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By *een_Voyeur OP Man
over a year ago

Lanark / Surrounding

Just heard on the radio that these sites exist for jilted lovers. Anyone had pics posted of them from an ex. Have you ever regretted taking pics and vids with an ex.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

There was a picture of me having a threesome with 2 army boys when I was 20. I didn't realise someone had taken it. Apparently one was shagging me doggy and I was sucking the other guys cock. I never saw it but they kindly took it to the pub I worked in and showed EVERYONE the day before they left Dover for Colly! Bastards.

I was on holiday at the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I have been with the same man since I was 19 and any other pics I have with other people wouldn't identify me fully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no but i can see the funny side of it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

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can you Dora?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

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I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

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I think it's pretty shitty of someone (and pathetic) to put private pics of an ex online for all the world to see

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

What is the funny side ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now Im worried....some real prats out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web.."

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I think it's pretty shitty of someone (and pathetic) to put private pics of an ex online for all the world to see "

Me too. Revenge is best taken by living a good life without the person who hurt you not by trying to hurt them back, anyone who does this never loved the person anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place."

Dora I find your posts vary from day to day sometimes it's almost as of it's two people posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god that's awful!

My ex has one of me & I wouldn't be surprised if he did something like this

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place."

and would that be the level of support you would give..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't allow pics or videos taken. I have allowed 3 men to video me and now will only allow one to video my face

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place."

you seem fairly recognisable from some of your profile pics, what if someone you know found them and recognised you and shown them around??

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Lucky for us the people we haven't have been trust worthy,and we are careful who we send pictures to,wife hasn't had any problems from her x either

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not on the net (to my knowledge) but an ex once pinned a naked pic of me on the notice board in his male accom block (he was army). I found out from a girlfriend who was dating his mate but not until it had been up there for several weeks!

There's nothing funny about walking into the canteen and knowing what all the blokes had seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place.

and would that be the level of support you would give..?"

Why are people so surprised though, its been going on for years.

theres so much porn online nobodys going to take that much notice.

if it was my daughter i would say just laugh it off and dont be so trusting next time.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'd be very tempted to castrate anyone who did that to me. I definitely would not see the funny side.

There is no "funny side" when it's done out of vindictiveness rather than as a joke. Not that it'd be a funny "joke".

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place.

and would that be the level of support you would give..?

Why are people so surprised though, its been going on for years.

theres so much porn online nobodys going to take that much notice.

if it was my daughter i would say just laugh it off and dont be so trusting next time."

You have some very strange _iews on some things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place.

you seem fairly recognisable from some of your profile pics, what if someone you know found them and recognised you and shown them around??"

Not much i could do about it realy would there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a pretty low form of behaviour.I seem to recall that in the US a guy who did this was sued for substantial damages by the woman concerned.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Lol at some of comments...If you are in a relationship with someone and decide to take pictures and video of course you are going to trust them...you are in a relationship with them...I'd be fucking pissed off if an ex did that too me and certainly wouldn't see the funny side for sometime...there are something's in my life I wish to remain private..yes I have my face in here but that is my own risk take...I would not expect anyone to air what I do all across the net...I had a Facebook friend who I added before I knew he was on here...he found me on here and I turned him down he then proceeded to go on all my pictures on Facebook and comment on my pictures including family ones and post this slag is on fabswingers, luckily I was on FB at the time and blocked him and deleted him before any damage was done... It really was not a laughing matter!

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By *een_Voyeur OP Man
over a year ago

Lanark / Surrounding

Some very interesting _iews. I do think at the end if the day it boils down to being childish and vindictive. It could destroy someones life in both personal and work environments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol at some of comments...If you are in a relationship with someone and decide to take pictures and video of course you are going to trust them...you are in a relationship with them...I'd be fucking pissed off if an ex did that too me and certainly wouldn't see the funny side for sometime...there are something's in my life I wish to remain private..yes I have my face in here but that is my own risk take...I would not expect anyone to air what I do all across the net...I had a Facebook friend who I added before I knew he was on here...he found me on here and I turned him down he then proceeded to go on all my pictures on Facebook and comment on my pictures including family ones and post this slag is on fabswingers, luckily I was on FB at the time and blocked him and deleted him before any damage was done... It really was not a laughing matter! "

I dont know why you were surprised because thats what people are like on here.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Lol at some of comments...If you are in a relationship with someone and decide to take pictures and video of course you are going to trust them...you are in a relationship with them...I'd be fucking pissed off if an ex did that too me and certainly wouldn't see the funny side for sometime...there are something's in my life I wish to remain private..yes I have my face in here but that is my own risk take...I would not expect anyone to air what I do all across the net...I had a Facebook friend who I added before I knew he was on here...he found me on here and I turned him down he then proceeded to go on all my pictures on Facebook and comment on my pictures including family ones and post this slag is on fabswingers, luckily I was on FB at the time and blocked him and deleted him before any damage was done... It really was not a laughing matter!

I dont know why you were surprised because thats what people are like on here."

Here is a broom go and sweep up your statement....

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Never let anyone take pics of you unless you know them well, these revenge porn sites are illegal so if you ever end up on one a stern warning usually gets the removed.

When I shoot private material this is only for the participants & I have no right what so ever to use it in any shape or form, if I am shooting material that is used I need photo id & model releases signed before I can legally use the stuff.

The free sites are on limited time now as the government are trying to close them & with the dangers that children freely use them the sooner the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were not all bad us men not all of us want to expose our exes for the world to see

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"Were not all bad us men not all of us want to expose our exes for the world to see"

That's right mate, quite a few ladies also do this to embarrass their ex's so its not just a guy thing.

There are lots of solicitors who will fight for damages caused by bitter ex partners as pic posting is becoming more fashionable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Were not all bad us men not all of us want to expose our exes for the world to see

That's right mate, quite a few ladies also do this to embarrass their ex's so its not just a guy thing.

There are lots of solicitors who will fight for damages caused by bitter ex partners as pic posting is becoming more fashionable.

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Yep it's true women do it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting watching the certain few implode slowly. One moment condoning a heinous breach of trust, another screaming about trust issues and being let down.

Therapy might be a sensible option.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's interesting watching the certain few implode slowly. One moment condoning a heinous breach of trust, another screaming about trust issues and being let down.

Therapy might be a sensible option. "

You spotted that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I dont know why you were surprised because thats what people are like on here."

I frequently wonder why you're on this site as you don't have a very high opinion of anyone and make some very broad sweeping statements.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is a terrible thing to do...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but I also think it is shocking showing pics on here with your head cut off but someone else in the pic having a tiny strip over their eyes and you can still clearly make out their face.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's funny - but I do think there's a point about people being less bothered in general - a cultural shift in attitude to nudity and sex.

I often see photos of younger people online that surprise me but they're not bothered about in any way. Same as it surprises me how public a lot of people are on here about their sexual activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I dont know why you were surprised because thats what people are like on here.

I frequently wonder why you're on this site as you don't have a very high opinion of anyone and make some very broad sweeping statements."

Actualy i have a very high opinion of some people on here, just not that many.

And i am perfectly entitled to make broad sweeping statements if i wish too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but I also think it is shocking showing pics on here with your head cut off but someone else in the pic having a tiny strip over their eyes and you can still clearly make out their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I dont know why you were surprised because thats what people are like on here.

I frequently wonder why you're on this site as you don't have a very high opinion of anyone and make some very broad sweeping statements.

Actualy i have a very high opinion of some people on here, just not that many.

And i am perfectly entitled to make broad sweeping statements if i wish too.

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You certainly are, I won't argue with you on that. I get the feeling you're deliberately inflammatory at times though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be sent to jail for posting pics of an explicit nature without the consent of the person in the image.

A man was recently sentenced to three months in prison for doing it. If it happens to you and you are prepared to take it further then report the person to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is eleagal in U.S.A. and imprionment is automatic for sutch practice and our government has been asked to follow same inforcement as in U.S.A. also been proven amongst teens that sutch practice has been responsible for suicide amongst teens it has to to be the lowest form of bullying in exhistance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well government is moving to restrict access to adult sites eventually all those that use adult site will have to prove there I.D .and there satus before regstering on adult sites whitch in the long term must be a good thing and make sites safer

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I think it's pretty shitty of someone (and pathetic) to put private pics of an ex online for all the world to see "

Why I don't let anyone take pics of me: I don't even let my other half take pics!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"well government is moving to restrict access to adult sites eventually all those that use adult site will have to prove there I.D .and there satus before regstering on adult sites whitch in the long term must be a good thing and make sites safer "

Not really its more control

over our lives

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"well government is moving to restrict access to adult sites eventually all those that use adult site will have to prove there I.D .and there satus before regstering on adult sites whitch in the long term must be a good thing and make sites safer

Not really its more control

over our lives"

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's interesting watching the certain few implode slowly. One moment condoning a heinous breach of trust, another screaming about trust issues and being let down.

Therapy might be a sensible option. "

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"well government is moving to restrict access to adult sites eventually all those that use adult site will have to prove there I.D .and there satus before regstering on adult sites whitch in the long term must be a good thing and make sites safer "

An article on the Guardian suggests Uncle Sam is putting pressure on VISA not to process card payments for adult site subscriptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place.

and would that be the level of support you would give..?

Why are people so surprised though, its been going on for years.

theres so much porn online nobodys going to take that much notice.

if it was my daughter i would say just laugh it off and dont be so trusting next time.

You have some very strange _iews on some things."

am I going to be the first one to trot out the "everyone's entitled to their opinion" and don't judge old chestnut lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"no but i can see the funny side of it.

I find that worrying but not surprising..

would you feel the same if your daughter was plastered all over the web..

Well its their own fault for trusting people in the first place.

and would that be the level of support you would give..?

Why are people so surprised though, its been going on for years.

theres so much porn online nobodys going to take that much notice.

if it was my daughter i would say just laugh it off and dont be so trusting next time.

You have some very strange _iews on some things.

am I going to be the first one to trot out the "everyone's entitled to their opinion" and don't judge old chestnut lol "

I don't know. Are you?

My observation that DB has some very strange _iews *is* my opinion.

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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago

south east

I'm so glad they are doing this - I think it's wrong what some people get away with however some responsibility needs to be taken by the person allowing it.

I never allowed my ex to take videos - and I'm so glad I did - no doubt it would be on his xhamster site and advertised on here just like the rest of the poor girls he's involved with ....

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

I read that most of these sites are just using the "revenge" tag just to tap into a vein.. But the real sites need closing down

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"well government is moving to restrict access to adult sites eventually all those that use adult site will have to prove there I.D .and there satus before regstering on adult sites whitch in the long term must be a good thing and make sites safer

An article on the Guardian suggests Uncle Sam is putting pressure on VISA not to process card payments for adult site subscriptions."

If Visa stops processing from stores that also sell guns and ammunition then fine.

Payment processing for legit adult sites is hard enough already. Making it harder may push sites closer to the dark net. Or is out of site out of mind the way to go?

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"well government is moving to restrict access to adult sites eventually all those that use adult site will have to prove there I.D .and there satus before regstering on adult sites whitch in the long term must be a good thing and make sites safer

Not really its more control

over our lives

Agreed. "

At present the free sites steal beg and borrow other peoples pics without having to pay tax, without model releases and mostly important dont have any restrictions on minors looking at the sites...this is one control the industry wants with open arms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not funny at all. My ex whom I was with for over 5 years did this to me, sent the link to my daughters. luckily the mail addresses he sent them too were old so they never got to see them. He even went as far as making several different Facebook accounts so he could find family members to send them too. Again lucky for me, I don't add random strangers and my privacy settings are locked down so no damage done. Never thought for one second he would stoop so low, but hey ho, we never really know a person 100% regardless of how long you've known them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not funny at all. My ex whom I was with for over 5 years did this to me, sent the link to my daughters. luckily the mail addresses he sent them too were old so they never got to see them. He even went as far as making several different Facebook accounts so he could find family members to send them too. Again lucky for me, I don't add random strangers and my privacy settings are locked down so no damage done. Never thought for one second he would stoop so low, but hey ho, we never really know a person 100% regardless of how long you've known them....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good god, is the weather getting to people today? I'm lying in hospital waiting for a major op on my leg and people are getting huffy with each other over nothing?! Have a nice day everyone, its going to be lovely

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Good god, is the weather getting to people today? I'm lying in hospital waiting for a major op on my leg and people are getting huffy with each other over nothing?! Have a nice day everyone, its going to be lovely

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Good luck with the operation, hope it goes well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well government is moving to restrict access to adult sites eventually all those that use adult site will have to prove there I.D .and there satus before regstering on adult sites whitch in the long term must be a good thing and make sites safer "

WTF!! Next they'll be implanting barcodes in our foreheads. Do the American people even realise they're sleep walking into fascism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good god, is the weather getting to people today? I'm lying in hospital waiting for a major op on my leg and people are getting huffy with each other over nothing?! Have a nice day everyone, its going to be lovely

Good luck with the operation, hope it goes well."

Thank you x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Good god, is the weather getting to people today? I'm lying in hospital waiting for a major op on my leg and people are getting huffy with each other over nothing?! Have a nice day everyone, its going to be lovely

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Best of luck with the op.

I think partly it is the weather. It's not uncommon for there to be more disagreements and misunderstandings on here in hot weather.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex did it to me when we split......

Thankfully, it was before camera phones & internet so i just had to prevent family members from opening random mail, didn't really help when my best mate had to go & buy every copy of readers wives that month

Not a fun time for me & it was thankfully a tasteful pic

My brothers & some friends ensured that he left me well alone & returned the pics to be destroyed spiteful shithead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because I have been with the same man since I was 19 and any other pics I have with other people wouldn't identify me fully

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I'd recon your ass from a mile :D

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Interesting discussion on Woman's Hour a few minutes ago. Catch up on Listen Again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soon as I split with somebody I destroy all pics its only fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post pics of myself on those sites. I get more meets that way

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