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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok here goes. Wifeys birthday at the weekend, and wanted to get her something sexy to wear but not neccessarily just for bedroom activities. I have Looked at the stuff on love honey and as much as i like the look of it i dont think she would wear any of it. The other issue is she has had her colours done and as much as i look i can only find stuff in bright pink black or white(she is autumn colours so teals, corals browns etc).Can you lovely ladies on here point me in the right direction of some websites where i can get some sexy clothes in various colours that is more suited for a 43 year old than a 23 year old...

All ideas greatly appreciated

xxxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Ok here goes. Wifeys birthday at the weekend, and wanted to get her something sexy to wear but not neccessarily just for bedroom activities. I have Looked at the stuff on love honey and as much as i like the look of it i dont think she would wear any of it. The other issue is she has had her colours done and as much as i look i can only find stuff in bright pink black or white(she is autumn colours so teals, corals browns etc).Can you lovely ladies on here point me in the right direction of some websites where i can get some sexy clothes in various colours that is more suited for a 43 year old than a 23 year old...

All ideas greatly appreciated

xxxx"

Give her an IOU or gift cheque for a shopping spree.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Take her shopping...treat her to a nice lunch as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sparkling strawberry is a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky beat me to it. M&S has some gorgeous lingerie at the moment. I find shopping with a woman is a lot easier than guessing what she might like from a website. Sizing can be a nightmare even for the most experienced internet shoppers.

Taking her shopping will add an extra dimension for her if you don't normally do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In fairness i am a pretty good judge of what she likes and have been pretty succesful in the past....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ok is it just underwear you want?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Try Pabo

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm totally hopeless at buying pressies for my wife so she puts stuff in amazon then I just buy it. She gets what she wants and I don't have to think or go into town. Sounds a bit lazy but it works for us. So no real help from me but at least I posted to show willing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if your wife would like it or not but a mystery shopping trip together to buy her some sexy undies and then a cocktail and lunch could be an ideal way to spend her birthday together.

Personally I know when my OH took time off to spend a day with me it was much more special than anything he could have bought me.

Just a home cooked meal a bottle of wine and a trail of rose petals through the house to the bedroom or bathroom with a bubbly bath and a few scented candles round the room floated my boat every time. xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

pressie clothes shopping was impossible with my wife .. id just let her choose another beige or dowdy thing rather than have my more bright ideas thrown back at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here goes. Wifeys birthday at the weekend, and wanted to get her something sexy to wear but not neccessarily just for bedroom activities. I have Looked at the stuff on love honey and as much as i like the look of it i dont think she would wear any of it. The other issue is she has had her colours done and as much as i look i can only find stuff in bright pink black or white(she is autumn colours so teals, corals browns etc).Can you lovely ladies on here point me in the right direction of some websites where i can get some sexy clothes in various colours that is more suited for a 43 year old than a 23 year old...

All ideas greatly appreciated

xxxx"

If it's this weekend, you've left it a bit bloody late haven't you???

The only advice I can give, is to take her measurements properly before buying anything. At this late stage, I'd agree with the shopping trip & a nice lunch idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The shopping trip and lunch is a great idea, but we are already busy all weekend, and to be honest she hates shopping.......Anyway i have found something on Boo Hoo. Oh and i forget to say she also has had a personal image thing done as well. But i listen to what i am told. I know what colours to buy and what sort of style of dress( has to be above the knee but not a mini and no low cut tops, mores the pity). I want her to feel comfortable wearing it out for a normal night out but still feel sexy enough that it could be worn to a more risque evening... I think i have cracked it though... Happy man now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The shopping trip and lunch is a great idea, but we are already busy all weekend, and to be honest she hates shopping.......Anyway i have found something on Boo Hoo. Oh and i forget to say she also has had a personal image thing done as well. But i listen to what i am told. I know what colours to buy and what sort of style of dress( has to be above the knee but not a mini and no low cut tops, mores the pity). I want her to feel comfortable wearing it out for a normal night out but still feel sexy enough that it could be worn to a more risque evening... I think i have cracked it though... Happy man now"

Hope she loves your present and has a lovely birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take her shopping...treat her to a nice lunch as well x "

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pressie clothes shopping was impossible with my wife .. id just let her choose another beige or dowdy thing rather than have my more bright ideas thrown back at me"

Not everyone feels comfortable wearing bright clothes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies in case your wondering i got this in the coral http://www.boohoo.com/restofworld/dresses/shift-dresses/icat/going-out-dresses/cath-all-over-sequin-scalloped-hem-woven-shift-dress/invt/azz27517

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