

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"Yeah, and not to mention the Krays had posh houses......."

And politicians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the hallmark of a good meet is a happy meet, so if someone wants a social hook up first then that is totally fine! be wary of anyone bragging about a penthouse and insensitive to a sensible request!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Million pound penthouse? It's not fair to expect you up travel out of Scotland

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I especially laughed at being told "you're not in roasterville now"

Now my geography is shoddy, I admit, but I'm assuming it must be somewhere full of council flats and caravans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.

Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?

I of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first.

Its not the be all and end all but if you have it then life is far easier with less worries for them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

a "friend" of mine was very snooty indeed and when she came to my house once prepared herself to leave by getting her car keys and holding them between her fingers so she could use them as a weapon

. Now we lived in quite an ordinary, normal residential area at the time but it was near a (speak it low) "council estate" the horror!!. I told her we weren't living in Beirut and to get a bloody grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and I know the "penthouse" he's talking about, they certainly arent worth anywhere near a million! In fact you aren't allowed more than 8 people in tthe kitchen at a time because the floor is unstable

That's nothing, i daren't go in out kitchen with the ex, she was unstable.

Anyways, what does a social meet first prove? They could be utterly charming durung that and utter psychopaths when you visit them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Rolf Harris is loaded...... need I say more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is an advantage to living in a penthouse though.

Whenever i accomodate i tell them the lifts are broken. If they're fit enough to walk up 12 flights of stairs then they're fit enough to fuck all night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are totally right, it's never 100% safe! But usually those who are willing to go along with a social will be more respectful.

And it's not just to gauge their sanity, I have to click with someone, so it's a good way to see if that happens.

I had a close call when I first started out, I went to a meets house, he was nothing like his picture and things got nasty when I said I was going home. So now I like to meet for a drink or a coffee before making any arrangements for kinky fucker

]Oh and I know the "penthouse" he's talking about, they certainly arent worth anywhere near a million! In fact you aren't allowed more than 8 people in tthe kitchen at a time because the floor is unstable

That's nothing, i daren't go in out kitchen with the ex, she was unstable.

Anyways, what does a social meet first prove? They could be utterly charming durung that and utter psychopaths when you visit them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are totally right, it's never 100% safe! But usually those who are willing to go along with a social will be more respectful.

And it's not just to gauge their sanity, I have to click with someone, so it's a good way to see if that happens.

That's nothing, i daren't go in out kitchen with the ex, she was unstable.

Anyways, what does a social meet first prove? They could be utterly charming durung that and utter psychopaths when you visit them.

Have you tried taking Rennie's?

You appear to be repeating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is an advantage to living in a penthouse though.

Whenever i accomodate i tell them the lifts are broken. If they're fit enough to walk up 12 flights of stairs then they're fit enough to fuck all night.

That's me out then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry, my fat fingers on a small phone, I screwed that up lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried."

free fucks on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, and not to mention the Krays had posh houses......."

No they didn't. They lived in a two up two down in Bethnal Green.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried."

They aren't necessarily millionaires. One of my regular men owns a property in West London which is worth a lot of money. He isn't skint obviously but he doesn't have millions in the bank

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.

free fucks on here?

Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more money they have, the more resources to have you 'disposed of' afterwards

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The more money they have, the more resources to have you 'disposed of' afterwards

Just saying

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.

free fucks on here?

Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly

Hopefully in donuts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried."

I think you may have the wrong idea as to what this swinging malarkey is all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried."

Awwe bless

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.

free fucks on here?

Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly

Hopefully in donuts.

Hopefully lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money certainly doesn't make them a safer person...I know of a few drug dealers with lovely houses and very expensive cars.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Woah you mean I could get sex AND doughnuts!! Why didn't anyone tell me this earlier!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Money certainly doesn't make them a safer person...I know of a few drug dealers with lovely houses and very expensive cars. "

Lol just because they are drug dealers doesn't mean that they are unsafe....

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton

Personally I wouldn't meet them , they re obviously complete tosswank s to come out with that sort of rubbish x think twice bout meeting at all Hun there is such a thing as respect and if they were worth anything the wouldn't question your request for a social meet xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always do was suits you, but we always do a social first, as anyone can say and be anyone in cyberspace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.

free fucks on here?

Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly

Yes dear.

Soz

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I play things by ear. If pressured by someone I usually lose interest in them. Id perhaps feel safer if in the queens palace, but otherwise a nutter can be rich or poor. Arrogance is usually repulsive, including arrogance about wealth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are millionaires what are they doing looking for free fucks on here? Why don't they go for the top end escorts who do anything for cash? Be very worried.

free fucks on here?

Fucks aren't free on here some pay dearly

Who is selling here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is the "penthouse" to top flat on an estate? They are worth over a £1m here in London.

Of course it doesn't equate to safety, either physical or psychological.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Million pound penthouse and he's on fab, crazzyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.

Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?

I of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first.

A wise man after seeing profiles and people in reality its 50/50 on the run like fuck stakes at times.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If a person thought I'd be impressed by them flashing their cash I'd make a point of proving them wrong. "

Yes, me too. I met a young man off here with a swimming pool and gym in the basement of his Canary Wharf flat, and a Quattro in the garage, but he never tried to use it for 'leverage' over me, was just keen to 'share his toys'!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Apparently Fab is supposed to be fun without the bull.

's funny how it's usually the ones with no veris by meeting that say that.

That anyone could fail to understand wanting to meet someone before being alone with them amazes me. As does that anyone would seek to deny a potential sexual partner the opportunity to feel a bit more secure, when all it requires is a quick coffee!

Anyone with that little regard for my feelings can whistle for a meet.

No social, no meet, no further discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I was questioned on why I would need a social meet first, why couldn't I go straight to theirs when they lived in a million pound penthouse.

Made me wonder, are people less wary if a person is a professional homeowner in an affluent area?

of course didn't care if they lived in a penthouse or a cardboard box, for my own safety I always insist on a social first.

And so you should. What a nob, so there have never been any rich serial killers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Million pound penthouse and he's on fab, crazzyy"

That's the second time this has been said on this thread. Are the rich banned from Fab and where should the wealthy go to find potential swinging partners ?

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

I can never understand why people lie about things that can be dis-proven (is that a word?).

I could claim i've climbed Mount Snowdon and no one could prove me wrong.

But if i claimed to be a millionaire penthouse owner and i met someone at my modest council house i'm confident my lie would be undone!!

Why can't people just be true to themselves - or at least true to potential meets!!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, your rules and fair play for sticking to them..

anyone who doesn't respect that probably isn't worth meeting, whatever the cost of 'their gaff'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a rule that i will meet socially before play or thinking about play

this only changes if i reply to a meet listing someone has ( usually been on hotlist a while perving)

a sex club

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